What Should I Expect With This Girl?

So, I met this girl at my university. We actually met because we are coworkers at a dining hall on campus. We were both just freshmen coming into this university. Anyways, I quickly make a move on this girl and we end up chatting a bit and becoming friends. She's quite a lively girl and she's also really damn pretty. Eventually, I get up the nerve to ask her to hang out with me and my friends because we were all gonna go to the football game. I thought it would be nice because it would be a pretty casual get-together and it wouldn't be too romantic. However, another guy who was also into her ends up going with us. She asked me before we met up if it would be okay if she "brought a friend." I honestly assumed it would be another female friend of hers but, to my surprise, it was not. I know the guy had sensual intentions with her because she recently told me he was super perverted with her, was just creepy, etc. It was around after the football game that I realized just how universally attractive of a girl she is because that guy, and three other guys I know of also tried to make a move on her and, to my knowledge, nothing happened. For a while, I decided to give up on chasing her because there were so many guys competing for her and I just hate being another one of those guys. I feel it instantly makes me look like just another horny college boy. However, I could never just outright ghost her because 1. We work together and 2. I was still really into her. Recently, I have tried to talk to her a little more actively and now that we're both out for the semester, I've tried to talk to her pretty often on Snapchat. I playfully brought up us going to the football game together and she was like "omg yes, we should totally hang out again outside of a football game for sure" and I was honestly surprised. I very rarely have a girl insinuate that she really wants to hang out again so it made me feel like maybe she does see me as an attractive guy. This led to me asking about the guy who was with us, as I mentioned earlier, and this kind of led me to asking if guys are typically creepy with her, to which she replied by stating that it happens quite a bit. She's a sweet girl who probably gets hit on a lot because she's too nice to break their heart. She was in a relationship throughout high school and that relationship ended and she said she just kind of wanted to focus on herself. I don't know why I did, but eventually I asked if maybe she would like to go do something some time. I said we could go to the movies or whatever she wants to do. She seemed really interested in doing something together. However, I don't know what I should expect of this girl. She says she's not looking for a relationship, but I feel like I just very obviously offered to take her on a date and she seemed interested. And I don't think she just said "yes" because she's trying to not hurt my feelings, because she already made it clear that she genuinely wants to hang out again.

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On one hand, she's saying "I'm not looking for a relationship", but on the other she's saying, "I like you and I want to hang out with you more." I guess, if you meet in the middle of those two ideas, one could assume she's interested in something just casual? Or maybe she is just wanting to be friends. I'm very confused. I'm not very good with girls and I've never dated, nor been in a relationship with anyone, so I don't want to make the wrong move and mess everything up.

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Update: I forgot to mention that I actually found her on Bumble Date, a dating app a la Tinder. Further showing she might be looking for SOMETHING.

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Update 2: I think we have decided that we are gonna go to the drive-in theater and see a flick together.

Submitted May 13, 2019 at 03:40AM

So, I met this girl at my university. We actually met because we are coworkers at a dining hall on campus. We were both just freshmen coming into this university. Anyways, I quickly make a move on this girl and we end up chatting a bit and becoming friends. She's quite a lively girl and she's also really damn pretty. Eventually, I get up the nerve to ask her to hang out with me and my friends because we were all gonna go to the football game. I thought it would be nice because it would be a pretty casual get-together and it wouldn't be too romantic. However, another guy who was also into her ends up going with us. She asked me before we met up if it would be okay if she "brought a friend." I honestly assumed it would be another female friend of hers but, to my surprise, it was not. I know the guy had sensual intentions with her because she recently told me he was super perverted with her, was just creepy, etc. It was around after the football game that I realized just how universally attractive of a girl she is because that guy, and three other guys I know of also tried to make a move on her and, to my knowledge, nothing happened. For a while, I decided to give up on chasing her because there were so many guys competing for her and I just hate being another one of those guys. I feel it instantly makes me look like just another horny college boy. However, I could never just outright ghost her because 1. We work together and 2. I was still really into her. Recently, I have tried to talk to her a little more actively and now that we're both out for the semester, I've tried to talk to her pretty often on Snapchat. I playfully brought up us going to the football game together and she was like "omg yes, we should totally hang out again outside of a football game for sure" and I was honestly surprised. I very rarely have a girl insinuate that she really wants to hang out again so it made me feel like maybe she does see me as an attractive guy. This led to me asking about the guy who was with us, as I mentioned earlier, and this kind of led me to asking if guys are typically creepy with her, to which she replied by stating that it happens quite a bit. She's a sweet girl who probably gets hit on a lot because she's too nice to break their heart. She was in a relationship throughout high school and that relationship ended and she said she just kind of wanted to focus on herself. I don't know why I did, but eventually I asked if maybe she would like to go do something some time. I said we could go to the movies or whatever she wants to do. She seemed really interested in doing something together. However, I don't know what I should expect of this girl. She says she's not looking for a relationship, but I feel like I just very obviously offered to take her on a date and she seemed interested. And I don't think she just said "yes" because she's trying to not hurt my feelings, because she already made it clear that she genuinely wants to hang out again.​On one hand, she's saying "I'm not looking for a relationship", but on the other she's saying, "I like you and I want to hang out with you more." I guess, if you meet in the middle of those two ideas, one could assume she's interested in something just casual? Or maybe she is just wanting to be friends. I'm very confused. I'm not very good with girls and I've never dated, nor been in a relationship with anyone, so I don't want to make the wrong move and mess everything up.​Update: I forgot to mention that I actually found her on Bumble Date, a dating app a la Tinder. Further showing she might be looking for SOMETHING.​Update 2: I think we have decided that we are gonna go to the drive-in theater and see a flick together.