Weird signs

Hey, this is my first time posting on here and on reddit as well so don’t be too harsh on me :)

[Background]

Alright so there’s this girl in my university that studies the same major and we have same labs and everything but I just noticed her after 5 . She’s a great girl and I love everything about her. She’s an amazing painter(this will come in handy later on) and I just fell in love with her mindset and just everything about her. The signs of having a crush were there (losing the attraction to do anything sexual, being motivated for no reason, and always looking for her just to see her). I approached her with a great gesture and I was very confident when I spoke to her and I think that is what made everything flow smoother. We text but no more than 2 conversations a day.

So here falls the main conflict:

She does sweet things that makes me feel like she’s into me and maybe you would call them signs but it’s only when I text first or talk. She’s a bit awkward with people but surprisingly she’s always comfortable with talking to me. Multiple signs show up like drawing a love scene from my favorite movie instead of focusing on her own paintings and when I asked her to take a pic and send it to me she refused and told me I’ll give it to you when I see you(told ya it would come in handy), tells me how bad her day was(she doesn’t do that with anyone else), asks about me a lot but only when I start the chatting, and other small things that make me feel so happy, BUT I always realize that I always start texting first which is weird. She likes talking to me but i don’t know why she never texts first and I think if I don’t text her for 4 days she won’t even notice it. What does that mean? Am I taking everything as a sign? Should I go on with this or is it gonna end up with a heartbreak? Or maybe I’m overreacting.

Sorry no tl:dr boys, too many details to sum up into one or two sentences

Submitted April 30, 2019 at 09:46AM

Hey, this is my first time posting on here and on reddit as well so don’t be too harsh on me :)[Background]Alright so there’s this girl in my university that studies the same major and we have same labs and everything but I just noticed her after 5 . She’s a great girl and I love everything about her. She’s an amazing painter(this will come in handy later on) and I just fell in love with her mindset and just everything about her. The signs of having a crush were there (losing the attraction to do anything sexual, being motivated for no reason, and always looking for her just to see her). I approached her with a great gesture and I was very confident when I spoke to her and I think that is what made everything flow smoother. We text but no more than 2 conversations a day.So here falls the main conflict:She does sweet things that makes me feel like she’s into me and maybe you would call them signs but it’s only when I text first or talk. She’s a bit awkward with people but surprisingly she’s always comfortable with talking to me. Multiple signs show up like drawing a love scene from my favorite movie instead of focusing on her own paintings and when I asked her to take a pic and send it to me she refused and told me I’ll give it to you when I see you(told ya it would come in handy), tells me how bad her day was(she doesn’t do that with anyone else), asks about me a lot but only when I start the chatting, and other small things that make me feel so happy, BUT I always realize that I always start texting first which is weird. She likes talking to me but i don’t know why she never texts first and I think if I don’t text her for 4 days she won’t even notice it. What does that mean? Am I taking everything as a sign? Should I go on with this or is it gonna end up with a heartbreak? Or maybe I’m overreacting.Sorry no tl:dr boys, too many details to sum up into one or two sentences