Ok so this girl I talk to we planned out a date but she went from talking to me qlot to texting me like once a day maybe twice what should I do Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:43PM Ok so this girl I talk to we planned out a date but she went from talking to me qlot to texting me like once a day maybe twice what should I do

I met her in a party, texted her and talked about going about, . About a thing I told her if she needs help, she contact me. Then she said thanks you’re so kind. I don’t know what it means. Can I still make a good relationship with her or I look needy? Sorry for English. Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:46PM I met her in a party, texted her and talked about going about, . About a thing I told her if she needs help, she contact me. Then she said thanks you’re so kind. I don’t know what it means. Can I still make a good relationship with her or I look needy? Sorry for English.

So I (20F) dated this guy (22M) in the fall of 2019, my first semester of college. Almost two years ago. We were only exclusive/officially in a relationship for about a month and a half but I really liked him more than any of my ex’s. I believe he is my first real love. We pretty much just faded away around december 2019 and then reconnected at the start of 2020. He told me he didn’t want a relationship Bc he feels he’s too busy for one since he works almost full time and is also a full time college student so he feels he won’t have much time for a relationship. Since then, we’ve been fwb. We text everyday and meet up every now and then. When we see each other we kiss so passionately and sometimes even act like a couple. We’ve even made plans to go to amusement park together or out of state. Over time I’ve realized I still like him a lot and that he’s the first person I’ve truly fallen in love with. I had another relationship earlier this year but kept comparing him to my ex and it di...

I'm a 19m and looking to hookup with this girl, but we both still live at home currently and parents are there. What are some good spots to go? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:50PM I'm a 19m and looking to hookup with this girl, but we both still live at home currently and parents are there. What are some good spots to go?

We only hung out when it was convenient after his work and he never shared his schedule. We only live about an hour away, but that distance seemed to be too far for him. Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:52PM We only hung out when it was convenient after his work and he never shared his schedule. We only live about an hour away, but that distance seemed to be too far for him.

I (22 m) live in a very homophobic country so meeting someone gay is almost near impossible and if you manage to find anyone they are just mostly looking for a hook up because its pretty much hopeless to look for love here or because of internalized homophobia , i started using anonymous internet chatting sites and look for people from country and found a guy after weeks of looking for someone that actually wants something real . We added each other on anonymous social media and talked for 2 weeks and we hung out together once , i really like this guy hes smart goodlooking has many similarities with me , he is everything i ever wished for , he said he has fell for me from the start , while i liked him the feelings didnt grow much more than that from my side , which is absolutely disgusting, i have always crushed over guys that are bad or straight basically guys that i can never be with , now when i have finally found someone that is virtually perfect and loves me i cant reciprocate th...

Thats it…. Thats the question I want real answers.. from men and women Please dont be mean🥺 Why? What the fuck makes me like men who makes me feel so small? What do i need to do to fix it? 32 (f) Submitted September 01, 2021 at 12:01AM Thats it…. Thats the questionI want real answers.. from men and womenPlease dont be mean🥺Why? What the fuck makes me like men who makes me feel so small? What do i need to do to fix it?32 (f)

This one is for the girls out there. What are some tips and tricks you do to improve your confidence in yourself? I’ve been going to the gym and have been making progress in getting the body I want so I’m hoping you guys have more mental advice. Submitted September 01, 2021 at 12:07AM This one is for the girls out there. What are some tips and tricks you do to improve your confidence in yourself? I’ve been going to the gym and have been making progress in getting the body I want so I’m hoping you guys have more mental advice.

I (21F) met my ex boyfriend (20M) a year ago in college. He was the type of guy who didn’t care much about school and thought frat parties were cooler. I have been the first girl to make him want to have a public relationship. In the beginning of our relationship there was a huge cheating incident. I wanted to be done with him, but he begged for me back. I didn’t struggle with forgiving him because it was a week or 2 into the relationship and we had not even began being intimate with each other. We were just good friends that kissed sometimes and with a label that wasn’t super public yet. After forgiving him, he gained my trust back. We spent so much time together and basically lived together in my small apartment. For the past 8 months our relationship was extremely public. I met his sister and stayed with them both for vacations. I also made him a part of my family. We were truly inseparable and had a lot of love for each other. Recently, he admitted to being unfaithful to me. He...

