Can I please save this image? November 01, 2021 at 12:49AM

Fair enough, I personally see the appeal of it i just dont get the obsession with it Id say I swap between indifferent and favorable But im not open to the idea of "topping", just seems to difficult and dysphoric for me November 01, 2021 at 12:49AM

I feel this so badly. I've never been able to confess to any of my crushes because of this, I mean I don't wanna deceive them or feel like I wasted their time, but I don't wanna come out either (kinda difficult where I am). I feel happy and accepted here, but I still wish I was just straight so I just wouldn't have to experience all this, and not to mention the period where I didn't know asexuality was a thing and just spent so much time thinking I was weird and broken somehow :( But hey, can't change who I am, so I might as well work with what I have November 01, 2021 at 12:48AM

Funny how YOU'RE the conservative Christian but I'M the one immune to the temptations of the flesh. Get on my level, scrub. November 01, 2021 at 12:48AM

Which doesn't involve me. We have have been married for 11 years and although our sex life was good for a long time... things kinda slow down a bit and our therapists told us, that tends to happen sometimes to long marriage. In the past we have tried lot of things to spice it up and it works... Just that we got kinda lazy now. That's the backstory... Anyway. She is close to the mom and often don't mind me hearing them chatting on the phone but this time she thought I was asleep. She told her mom where we are at sexually right now and the mom told her to go take a vacation from each other and have vacation sex. Mom admitted she did it when she went to Vietnam on vacation with her girlfriends years ago and her hubby doesn't know. I overheard my wife said... "hmmm interesting." I looked it up and 😳 Apparently many married women would travel to far away places with friends and many times would cheat with the fit good-looking, hung local boy. They call it ...

Wife and I were having sex and I started asking her about all the dicks she has had in her and what she did. She got pretty detailed but I think there’s more to some of these stories. I’m super turned on by this info and want to explore more. Basically, while we were having sex she said she wanted a dildo to suck or fuck while doing PIV. She likes a plug and we already have them so her ass is covered. 2 questions How do you recommend continuing this? Only during sex? Or should we discuss at other times? Any realistic dildo recommendations? I know this has been asked before but there is so much info on what to buy I’m overwhelmed. Thinking about splurging on the real doll penises? Any one else like others that are more realistic? Between 7-8” Thanks for all the help here Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:39AM Wife and I were having sex and I started asking her about all the dicks she has had in her and what she did. She got pretty detailed but I think there’s more to s...

This morning my husband and I woke up for morning sex. He looks right at me and says "are you ready to sit on your throne?" I literally gushed over him 🤣 Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:50AM This morning my husband and I woke up for morning sex.He looks right at me and says "are you ready to sit on your throne?"I literally gushed over him 🤣

earlier today my boyfriend was sucking by breasts, specifically nipples. it felt good in the moment, but now, later on, my breasts are extremely tender. slightly touching them is painful. my boyfriend left hickeys on my aerola, so i could tell he had been sucking pretty hard. is there anything i can do to ease the pain? i don’t even know how i’m going to put a shirt on Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:50AM earlier today my boyfriend was sucking by breasts, specifically nipples. it felt good in the moment, but now, later on, my breasts are extremely tender. slightly touching them is painful. my boyfriend left hickeys on my aerola, so i could tell he had been sucking pretty hard. is there anything i can do to ease the pain? i don’t even know how i’m going to put a shirt on

So, she didn’t tell me directly but it clearly hurts her. Anyways, to start, she asked me to finger her for the first time the other day. And she could barely even take 1 of my fingers. This doesn’t worry me I know this is mostly normal for someone with no experience. But the worry came when I touched her clit. She screeched and grabbed me in pain. And I barely touched it. I know someone is gonna say “oh you were being too rough” but no, I wasn’t. I barely touched it and she screeched. Im just wondering, is this at all normal? Or has anyone experienced this before? Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:51AM So, she didn’t tell me directly but it clearly hurts her. Anyways, to start, she asked me to finger her for the first time the other day. And she could barely even take 1 of my fingers. This doesn’t worry me I know this is mostly normal for someone with no experience. But the worry came when I touched her clit. She screeched and grabbed me in pain. And I barely touched it. I kno...

