Well there is a difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction, asexual is when you have no sexual attraction but that doesn’t mean you have no romantic attraction! That’s being aromantic. So since you still feel romantic attraction it has to be to someone meaning you can be straight, gay, lesbian, pan, bi, etc. The examples you used don’t work but most sexuality’s work with being asexual. August 31, 2020 at 11:50PM

No because setting the times takes precious seconds away from my time being able to watch avatar! August 31, 2020 at 11:50PM

Just use a timer! August 31, 2020 at 11:49PM

This is adorable. You are so talented. August 31, 2020 at 11:48PM

I prefer to call myself a sexual minority. I’m also hetero and cis. I’m not the type of person who would ever be called queer as a slur, so I don’t feel like I have the right to reclaim the term. Kind of like how Native or Asian people still can’t say the N word even though they are minorities in Europe and North America, because the N word was never used against them. That’s my opinion anyway. But if someone else with the same labels as me feel comfortable using queer to describe themselves, I’m not going to complain about it. That’s just how I feel about myself. August 31, 2020 at 11:37PM

Love the whale 🐳🐋 August 31, 2020 at 11:36PM

They also covered it with a transparent layer so you can read it anyways August 31, 2020 at 11:36PM

They’re missing the gray but I can’t complain about free representation. August 31, 2020 at 11:32PM

Is this going where I think it is? Lol August 31, 2020 at 11:31PM

This is too accurate August 31, 2020 at 11:31PM

Garlic bread is life August 31, 2020 at 11:30PM

The idea is that all of these things are better than sex, garlic bread, cake, fantasy, anything cool really. August 31, 2020 at 11:29PM

Garlic bread is love August 31, 2020 at 11:28PM

"Straight passing"? August 31, 2020 at 11:26PM

Thanks. August 31, 2020 at 11:25PM

Very often I too forget people aren't asexual by default. This reminds me one time I was at a friend's house, she grabbed a box and said "Look". It was a condoms box but I just saw it as a regular box and didn't realized what it actually was, so I was like "What? Is there something behind the box? Next to the box? What do you want me to look at?" She looked at me very confused, and I was even more confused. "These are condoms" "Ooohh,, right. I forgot people have those at their houses" Also, yesterday my friend showed me a pic of a BTS singer whose bulge was visible through the clothes and she told me "I want some of that" and I was like "?????????? Some of what? I don't get it, is this a meme?" She then explained it to me and it all made sense. August 31, 2020 at 11:25PM

How did you pick the two highest priorities in life to do at the same time??? Like, obviously the garlic bread is going to burn and you're going to have to pause Avatar to avoid a fire! AAAAGGGHHHH!!!!!! August 31, 2020 at 11:24PM

Hi August 31, 2020 at 11:18PM

Like Extra Toasty Cheez-Its, I feel you August 31, 2020 at 11:15PM

The Sims 3 was such a good game, I was obsessed with that. It bummed me out when it no longer worked on my laptop. I did that too, made gorgeous sims with no partners, always made them a loner in personality traits so they wouldn't need too much social interaction, and I'd focus intensely on their skills, job, building their wardrobe or house! 😂 Ah man those were the days. August 31, 2020 at 11:14PM

I’m fairly new to personally labeling myself part of the Ace community and even newer so reddit.......I might be crying right now because I’ve always been told that I haven’t found the right person, or that it’s weird that I dont find people sexually attractive. AVEN was where I started after realizing that I was different from the people around me. I’m not “out” because my mom thinks that life without having sex is like not having a life- and that I just haven’t started that part of my life yet. I’ve gone through puberty and I have tits shit but I’ve never thought about anyone romantically or sexually. My mom is trying to get me to date boys Because if I try, I’ll like it... sorry this is kinda meaningless and stupid. Sorry i know it’s selfish to unloadall this shit on random people. I just needed it somewhere. August 31, 2020 at 11:14PM

I have never had a serious relationship. Drunk hook ups, short term situationships, sneaking around with men I know I don’t even like- oh I’ve got those in tenfolds. I think it’s part hating my body, part rape trauma, part trust issues with men from my emotionally abusive father, and part fear of rejection. I also have never felt so alone in my life. I am independent, funny, empathetic, open, responsible, hardworking, friendly and physically attractive. I am told this, and I do have the privilege to feel love from other family members and friends. Yet I cannot get myself to fully believe any of this and push men away constantly who try to get close because I assume all the want is sex and to control me. I know I sound like a piece of work, but I’m fucking tired of this self sabotage. Has anyone had to rewire the way their brain works in order to experience intimacy? How did you go about it? I try to workout, eat healthy, avoid manipulative toxic people, create time and space for l...