As soon as anyone realizes that I'm an inexperienced guy, they've always lost interest in getting to know me. Makes me feel pretty undesirable. I know I've just had bad luck meeting the right person though. I'd love to hear about guys who met someone who accepted them despite their lack of experience. Trying to hold on to hope and stay positive still. Submitted September 01, 2021 at 12:09AM As soon as anyone realizes that I'm an inexperienced guy, they've always lost interest in getting to know me. Makes me feel pretty undesirable.I know I've just had bad luck meeting the right person though.I'd love to hear about guys who met someone who accepted them despite their lack of experience.Trying to hold on to hope and stay positive still.

32F who is also an introvert so I feel weird that I have to ask this haha. 28M will tell me to call him which freaks me out so I text him and then he'll ask when I'm available. I was also confused about him telling me to call him because if a guy pursues me through call or text I feel like that's a green light he's into me. I actually didn't talk to him for a couple weeks because he said he was going through some things and needed time alone. Me being me took that as a rejection and never tried to follow up. We were both at our mutual friends cabin over the weekend and slowly warmed back up to eachother. He did not seem to enjoy me talking to a different guy and kept butting in and by the end of the night we were holding hands. He told me to call him if he doesn't see me soon so I texted him yesterday and we were chatting a little bit. He initially made the first moves on me and I told him casual for now (yes read between the lines). I've also asked if he...

I'm a 26 year old Male, and I have probably 5 bodies (including my current girlfriend). Every girl I've ever been with hasn't been able to make me cum, from head, to vaginal sex, to anything they try, after an hour of having sex, I'm forced to jerk myself off to completion. Is there something wrong with me, or something I can change about myself to make it possible? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:02PM I'm a 26 year old Male, and I have probably 5 bodies (including my current girlfriend). Every girl I've ever been with hasn't been able to make me cum, from head, to vaginal sex, to anything they try, after an hour of having sex, I'm forced to jerk myself off to completion. Is there something wrong with me, or something I can change about myself to make it possible?

I’ve (36F) been going to a reputable and upscale gloryhole in my city for about a month now with one of my closest friends. We’re both single and wanted to try something different. Anyway, my sister and her husband have been married 10 years and we’ve been on family vacations numerous times. He has a distinct birth mark just above his waistline off slightly to the left and I’ve seen it numerous times as it sits above his swim shorts. After I finished him and he retracted, I kept my gaze through the hole and ever so quickly caught a glimpse of his hips and saw what I saw. It wasn’t the brightest of conditions but I noticed a ring on his finger that looked identical to one my father gave him as a gift to wear on his right middle finger. I was shaken up right on the spot. I waited a little bit to play it safe and make sure I could leave the property and not potentially run into him. But I’m 95% sure it was him. I have virtually 0 way of confirming it and given my paranoia and overthi...

Hi I was wondering if you are able to talk to your therapist about sex related incidents that have happened to you? Because I’ve had a few incidents and every time afterwards when I bring it up to the person it happened I always get my feelings but I still let it happen. Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:07PM Hi I was wondering if you are able to talk to your therapist about sex related incidents that have happened to you? Because I’ve had a few incidents and every time afterwards when I bring it up to the person it happened I always get my feelings but I still let it happen.

I’m trying anal play (just fingers and/or toys) for the first time with my partner, and I’m trying to figure some easily available lubes. Is Vaseline a good anal lube? And what are some alternatives if not? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:13PM I’m trying anal play (just fingers and/or toys) for the first time with my partner, and I’m trying to figure some easily available lubes. Is Vaseline a good anal lube? And what are some alternatives if not?

Exactly what the title says. My girlfriend made a passing joke about the way I tasted referring to when she gives me oral. She told me I tasted salty and bitter. Then she asked what she tastes like, and in my honest opinion she just kinda tastes like sweat. Not like body odor, or anything gross, I should add that I clarified this. Just sweat. She was quite upset with me and when I kept asking her what the issue was she just kept telling me she shouldn't have to explain and to do some research. I understand that on the surface it could seem like I was saying it was like gross body odor, but that wasn't what I meant. Am I being awkward and unaware or is she perhaps insecure? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:23PM Exactly what the title says. My girlfriend made a passing joke about the way I tasted referring to when she gives me oral. She told me I tasted salty and bitter. Then she asked what she tastes like, and in my honest opinion she just kinda tastes like sweat. Not like...