So long story short, I haven't had sex in a year and a half, partialy due to being heartbroken from the previous relationship and partialy due to me being very picky when it comes to picking partners. I've met this amazing girl who is now my girlfriend and I like her more than I've ever liked anyone else before her. That being said, this weekend we shared the same bed for the first time since being together and well.. We basicaly had sex for 9 hours straight, during which I finished 14 times with a few breaks here and there. My gf said those were the best 9hours of her life. So my question is, 1)do all men last that long and 2)can everyone finish that many times without losing the sex drive? Disclaimer I'm not 'jerking myself off' by asking these questions, I'm geniuly intrested in hearing other peoples experiences and thoughts Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:53AM So long story short, I haven't had sex in a year and a half, partialy due to bei...

Hey all just looking for some friendly advice here. So basically I (21M) asked this girl (21F) I know out over text and we made plans to go bouldering together this week. After it was all planned and confirmed I realised that I might have just come across asking as a friend, which is also obviously cool but I am pretty attracted to her so wanted to see if there was any mutual interest. Are there things I should say/do while I’m with her to gauge if she sees it as a date or not? Extra info that might help: We met cos we’re at the same sports club, and then bumped into each other at a couple ceilidhs and danced together at them. The message I initially sent was this: “Do you have any plans this weekend? Was just wondering if you’d want to have lunch with me in town 😊” After we spoke for a bit and settled on bouldering instead, the conversation ended like this: Her: “Perfect, I look forward to it!” Me: “Yeah me too, I’ll see you then” Sorry for the length of the post and if there’s ...

Helloo there. 1st of all this is a long post but I'm spending the night at the airport and I a lot of free time, also I wanted to write as many details as I remember. I know what I'm asking is not dating advice, but I just want an opinion over the way I acted. So I have been on an Erasmus project for the past month. On the penultimate day we organized a farewell party in a club. Everything was going great and i was pretty drunk, I turned my head for a moment and I saw this really cute girl. At first she didn't notice me but then she saw me and smiled. I knew I had to talk to her and I've never done something like this in my life but I was drunk so i gathered up courage and went to talk to her. She was hanging with another guy but when I went there she stopped talking to him so i took a chance and said hi to her. I don't remember exactly much of the conversation but we hit it off and were talking about random stuff. I don't remember very well how it went but at...

The person I (22F) like is someone (22F) I see a lot. I would get so excited to see them but feel a little sad when I do because I know I will not work up the courage to tell them how I feel. But I am also sad when I don't see them. I wish I could tell them I like them everyday and shower them with affection. An issue is that I think dating is a strange thing. Am I crazy? How do I work up courage? How would I stop liking them? Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:04AM The person I (22F) like is someone (22F) I see a lot. I would get so excited to see them but feel a little sad when I do because I know I will not work up the courage to tell them how I feel. But I am also sad when I don't see them. I wish I could tell them I like them everyday and shower them with affection. An issue is that I think dating is a strange thing. Am I crazy? How do I work up courage? How would I stop liking them?

As a man sometimes I find it hard to tell a woman I like them 'more than just a friend' I've only ever remember asking once or twice but there are men who find it hard to break out of a friendzone or even admit their true feelings towards a woman so this question hopefully intends to make it easier for myself and other guys going forward. Perhaps provide any stories or tips... Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:06AM As a man sometimes I find it hard to tell a woman I like them 'more than just a friend' I've only ever remember asking once or twice but there are men who find it hard to break out of a friendzone or even admit their true feelings towards a woman so this question hopefully intends to make it easier for myself and other guys going forward.Perhaps provide any stories or tips...

Appearance is important. I have been told that I am smart, funny, and handsome. I also am a paraplegic and use a wheelchair. I joined Zoosk, Match and Tinder. In 2 months, including all 3 sites, I got a total of two likes. The profiles had pictures of me in a wheelchair and stated that I am a paraplegic. I took any references to disability out and took out pictures that had the wheelchair in them. All of a sudden, inbox filled with messages and likes. Girls that had ignored messages before were now sending me messages. Don't tell me that looks don't matter. Submitted November 01, 2021 at 12:07AM Appearance is important. I have been told that I am smart, funny, and handsome. I also am a paraplegic and use a wheelchair. I joined Zoosk, Match and Tinder. In 2 months, including all 3 sites, I got a total of two likes. The profiles had pictures of me in a wheelchair and stated that I am a paraplegic. I took any references to disability out and took out pictures that had the ...

