I'm 15 and the head of my penis is very sensitive. I never knew I was supposed to pull back my foreskin to clean the head and have only recently found out since I'm pretty distant from the male side of my family. Is it weird that the head of my penis is sensitive and how do I clean it without it hurting? Submitted July 31, 2019 at 11:37PM I'm 15 and the head of my penis is very sensitive. I never knew I was supposed to pull back my foreskin to clean the head and have only recently found out since I'm pretty distant from the male side of my family. Is it weird that the head of my penis is sensitive and how do I clean it without it hurting?

Like my partner tend to talk about life and more serious stuffs than normal ahah just curious and if that’s a thing, what do you talk about ? Submitted July 31, 2019 at 11:40PM Like my partner tend to talk about life and more serious stuffs than normal ahah just curious and if that’s a thing, what do you talk about ?

I mean everyone on reddit is a virgin Submitted July 31, 2019 at 11:43PM I mean everyone on reddit is a virgin

I’ll preface this by saying that I always suspected that I have some issue hormone wise. But please let me know if this is just high sex drive. I had someone ask me this before so I’ll just add the info: I do not have PCOS (doctor checked), I am not overweight (petite and physically active), I am not depressed (have a therapist). My horniness periods do not seem to have any logical time frame with my menstrual cycle. Without any form of hormonal birth control I feel mentally healthy and normal. I’m around mid 20’s, when I was a teen I developed this very high sex drive for periods at a time and would masturbate 3-4x a day (each time reaching for multiple orgasms up to 4 times). My hair started getting greasy fast, then I had cystic painful acne etc, fast forward started taking birth control and while it did stop the greasiness and acne it killed my sex drive and made me feel horrible mentally. I felt paranoid, emotionally unstable and just shitty altogether. I took that for a few ...

Just head for you and nothing else. Submitted July 31, 2019 at 11:50PM Just head for you and nothing else.

Would you? Do you think it takes away your masculinity? Submitted July 31, 2019 at 11:56PM Would you? Do you think it takes away your masculinity?

Well I am pretty open minded and willing to try nearly anything. With my current gf we have been trying different things out and slowly been opening up about different things we'd like to try and do. It's been really a lot of fun. We are long distance right now and see each other every other weekend. We have always discussed new ideas in person until today. We are set to meet up tomorrow. So on to the dilemma: today she asked if I'd be willing to pee IN her. I told her id would be willing to try and she then started talking dirty so we didnt talk about details. I'm not against the idea, and I've considered watersports before but never tried it, but shehas never mentioned it before, but this threw me off. So my question is is this even possible. I know it's really difficult to pee when hard. So what would be a method for this to work? Also would this pose any danger to her? I feel like it would be asking for like a yeast infection or something. I dont know if...

I've always been extremely self conscious of my (F) natural scent and taste. I had seen a few comments here and there on this subreddit about how using probiotics can help with that. I didnt quite believe it but diet change didnt seem to help much. I purchased womens probiotics and WOW. It's been a WEEK and there's a huge improvement! Confidence: restored! Thank you, r/sex !!! Submitted July 31, 2019 at 11:59PM I've always been extremely self conscious of my (F) natural scent and taste. I had seen a few comments here and there on this subreddit about how using probiotics can help with that. I didnt quite believe it but diet change didnt seem to help much. I purchased womens probiotics and WOW. It's been a WEEK and there's a huge improvement! Confidence: restored! Thank you, r/sex!!!

I've noticed an interesting difference between my girlfriend and I when it comes to orgasm, and it got me curious. When I start to cum, I tend to get really sensitive, and any stimulation during the orgasm itself ruins it for me. As soon as the orgasm starts, it's almost like a switch flips where the stimulation goes from feeling incredible to feeling annoying and unpleasurable. She seems to be the complete polar opposite though - she doesn't get sensitive until after her orgasm is completely finished, and she has to have the stimulation continue all the way through her orgasm or it ends up ruining it for her....she said that if I stop too soon, her orgasm basically stops. Is this a gender difference in how males/females experience orgasm? Or is it just a "personal preference, everyone's unique" thing? I was surprised at how we both seem to get similar feelings from orgasm, but want completely different things while we're actually orgasming. Submitt...