All my sexual experiences have been one night stands, and each one it has taken me ages to finish, around 3 hours+. I do masterbate once every other day and it goes significantly quicker around 15-25 mins. I have told my mates about this and they have suggested that it could be due to lack of a connection with the other party. Have I potentially got this mystical thing called ‘death grip syndrome?’ Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:26PM All my sexual experiences have been one night stands, and each one it has taken me ages to finish, around 3 hours+. I do masterbate once every other day and it goes significantly quicker around 15-25 mins. I have told my mates about this and they have suggested that it could be due to lack of a connection with the other party. Have I potentially got this mystical thing called ‘death grip syndrome?’

I have never been in a relationship and never kissed anyone before. I'm also not in a rush to find someone to do all this with. I have just figured out I'm bisexual one year ago. So yes, I'm a confused person. When I tell people my age about being a virgin and all that, they look at me as if I just killed their mother in front of them. Usually they judge me for it harshly, see me as uptight and boring. Now, I want to specify that I don't do this out of religion or for saving myself for my husband or something like that (I'm an atheist). I just don't feel comfortable getting close to anynone in a sexual way, especially if I barely know them. Even more with men. The thought of having sex with a man disgusts me to no end most of times because of my father who completely destroyed my view on men and sex. He is a pervert in every bad meaning of the word, taught me that men sexualize and objectify women all the time. I know this isn't true, and I try to work on...

Ok where do i start we moved in with eachover in march and since we have been sleeping in the same bed he hasn't licked me out once and he saids it isnt the smell but i think hes lying about it i wash myself good all the time but i dont think he likes my natural smell Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:42PM Ok where do i start we moved in with eachover in march and since we have been sleeping in the same bed he hasn't licked me out once and he saids it isnt the smell but i think hes lying about it i wash myself good all the time but i dont think he likes my natural smell

I (24f) and my ex (31m) just broke up about three weeks ago and I suffered a miscarriage about a week after that. I still am in love with him even though he’s fallen out of love for me and is already talking and sleeping with someone else so I’m wondering if maybe he has the right idea? I think a part of me has been holding out because if I’m not any body else’s than I’m still his… I know it’s stupid which is why I’m here wondering if anyone thinks it’s helpful to get under somebody else to get over a person you loved and thought was the person you were going to marry? I’ve been trying to heal but I can’t seem to break the bond I have to him so would doing that help sever it so I don’t have to feel this anymore? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:43PM I (24f) and my ex (31m) just broke up about three weeks ago and I suffered a miscarriage about a week after that. I still am in love with him even though he’s fallen out of love for me and is already talking and sleeping with someone ...

To preface this my (27m) gf (24f) is repulsed by multiple sexual acts and it’s starting to eat away at me. I am unable to touch her vagina with me fingers or mouth since she doesn’t like the smell that it produces. I’ve suggested we both shower before sex to help if she is bothered by it and assured her she doesn’t smell. So for sex I pretty much am only able to do penetration with a condom with no foreplay. As for what she does for me is more of the same. She doesn’t reciprocate oral and is grossed out by the smell and feel of cum. Last night I finished from a handjob(her idea) and it went on both of us. She got mad at me and said it was disgusting before running to shower off. It was a small drop on her arm and some on the hand. In regards to my hygiene I shower often and clean well. Most of the time I shower before we have sex. I would like to know if there is any ideas how to fix this and try new things. Doing the same thing is really killing my attraction to her sexually and sh...

I'm a 19m and looking to hookup with this girl, but we both still live at home currently and parents are there. What are some good spots to go? Submitted August 31, 2021 at 11:49PM I'm a 19m and looking to hookup with this girl, but we both still live at home currently and parents are there. What are some good spots to go?

As a result of major life changes - giving up alcohol, fixing my hormone levels, having a lot of good therapy, coming off longer term SSRIs, etc, I (M48) am experiencing really profound (and exciting) changes In my sexuality. Quite unexpectedly, I’m finding that not only do I have far kinkier interests than I was ever aware of, but I’m also finding that I can find huge peace in being a sub in the bedroom. That happened by accident when my wife called me her little bitch. The effect was a cross between a lightning bolt and a huge sense of utter safety that I could give up control and let this person be in charge. This is all very exciting and new, but my wife of 20 years is 52, menopausal and despite the above “accident”, very vanilla. I love her very much, we are tremendously committed and we communicate well, including around these new developments. She is quite adamant that her bodily changes coupled with her own sexual preferences mean that exploration of my new self is not going...

