When people tell me they want kids, I'm just gonna start saying "you'll change your mind" so they know how infuriating it is. November 30, 2021 at 11:03PM

Luckily my brothers both had kids and are both on their second round. My parents are fine with me never wanting kids, especially because they agree that the world is too messed up November 30, 2021 at 11:02PM

So, we're at a milestone, and I'm so, so glad. We've been through everything, even losing a child together (FYI I do not recommend eclampsia-bp goes up, mum goes to the er!) I'm intending on ordering sushi, giving him as much beer as he wants and the kids are at my (beloved) MIL for the night. He's a very vanilla kind of man, but I would love some ideas to knock it out of the park for our anniversary! Pertinent info- he's had a vasectomy, so no worries. Anal is good for him to give but he doesn't want to receive. I'm a little overweight- chubby, not obese. Honestly, it doesn't even need to be sex, even pleasant seduction and foreplay ideas would be grand. I know there's tons out there we haven't tried! Hoping for new ideas to make my sweet man happy. Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:29AM So, we're at a milestone, and I'm so, so glad. We've been through everything, even losing a child together (FYI I do not recommend ecl...

TW: sexual abuse This is a really long post, but I need help. I was groomed by my stepfather. He only ever did light touching, but he made sexual comments about me and my body and told me his preferences, made comments like he wished he was my age so he could date me, etc. I am very sensitive surrounding consent. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and consent has been an ongoing issue, but there are things that I think are common sense. There are 2 things that really bothered me. The first, is we had been sexting and I asked him to come over, but I fell asleep. He began taking my clothes off in my sleep, and I was half awake just trying to cuddle, before I woke up and told him to stop. We discussed it (it happened 2 months ago) and I asked “other than our conversation 30 minutes prior, what was I doing in that moment to make you think I was enthusiastically consenting?” He mentioned cuddling and I reminded him that cuddling doesn’t equal sexual consent. And Then I ...

I wondering for quite a while, and I fought this subreddit would give me a good answer. Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:53AM I wondering for quite a while, and I fought this subreddit would give me a good answer.

Context: Me (M25) and my wife (F25) have been together for a little over 2 years. She is introverted and I’m a mix but mostly extroverted. I have had many (20+) sexual partners and I think she has only been with like less than 10. So to the point our sex life is slow already we have sex like 2-3 times a month. When we do it’s either her on top and then missionary, missionary then doggy, or just straight up missionary only. I am a very open person and have been trying to figure out what exactly like she’s into or that she likes (tried asking what she likes and she deflected with “idk whatever you like”). She says she likes choking but I think she only says that cause it’s like the go to “norm” and I would to do more and improve out sex life. I enjoy literally just pleasing her like I love just anything that involves her having a good time. We don’t have a problem with orgasms it’s every time for the both of us. But I want to give more and push past our limits in a sense. But I just fe...

I’ve posted about this before but I want more peoples opinions on it. I can only masterbate by squeezing my penis between my thighs while laying on my side. I’ve been doing it like this for about 5 years. I’ve never came from actually “jerking off.” Jerking off feels good but I use it more as a foreplay before I actually finish off with my legs. I’ve recently been scared that whenever I have sex with someone I won’t be able to cum because I’ve become so acquainted with this way of masterbating. People have told me that I have something called “death grip.” Basically I need advice on how to get rid of it. I keep trying to stop masterbating but the urges are too strong sometimes. I’m scared, what should I do? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:58AM I’ve posted about this before but I want more peoples opinions on it. I can only masterbate by squeezing my penis between my thighs while laying on my side. I’ve been doing it like this for about 5 years. I’ve never came from actually “...

This post was inspired by another, I wanted to ask what or how is the preferred way to cold approach a girl out in public not at a typical bar setting? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:05AM This post was inspired by another, I wanted to ask what or how is the preferred way to cold approach a girl out in public not at a typical bar setting?

Curious to see the answers Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:07AM Curious to see the answers

I’m m18 and I wondered if being skinny fat would be a dealbreaker for a next date. I mean a girl would firstly see it in the bedroom if you know what I mean. Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:08AM I’m m18 and I wondered if being skinny fat would be a dealbreaker for a next date. I mean a girl would firstly see it in the bedroom if you know what I mean.

How often you all contact your love interest in the early stages of a potential relationship? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:12AM How often you all contact your love interest in the early stages of a potential relationship?

I take the train everyday and sometimes i'm zoning out while avoiding to look at people because it's easy to creep girls out in the train. But sometimes girls glance at me more then once probably because they think i'm looking at them when they are in my peripheral vision or when my body is facing them. I never really look back because i don't want to be creepy. I'm a bit anxious about awkward eye contact, would it be creepy to look at them when they do that? Could it be that they find me weird for zoning out and avoiding looking at them or should i assume interest? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:14AM I take the train everyday and sometimes i'm zoning out while avoiding to look at people because it's easy to creep girls out in the train. But sometimes girls glance at me more then once probably because they think i'm looking at them when they are in my peripheral vision or when my body is facing them. I never really look back because i don'...

