I [19m] have problems with constantly overthinking everything. When I’m in a relationship I find myself wishing for freedom thinking about how great being single is, but when I’m single I miss being in the relationship. I don’t want to feel this way but it just keeps happening. Do any of you have advice? Submitted May 31, 2020 at 11:34PM I [19m] have problems with constantly overthinking everything. When I’m in a relationship I find myself wishing for freedom thinking about how great being single is, but when I’m single I miss being in the relationship. I don’t want to feel this way but it just keeps happening. Do any of you have advice?

Was talking to a girl for a few weeks. We talked daily and hung out once. Everything seemed to be going really well, our conversations flowed, and we seemed to have good chemistry, then out of nowhere she leaves me on read and I haven’t heard anything from her since Thursday. I haven’t even bothered trying to contact her, because what’s the point? Obviously something changed, she’s talking to some other guy, or just decided I wasn’t right for her, for whatever reason. I understand I’m not going to be everybody’s cup of tea and that’s fine, but at least have the courtesy to be upfront with me about it, so I can have a bit of closure and move on with my life. Submitted May 31, 2020 at 11:44PM Was talking to a girl for a few weeks. We talked daily and hung out once. Everything seemed to be going really well, our conversations flowed, and we seemed to have good chemistry, then out of nowhere she leaves me on read and I haven’t heard anything from her since Thursday. I haven’t even b...

HI! I am recently single (female 36). Started up on some dating sites, I'm very picky. . . So I know I have a long way to go. I've been on about 10 first dates in the last 5 months. Well mostly before Mid March. There's was one guy I actually got excited about (male 39). We went on a brunch date, ate, had several drinks at the bar.we ended up talking for about 5 hours. I felt a connection and I was somewhat attracted. After the date, he texted me a few times, so that was nice, I knew he was still interested. Then the shelter in place order began a week after. He started texting less and less. One time went a whole week without texting me, but then I texted him. He responded well, wasn't short or anything. So we continued texting every other day. Sometimes it'd even get into low key sexting. I was getting sort of attached to him, lol or at least his attn maybe?? But the thing is I realized, that I myself didn't even know if I really liked him, it was only one da...

Hello, 23F, here. Long story short, there was I have fallen in love 2x in my life. Once at 14, it was clearly puppy love. And again at 16, we were high school sweethearts and dated through high school and most of college and were eventually engaged. He was abusive, toxic, and extremely controlling. I was co-dependent. It’s been 2 years since we broke up. He’s now engaged to someone new. And as for me, I stayed single for a year to focus on self love. I’ve made friends, found hobbies, for back into therapy and made it a serious point to make sure I didn’t NEED anyone. I used to even tell myself that I never want to lose my entire self to another person. I’ve tried dating a few guys recently. Some of the most healthiest people I’ve met. Absolute gentlemen that would’ve given the world for me. But I lose interest fast. As soon as they fall in love, I for some reason have this “romantic” switch just turn off. Am I doomed? I feel like a “high school fuckboi” minus sex. I feel like I WANT...

I’d like get to know this girl who I know has recently broken out with her former bf. Most of my close friends went to school with her but I know from experience to not involve other people when it comes to dating. The problem is that due to a bunch of insecurities, crippling depression and self doubt I got no game. Submitted May 31, 2020 at 11:47PM I’d like get to know this girl who I know has recently broken out with her former bf. Most of my close friends went to school with her but I know from experience to not involve other people when it comes to dating. The problem is that due to a bunch of insecurities, crippling depression and self doubt I got no game.

So me and my long distance boyfriend have been dating for almost 9 months. My longest relationship before this point was one month and maybe not even that. And before my current boyfriend I only have two others so I’m not that experience when it comes to relationships and I would like some advice about how mine is going and if it’s normal or if I should be worried. I would prefer no one suggest that I break up with him because I am truly in love with him and I really don’t see that helping in any way. So like I said before me and my boyfriend and then my months and we’ve been doing the long-distance for the entire time. We initially met on our social media website. This is Both our first long-distance that’s lasted this long. However we will be closing the gap soon because I decided to move there. We’ve been having a little bit of issues lately but it might be because we’re both kind of nervous about closing the gap because we don’t know how we’re going to be together and that way. I...