I've loved one person who was my best friend since we were children, and it's been about a decade, and despite how much I love her, I have no sexual feelings August 30, 2021 at 11:49PM

I’m not contradicting the others, they’re probably right. They’re aces, I’m not. But is possible to be allo and also be sex-averse/sex-repulsed. August 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

Depending on where you live you can get help about your parents August 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

Yeah I got tested for chlamydia once, even though I told my doc I was not sexually active. Out of pocket on that one too. Fuckin sucks when people don't believe you. At least I get why they want to check if you've had your period, because issues with your cycle has to do with more than sexual activity. Sorry to hear that you had a similar experience :( August 30, 2021 at 11:47PM

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If you are ace who has never had an involuntary physiological reaction when you see someone attractive, this is the best way to help an allo understand (I’m allo): Dad, when you first see someone that you find sexually attractive what happens? I mean physically, how does it feel? What sensations do you get? Dad tells you what it feels like. Dad, nothing like that has ever happened to me. I have no idea what you’re talking about. Maybe he still won’t accept it but he’ll understand what is different. August 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

Ouch so much worse that you have to pay for it out of pocket. Luckily my new gynecologist just nodded and went ahead with everything when I said I was asexual not pregnant with no plans for kids. Part of it is covering their own ass cause so many people lie about things ( like the amount of naked people that ‘fell’ and Suddenly they’re in the er with something lodged up their butt) August 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

“Lay completely still and sink into your body.” Okay, but now all I can feel is how the sheet is bunched uncomfortably under my knee. Let me adjust that real quick. “Starting at your feet, focus on each body part in turn. First feel your toes.” Okay, now they’re itching. Let me scratch that. “Now work your way up to your head. How does it feel on your pillow?” I’m laying on my hair in a way that’s kinda scratchy, actually. Let me shift that around. I have trouble getting out of my head during sex, and all the mindfulness and meditation articles and audio guides and things make it worse . How do you find the right headspace for sex? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 09:56PM “Lay completely still and sink into your body.”Okay, but now all I can feel is how the sheet is bunched uncomfortably under my knee. Let me adjust that real quick.“Starting at your feet, focus on each body part in turn. First feel your toes.”Okay, now they’re itching. Let me scratch that.“Now work your way u...

Does anyone have any idea on how people profit from their feet pic ‘ I’m genuinely curious and i have NO clue on how to start ! If anyone has anything to share , it’d be appreciated Submitted August 30, 2021 at 10:00PM Does anyone have any idea on how people profit from their feet pic ‘ I’m genuinely curious and i have NO clue on how to start ! If anyone has anything to share , it’d be appreciated

Hi, Im a 17M and I'm gonna have sex in a few days so I've been practicing putting on condoms as it's been a while. I calculated the ideal condom nominal width I need by using the formula: Girth in cm x 4.5 which gave me 54. So a condom near 54mm nominal width should theoretically be ideal for me. However when I practiced using some standard Skyn 52mm condoms and rolling them down, they didn't stay at the very bottom of my shaft and rolled up about an inch or 2 no matter what I did. I believe this then causes a few horizontal wrinkles in the condom as it's not fully stretched over my whole penis. So I tried a 60mm condom which I knew would be too big (and it was), but it covered my entire penis and it didn't roll up, so I'm a little confused. Any help or advice would be much appreciated! Thanks Submitted August 30, 2021 at 10:10PM Hi,Im a 17M and I'm gonna have sex in a few days so I've been practicing putting on condoms as it's been a wh...

Hi! I’m (F25) going to have PiV sex for the first time soon, pending my BF’s test results. We’ve done oral and fingering, which has been super enjoyable for me. But I’ve been super anxious because all of this is new for me, so even though it feels good, I’ve kinda just been laying there, thinking about how it feels, how I look, what he’s thinking, when it will be done, etc. Is that normal? Will I be able to get more into it as I get more experience, or is there anything I can do to be more in the moment? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:02PM Hi! I’m (F25) going to have PiV sex for the first time soon, pending my BF’s test results. We’ve done oral and fingering, which has been super enjoyable for me. But I’ve been super anxious because all of this is new for me, so even though it feels good, I’ve kinda just been laying there, thinking about how it feels, how I look, what he’s thinking, when it will be done, etc. Is that normal? Will I be able to get more into it as I get more expe...