I decided to leave them(A stands for ace/aro not allie) in to balance the negativity, yk what I mean? But yea, It does make me sad about how many people agree with those other tweets. It’s actually sickening. October 31, 2021 at 11:48PM

God, these people frustrate me to no end. Especially when that one person is saying who discriminates Aces proceeds to do so. I would like to appreciate the person who said the A stands for Asexual and the reference tweet in the first image. October 31, 2021 at 11:44PM

Yes and hypocrisy rains supreme October 31, 2021 at 11:41PM

“…esp. if they can be used to groom kids.” Groom them into what? Not wanting sex? Making bad jokes about garlic bread and dragons? October 31, 2021 at 11:39PM

Wtf does asexuality have to do with grooming?? October 31, 2021 at 11:39PM

I mean, seems to me like normal lingerie stamped with "asexual" label for marketing and media coverage, nice to see representation tho October 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

What have they been saying? October 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

Okay so sexuality has nothing to do with hormones! You should be A-okay there. No matter where you decide you fit in on any identity spectrum, you aren’t weird! Tons of us have this experience. Depending on how familiar you are with this community, there’s also a different between your sexuality and your romantic nature (if you will.) it’s common for people to crave romantic affection but not necessarily want to have sex. It’s also common for people to not want either. Based on your experiences, I’d say you’re panromantic asexual, like me:) but it’s up to you! And if you aren’t sure yet or your feelings change, that’s okay too! No one is ever going to tell you that you can’t. October 30, 2021 at 11:46PM

That purple with that sheen is nice but, as a cisgender male, I have neither the bodytype to be able to wear this kind of design well, myself, nor the understanding of its appeal to those who do. October 30, 2021 at 11:45PM

Not really. As a sex favorable/positive Ace who actually really loves the aesthetic of lingerie, it makes me happy seeing something that represents my part of the community and says that just because we’re asexual doesn’t mean we all hate sex or are all virgins/celibates who are just using this label as a way of avoiding saying we’re unworthy or undesirable. October 30, 2021 at 11:44PM

Was hooking up w/this guy who I met on a dating site. It got super complicated (due to me) and we’ve stopped talking. I thought about reaching reaching out in a month or 2 when the dust settles bc I know someone who can help him with work. And they says they’d help. Is it weird to reach out and give him the information? ( this was like a 6/7 month situation going on between him and I) Also, I started to like him more than just casual and he didn’t seem to know what he wanted (probably just told me that). He told me about some family stuff and I never told him but I kind of connected w/him and made me like him more bc his family situation/way they treat him is identical to my situation. It was kind of weird to have that commonality among other things. Is it weird to be like “ btw I should have been honest that I wanted both when you asked what I wanted. I was moving so I’m not sure what my plan was. I never told you this but I kind of connected w/you on your family stuff bc it’s the e...

My personal favorite thing to do is give head to a girl, it’s always been my favorite and I like to think I’m good at it. My girlfriend likes when I go down on her which I’m often doing but after just like a minute or so she is already begging to be fucked. I’m not always able to get her off via PIV so this feels directly counterintuitive to what I try to do, I try to get her off via head but she doesn’t last long before she’s begging for PIV How can I prolong giving head without making her feel annoyed that I’m not listening to what she wants? Could this also mean I’m not satisfying her with head? What’s making her beg so fast? Submitted October 31, 2021 at 12:37AM My personal favorite thing to do is give head to a girl, it’s always been my favorite and I like to think I’m good at it.My girlfriend likes when I go down on her which I’m often doing but after just like a minute or so she is already begging to be fucked.I’m not always able to get her off via PIV so this feels di...

So me and my girlfriend have dated since last year of secondary school. She was born in June and I was born in December. So when I was 16 in December, she was 15. In May, we decided to take our relationship further and we had sex. We had protection but I thought afterwards, isn't she technically underage? We were both up for it and it was safe, our parents even gave us permission to if we were comfortable. What do you guys think? Submitted October 31, 2021 at 12:37AM So me and my girlfriend have dated since last year of secondary school. She was born in June and I was born in December. So when I was 16 in December, she was 15. In May, we decided to take our relationship further and we had sex. We had protection but I thought afterwards, isn't she technically underage? We were both up for it and it was safe, our parents even gave us permission to if we were comfortable. What do you guys think?