Just something that tells us what to so and we have to follow along. She wants to try voyeurism and it'll be a good way to see if it's something she really wants to pursue. Submitted August 01, 2019 at 12:03AM Just something that tells us what to so and we have to follow along. She wants to try voyeurism and it'll be a good way to see if it's something she really wants to pursue.

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and counting. I've been so lucky to find a person that meshes so well with me both inside and outside the bedroom. We are both very sexual people and are comfortable exploring a wide variety of kinky sex. However, one of his kinks in particular really helped my self esteem: his foot fetish. Ever since I was a kid I was insecure about how my feet looked. My mom and I have identical feet and she would always talk about how ugly her feet were. Apparently it's a genetic thing since her mom had these ugly feet too (basically we have mild bunions on our big toes). Anyway, I was always insecure about them. Hated wearing sandals, never took my socks off, and buried my feet in the sand at the beach. When my boyfriend started to tell me about his foot fetish when we got together, I wasn't sure what that meant for me since I thought my feet were not attractive at all. As it turned out, he loved my feet! Told me they were cute and small and ...

This is probably going to sound perverted but I promise it’s not I just have no one else to ask. So there’s this guy that I’m going to have sex with who’s pretty experienced whereas I’m not so much. I’m kind of shy but I don’t want to be like that when we sleep together. He’s my boyfriend and we haven’t had sex yet. Anyways I don’t really know what to do exactly. I was wondering females (or gay males): what are some things that you do to your boyfriend/ hookups that you think is sexy or that they like. And males, what are some things that you find really sexy that a girl does. You can private message me or comment but please help a girl out! Submitted August 01, 2019 at 12:16AM This is probably going to sound perverted but I promise it’s not I just have no one else to ask.So there’s this guy that I’m going to have sex with who’s pretty experienced whereas I’m not so much. I’m kind of shy but I don’t want to be like that when we sleep together. He’s my boyfriend and we haven’t...

Biting through a sweet orange Satisfying my craving In my mouth it felt fucking amazing My ravenousness lead me to devour it I couldn’t enjoy it bit by bit With the bitterness i get hit So bitter that i couldn’t do anything but spit I cant even imagine it being sweet in the first place There is no proof of the sweetness in any case For it was the last bite in which i discovered What i had been eating all along How could my tastebuds do me so wrong I don’t even know if i can call it bittersweet As bitter is always stronger than sweet Submitted July 31, 2019 at 11:59PM Biting through a sweet orangeSatisfying my cravingIn my mouth it felt fucking amazingMy ravenousness lead me to devour itI couldn’t enjoy it bit by bitWith the bitterness i get hitSo bitter that i couldn’t do anything but spitI cant even imagine it being sweet in the first placeThere is no proof of the sweetness in any caseFor it was the last bite in which i discoveredWhat i had been eating all alongHow...

one day i was going to the market and i saw A beautiful girl, she looked at me and I froze. I stood there experiencing multiple feelings. I saw Which school she's from, so finding it won't be hard but the thing is, I don't know what to say when I see her again. Suggestions? Submitted August 01, 2019 at 12:02AM one day i was going to the market and i saw A beautiful girl, she looked at me and I froze. I stood there experiencing multiple feelings. I saw Which school she's from, so finding it won't be hard but the thing is, I don't know what to say when I see her again. Suggestions?

Have they considered that (at least one of them) might be aro as well as ace? Having trouble figuring out the difference between what is and isn't "just friends" sounds like it could be a sign of that. August 01, 2019 at 12:08AM

Hell yeah, a follow dnd ace August 01, 2019 at 12:06AM

I sewed a button on my pants with purple thread for ultimate stealth representation. August 01, 2019 at 12:04AM

I feel bad for what that white is gonna go through August 01, 2019 at 12:04AM

When your brother animorphs into a xylophone July 31, 2019 at 11:56PM

Fair enough. Figured I’d ask because GenCon is this weekend and usually a lot of DnD players are there. July 31, 2019 at 11:53PM

