Helping my lecturer

During every class he says stuff like;

'When you grow up your problems become huge, you realize you married the wrong person but you can't leave the marriage because you have kids with them'

'Life will be stressful, one day you would have to pay for a kid's school fees but they failing, it's as painful as paying lobola (bride price).'

'How can you pay lobola when you buying problems.'

There is so much more. Initially I thought he was just being funny so did the class, but today I just realised it applies to him (forgive me for being slow) but he would be happy for moment when the class laughs through his problems, even with us in oblivion.

I definitely don't want to approach him since I am clearly not the person to give him advice, and I fear recommending him to someone would let those in higher levels know he says such stuff in class and hence potentially lose his job.

Any advice?

Submitted May 06, 2019 at 06:44PM

During every class he says stuff like;'When you grow up your problems become huge, you realize you married the wrong person but you can't leave the marriage because you have kids with them''Life will be stressful, one day you would have to pay for a kid's school fees but they failing, it's as painful as paying lobola (bride price).''How can you pay lobola when you buying problems.'There is so much more. Initially I thought he was just being funny so did the class, but today I just realised it applies to him (forgive me for being slow) but he would be happy for moment when the class laughs through his problems, even with us in oblivion.I definitely don't want to approach him since I am clearly not the person to give him advice, and I fear recommending him to someone would let those in higher levels know he says such stuff in class and hence potentially lose his job.Any advice?