Has this ever happened to anyone? I’ve gone a couple of dates with someone who seems like he really wants companionship and I just happen to be into him so he’s happy someone’s into him. Has this ever happened to anyone? He’s pretty inexperienced. I feel like I’m the only woman whose ever given him sustained attention and that’s why he’s into me. What should I do? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:14AM Has this ever happened to anyone? I’ve gone a couple of dates with someone who seems like he really wants companionship and I just happen to be into him so he’s happy someone’s into him. Has this ever happened to anyone? He’s pretty inexperienced. I feel like I’m the only woman whose ever given him sustained attention and that’s why he’s into me. What should I do?

I'm sure this is a very popular question on this sub, bit I feel like I need to talk about my expiernce. I recently started dating again for the first time in about 4 years. The reason why I stopped dating and having relationships is because I was tired of being ghosted and used, so I wanted to enjoy some solitude and focus on myself. This guy (the one I think is currently ghosting me) and I have been flirting for a while. We work together, but not for the same company, just on the same project. Plenty of banter, fun conversations, laughs and just all round good times, on or off the clock. Before the project really started to ramp up, he would take some time our of his day to come over and talk for a while. It was awesome, and our friendship grew to the point where we could talk about our histories. After the project was in full swing, he became much busier and I was moved to another location, which was totally expected and properly accepted. About 3 weeks ago, I was having a r...

Good to know I'm not the only one who says coolio sometimes November 30, 2021 at 10:57PM

My parents would periodically bother me about giving them grandkids, and whenever I argued with them about it, they’d always say “Oh, you’ll change your mind.” My genetics are complete trash, I am ace and trans, and I don’t want to contribute to an overpopulation problem. And besides, either way, it’s my and my partner’s choice, not my parents. November 30, 2021 at 10:53PM

I'm OK, I disowned my bio dad when I was 16 (I'm 35 now), and the last time I spoke to him was at my grandmas, his moms funeral. I recently reconnected with one of my cousins on that side of the fam, and when his brother and sister died they tried to contact him for the funeral but it was like he dropped off tge face of the earth. He doesn't even know he's a grandpa, but my son knows about him and has no desire to know him. I've told my son that if once he's older that if that changes I'll support him, but right now I don't think knowing him is in his best interest. My moms parents are toxic, and I had to see for myself to truely decide if I wanted them in or out. I'm not gonna take that choice and judgement call away from him, it's just as an 11 yr old the time for that isn't now. My mom I've tried to go nc, only for her to file false cps reports, false police reports, and false missing persons reports. Thank all that is holy that she d...

That was really well said. Sry to hear about your crazy parents. Hope it’s going okay amigo _^ November 30, 2021 at 10:29PM

I can't wait to read that book! It has been on my tbr for months. November 30, 2021 at 10:24PM

It looks so good 🤤 It makes me hungry now, but it's 11 pm 😭 November 30, 2021 at 10:16PM

Repost because this got deleted and I wasn’t able to see the comments but I really want some answers! My husband and I have been married for a few months now and my husband has a very high sex drive and so do I, the only difference is that I was a virgin before marriage and he was previously married. I am 22 and he is 33, and I am just curious if this is a common drive for men this age and also is it common for couples do be intimate this often? We are having sex atleast 6 times a day up to 10 but sometimes even more especially on the weekends when he’s off from work. He also lasts forever so in total this is taking 5-7 hours out of my day (not none stop sex but if I add it up) and I’m not complaining at all, I love my husband so much and I love having sex with him he’s an amazing lover and always puts my pleasure first but I feel like it’s so much and we might get bored quickly, I am also worried that having this much sex daily will lead to a steady decline in the future, this true a...

The pain started yesterday and I had sex Friday night, it was a one night stand and I’ve had burning pain ever since. Not when I pee it’s on the vagina. He used a condom but one time his penis touched the outside of my vulva. I wasn’t that into it so I wasn’t that lubricated. Could it be an STI? Do they manifest that quickly? I’ve had this pain before but it was because of the friction and caused a yeast infection but I’m scared it might be and STI. I don’t have any physical symptoms. But is it normal to have symptoms so fast? Why does it hurt inside if I used a condom? Could i get infected just by touching the outside a little bit? Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:27AM The pain started yesterday and I had sex Friday night, it was a one night stand and I’ve had burning pain ever since. Not when I pee it’s on the vagina. He used a condom but one time his penis touched the outside of my vulva. I wasn’t that into it so I wasn’t that lubricated. Could it be an STI? Do they manifest...