The only times I've had lucid dreams,I figured out that I had control of what I could do ( to a certain degree), but I don't think I fully realized I was in a dream. It's an interesting idea, asking my subconscious about my asexuality. Hopefully I'll remember that next time it happens. July 31, 2019 at 11:52PM

Quick backstory: I am 24 and recently had a relationship of 8 years ended. I'm a decently attractive guy, in pretty good shape and don't really have a lot of social awkwardness. That being said, I have no clue how "adult" relationships begin because I haven't had to start one since high school. So today I was walking into a Starbucks while a cute girl was walking out. She looked at me, smiled and went to her car which was right next to mine. I get my drink, walk back to my car, and she's still sitting in hers with the door open. I get in and get my music connected and my sunglasses out and blah blah blah. I glanced out my window a few times and saw that she had been looking at me. I leave, but on the way home I'm wondering if that was an open invitation to say hi or something. Again, I have 0 clue how this shit works. I was blindly loyal all 8 years of my last relationship so even getting a girl's number is a foreign concept to me. What would you du...

I’ve been using this dating app for a while. & while most guys know how to keep the conversation going there’s a few that are just questionable. They ask me for my IG, my Snapchat & my number. We talk for a day or two, suddenly they disappear? They talk big game the first day or two we’re talking & then next day. No sign of them. Then we never talk again. So now I have a bunch of guys following me on Snapchat & Instagram & that have my number but never hit me up & just watch my Snapchat stories or IG stories. I think this is some bullshit and I really want to block all the ones who essentially ghosted me but keep me on social media. What should I do? Am I being childish? Submitted August 01, 2019 at 12:01AM I’ve been using this dating app for a while. & while most guys know how to keep the conversation going there’s a few that are just questionable. They ask me for my IG, my Snapchat & my number. We talk for a day or two, suddenly they disappear?...

What unique interest or hobby would you like to have in common with a partner? Not a dealbreaker, just something that would be so great to nerd out about. Submitted July 30, 2019 at 11:57PM What unique interest or hobby would you like to have in common with a partner? Not a dealbreaker, just something that would be so great to nerd out about.

... Glad it's sattire July 31, 2019 at 12:18AM

Very true no one should repost anything without first verifying and providing the relevant sources. July 31, 2019 at 12:17AM

Yes, I agree, it’s complicated. The flip side is that I feel these sorts of posts are very susceptible to spreading hoaxes and “fake news” (forgive the loaded term)... often they have no actual references/verification, and such posts could serve to whip up hysteria about something that may not have even occurred. Like I said, perhaps I’m too cynical. I truly do want to help out and spread awareness for real problems, and I agree that social media can help get the attention of the actual media in important ways, but I don’t want to be naive about these sorts of posts and fall right into some troll playbook. July 31, 2019 at 12:16AM

These are so cool! I hope one day I'll be in one :D July 31, 2019 at 12:14AM

I have been on a few dates with a new guy that I met on a dating app. We've met up and had sex twice now and both times I've experienced some mechanical errors I believe due to the fact that he's a little bigger than I'm used to and it's been a while since I've had sex. We're meeting up again tomorrow and I want to use lube but I'm not sure how to bring it up. I know I could just ask him if we can use it but I'd rather do it in a sort of sexy way. Any suggestions? Submitted July 30, 2019 at 11:30PM I have been on a few dates with a new guy that I met on a dating app.We've met up and had sex twice now and both times I've experienced some mechanical errors I believe due to the fact that he's a little bigger than I'm used to and it's been a while since I've had sex.We're meeting up again tomorrow and I want to use lube but I'm not sure how to bring it up. I know I could just ask him if we can use it but I'd r...

We’ve had sex a couple times when we were drunk and because of all the alcohol I consumed I never was wet enough (was very into it though) and the condom ended up chaffing my vagina very badly last time. It’s still chaffed a day later and I’m supposed to go to his house tmrw and meet up with him in the city but idk if I will be able to have sex by tmrw without a lot of pain? How should I communicate this I’m super embarrassed. I still want to see him but it’s very much a sex based relationship, but he is a really nice guy. Submitted July 30, 2019 at 11:31PM We’ve had sex a couple times when we were drunk and because of all the alcohol I consumed I never was wet enough (was very into it though) and the condom ended up chaffing my vagina very badly last time. It’s still chaffed a day later and I’m supposed to go to his house tmrw and meet up with him in the city but idk if I will be able to have sex by tmrw without a lot of pain? How should I communicate this I’m super embarrassed...