How do I stop getting into relationships where this happens?? Is there a way to prevent this or is it just the luck of the draw? It’s happened so much that I’m actually starting to get annoyed by it Submitted May 31, 2020 at 11:57PM How do I stop getting into relationships where this happens?? Is there a way to prevent this or is it just the luck of the draw? It’s happened so much that I’m actually starting to get annoyed by it

Hey everyone so I am going on a first date with a girl I have been talking to for about two weeks. Now I have not gone on any real dates since early high-school...if you call that dating. so its been a while. Now it seems like she is very to the point (she has a kid already and has been divorced) and I am the same way. I dont wanna waste time on someone that doesn't agree with me on certain things. Im sorry for the speech but any tips would be great. P.S. if you think I should get flowers or not let me know Thanks Submitted May 31, 2020 at 11:58PM Hey everyone so I am going on a first date with a girl I have been talking to for about two weeks. Now I have not gone on any real dates since early high-school...if you call that dating. so its been a while. Now it seems like she is very to the point (she has a kid already and has been divorced) and I am the same way. I dont wanna waste time on someone that doesn't agree with me on certain things. Im sorry for the speech but a...

That's just a polite way to break up and reject you, right? So ATM, I'm stuck in a yucky place feeling rejected and unlovable. I know those things aren't true, but it sure feels like it! If I am as great as my dating resume/checklist items say I am, why didn't he want to be with me? Submitted June 01, 2020 at 12:03AM That's just a polite way to break up and reject you, right? So ATM, I'm stuck in a yucky place feeling rejected and unlovable. I know those things aren't true, but it sure feels like it! If I am as great as my dating resume/checklist items say I am, why didn't he want to be with me?

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The biggest problem I've run into is lack of a credit card tbh; several times I've tried to donate money and my debit card gets declined. June 01, 2020 at 12:00AM

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Contrary to all the other comments so far, I really do feel the need to come out and be honest about who I am in the world. And I completely respect peoples' choices if they want to keep their sexuality to themselves or see it as a private thing, but... I find that 'keeping it to myself' tends to mean I start to slip into feeling kind of ashamed and embarrassed by it like it really is something to hide, when no, it's a totally normal variation of sexuality. I also find it means I can just be straightforward and honest in situations where it comes up, e.g.: A: "Have you seen Venom?" B: "Yeah, it was on TV the other day." A: "Oh my god! Tom Hardy's so hot in it, right??" B: "Haha, well actually, I'm asexual, so not really my sort of thing." Or, of course, conversations about dating, including interrogation from pushy relatives etc. I personally could never feel truly free and happy in the closet. I understand everybod...

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He could be asexual or he could have some deep-seated issues around sex due to upbringing, bad education etc. Both are possible, but he has to figure that out himself, he's the expert on his own thought process and feelings after all. Whatever it is I hope he manages to figure himself out so he can feel happier and understand himself better. May 31, 2020 at 11:08PM

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So I’ve just counted how many matches I’ve had over the past 2 weeks across all apps. I have 27 new matches, of which I haven’t spoken to 8 of them (lack of interest from myside), where a few convos have fizzled out (both on app and after getting their number) and others have matched then do not respond My match rate these days seems to be about 13 a week, but converting into successful matches is difficult Is this normal? Submitted May 31, 2020 at 11:59PM So I’ve just counted how many matches I’ve had over the past 2 weeks across all apps.I have 27 new matches, of which I haven’t spoken to 8 of them (lack of interest from myside), where a few convos have fizzled out (both on app and after getting their number) and others have matched then do not respondMy match rate these days seems to be about 13 a week, but converting into successful matches is difficultIs this normal?

My parents have always had this rule of "no technology in your room." Okay, fine, that was good when we were younger. As I got older my parents had more kids and we moved into a very large, very beautiful house, and my bedroom (which I am very happy with) is on the second floor. Not having technology soon became a bit of a nuisance, because my room is awesome and I love being able to spend time there. Furthermore, we have two baby siblings who scream and break everything. We've been in the house for a little over a year now and I turned 18 last November. My parents allowed me to use a SCHOOL ISSUED computer in my room for homework purposes, but I had to plug it in downstairs at night. On top of this, while I have been diligent in following the rules, (I plug my phone and computer in by the kitchen, my mom checks most nights) my brother (15M) does not give a RAT'S ASS about the rules. Before the quarantine he would bring his phone into his room, he's be up late ...

