Waiting was the right move

I would just like to gush about my current SO and just how ridiculously lucky I am. There’s a lot of backstory to our relationship but long story short he waited for me for a long time while I was going through some personal stuff. Every time I think about him or look at him I wish that I didn’t make him wait so long because we’re just so good together and he makes me feel like the most amazing gal in the world! We were recently at a party together and I started talking to him about how much i fucking love him. We stood out on a friend’s balcony for about an hour and just talked about our future and our plans and our past and it was absolutely incredible. I pretty much already knew the way he felt about the things we talked about, but it’s so nice to have that kind of confirmation sometimes. We haven’t been dating all that long I suppose, but time has just flown by and it still feels like the first date every time we go out. And he totally knows my reddit account but IDC if he sees this because he knows how I feel about him. Anyway I just wanted to shout it from the rooftops!



Submitted April 17, 2019 at 04:06PM

I would just like to gush about my current SO and just how ridiculously lucky I am. There’s a lot of backstory to our relationship but long story short he waited for me for a long time while I was going through some personal stuff. Every time I think about him or look at him I wish that I didn’t make him wait so long because we’re just so good together and he makes me feel like the most amazing gal in the world! We were recently at a party together and I started talking to him about how much i fucking love him. We stood out on a friend’s balcony for about an hour and just talked about our future and our plans and our past and it was absolutely incredible. I pretty much already knew the way he felt about the things we talked about, but it’s so nice to have that kind of confirmation sometimes. We haven’t been dating all that long I suppose, but time has just flown by and it still feels like the first date every time we go out. And he totally knows my reddit account but IDC if he sees this because he knows how I feel about him. Anyway I just wanted to shout it from the rooftops!
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