So lately I’ve been noticing my husband might be into feet. A few months ago, he jokingly opened his mouth wide cause a waved my foot in his direction during sex. But since then I’ve been noticing him staring at them when I have my legs up, I don’t know if it’s something he developed as of late or if he was always into feet but ashamed of it, knowing him it could be the latter because he is a lil embarrassed about his fantasies. Either way I’m okay with it, I don’t mind if he shoves my toes inside his mouth during sex, but like, I don’t wanna pressure him to do so, cause he always takes my suggestions as me wanting him to do something for me even when I’m explicitly asking him if he’s the one wanting to do it. Anything I can do or say to demonstrate that I’m cool with it if he’s actually into it? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:12PM So lately I’ve been noticing my husband might be into feet. A few months ago, he jokingly opened his mouth wide cause a waved my foot in his directi...

Now this may go for some women too, but it seems like so many guys are determined to get nudes, phone sex, or anything like that. If I’m horny I just go watch porn. Even if I’m into a specific person, I can use my imagination or just watch porn and picture it. Even with real sex, it’s rarely worth the risk until you really know someone. So it’s hard for me to understand how some people are so eager. Maybe it’s just because I’m an introvert. Why do some people need something more? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:14PM Now this may go for some women too, but it seems like so many guys are determined to get nudes, phone sex, or anything like that. If I’m horny I just go watch porn. Even if I’m into a specific person, I can use my imagination or just watch porn and picture it. Even with real sex, it’s rarely worth the risk until you really know someone. So it’s hard for me to understand how some people are so eager. Maybe it’s just because I’m an introvert. Why do some people need so...

So I wanna ride my boyfriend but I really don't know how so can you please give my suggestions on what to do and what not to do, I've heard about bouncing but I don't know how to do that so if anyone could also tell me how , thank you :) Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:18PM So I wanna ride my boyfriend but I really don't know how so can you please give my suggestions on what to do and what not to do, I've heard about bouncing but I don't know how to do that so if anyone could also tell me how , thank you :)

Hi, so I was wondering if any of you ladies and gentlemen know of any products for your penis to make it taste nicer. My girlfriend recently told me she doesn’t really like the salty taste that my penis has, so put it to her that I could look for some kind of ointment to make it nicer and she said that would be cool. Doesn’t have to be a product, could be something like a fruit as I know pineapple improves the taste of your ejaculate, but improving the taste of my ejaculate is not top of my list of concerns right now. Preferably £10 and under - yes I’m British :0 She said strawberry flavour would be best :D P.S. I do not have smegma or any other condition. Thanks for your time! Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:20PM Hi, so I was wondering if any of you ladies and gentlemen know of any products for your penis to make it taste nicer. My girlfriend recently told me she doesn’t really like the salty taste that my penis has, so put it to her that I could look for some kind of oint...

Like I masturbate a lot but orgasms and climax doesn’t feel amazing. It’s pretty weak and then doesn’t feel wow or super pleasurable. I’ve had sex a couple times and found it felt like nothing and repetitive. I feel a bit broken. But I wasn’t super attracted to those guys turns out Now I’ve met a guy I’m aroused around constantly, we have amazing chemistry and I’m really attracted to him. I think about sleeping with him a lot but I’m worried I won’t find it pleasurable. And if I don’t find it pleasurable I won’t know what to do anymore because he’s perfect :( Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:25PM Like I masturbate a lot but orgasms and climax doesn’t feel amazing. It’s pretty weak and then doesn’t feel wow or super pleasurable.I’ve had sex a couple times and found it felt like nothing and repetitive. I feel a bit broken. But I wasn’t super attracted to those guys turns outNow I’ve met a guy I’m aroused around constantly, we have amazing chemistry and I’m really attracted to him...

What’s the best way to attract an woman who doesn’t seem into you, but once was? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:26PM What’s the best way to attract an woman who doesn’t seem into you, but once was?

People who have one testicle are you comfortable when having sex or with a woman as a person who hasn’t experienced sex this is another thing that I always over think it. Also have two scars just above my penis one extremely visible and the other basically invisible Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:31PM People who have one testicle are you comfortable when having sex or with a woman as a person who hasn’t experienced sex this is another thing that I always over think it. Also have two scars just above my penis one extremely visible and the other basically invisible

Hi, I'm writing because I've been a bit confused lately. Or maybe I'm weird, but I need your opinion to support. My relationship is not going well, neither in the relationship nor in bed. I decided to analyze various situations, our goals, etc. But the main question that comes to mind is. Can you have a great relationship and great sex? I've always had great sex with guys I haven't had a relationship with. I mean sex where we discover new things, when I have a great time and there is a lot of chemistry and excitement. Just fireworks. But these were never guys for a relationship, even though we tried. Now I'm in a relationship, but it's a little different in bed. There is sex, but no emotions. Ordinary sex. I don't want to go into details here. But I can see that my partner doesn't like it from the beginning. There is always something wrong. Some things can be changed, but I can't change things (eg how I look there or if I'm "too wet...