This goes for both men and women. If you were just dating someone, went to their place and - I'll use my friend was an example - you saw that they had an Olympic medal up, is that tacky? At what point are you no longer able to have awards/certificates up? Is an elementary school first place cringey whereas a university first place isn't? Is a Master's degree diploma acceptable whereas a Bachelor's isn't? I just need some advice in this area. Thank you Submitted August 31, 2020 at 11:57PM This goes for both men and women. If you were just dating someone, went to their place and - I'll use my friend was an example - you saw that they had an Olympic medal up, is that tacky?At what point are you no longer able to have awards/certificates up? Is an elementary school first place cringey whereas a university first place isn't? Is a Master's degree diploma acceptable whereas a Bachelor's isn't?I just need some advice in this area. Thank you

show us THE AVATAR REFERENCE August 30, 2020 at 11:30PM

I'm 24 and I question it for some month and I am sure since january. I was thinking that I wasn't ready yet. August 30, 2020 at 11:30PM

I gotta say (& I can't really support it, although I've read a number of allusions to it in many books on the Life of Paul) but I've often wondered if Paul wasn't, himself, Ace August 30, 2020 at 11:30PM

Wow. Not the best time, bot... August 30, 2020 at 11:30PM

Honestly, unless the show slowly builds it up and it's meant to wrap up the "sexual tension" there really isn't a point. Though sex for whatever reason makes people drop their guard and say shit they shouldn't due to being high off of the dopamine, so it can be used for that too August 30, 2020 at 11:30PM

As much as I hate them, I can say that I’ve seen a necessary scene, and it makes me emotional every time. If anyone has seen Haunting of Hill House, you know that the main characters are psychologically complex. The third episode, one of my favorites, has one of those scenes at the end, that mirrors the one at the beginning. Understanding in a new light why this character does the things she does, and is the way she is. They’re not even horribly explicit, but the first one is quite uncomfortable for me, even if it’s short. Point is, it’s the only sex scene that makes my chest ache, and in effect cry. August 30, 2020 at 11:29PM

See I'm not saying that Episcopalians have it easy in terms of Christian societal expectations, but I'm a southern Baptist who lives in the middle of the bible belt, just for reference. August 30, 2020 at 11:29PM

I 41F would like to give advise to men and women who are in a relationship Marriage is a life long commitment and I hear that after so many years in marriage, everything becomes routine and some are not attracted to their partners. In my opinion both should work equally to keep the marriage interesting and the bond strong. Do not argue over pity things instead understand each others weaknesses and accept their flaws. Also always try to put your needs first and then your partner needs... remember life is so short and should not have regrets. Try not to control your partner instead give them space and freedom. Also never argue in front of kids and always respect each other in front of them. Those are my advises for married people, i am married for 23yrs and still married...if you ask me if i was given a chance would i select the same partner? my answer is NO for several reasons, but i have the best kids in the world. Thanks for reading and I want everyone to be happy Submitted Augus...

I need to do a sanity check from unbiased opinions, because I’m completely at a loss. There’s obviously a ton more back story behind our relationship, but we have been married four years and have two young kids. To set the stage, my wife’s 30th birthday is tomorrow, and we’ve spent basically the week past two days straight fighting over everything. I really did want to try to make the days leading up to her birthday special, and so Friday night I planned for my parents to come babysit the boys and to take her out to play Topgolf which she has wanted to do for years. I’d planned for one of her best friends & her husband to meet us there as a surprise. Things went well, and then Saturday morning when she and the boys woke up I had planned to take us all out for a nice breakfast. We went, had a nice meal, and then explored the farmers market that was there as well ( a fav of hers). When we got home we didn’t have anything specifically planned and so I was going to do a few things a...