Ok so idk if this is the right place but it’s sexual so why not. So the FB (24F) and I(28m) are on vacation and have taken/taking pics that we are considering sharing on Reddit. We don’t think gonewildcouples is the place for us because the pics are more on the mild side and don’t show anything too explicit. We don’t think gonemild works either because thats more for individuals posting there own pics. Does anyone have any good Reddit’s/subreddits for us. And please don’t message/chat saying “you can send them to me” because were not interested. Especially to some creepy dudes haha. Let us know!! Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:36AM Ok so idk if this is the right place but it’s sexual so why not. So the FB (24F) and I(28m) are on vacation and have taken/taking pics that we are considering sharing on Reddit. We don’t think gonewildcouples is the place for us because the pics are more on the mild side and don’t show anything too explicit. We don’t think gonemild works either bec...

My boyfriend (28m) and I (26F) have been together for 2 years and we live together. The relationship has always been very healthy and he treats me extremely well. There’s one thing I feel a little confused about though, and I’d appreciate some feedback on it. It’s a delicate subject and I’m not sure how to handle it. Whenever he uses the shower, he’s in the bathroom for about 45 minutes. One time, he forgot to clear the history from our shared iPad, and I can tell from that what he’s doing in there. He looks at images on NSFW subs and I’m assuming, with a good amount of evidence to support my theory, that he gets turned on and then jerks off in the shower. He does this about 6 times a week and I’m usually home. With that being said, we’re also having sex about 4 times a week, and our sex life is great. I don’t believe that pornography or masturbation are bad. I am surprised by how frequently he’s doing it, but our sex life isn’t suffering, so I’m trying to remind myself that this i...

I’m (49m) have anxiety, am overly emotional, and require a lot of reassurance from who I’m seeing. My ex (42f) was unemotional and aloof but said she loved me, we were together for a year. Our relationship had troubles, mostly due to her being best friends with her ex. I was skeptical of their friendship but I never asked her to stop hanging out. I did ask that they stop sharing a bed and I didn’t like them traveling together but there were provisions made that I could accept. Her ex was manipulative and controlling but she could never see it because of the guilt she felt over how they ended. In the end, she broke our plans a few weeks in a row for her ex, the last time to take her to the hospital. I was sad and not supportive enough though we had just talked about breaking plans being huge to me, she said I wasn’t worth the trouble, and ended our relationship. She decided to break up with me that morning, but continued to use my vehicle, lie to me and lead me on all day. She then ask...

hi reddit, my (24f) ex boyfriend reached out to me a couple days ago and i am having trouble letting it go. he texted me on thanksgiving a photo of us saying he was thinking of me and hoped i had a good day- i responded “you too.” a few days later, he texted me and said he hasn’t been able to stop thinking of me and misses me a lot. we ended up chatting and he told me he’s still in love with me. i called him to which he showed me he kept most of my things: clothes, letters, paintings. he kept and hung up gifts i gave him which was apparent by how his apartment looked. he told me he hasn’t been stable financially and is considering moving out of state. he wants to see me before he goes to see if there’s still that connection. we live four hours apart now. he also told me he’s been considering for a few months to move where i am. he then proceeded to tell me he had sex with a pornstar, and that he’s friends with his ex before me. which is news to me because they weren’t friends whi...

(Excuse my lonely late night ramblings) I am 24(F), straight, quite tall (5'9"/175cm), average body shape (a few extra pounds here and there) and objectively good-looking. I would be described as sociable, chill, very thoughtful and an overtly friendly person. I have a large amount of both M and F friends (majority female, but some close male friends also). I have not had a relationship in 5 years, only 2-3 dates that didn't go anywhere. I've not been approached by any guys at all who have shown an interest and never been asked on a date (the 2-3 dates were from dating apps in which I initiated meeting). Obviously it can be difficult to know as the reasoning can be very personal, but in general what reasons have you found for just not attracting any attention from potential daters? TIA Submitted November 29, 2021 at 11:54PM (Excuse my lonely late night ramblings)I am 24(F), straight, quite tall (5'9"/175cm), average body shape (a few extra pounds he...

Hi, 23M here. I found a girl (20F) on Instagram in a totally random way, I liked the way she looks so I followed her. Then she followed me back so maybe that's a sign. 😂 The big problem now is how do I actually start a conversation with a girl without being creepy or something? The easiest method is to react with something at a selfie that's posted on the Instagram stories (when she will post this) and then I can write something like hi, how are you/wyd/how was your but Idk if it's a good thing because I may seem boring from the first message. Any better ideas? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 11:55PM Hi, 23M here. I found a girl (20F) on Instagram in a totally random way, I liked the way she looks so I followed her. Then she followed me back so maybe that's a sign. 😂 The big problem now is how do I actually start a conversation with a girl without being creepy or something? The easiest method is to react with something at a selfie that's posted on the Instag...