When I'm just cruising on the website and it's a room with only twenty or so people, I swear that I'm being watched back. I'm not streaming or anything, my laptop has a camera though. When I say things out loud or react in a certain way, I swear that they are responding directly to my behavior. If I go to masterbate, so does the girl. Am I insane or can these girls actually see me despite there being other people in the room and me not interacting or broadcasting anything. Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:38PM When I'm just cruising on the website and it's a room with only twenty or so people, I swear that I'm being watched back. I'm not streaming or anything, my laptop has a camera though. When I say things out loud or react in a certain way, I swear that they are responding directly to my behavior. If I go to masterbate, so does the girl. Am I insane or can these girls actually see me despite there being other people in the room and me not intera...

Whenever I masturbate no matter what I’m doing specifically I get really lethargic and often fall asleep or into this state of like half sleeping while masturbating. Whenever I “wake up” I feel fine, and I still get horny, but I always fall asleep. No idea why this happens, maybe it’s because I’m getting really hot? I mostly go at it under a blanket in bed, so maybe it’s just the setting? I don’t know. Anyone else like this? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 11:43PM Whenever I masturbate no matter what I’m doing specifically I get really lethargic and often fall asleep or into this state of like half sleeping while masturbating. Whenever I “wake up” I feel fine, and I still get horny, but I always fall asleep. No idea why this happens, maybe it’s because I’m getting really hot? I mostly go at it under a blanket in bed, so maybe it’s just the setting? I don’t know. Anyone else like this?

Hey all! So my bf is very disgusted with period blood. He just doesn't want his dick anywhere near it. He knows it's clean, but he is very finicky about those things. This has been a small point of contention as I have trouble getting turned on, and it's much easier for me while on my period. But I never pushed it because that seems rude. But I'm on a new medication and it causes frequent periods. Meaning I may be bleeding most of the month. I really like this medication. It has done a lot for me. I am okay with the periods if it means I get the benefits that come from this medication. But I don't know how to have sex.. this post is basically a last dodge effort to keep this medication. If we can't figure this out, then I have to go off of it 😭 and I'm just doing so well on it. I asked about menstrual cups but those are out. The thought of the blood just collecting inside really freaks him out. He can't explain why it's okay when it's a ta...

Some background information: I've never done anything really slutty, besides maybe wearing things that are a bit revealing. I've jumped from relationship to relationship since I graduated high school 7 years ago and even though I always enjoyed the sex, it never made me feel 100% satisfied. I just got out of a last relationship about 4 months ago, I thought this would be a good chance to explore the slutty side of me, but I've been hesitant to do anything due to covid-19. However, as of yesterday, I finally gave in to my horniness. Ever since I found this subreddit, everytime I go anywhere my slutty mind is thinking of scenarios where I meet a stranger and either blow him or let him fuck me. I usually go out for morning runs a few times a week and I often see the same guy out running. I found this guy to be extremely fucking hot. He's in his early 30s and has pretty much the perfect body, not a super muscular meathead type, but slim with an athletic fit with next to n...

When I started birth control, I started to let my boyfriend finish inside me. I’ve noticed that whenever he does, I feel a burning sensation. Yesterday when he told me he was going to come I knew exactly when he did because I started feeling the burn. The thing is, this pain isn’t unbearable. It’s just uncomfortable, it feels similar to the burn you get when you have sex without foreplay/lubricant (I know this isn’t the reason because when we used condoms it never burnt, I just know from experience with my ex boyfriend.) I always sit on the toilet on my phone for around 10 minutes to sort of let it ‘drip out’ and obviously, to pee right away. After that it’s almost gone, and after 20 more minutes or so it’s completely gone Edit: I don’t think it’s allergic reaction because if I swallow it if he finishes on my body there’s never any discomfort at all. I know talking to a doctor would be the best bet but I see it as something I can live with, I’m also only 19 so I’d be a little too emb...