Anyone else having a hard time lately? My husband works in a nursing home and so we have been quarantined since the beginning. My job switched to remote work at home. I never see my friends or and barely see my family. They don’t make an effort to wear masks and it makes me and my husband uncomfortable so I don’t really visit with anyone. Texting has become a chore lately and so I find myself disengaged when I text with friends. No one likes phone calls anymore. I’m lonely. My husband has never been the chattiest guy around and he never has much motivation to do things together like going on walks(he’s on his feet all day). I made an effort to play video games with him too so I am trying. Usually when we aren’t quarantined I try to plan our dates and we will do it about once a month. Because of obvious Covid reasons we have not done anything all year pretty much. I feel so lonely. I accept my husband for who he is and that if we do stuff together I have to plan it and know that he wil...

*posting here even though I'm not over 30 but the guy I'm talking about is.. 5 years younger* I had a "one night stand" with a guy I met while traveling in January. He approached me first but I was very attracted to him - one of his first questions was to add me on facebook then we found out we had a lot in common then we both got drunk bc it was a club and yea we had a good vibe and had sex a few times from evening till the next morning. I stayed a few hours he was really sweet and we had breakfast together - then sex again and on my way... I think we were both very attracted to each other. we stayed connected but I ended up deactivating my profile for a large chunk of the last several months.. I occasionally drunk messaged him when I was horny and he was responsive and friendly/matching my horny energy sometimes lol but I always initiated. I recently got back on social - updated my pics and ever since he has engaged with every one of my posts and I don't jus...

Hey, I know most people here are over 30 and just simply unlucky to be without a partner even though they do desire a relationship. I would like to know what relationship advice you would give to younger people. Perhaps most of relationships ended because you were immature or maybe you investing you 20’s in your career and forgot about relationships. Nonetheless what’s your advice for finding love at a younger age? Submitted August 30, 2020 at 11:17PM Hey, I know most people here are over 30 and just simply unlucky to be without a partner even though they do desire a relationship.I would like to know what relationship advice you would give to younger people. Perhaps most of relationships ended because you were immature or maybe you investing you 20’s in your career and forgot about relationships.Nonetheless what’s your advice for finding love at a younger age?

Not sure why my first update post was taken down, but trying it again. Original Post Here: Link I ended up following your advice and sent her a message that it would be best if we stopped seeing each other, but left the door open in case she ever became ready to date. I don't expect to see or hear from her again but who knows. Her response was short and about as meh as I expected which shows this was the right choice. Honestly, it's more of a relief to finally know where we stand than it is sad. I really liked this woman, but I can focus on finding people who want what I want, and that is most important. I realize now I had been pretending that I was ok with this going nowhere, but I wasn't, so I'm glad I cut this off. Anybody else meet the right person at the wrong time? Submitted August 30, 2020 at 03:54PM Not sure why my first update post was taken down, but trying it again.Original Post Here: LinkI ended up following your advice and sent her a message th...

Do any of you go through this? Do you feel like you're not really attracted to many people physically because you've got a certain type and you know THAT is why really turns you on/makes you feel attracted? Everything else is kind of... meh. I come across women that there is literally nothing wrong with them at all, and they could be definitely pretty to other guys, but I just don't feel it. There's also been dates where I get along with a woman really well, but, I don't know I'm just not into them, physically and it kind of kills it for me. Obviously, I totally understand not everything is about physical attraction, but you definitely want to like looking at the person. I just know my type is this "look" that Mediterranean/Argentine women have. In no way do I belong on the cover of GQ and I'm not trying to sound superficial, but I am genuinely trying to understand if you guys go through it and what do you do in those situations if you're no...

My best friend has become single for the first time in the years I've known her, and while I was never "pining after her" or hoping I'd some day have an opportunity, the change in status has brought out an infatuation in me that I didn't realize was there. In the long run, I don't believe I'll actually pursue it, because I'm pretty convinced she'd never see me that way, and she means too much to me to jeopardize losing what I do have with her. Plus, I came to be on friendly terms with her now ex, and even though he's moving out of state, I know there's sort of a "bro code" thing there. Still, I haven't been able to shut up the voice in my head that still keeps asking "What if?", and I honestly feel like a pretty bad person, and certainly a bad friend, for feeling that way. I've never been able to date or connect "romantically" with women, so I can't be too surprised that I'm stuck on someone I...