Hey everyone, I (25F) started casually seeing a guy last October. He's a pilot from the west coast, and I live in NY. His flights are all on the east coast and I met him through a dating app- he occasionally stays in hotels overnight around my area. We've been texting every day since we matched on the app last year. However, we've only hung out twice in person, the last time being in November. It's difficult to see each other because of our distance and the fact that he's been on a leave of absence from work. Our conversations are pretty lackluster, partially due to COVID (being quarantined with nothing to do). I've told him that we should meet up again soon and he agrees, but hasn't made a real effort to try to hang out. He wants to fly me to his state but he's not very proactive about making set plans. We haven't been dating or hooking up with other people since we've met (at least this is what he tells me). He goes out a lot, but I don'...

Hello! I am writing this post because I feel exhausted by "status quo" in my relationship due to pandemics. My problem is routine. We see each other about 3-4 times a week, and we do almost the same stuff - talking and watching movies, going for a brief walks. I am afraid that our future life would look like this and this exhausts me. I have absolutely boring life now, nothing happens, I study, sleep, play video games and that's it. I think, that I might have OCD, my symptoms are the same as my mother's and she is diagnosed with it. Another important thing - soon my girlfriend is going to have final exams before going to the university. She is totally stressed out and focused on it. I am really struggling because I try my best to motivate her etc, but I lack affection for most of the time as she cant think about anything else but her exams. I dont blame her to be clear, but I am feeling lonely a bit now. Our sex life got worse, we have sex once a week, but its beca...

My BF (28M) and I (27F) have dated for 4 years. He has a number of deep-rooted insecurities that cause his depression. It frequently develops into a tornado of self-loathing which he internalizes and then shuts people out, mostly me. We have started months of couples therapy as his negative internalizing has caused many arguments between us. We have been addressing and making efforts about getting him to be vulnerable and verbalize his feelings and communicate what he wants. Our communication skills have gotten much better, but it's still frustrating for me to be patient with his withdrawal and ignoring especially when we live together now and are discussing getting married. I frequently will not know what he is upset about until days later, so for the time being, he will do the passive-aggressive "I'm fine" and walk away from me or ignore me. I am trying to be sensitive to his depression, but after years of being lied to about what he is feeling and being given t...

I worked with her a while back. We became good friends. There was an attraction and energy but it never went there. She moved away, got married and started a family but we kept in touch. It started getting awkward for me because she never introduced me to her husband and I guess wanted to keep our friendship separate. But this always was in the back of my mind every time we talked so one day I brought it up. I forget how I started the convo but I remember she was annoyed by it and said something like I have another guy best friend too, and my husband knows I have ‘my friends’ and he’s ok with that. That wasn’t my issue though. And maybe this is my hang up or insecurity but I feel slighted that I’m kept separate. I was raised that when someone gets married, especially if its a man and woman friendship, things will change and I’ve told her that I would like to meet her husband (at least over the phone) and talk and get to know him...like hey man, I’m your wife’s friend. I mean if I wer...

Recently, I had to stop taking my anti-depressants due to losing work related- insurance from to covid-19, but am waiting on Government assistant. I created an issue through text message with my boyfriend that was already resolved. I am hoping someone can send me some words of wisdom on what I can say to him resolve this. I was trying to explain my emotions to him about how I’m unsure of certain actions he had made. Granted, I support his decisions as it is his and I love him and I don’t really have a say in what he wants to do as he is his own person. He wanted me to stop intruding on what he does or where he goes as it’s annoying which I understand. I ended up following up with a past petty example of well if I let you do what you want without questioning it, you’ll end up paying for a hooker. (Too which he did, but the issue was resolved because I believe people can be forgiven for mistakes, but never forgotten.) I said something to petty and immature and this has lead him to n...

Hey everyone. Thanks for the advice in my first post. Original Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gsjjba/letting_men_pay/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share I wanna start by saying that my date went really well! I was pretty nervous since it was my first time doing this, but all I can say is thank goodness for alcohol lol. He was really sweet and very accommodating of my nerves and we had a really nice meal and conversation. I actually brought up the topic of paying for the date and what his thoughts were. I even showed him this thread haha. His opinion was that he really liked getting to pay for his date because it made him feel confident and likes to spoil his date. He said in his experience his dates have either not let him pay in full or have expected him to do it. He said his ideal is the woman being capable and willing to pay for herself but happy to let him cover it, which in turn makes him happy. I let him pay for dinner like he wanted but I secr...