I'm male, my partner is female. We're unable to find any position that stimulates her clitoris during PIV intercourse. We've tried her on top, missionary, scissors etc and nothing works. I'm after any advice or recommendations on a passive device (not a vibrator or battery powered device) that might help with this. My partner is able to orgasm easily and consistently via any number of methods, oral, fingers, vibrator. However her clitoris requires direct friction in order for her to orgasm. Pressure or movement that is not caused by actual friction simply won't work for her. Believe us, we've done a lot of field research on this! Her clitoris is concealed within her labia and can only be accessed if the labia is spread apart by hand and we believe this is the primary reason why she can't be stimulated via PIV. It's not a massive issue for us as we enjoy a lot of variety and enthusiasm with our current repertoire but we've been curious if there is ...

I'm 22 years old. I was in a relationship with my then-girlfriend for three years, we broke up in 2019. We were both REALLY sexually inexperienced. She was a virgin, and me? I actually had sex prior to our relationship, but it was when I was 13. Yes, the girl put it in for me. I was basically a dildo the way she was putting me inside her LOL! But yes, my ex and I broke up due to the arguments we would have after our failed attempts at sex. We always felt like "this time for sure" yet, it just was never that time. She viewed it as "my job as the man" to put it in her and take control, and I viewed it as her duty as the owner of a vagina to guide me around because I was clearly lost in pussy town. I felt like less of a man. Embarrassed by potential conversations she would have with friends. I mean, 3 years and not once did we fuck? All because I couldn't find the hole? Don't even get me started on the jealously I felt knowing that someone else will be t...

So I (26M) started to develop feelings for one of my coworkers(27F) Which i don't know how to handle since I haven't been in a relationship, or had the desire to be in one, let alone have feelings for some one in over 6 years. Isn't there like some Golden rule that office romance is never a good idea. Don't shit where you eat as the saying goes or something like that. Well I really like this girl and I don't really have the intention to date her per se but I would like to get to know her on a personal level and become good friends with her at least. Most of the conversations we have at work are typical workplace conversations like "how was your weekend?" or "how's your day going?" ect. Nothing too exciting but I feel like if we hung out outside of work it would be easier to connect/relate with her especially since I'm a very reclusive person and I'm better at 1 on 1 conversations. Last night I had a dream that she and my best friend...

Me and my partner broke up after 9.5 years in around March. Everything got tied up and finished (house sale stuff) about 6 weeks ago. I'm having trouble moving on or at least just letting it go for now. The lack of intimacy after having it there for so long is messin with me. Is trying some casual stuff usefull to get your mind off her and hopefully help move on? ​ Any advice/experience would be great. Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:35PM Me and my partner broke up after 9.5 years in around March. Everything got tied up and finished (house sale stuff) about 6 weeks ago. I'm having trouble moving on or at least just letting it go for now. The lack of intimacy after having it there for so long is messin with me.Is trying some casual stuff usefull to get your mind off her and hopefully help move on?​Any advice/experience would be great.

I’m a full-time engineering student who lives at home. I drive but don’t current have my own car and I’m not working during this semester since I want to focus on classes, although I have a bit of a savings account. I spend a good amount of time studying, but I also think it’d be nice to have the companionship (? I can’t think of the right word) of having a girl in my life. I don’t necessarily feel lonely, but I feel like it’d be nice. Also I’m the only one in my friend group that’s single. Idk if that matters but just adding it in here. Would it be a bad idea for me to try to look for a relationship right now? I don’t know if this post even makes any sense but I’m just confused and a little frustrated. Thanks. Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:36PM I’m a full-time engineering student who lives at home. I drive but don’t current have my own car and I’m not working during this semester since I want to focus on classes, although I have a bit of a savings account. I spend a good amo...

Some backstory A few nights ago I tracked up to a college campus to visit some of my high school friends. I am not going to this school, I just traveled there to see everyone. I reunited with some of my friends and we walked around the campus and drank alcohol. I’m a bit of a lightweight so I wasn’t walking properly and there were cops around so this girl I had been crushing with the past few months started to hold my hand. It eventually escalated to me putting my arms around her and eventually to us making out. We kept walking around, eventually I sobered up a little and we went back to her dorm. We went for a walk at like 4am and talked about our future and if there were any prospects for a relationship. We both said we would try to make it work. We kissed again and this time we were both pretty much sober I woke up the next morning and we talked about it again. She said she is worried about ruining our friendship, and if we eventually broke up then we wouldn’t be able to be fri...