There's a girl at work I like so I wanna introduce myself. But shit, I see her few times during shift and we're at different positions, so idk how to initiate conversation. I said I'm gonna do it today (Monday) but choked. I need to act now. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 11:56PM There's a girl at work I like so I wanna introduce myself. But shit, I see her few times during shift and we're at different positions, so idk how to initiate conversation.I said I'm gonna do it today (Monday) but choked. I need to act now.

Ok so i have been kind of freaking out over this since last night bc i would have never expected this shit to happen. I (20M) have a personal Instagram account with less than 20 followers consisting of close friends/cool people and i have been posting my gym progress on there. Like me doing heavy squats and deadlifts looking strong af and this girl (19F) replies to one of my posts saying "i want to be strong like you". Immediately i was like wtf. Bc this girl is actually really hot and i never thought i would have a chance. So we keep texting back and forth and im testing the waters to see if she wants me as a personal trainer or if she is interested in a little more lol. Keep in mind she texted me at like 1am which is why i was more surprised. Eventually i tell her "lets workout together" and she replies very enthusiastically telling me she's down af. So now im FREAKING OUT BC WTF. This just doesnt happen to me and now im anxious af lmao. I guess girls notice ...

I done fucked up my dudes and i dont know what to do. So a girl i have been FWB for a couple weeks now is supportive of my theatre shows i’m in and will come to the plays. But before i could put the dots together and realise they will see each other im now seeing one of the girls that i do the show with and have been for like 2 weeks….however my relationship is better with the first girl.😂 I feel like i should tell the girl i do shows with but i dont want her to hate me or to make it hella awkward. They both know im not looking for a relationship because i just came out of 2 serious ones so im just doing my thing😅 HELP!😫 Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:07AM I done fucked up my dudes and i dont know what to do. So a girl i have been FWB for a couple weeks now is supportive of my theatre shows i’m in and will come to the plays. But before i could put the dots together and realise they will see each other im now seeing one of the girls that i do the show with and have been for...

Hey everyone so I was dating someone for 9 almost 10 yrs and we called it a quits about 3 months ago. I've been talking to one of my friends and he he told me he had liked me for almost 3 yrs now, and he wants to take me on a date and start talking. I told him we can talk but take it slow. My ex is a narcissist and I'm not sure what he is capable of doing if he was to find out. So how long do u guys think I should wait to go one a date? Remind you I have not talked to my ex it's been 3 months now. So please let me know what you guys think? Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:11AM Hey everyone so I was dating someone for 9 almost 10 yrs and we called it a quits about 3 months ago. I've been talking to one of my friends and he he told me he had liked me for almost 3 yrs now, and he wants to take me on a date and start talking. I told him we can talk but take it slow. My ex is a narcissist and I'm not sure what he is capable of doing if he was to find out. So how ...

I'm 24M who mainly uses online dating, and at the end of a date, I will usually say something like "Whether or not you are interested in going on another date, let me know. I'm just the kind of person who likes people to be honest with me instead of flaking." We may not make plans on the spot at the end of the date, but the idea was that we'll think of an activity for a second date, hence why I bring up that comment. Also, I only say that when I am interested in a second date. If I'm not interested, I never hint at anything like that Am I making girls I'm dating uncomfortable when I say that? How would you feel if someone said that to you? Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:12AM I'm 24M who mainly uses online dating, and at the end of a date, I will usually say something like "Whether or not you are interested in going on another date, let me know. I'm just the kind of person who likes people to be honest with me instead of flaking....

That's a really interesting POV that I hadn't ever considered. Thank you for sharing with me. November 29, 2021 at 11:25PM

Definitely plan on reaching it! November 29, 2021 at 11:24PM

I don't want to paint with an overly broad brush, but I don't think this is a healthy relationship. The way she's acting around you, especially considering that you established clear boundaries and asked her to stop, really reads like assault to me. I honestly felt uncomfortable reading about what she was doing, and I can't imagine what it must have been like for you. Someone who doesn't respect your identity and who you feel uncomfortable talking to about your identity, is probably not the right person for you. I know it's tough to be an ace person looking for a relationship but please don't settle for less love than you deserve. You deserve someone who respects your boundaries, who listens to you, who is willing to expand their horizons and learn from you. Those people are out there. And finding them, even if the journey is long, will always be better than settling for someone who doesn't deserve you. November 29, 2021 at 11:18PM

Lmao November 29, 2021 at 11:14PM

This looks like a good thing for An ace to give to a fellow ace November 29, 2021 at 11:14PM