Me (20) and my girlfriend (19) have been dating now for 3-4 months and have a healthy amount of sex, the sex is always amazing so don’t get me wrong but I almost always eat her out and I can probably count on one hand how many times she’s given me head. She’s amazing and it I’ve made sure to reiterate that to her but I feel like she just never does it and I would love if she did more Submitted July 30, 2019 at 11:36PM Me (20) and my girlfriend (19) have been dating now for 3-4 months and have a healthy amount of sex, the sex is always amazing so don’t get me wrong but I almost always eat her out and I can probably count on one hand how many times she’s given me head. She’s amazing and it I’ve made sure to reiterate that to her but I feel like she just never does it and I would love if she did more

My girlfriend is slim and has incredible natural big tits. I'm not sure if I'll ever meet a girl with such an amazing chest again, and I don't think we will be dating for much longer sadly. How can I enjoy them to the highest extent so I dont regret it in the future? I always suck on her nipples when I can, and I have fucked them a couple times while she was laying down but didnt enjoy it as much because she didnt really hold them in place. I've thought about fucking them while shes wearing a sports bra, any other advice? thanks. TLDR: want advice on what to do with girlfriend with amazing big boobs before its too late. any activities edit: we are mutually ending it because we are moving across the globe from each other. smh. i asked a question about sex, not to be judged Submitted July 30, 2019 at 11:44PM My girlfriend is slim and has incredible natural big tits. I'm not sure if I'll ever meet a girl with such an amazing chest again, and I don'...

I'm writing this post after yet another disappointing attempt at an anal session. I've been dabbling in anal for years now. First with some fingers, then a prostate massager (was never able to have a prostate orgasm either), and now a dildo. Nothing really seems to work for me though! No matter how many times I use an enema or how much lube I put on the inside and outside of my asshole, no matter how slow or fast I go, it always ends up hurting like I still don't have enough lube and my toys come out with more poop on them then I'm willing to tolerate. I definitely want to be able to enjoy anal and obviously I'm into it since I keep coming back after so many failed attempts, but I really need some advice on how to actually get to a point where I can enjoy it and not just worried about hygiene and pain and leaking and all that other bullshit that comes along with it. I'm very frustrated right now and tempted to just toss all my expensive butt toys and consider ...

I’ve never done one before (we’ve been together 7 years) because I didn’t think he would appreciate it. I also have very low self confidence. But this past weekend, we went out to a bar and they started playing reggaeton.. he was sitting down and I basically gave him a lap dance at the bar. So I figured if I could do it then, I could do it this weekend. He wants to take a romantic bath once we get settled in to the hotel. I realized that this would be the perfect opportunity. Instead of changing into PJs after the bath, I would change into some lingerie. But I have a couple of questions: 1) I’m deciding on what to wear on top of the lingerie. Do I have to wear anything? I was just thinking of wearing a sexy robe with the set and giving him a lap dance with the lingerie. Removing pieces as I go? 2) How would I transition from lap dance to sex? 3) What would your ideal strip tease from your SO be like? 4) Have you ever received one, and if so, how did it go? Any moves that stuck ou...

We will try it with my gf tomorrow how is it is it gross? Also would you guys suggest some positions for shower? Submitted July 30, 2019 at 11:54PM We will try it with my gf tomorrow how is it is it gross? Also would you guys suggest some positions for shower?

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I know it sounds crazy, but it’s really not far from the truth at all. You all are probably going to say “go in the bathroom and lock it” - we have one bathroom upstairs, and it’s a bathroom that connects the master bedroom and our kid’s room. We have it set up where we can lock it from the inside to where she can’t get in, but the other door locks from inside the bedroom, so there isn’t a way to lock it from inside. The shower? I hate jerking off in the shower, I can pretty much never get off, and even if I could, it really isn’t enjoyable. Basement? One side is the laundry room, which the wife is always in and out of, plus the child is always going down there doing art projects. The other side of the basement is wide open with no privacy. There is a bathroom downstairs, but it’s a fucking dungeon to the extent that the WiFi hardly works so it’s impossible to watch porn. Living room and dining room is obviously a no-go, unless it’s really late at night, but I’m always in bed by then....