Hey Everyone, Just figured I'd post this. Been single for about a year now and just about ready to delve back into the dating world (joy). A lot's happened in the last couple years for me. I graduated college and got a great job. My job is located about 15 minutes from my brothers house so I moved in with him. It's a three bedroom three story condo so we always have our own space. I'm no mooch - I pay my way and split the housework. My brother and I have always been very close. I'm saving a ton of money right now (over $1000 a month) by living with him. I pay rent, but not nearly what I'd pay living in an apartment (I pay $500 whereas rent is about $1500 here. I up it every year when I get my salary increase). Living here has given me the opportunity to pay off all of my debts and start saving for my own place. I don't think I want to buy a house just yet, and I'm very happy living where I am. Originally I was going to give it until he decided to be ...

Hi everyone, this is my first post to this sub and also my first post to reddit! I'm going to just get straight to it... I (30F) had been taking virtual French lessons with a guy who lives in my city (40M). After the lessons were over, he friended me on FB and asked me out. I honestly wasn't very interested at first, but decided to give him a chance since I am trying to reform my own emotionally unavailable/ self sabatog-y behaviors (like rejecting people who like me and chasing after people who don't care about me). It turns out IRL he was cute and I enjoy being around him. We have been on 3 wholesome dates- a bike ride, the museum, taking walks, having lunch and beer, and basically spending the whole day together every weekend. Yesterday was our 3rd date. There was a huge rainstorm that canceled our outside plans so I said it would be ok if he came to my house. We had a good time listening to music and talking, and made plans to see each other again this week. He is alw...

So I (30F) am perpetually single. I think one of my problems is I just never developed the right social skills growing up or into young adulthood and I have sort of learned to be very independent, probably partially as a coping mechanism I think. The problem though is that it now makes it really hard for me to meet people. I was at a bar the other day that I went to by myself just because I go places by myself. I am pretty sure I got wingmanned. I said no, partially because of the intimidation of having to successfully socialize (I’m not good at banter and small talk) in a situation like that but also because I felt like they were just a bit younger than the people I am looking for at this point in my life as friends or as a significant other. This has legitimately never happened to me though. I don’t get hit on, and I found myself regretting not going frankly. It was practice I clearly needed. Do you all just say yes? To me it seems like it could also be a bit mean. I don’t know. ...

I'm writing this using the app, sorry in advance. My friend (32F) and Tom (37M) dated for about six years. They (mutually, I guess, she never really told me what had happened. I do know that there was no cheating or violence.) broke up four years ago. She's now happily married and gave birth a few weeks ago. Tom and I (31F) didn't really know each other while they were together. We knew OF each other, but the three of us never hung out. A month before my friend gave birth, Tom and I started working on a project together (we are performers for different companies and because of this horrid virus, we had to band together to get work). First, it was all done through emails and chats, we met in person only after about a month and really clicked. Right at that time, my friend had her baby. Tom and I started casually seeing each other. In a perfect world, I'd tell my friend immediately and ask her if she'd be okay with me dating Tom. But I honestly didn't want to ...

I just deleted all dating apps, I feel like it’s just a waste of time. Anyone has any creative suggestions of how to meet people during this pandemic? I’m not saying I’m completely against dating apps but it’s clearly not working for me so might as well try something else. Submitted August 30, 2020 at 11:29PM I just deleted all dating apps, I feel like it’s just a waste of time. Anyone has any creative suggestions of how to meet people during this pandemic? I’m not saying I’m completely against dating apps but it’s clearly not working for me so might as well try something else.

Hi everyone! I need some advice. My boyfriend and I (over 30) have been dating for roughly four months. I’ve realized I love him, although we haven’t said it to one another, and I could see a really great future together. We have a pretty healthy relationship and have been very open with each other from the beginning. However, there’s been some recent things that have come up and I’d like to ask the people on here what their opinion is before I talk to him about how I feel about this. So here’s what I’d like a little perspective on: In the beginning of when we were dating, he mentioned taking sex pictures/videos with his last ex that he still had on his computer. I didn’t really think anything of it because we had just met and were in that dating kind of phase. However, last night, while playing a game with our friends, one of the questions was, do you still have pictures or videos of your ex of a sexual nature and he said yes. He noticed I kind of tensed, and asked if I was mad, b...