english is not my first language and I'm pretty drunk so sorry if I don't make any sense. So I'm a bisexual man, and I never had any trouble dating guys. I have a lot of female friends, and I don't have any trouble speaking with them. The problem is when I LIKE a girl, usually they just want me to be a "gay friend" or Idk. In the past I had sex with girls a few times, but just casual stuff, I'm tired of being just a "gay friend" I'm not gay!! :C I asked my best friend and she said is weird for girls when a man is bi, and maybe is true. is it? Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:37PM english is not my first language and I'm pretty drunk so sorry if I don't make any sense. So I'm a bisexual man, and I never had any trouble dating guys. I have a lot of female friends, and I don't have any trouble speaking with them. The problem is when I LIKE a girl, usually they just want me to be a "gay friend" or Idk. In the past ...

Just wanted to share this lil story date. Nothing bad happened. He seem interested since he drove more than an hour. I think I gave off a vibe that I wasn’t interested? Or we just had different hobbies I guess? He still wanted to hang out a bit after our little dinner, so that gave off a good impression. But he unmatched me or maybe deleted his dating profile. I noticed it once I got home. Which I found weird. I wasn’t rude or anything and I get I look prettier in person and easygoing. So it wasn’t how I was. But it’s all good! Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:38PM Just wanted to share this lil story date. Nothing bad happened. He seem interested since he drove more than an hour. I think I gave off a vibe that I wasn’t interested? Or we just had different hobbies I guess? He still wanted to hang out a bit after our little dinner, so that gave off a good impression. But he unmatched me or maybe deleted his dating profile. I noticed it once I got home. Which I found weird. I wasn’t...

I just keep on having my matches fizzle out. Either on tinder or through text, I ask them out but they say oh I’m busy this week I’ll lyk. Is there a guide or books I could learn from to stop this? Anybody have advice for me? Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:45PM I just keep on having my matches fizzle out. Either on tinder or through text, I ask them out but they say oh I’m busy this week I’ll lyk. Is there a guide or books I could learn from to stop this? Anybody have advice for me?

i’m 19 and i met a great guy who’s a little older than me but i’ve lost feelings for him and i dont want to be with him anymore but i recently found out from a friend that he attempted suicide after his last girlfriend left him and im so worried he’ll hurt himself if i leave him. ive been emotionally blackmailed before but i refuse to go through it again and while i dont think he’s deliberately manipulative sometimes says manipulative things and im worried i’ll put aside my own wants and needs because im worried about him. how do i go about ending a relationship like this? we’ve only been together for a little less than a month but he fell for me a little too fast and i just dont want him to be devastated. ive tried dropping hints that im losing feelings and either he hasnt picked up on them or is deliberately ignoring them. i even told him i felt like we rushed into things and even though he agreed i dont think he really understood what i was telling him because he hasn’t slowed down...

I (M18) have a good friend “N” (F18) and the girl in question is “R”. I have known N since middle school and we ended up going to the same college and being in the same major (we’re freshman now). N’s roommate is R, which is how I found out about her. Then a few weeks ago, R requested me on Instagram and a few days later, she requested me on my back-up/close friends account too, but quickly cancelled the request to follow that account (maybe showing that she was stalking?). When college started (a few weeks ago), there were a few group situations where me and R were present and I would catch her looking at me and vice versa. However, we haven’t really talked at all. A few days ago, my other good friend T, sent me R’s number telling me that she has the same chem professor as me (by mistake) and this is how I reached out to R: Me: Hey R! This is (my name) I thought I would reach out since T gave me your number I was wondering if you wanted connect sometime soon to get to know each o...

I'll try to keep this as short as possible. I matched with a girl on Hinged about 2-3 weeks ago. We chatted for a day or so and I gave her my number. Never got a text. Oh well, onto the next one. Fast forward about 2.5 weeks, I get a text from her asking how I was and that she was sorry she didn't reach out sooner. First thought in my head was "oh whoever she was talking to didn't work out now she's onto me" Whatever, I didn't care. We have a lot of the same interests, she's cute, all that good stuff. We chat for a day or two, I lasted texted her the night before with no response, it happens. So I text her again the next day of a relevant picture to our previous convo, still no response. She works in the medical field so she said she has been busy, so I didn't think much of it. So that night I decided I would just straight up ask her to meet up sometime, mostly because I don't enjoy getting to know someone over text. No response. So anothe...