A few days ago I was just surfing through the Internet on my phone until I suddenly thought of an old crush of mine from six years ago. In hopes of reaching out to him and wanting to see how he was doing in life, I searched him up on google to try and find any of his social media. Instead, what came up was his obituary. I was shocked and saddened. I think I was in denial of it too at first because I just didn’t want to believe it. I started crying and couldn’t sleep properly that night. He died about 2 and 1/2 years ago and I didn’t even know. I wanted closure on this, so I of course did the mentally- healthy thing and talked to a close relative about it, and so did feel better when I did, but for some reason, I still haven’t been able to get this off of mine. Him and I weren’t close or anything, but we did have a few small talks here and there. He used to call me “Rue” because to him, I looked like the little girl from Hunger Games. Plus, I hadn’t seen or spoken to him since 2014. I ...

I like a guy, I don't know him that well but we have good chemistry and I could see us in a relationship, I really like his mind . But lately he says he is busy and kind of ignores me. At the same time I am thinking about my best friend as.... more than friends, I have been thinking about it for a long time but never acted on it. I feel I'm sometimes crushing on my friend and sometimes it's just a very strong friendship. I don't know what to do. (I haven't even kiss any of them, I want to make a choice and then go for it) Any advice? Submitted May 30, 2020 at 11:48PM I like a guy, I don't know him that well but we have good chemistry and I could see us in a relationship, I really like his mind . But lately he says he is busy and kind of ignores me. At the same time I am thinking about my best friend as.... more than friends, I have been thinking about it for a long time but never acted on it. I feel I'm sometimes crushing on my friend and sometimes it...

So, I'm (f22) feeling really confused right now. I'm texting with one guy (25) on Instagram, we meet on an online app. We quite like each other, we spoke a little bit on the phone, but mostly texting. We also agreed that we want to meet up when he's back in town. So lately I started texting with the guy (26) from my university. I must admit I had a little crush on him since we first met. We have a group project together so that's why we speaking more now. We also had video chats with other people and all that stuff. And here is a funny thing, we were kind of flirting today and also my friend found him on tinder so I know he's single. Here's my question is it okay for me to be texting with both of this people. I'm not exclusive with the first guy we didn't even met in the first place. I really don't want to give him any hope, but also I'm not sure if the guy from my school is in any way interested in me. The thing is I was fine, and pretty sure I...

Hey everyone! I (F,22) could really use some help SMH... I’ll try to keep this post as short as possible. Who am I kidding, it's gonna be freaking long. So basically, I need your opinion/advice on what you think his (M, 18) actions say. I’m beyond confused at this point...Maybe I’m in denial? Who knows. Quick backstory: I know this guy for about 7 years now. We used to go to school together (small school, grades 7,8 & 9 put together). I had a crush on him for most of those 7 years (still do kinda). We had our ups and downs (long crazy story). Now, he never made an actual move on me and vis versa. Not that I noticed anyway? (Unless playing with my hair and childish “games” are flirting?) I’d like to say he didn’t make a move because of his age, and his home situation (he couldn’t really afford a lot and lives a few hours away). Everyone in my class knew I was into him (including the teachers LOL). A few years ago I kept asking him if he likes me back, his answer always was ”...

I’ve never had anyone be more than briefly interested in me. I’ve begun to think there’s something wrong with me, and I see nothing but evidence it’s true. I wish I could do more than just fantasize about someone actually wanting me Submitted May 30, 2020 at 11:59PM I’ve never had anyone be more than briefly interested in me. I’ve begun to think there’s something wrong with me, and I see nothing but evidence it’s true. I wish I could do more than just fantasize about someone actually wanting me

So... I don't even know where to begin. Someone help. Im an 20 year old female from the UK and I've always been 'bi-curious' so to say, and have had a slight attraction to older women. Despite the curiosity, I have never been with a woman before and have always viewed it as a fantasy of mine. However, during lockdown here in the UK on our weekly clap for the NHS I've noticed a neighbour that I've never noticed before who lives crossed the road. I assume she lives alone since she's the only one that comes out every week and would say she is in her late 40's. Anyways, that's besides the point. What I'm trying to get at is that I don't know why or how but I keep feeling this sort of force directing me towards this woman. I know it sounds crazy and at first I just thought it was a coincidence, but week in and out she would just look at me with this endearing look in her eyes smiling and not look away until I started to awkwardly giggle and then...

