The worst of the luckies. Being in something similar to open relationship, the two guys I go out with met and it's pretty weird

Well, there is some confusion in my mind. I'm (28F) single, the last two months I've gone out with two boys from the same country that are traveling in my country, I've known both by tinder, I've always been honest with the both about everything, including I don't want a relationship, both know about the other and are of the same country as well (it was kinda crazy)....I mean always the truth has been fundamental with me, but now it happens that they were in a language exchange and they met... .seriously?!? the world can not be smaller, they met and for some reason the one who is writing this came tothe conversation, they even send me a photo together, trying to see if I was telling the truth and as always said "oh fuck he's the other guy I've been dating". My heart beated so fast, at the beginning I just called to my best friend and mom and told them and loughed a lot, but now the thing..... one of them is more sensitive and although it was funny at the beginning for all, he was really very uncomfortable and I think that jealous, he says not to be angry with me, but if he manifests his discomfort, which I understand is difficult for the ego for anyone, man or woman in the same situation. I couldn't avoid feeling a little bad, I don't know how things will be now. Haaaa and the other one takes it with a lot of grace and fun, zero problem. It should be noted, the 3of us date with other people, always being honest and responsible. I'm not sure why I write it here, but I just wanted to drowse ... Something else is that in my closed relationships I'm very loyal, but for now it seems easier to not get emotionally involved being with just a person, this decision have been taken for my plans to leave my country, it wouldn't be coheren to have a relationship remotely.

Thing: I feel kinda bad. I didn't want to hurt to anyone

What a fucking tragedy - comedy



Submitted May 16, 2019 at 05:11AM

Well, there is some confusion in my mind. I'm (28F) single, the last two months I've gone out with two boys from the same country that are traveling in my country, I've known both by tinder, I've always been honest with the both about everything, including I don't want a relationship, both know about the other and are of the same country as well (it was kinda crazy)....I mean always the truth has been fundamental with me, but now it happens that they were in a language exchange and they met... .seriously?!? the world can not be smaller, they met and for some reason the one who is writing this came tothe conversation, they even send me a photo together, trying to see if I was telling the truth and as always said "oh fuck he's the other guy I've been dating". My heart beated so fast, at the beginning I just called to my best friend and mom and told them and loughed a lot, but now the thing..... one of them is more sensitive and although it was funny at the beginning for all, he was really very uncomfortable and I think that jealous, he says not to be angry with me, but if he manifests his discomfort, which I understand is difficult for the ego for anyone, man or woman in the same situation. I couldn't avoid feeling a little bad, I don't know how things will be now. Haaaa and the other one takes it with a lot of grace and fun, zero problem. It should be noted, the 3of us date with other people, always being honest and responsible. I'm not sure why I write it here, but I just wanted to drowse ... Something else is that in my closed relationships I'm very loyal, but for now it seems easier to not get emotionally involved being with just a person, this decision have been taken for my plans to leave my country, it wouldn't be coheren to have a relationship remotely.Thing: I feel kinda bad. I didn't want to hurt to anyoneWhat a fucking tragedy - comedy
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