So listen, I’m not a 14 year old kid who knows nothing about sex and just asks here. I’m 31 year old and had 8-10 partners in the bed. But I have never ever gotten a BJ from a girl on the toilet/street/wherever before, assuming there’s a party I’m attending ofc. But when I see pictures here of girls giving dudes BJs, it makes me curious about how easy and how willing girls in general are to give BJs to guys? I’m not asking In order to get a BJ in the future, I’m just curious. Edit: Sorry for not being clear. A random girl in a bar or whatever :) I’m just curious because of all the stories and pictures where a girl sucks a guy off. I have no specific intention of pursuing a bj from a random girl, I was just curious. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 09:59PM So listen, I’m not a 14 year old kid who knows nothing about sex and just asks here. I’m 31 year old and had 8-10 partners in the bed. But I have never ever gotten a BJ from a girl on the toilet/street/wherever before, assuming...

Wherever I hear about my coworkers stories about their ex’s or their one-night-stands or my friend’s stories I feel happy for them but insanely insecure about my own inability to form or find any mutual connection with a woman. I’ve never had anyone flirt with me or show signs of interest, dated, had sex, or even held hands and it’s really weighing on me as I get older and approach 30 in the next 5 years. Do I have every right to feel bad for never experiencing a mutual connection or am I just dumb for feeling this way? I’m really scared that there might be something wrong with me. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 10:05PM Wherever I hear about my coworkers stories about their ex’s or their one-night-stands or my friend’s stories I feel happy for them but insanely insecure about my own inability to form or find any mutual connection with a woman. I’ve never had anyone flirt with me or show signs of interest, dated, had sex, or even held hands and it’s really weighing on me as I ge...

So I had a one night stand on Friday and I’ve had burning pain ever since. He used a condom but one time his penis touched the outside of my vulva. I wasn’t that into it so I wasn’t that lubricated. Could it be an STI? Do they manifest that quickly? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 10:59PM So I had a one night stand on Friday and I’ve had burning pain ever since. He used a condom but one time his penis touched the outside of my vulva. I wasn’t that into it so I wasn’t that lubricated. Could it be an STI? Do they manifest that quickly?

I (20m) matched with a girl(20f) on tinder, went on a first date for a few drinks. She seemed to have had a good time, I thought she was cute she laughed at my jokes, all that good stuff. As I was walking her to her bus she was brushing against me laughing with me, things were looking up I kind of just gave her an awkward hug to say bye, didn't really feel a kiss was on the cards. We're going out again on Tuesday, any advice for being a bit more physical but don't want to make her uncomfortable Submitted November 29, 2021 at 01:13AM I (20m) matched with a girl(20f) on tinder, went on a first date for a few drinks.She seemed to have had a good time, I thought she was cute she laughed at my jokes, all that good stuff.As I was walking her to her bus she was brushing against me laughing with me, things were looking upI kind of just gave her an awkward hug to say bye, didn't really feel a kiss was on the cards.We're going out again on Tuesday, any advice for b...

Guys, I need your advice, I feel so embarassed. I've been talking/calling a guy for a year now and we finally met up a couple months ago in real life. I always just thought i was on the back burner because he seemed pretty close with his ex which was a red flag to me.. However, one day I was at his place and got my period, and because of that, I wanted to keep my bottoms on because of it. We were fooling around in bed, and he tried taking me bottoms off, to which i was like "NOOO PLEASEE IM ON MY PERIOD AND ITS GOING BE GROSS FOR YOU" but he was TOTALLY okay with it and didn't care at all. He just continued like everything was normal which made me feel comfortable. However, I still felt TERRIBLE. We woke up, and i saw a stain on his bed/mattress sheets and drips on the floor too. I felt so bad. He kept reassuring me saying it was no big deal at all, and all he cared about was that I had fun (he even went down on me during my period which i told me he didn't have...

So I’ve been single for a few months now and I keep thinking about my last relationship. How do you move past the guilt of what you did wrong? How do you heal from the hurt they caused you? How do you be a better version of yourself and for the next person you date? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 01:16AM So I’ve been single for a few months now and I keep thinking about my last relationship.How do you move past the guilt of what you did wrong? How do you heal from the hurt they caused you? How do you be a better version of yourself and for the next person you date?

