Please let me know if this experience is actually seems as bizarre as it seems to me

I (19M) met probably one of the most beautiful girls (22 F) I had ever laid eyes on sitting at this table with me in this networking event at my college. My buddy that went with me both joked about how pretty she was after it was over but yet not to the same level because I was honestly starstruck. Not only beautiful but very, smart, poised and foreign. Plus, the whole time we were at the table I kept noticing what looked like her stealing glances at me. Great! Thought I would never see her again though. But it gets better....

I kept joking with my buddy about amazing that girl was and couldn't get her off my head. Later on, it hit me like a ton of bricks when another very attractive girl at my part-time job who i saw every now and then, wearing geeky bookbags I thought was cute, was actually the same girl from earlier! I realized it as I saying a joke to a freind on the way out and she overheard and chuckled. Like a movie, time seemed to slow down as i put two and too together and almost lost my shit. I go to A very large school so the odds of seeing the very same random girl working with me seemed mind blowing. But wait there is more.

So i continue working hoping I will run into her eventually around the office if we end up working the same shift. I am not too pressed because I have other options and I was focused on my major. Then (this is where I need advice) I notice things that seem like somehow this spark might be mutual. For one thing she has the same exact major as me which is one of the most conpetitive at the University so she must also be smart to maintain its high gpa critera. She had a Batman bookbag so she must be into that stuff like me. She is from Latin America and I was double majoring in Spanish. Then there was time when I was just casually walking by and not concerned of her but we kinda just locked eyes for a while. Not good, not bad, just... inquisitive. Another day she must have seen me first because while i was having a meeting with a supervisor it seemed like she went out of her (imo) to reach over the table i was seated at to get some hand sanitizer.

I was finally able to catch her alone and tried to just to see where our conversation would lead (hopefully insta-marriage). I litterally dont remember her voice but i can only describe it as perfect, not to be cheesy. I was honestly a drowning man at sea inside but exterior me was just keeping his cool and talking about random things for a bit. hard to guage interest or not because she could have been just like me and was trying to be casual AF. After that, I also noticed her walking by my aisle and what I assumed to be looking at me. maybe there was no interest at all but she just genuinely curious. Maybe she was too nervous to flirt. idk

I am here to find out if this just seems like oneitis and some self fulfilling prophecy type stuff or was this whole thing as magical as it felt to me. I am pretty sure she has graduated and I. may never see her again but this whole thing seemed so bizarre and yet also so amazing. If this was a real spark should I find some way to find her?

Submitted May 13, 2019 at 05:13AM

I (19M) met probably one of the most beautiful girls (22 F) I had ever laid eyes on sitting at this table with me in this networking event at my college. My buddy that went with me both joked about how pretty she was after it was over but yet not to the same level because I was honestly starstruck. Not only beautiful but very, smart, poised and foreign. Plus, the whole time we were at the table I kept noticing what looked like her stealing glances at me. Great! Thought I would never see her again though. But it gets better....I kept joking with my buddy about amazing that girl was and couldn't get her off my head. Later on, it hit me like a ton of bricks when another very attractive girl at my part-time job who i saw every now and then, wearing geeky bookbags I thought was cute, was actually the same girl from earlier! I realized it as I saying a joke to a freind on the way out and she overheard and chuckled. Like a movie, time seemed to slow down as i put two and too together and almost lost my shit. I go to A very large school so the odds of seeing the very same random girl working with me seemed mind blowing. But wait there is more.So i continue working hoping I will run into her eventually around the office if we end up working the same shift. I am not too pressed because I have other options and I was focused on my major. Then (this is where I need advice) I notice things that seem like somehow this spark might be mutual. For one thing she has the same exact major as me which is one of the most conpetitive at the University so she must also be smart to maintain its high gpa critera. She had a Batman bookbag so she must be into that stuff like me. She is from Latin America and I was double majoring in Spanish. Then there was time when I was just casually walking by and not concerned of her but we kinda just locked eyes for a while. Not good, not bad, just... inquisitive. Another day she must have seen me first because while i was having a meeting with a supervisor it seemed like she went out of her (imo) to reach over the table i was seated at to get some hand sanitizer.I was finally able to catch her alone and tried to just to see where our conversation would lead (hopefully insta-marriage). I litterally dont remember her voice but i can only describe it as perfect, not to be cheesy. I was honestly a drowning man at sea inside but exterior me was just keeping his cool and talking about random things for a bit. hard to guage interest or not because she could have been just like me and was trying to be casual AF. After that, I also noticed her walking by my aisle and what I assumed to be looking at me. maybe there was no interest at all but she just genuinely curious. Maybe she was too nervous to flirt. idkI am here to find out if this just seems like oneitis and some self fulfilling prophecy type stuff or was this whole thing as magical as it felt to me. I am pretty sure she has graduated and I. may never see her again but this whole thing seemed so bizarre and yet also so amazing. If this was a real spark should I find some way to find her?