I (33M) started playing a mobile mmorpg almost a year ago. About 5 months back a girl came and began playing, she (26F) is 45mins away in a nearby city. We hit it off and began talking frequently on voice chat on discord, we also talk within the game everyday. We have amazing conversational chemistry and we vibe well, making endless jokes about random topics. We talked quite a bit about our sex lives and sexual interests. Ive been trying to get her to meet me and has resisted, saying she isnt interested in a relationship, or fwb (sex is emotional for her). The reason is that her ex messed with her head and she has no interest in men at this time. Thats why she signed up on the mobile game during covid - to get away from online dating sites. Lately Ive been pushing her to meet or at least give me her number (she was stalked pretty intensely in the past so she is very private with her number and its tied to her landline so one could find her address with it). However, we have had a lot...

(x-posted as a comment in another thread) Been talking to a guy for a month. We both aren't the "daily texts and daily check-ins" type, so it took us about 3 weeks of sporadic texting and flirtation before our schedules aligned to meet up for a first date. Went well, but now I don't know quite how to feel about this particular moment I've run into. Our first date was Thursday of the other week. Thanked him for a good time, he reciprocated and said he definitely is looking forward to the next time. We didn't text again over the course of the weekend. Last Monday, I specifically told him that in lieu of texting, I'd prefer to have a quick phone call at or near the end of the week, just to check in and catch up. He said it sounded like a good plan. He's busy, I'm busy, and we've already familiarized ourselves by having a good, hour long phone call prior to our first (and only) date. We don't talk again the rest of Monday or Tuesday. Out of...

I push my sleeves up all the time when wearing long sleeves, does that count? August 30, 2020 at 12:03AM

My cousin (a bit homophobic, keep in mind) says that she supports aros and aces, but not the LGBTQ community. Because "the community goes against her beliefs, and if aros and aces were part of it, she would have to support part of them". (I can't remember her exact words). I argued that because we don't feel attraction to the opposite gender, we would be the 'Q' or the 'A'. She stays in her opinion. August 30, 2020 at 12:02AM

This, but completely and entirely seriously. August 30, 2020 at 12:02AM

I was thinking binary in a computer sense. The irony have human written in computer language August 29, 2020 at 11:59PM

I wonder... Dyu think that they just don't hear it? Like they're completely deaf specifically to country music... and they just pretend like they can hear it so people will stop questioning them? August 29, 2020 at 11:59PM

That's a great way to explain it! Thanks! August 29, 2020 at 11:59PM

As a heteroromantic asexual I've most commonly heard that because I'm romantically attracted to the opposite sex I'm not classed as LGBTQ+ I understand their view point but here is how I see it: You are not LGBT if your are ALL 3 of these things, heteroromantic, heterosexual and cisgender. Heteroromantic asexuals like myself are not heterosexual and asexual; that's literally impossible. -In the full LGBTQ acronym asexual is included. LGBTQIA+ I hope this makes sense and I hope this helps :) August 29, 2020 at 11:56PM

This is a mood so I hope we're both asexual lol. Yeah I also like it here, idk what I'd do if I started to become allo August 29, 2020 at 11:55PM

You’re lookin real sexy in them 6 T-shirts and 3 sweatpants. That scarf is just growls I wanna put another one on yo- I literally cannot stop laughing😂 August 29, 2020 at 11:53PM

True. Plus they've only realised themselves ab 2 months ago. I'll think more on this and try not to rush things. Do you think maybe even just subtly hinting that I know would be a good idea. Like me talking about asexuality in our friend group in a way that shows I accept it, (it wouldn't be too unusual because we talk about the lgbtq community sometimes.) Not in a way where its blatantly obvious that I know. More to help them feel like its safe for them and not have to feel like they are pretending to be someone who they are not so they can come out in their own time. August 29, 2020 at 11:51PM

You weren't really making that suggestion, just questioning. No offence taken. When people who should know much better say that shit though it annoys me. Maybe aego. I don't know enough about that to make a judgement on it, tbh. You could just be nervous about it. I have a bit of an eating disorder. Sometimes I watch cooking shows. Sometimes I'm starving whilst doing so but I hold myself back for whatever reason. Usually to feel in control or because of feelings of unworthiness. Maybe it's something like that. There are some people I find almost find too hot to approach. Like if I asked them out and got rejected it'd be too much. So I hang onto the maybe so I never have to face the rejection, but never truly try to connect with them either. August 29, 2020 at 11:50PM

I identified as demisexual for several years while I was in a long-term relationship. After that relationship ended, I spent a few years single and realized I didn't miss sex even a little bit, did some more soul-searching and realized I'm actually asexual. August 29, 2020 at 11:48PM