I’m sorry you had to hear that bs. Like “bad behavior?” That really got me mad. People are seriously ridiculous about sex and boundaries sometimes November 28, 2021 at 11:51PM

It do be like that November 28, 2021 at 11:38PM

So would 7th or later work just later is never November 28, 2021 at 11:34PM

They were made by an AI generator wombo.art November 28, 2021 at 11:26PM

I normally don’t appreciate abstract and/or modern art pieces, but for some inexplicable reason, I like these paintings. A lot, actually. They look supremely well thought out, which is really weird for me to admit. Thank you for sharing! Edit: just realized this is a website?? Even weirder, but ok. November 28, 2021 at 11:25PM

:D November 28, 2021 at 11:21PM

I(27m) been dating a girl(27f) for a couple weeks now, and we took things very slow but had sex for the first last night and again this morning. Both times she had 2 orgasms within about 10-15 mins(plus lots of foreplay), I could have kept going a lot longer but she told me she wanted me to go ahead and cum, I was a bit taken aback but I obliged and pushed really hard making myself get off sooner. I mean the sex is really good, and I'm not complaining, just never been hurried to orgasm before. Am I maybe doing something wrong or do some women just not want it too intense or for too long? I'm really thrown off. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:28AM I(27m) been dating a girl(27f) for a couple weeks now, and we took things very slow but had sex for the first last night and again this morning. Both times she had 2 orgasms within about 10-15 mins(plus lots of foreplay), I could have kept going a lot longer but she told me she wanted me to go ahead and cum, I was a bit taken...

Not sure if this is the right place to ask for help with this. This is a question I'd really like to ask maybe someone in the medical field, but I don't think it's medically related enough to not get me banned from a medical focused sub. It's a throwaway account anyway so whatever lol. Either way, I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time not too long ago for his birthday, and we both loved it. He didn't cum in my mouth (there was some precum) because he needs thrusting in order to cum, but I could not handle being throat fucked for too long. Especially after I had deepthroated him a few times and had been working on him for like 20-30 minutes already. I was getting lock jaw by the time I told him I wanted him to cum in my mouth, and he basically started pounding the back of my throat. Where my tonsils happen to live. Eventually, I just stopped blowing him and climbed on top to ride it out, and the evening ended enjoyably. This was on Saturday/Midnight of ...

I’m a virgin (M19) probably the biggest you’ve ever known. But I just want to have sex sooo fucking badly. I just want to fall in love and meet a girl that I really want I do it with. But right now, I would do it with fucking anyone haha. Is it so much of an ask to find someone who would love me for me? Just wanna have that rip the clothes off one another feeling, ya know? But at the moment it feels like a lifetime away. I just get so frustrated. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:48AM I’m a virgin (M19) probably the biggest you’ve ever known. But I just want to have sex sooo fucking badly. I just want to fall in love and meet a girl that I really want I do it with. But right now, I would do it with fucking anyone haha. Is it so much of an ask to find someone who would love me for me? Just wanna have that rip the clothes off one another feeling, ya know? But at the moment it feels like a lifetime away. I just get so frustrated.

I just found out about flavored lube, as an alternative to flavored condoms, that can be used for oral sex, but I have a couple of questions I was hoping for help with: Is it possible for water based flavored lube to react in a weird way with a non-latex based condom and cause any unpleasant sensation on the penis? Does the combination of flavored lube with an unflavored condom leave a weird taste in the mouth, or cause any dental issues? For reference, I'm looking at using water based lube, and Skyn non-latex condoms. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:50AM I just found out about flavored lube, as an alternative to flavored condoms, that can be used for oral sex, but I have a couple of questions I was hoping for help with:Is it possible for water based flavored lube to react in a weird way with a non-latex based condom and cause any unpleasant sensation on the penis?Does the combination of flavored lube with an unflavored condom leave a weird taste in the mouth, or caus...

I am buying lube for the first time, ahead of my traveling to meet my wife. I want to be able to pack it safely, and possibly even be able to take it with me in carry on luggage. Hence, I wanted some help estimating how much I will need. How long might a 4oz bottle of water based lube last for? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:56AM I am buying lube for the first time, ahead of my traveling to meet my wife. I want to be able to pack it safely, and possibly even be able to take it with me in carry on luggage. Hence, I wanted some help estimating how much I will need. How long might a 4oz bottle of water based lube last for?

So our convos are going great. We’ve been casually talking for the past few days with sometimes a day in between. I was wondering if it would be too clingy if I message him everyday? Obviously if he’s busy I wouldn’t bother him further if he tells me but.. should I give it a few days before texting. I’m sure there are rules to texting and stuff but I’m really tempted to not give a flying f about them Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:00AM So our convos are going great. We’ve been casually talking for the past few days with sometimes a day in between. I was wondering if it would be too clingy if I message him everyday? Obviously if he’s busy I wouldn’t bother him further if he tells me but.. should I give it a few days before texting. I’m sure there are rules to texting and stuff but I’m really tempted to not give a flying f about them

My bf broke up with me because I moved to a new country. I texted him all the time and it probably annoyed him since he blocked me. But he unblocked me after a week. I haven't contacted him for four weeks. Will not contacting him make him miss me and text me? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:06AM My bf broke up with me because I moved to a new country. I texted him all the time and it probably annoyed him since he blocked me. But he unblocked me after a week. I haven't contacted him for four weeks. Will not contacting him make him miss me and text me?

