Ask her out again?

I am a M(18) and there is this girl in my class I teacher aid for.I have been talking to for the last year in class but have only started texting her this last month. I ask about her weekend because we talk in class about every day so there is really no reason to text. When we talk in person we have really great conversations and she has come up to me to start conversations in class. Also in class I can sometimes catch her looking at me. We have a lot in common like hunting, cars, off-roading and some more.When we do text the conversations are great and I make her laugh So last week I asked her out as friends to go shooting( she hunts like me so I thought it was a good idea) after school on Friday. She responded with “ sorry can’t I am going to the city :(“ which was true she had hospital stuff to do and she said” I don’t even want to go”. Seeing the “:(“ I thought that she really want to go but can’t or I could just overthinking. Today when I was talking with her and her friend she asked her friend if she want to come over and house sit. She said in front of me so my overthinking brain says to ask her to hang when she house sit or should I start with something simple like food or a movie. I do work at a wildlife park so should I take her there? The main question is should I ask her out again or just move on?



Submitted May 22, 2019 at 03:55AM

I am a M(18) and there is this girl in my class I teacher aid for.I have been talking to for the last year in class but have only started texting her this last month. I ask about her weekend because we talk in class about every day so there is really no reason to text. When we talk in person we have really great conversations and she has come up to me to start conversations in class. Also in class I can sometimes catch her looking at me. We have a lot in common like hunting, cars, off-roading and some more.When we do text the conversations are great and I make her laugh So last week I asked her out as friends to go shooting( she hunts like me so I thought it was a good idea) after school on Friday. She responded with “ sorry can’t I am going to the city :(“ which was true she had hospital stuff to do and she said” I don’t even want to go”. Seeing the “:(“ I thought that she really want to go but can’t or I could just overthinking. Today when I was talking with her and her friend she asked her friend if she want to come over and house sit. She said in front of me so my overthinking brain says to ask her to hang when she house sit or should I start with something simple like food or a movie. I do work at a wildlife park so should I take her there? The main question is should I ask her out again or just move on?

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