And I feel really good about it. I’ve always been very self conscious of my looks. My body. I was made fun of when I was younger for being too curvy. Too pale. I’m in shape but I’m not the typical skinny. I’m curvy. I think I always will be. I’ve done intense diets. I compare myself to the skinnier women. I put on some sexy lingerie this morning and decided to take some photos of myself. And it turned me on a lot. I felt so sexy. I looked at the pictures after and got off to them. I felt like I was being self absorbed but then I realized that I’ve never felt so confident in my life. It’s taken me a long time to get to this point and I feel pretty amazing about it. Submitted July 31, 2019 at 12:12AM And I feel really good about it.I’ve always been very self conscious of my looks. My body. I was made fun of when I was younger for being too curvy. Too pale.I’m in shape but I’m not the typical skinny. I’m curvy. I think I always will be. I’ve done intense diets. I compare myself...

I officially got divorced last December after having been separated for 5 years. No reason for the wait, Literally hadn't spoke to my ex for ages. I have no feelings toward him at this point, just indifference. Our lives have nothing to do with each other now, and haven't for a really long time. Being married left a bad taste in my mouth and I swore I'd never do it again. I'm in a relationship now. It's different from anything I've ever experienced. I can see a future with us so clearly. All of our friends and family tell both of us that they've never seen us so happy. My people say I'm glowing. I met the person who is changing everything for me. I honestly didn't think I'd find this kind of happiness and love - whatever I felt for my ex, I know love wasn't it. I love everything about my boyfriend. The connection we have, the conversations. I love doing everything and nothing with him. He brings such a sense of calm and home to my life tha...

Sometimes when I look at your social media it just turns me on. You’re so damn attractive it even makes me smile. I get a little excited just by looking at your face. You’re so hot and wayyy out of my league but I’d kill to get a guy like you. I don’t understand how you’re still single when literally every girl out there is begging for you. I can only hope one day our paths will cross and we will meet again. But until then, I’ll be waiting for you and hope we can become friends. Submitted July 30, 2019 at 11:57PM Sometimes when I look at your social media it just turns me on. You’re so damn attractive it even makes me smile. I get a little excited just by looking at your face.You’re so hot and wayyy out of my league but I’d kill to get a guy like you. I don’t understand how you’re still single when literally every girl out there is begging for you.I can only hope one day our paths will cross and we will meet again. But until then, I’ll be waiting for you and hope we can become...

❤️Please h Submitted July 31, 2019 at 12:03AM ❤️Please h

My wife and I have been married going on three years and I love her dearly. She is headstrong and independent and the most determined person I’ve ever met, and these are qualities I love her for and fell in love with her over. That said, there are times where she has decided I’ve done wrong, or that I’ve been thoughtless, and it’s unforgivable. She explodes at me in total frustration because she can’t believe how I could’ve done something so thoughtless, or how I could offend her so terribly if I truly love her. Case in point, she’s a graphic designer. Not the type who casually picked up the adobe suite and plays with it for side cash, she has a BFA and works on a prestigious design team. She regularly does logo work for freelance cash on the side and has been refreshing her portfolio lately. Today she was joking that a logo she was doing looked like a penis and how unfortunate it was that most of the designs she was working on for this particular project easily became phallic in nat...

God, I wish that's how my mom/dad/anyone in my family saw it. That'd be a lot less damaging. The rest is accurate though. July 31, 2019 at 12:07AM

Bro Russia has literally ALWAYS been homophobic and racist... their laws against domestic violence suck, where were u and what woke u up?? July 31, 2019 at 12:05AM

I was on one of these dating sites yesterday, saw a girls profile with similar interests so I figure I’d hit her up. To my surprise she responded and we started chatting, even going as far as getting my first number 🎉 We text some more that day and today, making arrangements for a date. We were talking about some of our interests and out of nowhere I’m hit with a “do I like curvy latinas” and I had a sinking feeling in my stomach. I’m not a ‘normal’ guy in any sense. I’m not very sexual, I’m in my mid 20s but dating/companionship and sex just isn’t a priority. I’m also probably leaning towards feminist. Oh and I have desires to be a woman. 🤷‍♀️ There wasn’t anything wrong with her appearance, but the focus on her body before even meeting her just turned me off completely. I get the whole insecurities thing, my childhood was filled with verbal abuse from family about my appearance and it’s left a deep seeded chip on my shoulder. I don’t put a weight on appearances, I struggle with...