Giant Hoodia gang! August 29, 2020 at 11:47PM

if you don't feel sexual attraction at all you are asexual. If you feel it very rarely, you are greysexual. If you only experience it after developing a strong emotional bond, you are demisexual. Some greys and demis only feel it like once or twice in their lives, whereas with my allo friends it can be anywhere from daily to more like once / twice a month depending on the person. Also depending on the person is the importance of sex in their lives. I know some allos that have sex with their partners more rarely and some more frequently. It's all about individual preferences - for aces as well, since some of us are sex-favorable/indifferent and some are averse/repulsed. As someone else mentioned, finding ppl aesthetically attractive but not wanting to bang them is very normal for allosexuals AND asexuals as well. Here's a doc with more info but only you can actually know if you're asexual/a-spec, nobody here can say for you : ) We're just here for support if you...

Ye it is something to consider. Im not sure how I'm gonna explain that to them but I'll think more ab that August 29, 2020 at 11:46PM

Yeah allosexuals do consider who to have sex with sorry for that . But for me it's more of fantasizing and not really doing it (is it the aegosexual experience?) If ever this hot person walked up to me irl and asked me to have sex, I would probably reject them lol. Hope I didn't offend you by my ignorance. August 29, 2020 at 11:45PM

Gotcha. No worries i don't nned to know. But it's something ro consider August 29, 2020 at 11:44PM

Ahh that's a somewhat complicated story. I can dm you if you want. I can't say here because then they'll know it's me August 29, 2020 at 11:43PM

Thanks!! August 29, 2020 at 11:41PM

I'm somewhat similar to that. If it's relevant I'd mention I'm bi. And if it's someone I'm close with who doesn't know I'd bring it up so they won't be like oh when I mention crushes of both genders. I guess for someone who's ace it's more complicated to explain because people unfortunately aren't taught about it as much August 29, 2020 at 11:40PM

there are people who are immune to the sound of country music? they must be gods August 29, 2020 at 11:40PM

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It is totally understandable why you'd be upset. August 29, 2020 at 12:02AM

It’s pretty much a platonic crush, where you really really like someone but you just want to hang out with them August 28, 2020 at 11:59PM

No, I should have been an adult and not gone on a rant. I am sorry for being an ass August 28, 2020 at 11:56PM

Being any 2 sexualities simultaneously makes absolutely no sense, so that point does not stand. You CANNOT be Bisexual and Homosexual at the same time just as well as you cannot a Lesbian and Bisexual AT OnE TiMe! They completely cancel each other out! August 28, 2020 at 11:50PM

Anime do be hella sexualized tho August 28, 2020 at 11:50PM

No but you cannot change the definitions of preexisting terms to fit around our experience, they might mean that but thats not what the terms that they are using actually mean August 28, 2020 at 11:46PM

These are most of them... and then some more lol https://imgur.com/zBxFBXB https://imgur.com/Ywp6pjN August 28, 2020 at 11:44PM

Asexual? Nah bsexual August 28, 2020 at 11:42PM

Not sure how you interpreted that as me getting mad at you, I was simply explaining to you how the terms were being used and what they Do not mean August 28, 2020 at 11:41PM

Bees? August 28, 2020 at 11:39PM

Most researchers dont classify it as a mental illness but as an abnormal sexual orientation that cannot be cured. On top of that, many dont want to be cured. So this whole "just get them therapy" isnt going to work for all the ones who simply dont see anything wrong and don't want to change. Idg this "get them support" approach when many of them will refuse it in the first place. August 28, 2020 at 11:35PM

I love how EVERY SINGLE POINT is the SAME THING for aces. We're at a point where I see confirmed LGB characters in the media so much (it's super good to see!), but have yet to see more than two confirmed ace characters. August 28, 2020 at 11:35PM

Awww shucks August 28, 2020 at 11:34PM

Which hand is it to put the ring on the left or right? I never know and I went researching about it and I got confused August 28, 2020 at 11:33PM

I'm sorry to hear that! August 28, 2020 at 11:31PM

What is a squish? August 28, 2020 at 11:29PM

I'd tell you a plant joke but it'd be too corny. August 28, 2020 at 11:29PM

Glad to see you’ve found your identity :D August 28, 2020 at 11:27PM

Ah, of course. I see my mistake now. August 28, 2020 at 11:26PM

why thank you August 28, 2020 at 11:24PM

I guess I'm blessed, because no one's ever told me a plant joke. But like...the ones I've looked up just now aren't even funny... August 28, 2020 at 11:22PM