I’m 13 and recently started dating in my first real relationship I just asked out this girl 5 days ago she turns 13 in July and I turn 14 in june, she’s amazing and cute and super nice to me. She knows what I look like and knows about all my problems but I feel like she has a false image about my weight. I’m not morbidly obese but I’m not average either, what if we go on our date and I’m not what she imagined at all? Submitted May 31, 2020 at 12:03AM I’m 13 and recently started dating in my first real relationshipI just asked out this girl 5 days ago she turns 13 in July and I turn 14 in june, she’s amazing and cute and super nice to me. She knows what I look like and knows about all my problems but I feel like she has a false image about my weight. I’m not morbidly obese but I’m not average either, what if we go on our date and I’m not what she imagined at all?

So sorry to hear about your sister's skink. I got the ring from a seller on Taobao , I'm not sure how easy it'd be to buy from there internationally, try googling "how to buy from taobao" and your country. If it's too difficult let me know and I can help to get it - the ring itself is super cheap (~US$5) , but shipping might be 4-5 times the price. It costed me (~US$7) just to ship to HK. Still waaay worth it tho. May 31, 2020 at 12:07AM

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So awesome and that dragon is just perfect! May 30, 2020 at 11:50PM

I feel the same way and as far as I know, there isn't any real way. There might be some sort of hormonal treatment but that's a doctor question. May 30, 2020 at 11:44PM

Depends on surroundings. I just didn't treat it as coming out and it went fine. May 30, 2020 at 11:41PM

I went and looked at this and honestly i was so pissed off, if you look now someone has responded to that ass hole and I have never been happier that people are standing up to those kinds of people. May 30, 2020 at 11:39PM

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There are a whooooooooole lot of people out there who are offended by anything that is different from them. May 30, 2020 at 11:20PM

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This will be short. We both have some insecurity and jealousy issues and have some rather tight boundaries. It works for us. It’s a very long story but I knew one of her ex’s many years ago from college. I have a high level of disdain for him. It makes me sick to think she was with him. She jokes she can’t say his name around me. Anyway, we hit a rough patch recently. She confessed she thought of breaking up with me. Things seemed better recently. I happen to go on her computer to look something up on FB. She says I can look at her phone or whatever anytime so I’m not doing anything wrong. I see in her search history 2 ex bfs including the one I have big issues with and also a former “best friend “ guy. It’s in my head what her motivation is. Do I ask her about it or I’m I over reacting? Tldr - gf is looking up past ex’s. Not sure if I should ask her about it or am I over reacting. Submitted May 30, 2020 at 12:17AM This will be short. We both have some insecurity and jealousy...

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I have been seeing someone for 5 or so weeks, lots of online 'dates' due covid stuff and now a couple in person. I have noticed though that he rarely asks me questions. He seems like a nice guy but I can't figure this out. Do I bring it up? How do I bring it up? Or is it just a sign that he doesn't care to get to know me since he isn't curious? Thanks in advance... Submitted May 29, 2020 at 11:57PM I have been seeing someone for 5 or so weeks, lots of online 'dates' due covid stuff and now a couple in person. I have noticed though that he rarely asks me questions. He seems like a nice guy but I can't figure this out. Do I bring it up? How do I bring it up? Or is it just a sign that he doesn't care to get to know me since he isn't curious? Thanks in advance...

Glenn (from LA) had the opportunity to visit me for the first time after talking to each other online for almost two years. Ever since meeting online, we have been talking for hours almost everyday. He managed to spend Christmas, New Year's, and my 18th Debut with me. Being in a long distance relationship is really hard, but we are determined to stay strong. We are tested and doubted every day, but we still prove to each other that it’s worth it. That is what makes the relationship so special. Distance is just an obstacle that we both can overcome and we are truly blessed to have each other. Here is my first video how it all started : Please Like, Comment, Subscribe and share to follow our journey! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m054YkaM_Tk&t=113s ​ How would you sustain a LDR? Submitted May 30, 2020 at 12:14AM Glenn (from LA) had the opportunity to visit me for the first time after talking to each other online for almost two years. Ever since meeting online, we h...