I'm (M25) She's (F31) We're both too broke to go on a datedate, so we decided it's best to just kick it at her place and drink. Idea's so far: Chillin & Talking Netflix Monopoly? Lol Usually I don't even think about it, cuz I'm pretty decent at improv and just figuring things out as I go, but I really like this chick and obviously want to make a good first impression and avoid any awkward luls in entertainment. So does anyone have any ideas/recommendations? Any help appreciated! Submitted July 30, 2019 at 11:44PM I'm (M25) She's (F31)We're both too broke to go on a datedate, so we decided it's best to just kick it at her place and drink.Idea's so far:Chillin & TalkingNetflixMonopoly? LolUsually I don't even think about it, cuz I'm pretty decent at improv and just figuring things out as I go, but I really like this chick and obviously want to make a good first impression and avoid any awkward luls in ...

16-aroace July 29, 2019 at 11:57PM

So much multiclassing. Here I am playing as a single class fighter. I'm boring in comparison. July 29, 2019 at 11:55PM

I call myself ace hero because I am hetero romantic asexual. (Jk I just wanted to make a joke 😂 really do identify as ace hetero romantic tho) July 29, 2019 at 11:54PM

All y'all valid. July 29, 2019 at 11:53PM

I'm pretty sure my father was homoromantic heterosexual. He... Lived a conflicted life. I had a grand aunt who was aro ace. She was fine with it. She was not fine with our family pitying her and telling her how she let her suitor go (the guy later became mayor of her home town). I don't have to deal with this bullshit as a heteroromantic heterosexual. I'm lucky this way. July 29, 2019 at 11:53PM

Obviously, I'm dumb. I've been struggling with a slew of mental issues, including Borderline Personality Disorder, which I know can ruin interpersonal relationships. That's just some background on me, and berating me wont do anything. I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. We live together in my mother's house (she's moved out) and have 2 dogs together. We aren't married, but I've told him since we started dating that I wanted to be. I reached out to an ex recently, because I was looking for attention. We both still have feelings for each other, but he has since moved cross country and isnt in a good place for a relationship. He was in town this past weekend though. I broke up with my boyfriend. Not only for my ex, but for myself too. I was feeling ignored and trapped in the relationship. We dont do anything together, and he frequently ignores me for his other interests. I've really fallen out of love with this boy, though it kills me to say...

Hey everyone, Around a couple weeks ago, I met this beautiful and amazing woman and I started talking to her. We bonded.. and VERY QUICKLY. I'm talking about we'd be on the phone everyday after work, watch videos together, talking about us as a relationship, meeting her parents/mine, etc. The whole package! She told me she never got that happy with someone else and never felt so synced with someone else. So we decided to meet up, and we did. She doesn't live too far away from me (1h30-2h00 car trip) so I drove to see her and it was great the first night.. we slept together and it was passionate. However, the next day.. she was feeling odd.. I felt some weird vibes coming off her as if I fucked up or did something wrong or anything.. so I played it off cool, but I felt like she wasn't really feeling it anymore. Anyways, I drove back to my place later that night and she started sending me texts saying stuff like thanking me for coming down to visit her, that I am the m...

Very long story short: have been dating my long distance bf for over a year. We talked/hooked up for a year prior to becoming official. A few weeks before we did become official he“ dated” a girl for a few weeks. Possibly to spite me at the time, i didnt want to be exclusive and long distance at the time. Fast forward a year: we were hanging out and I saw that he was dming her on insta. Caved and read it. He was very friendly but not flirty. Confronted him, he apologized, was doing it to annoy her. Still, this made her even more uncomfortable subject. Soon after this drama, one of his best friends started becoming extremely close with this girl... Now i just found out that shes moving in with her next month. So a lot of the time he hangs out with her, this girl will be there. Not sure if theres anything i can do about this, and i dont know if i want to spend my senior year of college stressing out about my bf having fun with these girls while im working.... they have hung out in group...