Thanks! August 28, 2020 at 11:19PM

So, I posted before about breaking it off with someone I was talking to over quarantine. He had toxic traits so that had to end. I unfriended him on snap and went to unfriend him on another site we were on, but got distracted. When I came back online to unfriend him on another site we were on, he unfriended me (likely being petty since he saw that I unfriended him from snap). I only have a couple of ppl added on there and I rarely used it. I turned off the option for people to find me in quick add a while ago, but I received a friend request today from someone that's clearly new (I added them back just to view their snap score which was only 1). I unfriended them right after. I'm almost certain that it was him prob adding me to keep tabs? idk lol My assumption was if the quick add feature is turned off (other than contacts or unless they have my snap username), there's no other way for ppl to find me? I have no idea if people would do something like this or the reason (sin...

Niceee August 27, 2020 at 11:57PM

I was 25 and long out of uni before I even heard the word “Asexual” in this context. From experience online I doubt they’d have been super welcoming anyway. :/ August 27, 2020 at 11:54PM

holy shit you're right August 27, 2020 at 11:54PM

It's an ace-let! August 27, 2020 at 11:53PM

I bought a black ring I would wear on my right middle finger before I knew I was ace and before I knew it was a thing😂 August 27, 2020 at 11:46PM

😎🤏🏾 🥴🕶🤏🏾 August 27, 2020 at 11:45PM

I’ve seen those! I have them saved in my wishlist on Amazon and am just waiting for the chance to get one. August 27, 2020 at 11:45PM

love that lmao August 27, 2020 at 11:45PM

Me waiting over a month for my ring to get here from China: 😢 August 27, 2020 at 11:44PM

You can get simple silicon ones from the exercise sections in Walmart. I made my own with some string and a crochet hook. A lot of people get fancier ones from online retailers or from amazon and Etsy. August 27, 2020 at 11:43PM

Being a dragon is always a plus, and Spellbreaker is indeed one of the best artifacts for sword and shield builds. Most remember the wabbajack for turning people into sweet rolls, but it's hardly practical in an actual questing setting when you can't be sure if it will explode a man into coins or shock everyone with a lightning bolt, including yourself. I am personally also amused by the way Mehrunes talks being so different in Daggerfall vs Battlespire. He's suddenly very eloquent. The game, however... isn't great. I haven't played, but one doesn't have to. August 27, 2020 at 11:40PM

They act like there's homophobia on places like r/aretheallosok but I'm pretty sure that sub mainly makes fun of heteronormativity, with some weirdly sexual things from all over sprinkled in, it doesn't really matter what the attraction is, it's just that the thing is overtly sexual in a confusing or weird way. Plus I barely ever see any same sex attraction posts on r/aretheallosok anyway, it's normally all just heteronormativity. Don't get me wrong, if there is homophobia it's absolutely disgusting and doesn't belong here, but it's not like it's representative of the whole community's beliefs, and I personally haven't seen it. I'll try asking to see if anyone can genuinely give me an example of it, because I genuinely want to see if it is a problem that we just aren't aware of. August 27, 2020 at 11:36PM

Would that not be panromantic? Or is biromantic more open ended than bisexuality because some sex characteristics matter less? Or are the terms interchangeable? August 27, 2020 at 11:35PM

Technically bi means two. August 27, 2020 at 11:34PM

I'm here because I'm searching for a "anusfungus" in behalf of r/fuckanus__fungus August 27, 2020 at 11:32PM

John Bellion and ajr on the same laptop. Damn good taste. August 27, 2020 at 11:31PM

🤔 disability isn't a bad thing either, it just means a person has needs specific to them. IDK how to feel about this categorization but the first thing to remember is that disabled is not "broken" or "incomplete." August 27, 2020 at 11:29PM

Yikes... I came out to my friends as ace and told them I liked girls and my one friend thought it would be funny to send me a link to hetero porn as a "prank." I literally cried and looked at pictures of cats for like 3 hours August 27, 2020 at 11:29PM

Yeah, took me a bit to figure out that (aesthetic attraction + being horny) !== sexual attraction. August 27, 2020 at 11:19PM

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