I’m almost 21 and I’ve only liked one person my whole life and I just got heartbroken by him. It wasn’t even a proper relationship but it felt like one for the past year. He was the first person who I’ve ever felt like that with. I didn’t like him at first but as I grew with him, he did certain things for me which made me fall in love. I feel like I’ve lost the one. He doesn’t want a relationship nor to wait because we are soo far away, he actively fed into it and then suddenly said he thought about it and it’s got to stop. I’m so sad over this. I feel like I can’t love anyone, the thought of liking someone is so difficult for me, that’s why I fought for him to try but he didn’t want to. I can’t control his actions I don’t want to grow up alone and sad. I don’t think I’m that ugly, maybe I’m just average? I feel there is no one out there for me. I’m so sad, everyone in my life is meeting ppl and I’m just stuck in a loop of work and sleep and depression. The one and only person who I...

I just want a little awww in my life ya feel me? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 12:15AM I just want a little awww in my life ya feel me?

I matched with a guy on tinder and he took interest in me and acted like he wanted something serious. I turn into just a booty call and he told me he was about to move. He would invite me over to hookup but started acting really anxious and like something was off. We were seeing eachother for 4 months He ended up blocking me on everything no explanation. I found out that he was moving in with his girlfriend. Idk how long they have been together both of their social medias look like they are single. He first brought up moving in early October and we saw eachother until November so I’m pretty sure they have been together for a while to be moving in together but I’m not positive. Should I tell her? I feel awful because I didn’t know he was seeing someone and if I were in her shoes I would want to know but I hate drama. I’d rather just leave it be but I hate that he could have cheated on her and her not know. Idk their situation if they have an open relationship or just weren’t serious I’...

I'm curious to hear from the men here why this sound seems to be so appealing, especially in comparison to moaning. What does that sound make you feel like? Why is it so empowering? Submitted November 28, 2021 at 11:07PM I'm curious to hear from the men here why this sound seems to be so appealing, especially in comparison to moaning. What does that sound make you feel like? Why is it so empowering?

Go suck a dick if you love sex so much, Tim! Sorry you had to deal with that op. Just ignore those haters. November 28, 2021 at 12:10AM

Tell em they're a fkn idiot November 28, 2021 at 12:02AM

I was scrolling by kinda fast and from the first quick look I had the plates looked broken lol November 28, 2021 at 12:01AM

I just dont know its so weird its kinda good but its also so bad i just dont wanna do it again but for some reason i keep doing it sucks November 28, 2021 at 12:00AM

They really are November 28, 2021 at 12:00AM

Also i have sex dreams but those are also gross and make me feel awful November 27, 2021 at 11:59PM

Im not sure if i feel sexual attraction in a normal amount but i know that when i feel and do something i just feel really bad and i regret it so what am i?Im am not sure its like sometimes a part of me really wants to do it but i always feel bad grossed out and regret it November 27, 2021 at 11:57PM

Kurtis is amazing lmao, I found his videos early this year and have loved them since November 27, 2021 at 11:51PM

“if i use science words then i must be correct!” proceeds to literally spew scientifically disproven information November 27, 2021 at 11:42PM

Hehe thanks November 27, 2021 at 11:38PM

Do I just cut out masturbating completely? Or could I still use a toy? I bought a Fleshlight not to long ago but I'm not sure if I should stop using that as well. Should I just cut out masturbating completely? And how long could this take? It's starting to effect my girlfriend and she thinks maybe I don't find her attractive enough or that maybe she's doing something wrong. Any advice would be great Submitted November 28, 2021 at 12:47AM Do I just cut out masturbating completely? Or could I still use a toy? I bought a Fleshlight not to long ago but I'm not sure if I should stop using that as well. Should I just cut out masturbating completely? And how long could this take? It's starting to effect my girlfriend and she thinks maybe I don't find her attractive enough or that maybe she's doing something wrong. Any advice would be great

I recently found out that my s/o (M) said to a friend in a message that he liked receiving oral from his ex more. Obviously im hurt by this, as he told me the opposite, and also acts like im doing this amazing job during it. I've always been told by every guy im with that im the best, and I take pride in my skills. I know that not every person is the same, and I can make adjustments to what they like without being offended. I even asked him and he said it was perfect and amazing. I know that there's nothing that he or I can say to make me feel better. But how am i even supposed to have sex with him again? All I will think about is how she's better. And I wont be able to believe his moans/reactions to me when I do it, knowing that it's not good enough. He even said I probably wouldn't be able to make him cum which also stung... it just feels like our whole sex life is a lie now 😭 Obviously he apologized, and I wasn't supposed to know about this (it was shown t...