My (28 F) ex-boyfriend (31 M) broke up with me this past weekend. He found out last week that he did not get the job that he had been wanting so badly and spent over half a year going through interviews, evals, and background check. He doesn’t like his current job and this new job would have been his way towards a different career path. When he told me about the denial over video call, I was in shock and I knew that this would really affect him. I recall saying that I was really sorry this happened, and then he said he wanted to go for a run. I wouldn’t be seeing him in person until a couple days later. The next day, I called him and updated him about my day, but I wasn’t sure if he wanted to talk about it yet. I was afraid to ask as I know how devastating this was to him. When I did see him in person, we were talking about other things that we would normally talk about e.g. music, what’s for dinner, should we run later. The topic was lingering in my mind, but his mood seemed a bit be...

My friend (who has been my mentor for the last three years) introduced me to her brother janurary last, and we hit it off and oops... fast forward: I'm in love with him and also his fiancé. The bisexual panic is real but sure, fine. We are all friends, so I fantasise about them, who cares? But if only. They're both so conspiratorial and my relationship with this couple is flirtier all the time. Example: they were staying at my place when they were in town and I said goodnight at the door. "Won't you stay?" She asked, pulling back the covers. It's PG, I tell myself. Sleepover club tame. And I so want to. I slipped in next to her, to them. Sleeping and touching as politely as three horizontal adults can in a bed of sexual tension. We haven't spent a night in the same house in separate beds since. Whole weekends of spooning and "my morning wood doesn't bother you, does it?" I still believed that I was imagining more than half of it. Build...

I started seeing a woman on Tinder earlier this month. We both say it’s a casual relationship but it seems to have gotten more serious. every time we see each other, we have sex. She texts me everyday and on Monday we talked on the phone for five hours. I didn’t take her seriously because she’s 19 and not socially conscious so I never saw this relationship evolving but the more I talk to her the more I grow attached to her. In mid-June, a woman on tinder asked me for my number and I have it to her and she just NOW texted me. She’s definitely looking for something casual and while I’m attracted to her and curious it almost feels like cheating. I don’t know if me and the 19 year old will last but I’m willing to see where it takes me. I’m having fun with her right now and don’t want to mess it up by sleeping with someone else. Should I go out with the woman who just texted me, should I ignore her or should I tell her I’m dating someone else right now and maybe we could talk in the fu...

We’ve been living together in a fraternity house for about a year now. He stays up to ungodly hours of the night smoking weed and playing video games, his diet consists only of fast food, and he showers once every few months (that is not an exaggeration at all). Literally the last time he showered was the end of May and it is now the end of July. You can tell because his hair is so greasy that it looks gelled and when he showers, it looks like normal hair. He’s also pretty mean and not great company, beyond being gross and smelly. He doesn’t clean up after himself ever and is very argumentative. To be fair, I would be angry all the time too if I hadn’t showered in two months and I was probably malnourished and dehydrated. It got so bad that all my roommates (house of 5) ostracized him all last year. He can be unshowered all he wants, we just don’t want to be around that. But I’m a little worried about him. He doesn’t really have any friends, he’s graduated and doesn’t have any job...

I don't even know what advice I'm searching for. I just need to let my feelings out. My ex boyfriend (wow, saying that hurts lol) (22M) and I (20F) had been dating for a while. On the ending of our relationship, last December, he told me he wanted to seriously persue his dream of becoming a gymnast (which I always supported him on), and that he wouldn't have the time he wanted to give to our relationship. I was devastated. We had agreed on not talking for a period of two weeks in which I was going away on vacations, and then meeting again over cake. I spoke to him. The whole vacations. Because I was just devasted. At one point he got a bit mad because I wasn't respecting what we had agreed on. And he was right. I felt really badly for having become something so desperate that couldn't respect his space. I apologized and told him I wouldnt speak to him till the day we were going to grab cake, and that we could even not meet. Two days later he spoke to me, soundin...