Naw, my self esteem is fine. I can definitely get behind the doggo superhero, though. May 29, 2020 at 11:53PM

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Congrats on figuring yourself out! Love the flag. Mind if I use it as inspiration for my island flag?? May 29, 2020 at 11:46PM

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I have this shirt too! Nice! May 29, 2020 at 11:38PM

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Are these specific cities? May 29, 2020 at 11:31PM

Thanks for sharing your story! It was a nice read and I'm glad you know who you are and what you want! You do you and be happy! That's all we ever want for ourselves and others. :) May 29, 2020 at 11:21PM

Thank you! I'll be happy to hear what you think of it~ May 29, 2020 at 11:08PM

Long shot to ask - but anyone is from that neighborhood and have any recommendations for counseling? Thanks! Submitted May 29, 2020 at 11:56PM Long shot to ask - but anyone is from that neighborhood and have any recommendations for counseling? Thanks!

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Is this a thing? I am widowed and still tentative about the whole dating thing. Socially distanced dating is weird and wild. Chatting with a guy and mention that I have tattoos. He starts telling me what a bad boy vibe I have going on. Friend. I have a collection of cardigans to rival Mr Rogers and was officially declared to be Grandpa Friend at 25. My tattoos are religious and literary. I spend 20 minutes a day in prayer in meditation and only eat ethically raised meat. I can’t watch Frozen 2 without getting into Sami mythology and then similarities of pan arctic mythology and then a story about Siberian reindeer herders in the 60s and then a discussion about Stalin era law and... look, I am giant nerd. Maybe it’s a region thing? Re: social distancing, i am in a coastal metropolis and he is in the Midwest. But most people I know have a tattoo or eight. Submitted May 29, 2020 at 11:39PM Is this a thing?I am widowed and still tentative about the whole dating thing. Socially d...

36(f) I was thinking back about the last few times I felt excited about someone, sometimes it’s hard to explain. The topics we talked about were interesting but not exponentially more interesting than what I would talk about politely at a party or work event. There was some physical attraction but it wasn’t like they were a lot more attractive then average either. It’s a mixture of all these things. What was it that makes you fall head over heels for someone ? Submitted May 30, 2020 at 12:03AM 36(f) I was thinking back about the last few times I felt excited about someone, sometimes it’s hard to explain. The topics we talked about were interesting but not exponentially more interesting than what I would talk about politely at a party or work event. There was some physical attraction but it wasn’t like they were a lot more attractive then average either. It’s a mixture of all these things. What was it that makes you fall head over heels for someone ?

Hi! Me and my girlfriend have been apart for 3 months due to the lockdown protocols implemented here in my country. I really love her so much, and i really wanted to do something for her, a gift per se. I was wondering if i could get some suggestions and ideas from you on what kind of gift I could do (online, preferably) that can truly make her happy and show her how much I love her. Thanks in advance! Submitted May 28, 2020 at 11:59PM Hi! Me and my girlfriend have been apart for 3 months due to the lockdown protocols implemented here in my country. I really love her so much, and i really wanted to do something for her, a gift per se.I was wondering if i could get some suggestions and ideas from you on what kind of gift I could do (online, preferably) that can truly make her happy and show her how much I love her.Thanks in advance!

I'm legitimately curious if it's worth trying to find connections from such a large platform like reddit. Don't get me wrong. I love this place. So many crazy and wonderful people here. I know this was never meant to be any sort of dating/hookup website. Dating apps are..... not great, let's just leave it at that. I have tried a few, and nothing came from them. I work in a predominantly male industry as an auto mechanic, so I don't get to meet many females. And I absolutely despise going to bars/clubs. I have no issues talking with people IRL. I think I'm actually pretty good at communicating face-to-face. But actually meeting women/females that are single can be challenging. I'm not even talking about the whole Covid deal. My goal is to find someone I can have a relationship with. A serious relationship. I know it won't happen instantly, I'm not delusional. Medium/"small" town of around 200k population. So here's my question: is o...

I am reposting this because I didn’t really get many opinions on here, and I want to know what other people think before I ask her out. I’m planning to ask her out sometime in the near future. For context, me and this girl are friends, but I would not consider us close friends. We had a class together last Fall, we talked some in there. I ended up not taking the second class in the sequence this spring, I put it off till this Fall. So I haven’t really seen or spoken to her much this semester, as we have different schedules. Seen her 2-3 times around campus this semester, spoke once for a min or two on the way to class. Anyway, a few weeks ago I messaged her asking how many hours she had shadowing a doctor, because she’s applying to medical school and I want to too, but I haven’t started shadowing yet. That’s how the conversation started. We talk a little, I ask her what medical school she wants to go to. She says (school) and I ask her why that school, tell her I’ll need to researc...