Gay dude - I'm really bad at deep throating. It seems like great deepthroaters are born and not made. I've googled all the usual tips online etc and nothing has been helpful so far. Has anyone gone from flat out useless to very good at this? I'm hoping to make a significant jump in ability but I've been more or less stuck for awhile now. Open to any and all tips/suggestions. I'm a size queen so please don't say something like "just find a smaller size" etc etc. Thanks Submitted November 28, 2021 at 12:51AM Gay dude - I'm really bad at deep throating. It seems like great deepthroaters are born and not made. I've googled all the usual tips online etc and nothing has been helpful so far. Has anyone gone from flat out useless to very good at this? I'm hoping to make a significant jump in ability but I've been more or less stuck for awhile now. Open to any and all tips/suggestions. I'm a size queen so please don't say somethin...

Does cum have a smell? My girlfriend always says she can't smell my cum, but I can. So all girls can't smell cum or it's just my girlfriend? Submitted November 28, 2021 at 12:55AM Does cum have a smell? My girlfriend always says she can't smell my cum, but I can. So all girls can't smell cum or it's just my girlfriend?

I’m so embarrassed to post this but I been giving my bf oral, he’s a very clean person so am I and tonight I decided to try to swallow and I’ll give him head for like 10 minutes or longer at a time but everytime after I’m done giving him oral my throat hurts so bad I dont even know if that’s normal? I never been sexually attracted to anyone like this before I never sucked off my ex husband dick before nor was sexually active with him because he was abusive etc. after sperm got in my mouth I felt like I was going to choke so I spit it right out. I don’t know if I’m panicking or what Submitted November 28, 2021 at 12:57AM I’m so embarrassed to post this but I been giving my bf oral, he’s a very clean person so am I and tonight I decided to try to swallow and I’ll give him head for like 10 minutes or longer at a time but everytime after I’m done giving him oral my throat hurts so bad I dont even know if that’s normal? I never been sexually attracted to anyone like this before I nev...

I’m just curious about what it’s like dating someone whose got kids and how you dealt with their ex always being in your life etc. Submitted November 28, 2021 at 12:08AM I’m just curious about what it’s like dating someone whose got kids and how you dealt with their ex always being in your life etc.

The right one isn’t going to run away. They’ll be too busy trying to chase you. Then you’ll collide. Submitted November 28, 2021 at 12:08AM The right one isn’t going to run away. They’ll be too busy trying to chase you.Then you’ll collide.

Would you be upset if your bf spent a night at his baby mothers house and stayed over until after 1am on thanksgiving but claims its for the kids??. Submitted November 28, 2021 at 12:11AM Would you be upset if your bf spent a night at his baby mothers house and stayed over until after 1am on thanksgiving but claims its for the kids??.

How do i handle my gf constantly claiming i am cheating? Submitted November 28, 2021 at 12:13AM How do i handle my gf constantly claiming i am cheating?

This INTJ 25m guy was telling me how he’s dating this other girl but he’d never see himself with her for something serious, instead he’d see someone like (and then proceeds to describe me). He’s texting me daily and asking to hang out and then i suggested to do so last night and he said he was with the girl (he keeps saying he’s only seeing her cos they are compiting together this week), I felt bad but I suggested to go today see him compete and win and then have lunch and he said he was also with the girl.... I still went to see him play. Then he suggested to meet at night and I said itd depend on what time e finished. When he finished, it was super late and he said he felt sick. I asked to please be honest and say if he was staying with the girl and he said that it could be a possibility... Third time in such a short period of time! It drives me mad. Is he a player? He’s super serious and always says the truth, but Im surprised how wrongly he dealt with the situation. I also said it...

Story time everyone. So last Saturday, me (22M) and some friends went out for a mutual friends birthday. While out, I was approached by this girl (23F) at the bar and we kinda hit it off. We talked for 10-15 min and she asked if I wanted her number, which I obviously said yes. So on Monday, I called her and asked her out to a local museum, and she said yes, and seemed excited about it. I told her it would have to be after Thanksgiving because I’m pretty busy. She said she was as well as she was going home out of state for the holiday/weekend. So we agreed that I would text her to set up the specifics. So on Wednesday, I texted her about setting the time and date, but she didn’t respond. I assume that she either didn’t see it or is spending time with family. Makes sense as it is the holidays. If I don’t hear from her, then I plan to call her again on Monday. Thoughts? Submitted November 28, 2021 at 12:14AM Story time everyone. So last Saturday, me (22M) and some friends went ou...