In the moment it feels great, sure. For whatever reason the aftereffects of orgasm destroy me. I feel foggy, want to distance myself from everyone, sad, so on. I'm a male for context. Is there a biological reason for this or is my brain messed up? Submitted October 31, 2021 at 12:42AM In the moment it feels great, sure. For whatever reason the aftereffects of orgasm destroy me. I feel foggy, want to distance myself from everyone, sad, so on.I'm a male for context. Is there a biological reason for this or is my brain messed up?

Hey there guys, I M(20) started seeing this girl F(20) and we've been having sex for a while now. The thing is she isn't finishing, the thing is it's not that we aren't doing it for a long time. We can both go for +45 min. I've had sex with my previous girlfriend and having her finish was never an issue, however with this current girl it just doesn't happen. She tells me it's alright because she feels good but I still feel bad that she doesn't. Any advice or anything that might help? Submitted October 31, 2021 at 12:48AM Hey there guys, I M(20) started seeing this girl F(20) and we've been having sex for a while now. The thing is she isn't finishing, the thing is it's not that we aren't doing it for a long time. We can both go for +45 min. I've had sex with my previous girlfriend and having her finish was never an issue, however with this current girl it just doesn't happen. She tells me it's alright because she feels g...

(16M) here, i invited this girl for Halloween 2 weeks ago, and she accepted it( we like each other btw she confessed me.), but the problem is her mom, she is very strict with her and her social life. Few days ago she told me that her mom didn't let her go out but she'll try to find a way to change her mind about going out this Halloween, today ask her how did it went, but she told me again that her mother didn't give her permission despite of trying everything. I know this is not an excuse bc she is always honest with me and also bc she texted about how mad she is with her mom and the rules imposed. So guys idk what do to, should I move on? I really would like to spend more time with her besides the school, but her mother's rules is making it impossible for both of us. What would you guys do in this scenario? Submitted October 30, 2021 at 11:55PM (16M) here, i invited this girl for Halloween 2 weeks ago, and she accepted it( we like each other btw she confessed...

However, I live in a small town, and everyone is either married or they have 5 different children with several different women, are single/immature/players. How do I find this kind of man? What green flags do you look for? I’ve never wanted this, ever, and have never dated accordingly or even thought about it, but now I’m feeling a pain in my stomach while watching all the parents with their little trick or treaters. I feel like it’s hopeless Submitted October 30, 2021 at 11:59PM However, I live in a small town, and everyone is either married or they have 5 different children with several different women, are single/immature/players.How do I find this kind of man? What green flags do you look for? I’ve never wanted this, ever, and have never dated accordingly or even thought about it, but now I’m feeling a pain in my stomach while watching all the parents with their little trick or treaters. I feel like it’s hopeless

Im so curios, like what are the indicators that she/he is the one!! Submitted October 31, 2021 at 12:01AM Im so curios, like what are the indicators that she/he is the one!!

I (24M) have been dating my girlfriend (19F) for a few months now. We met at our office. She had a crush on me. She asked me out. We went on a few dates and eventually got into a relationship. Now, this is the first relationship for her. She's just had distant crushes before. Whereas I've been in both serious and casual relationships before. Our kiss was the first ever kiss for her of her life. Initially she used to tell me after our first kiss that she was scared. Eventually she started trusting me more and felt safe with my touches. We haven't had sex( and I've never forced or pressured her). We've just discussed it. We've gone till the third base (fingering+oral) but we stopped afterwards due to various reasons (lack of time/circumstances etc) But she used to tease me around that if we get enough time "she'll know she'll end up wanting to have sex" or she teases me like "I thought you'll go further". She comes from a cons...

So me and my ex broke up around a year ago but we have been in contact (very little) in the rest of the year, mainly because he is really antisocial and he just moved to another country and I know he does feel lonely. The thing is I just started dating a old friend of mine, and completely forgot I made plans with my ex to go on a trip. Yesterday my ex told me he was going to be in my city in a couple of days and I was taken back a bit by that. I don’t remember we had that trip(next month), obviously I won’t go since I respect my current relationship. But I don’t know how to tell my ex and my current boyfriend of the situation. It kinda still hurt to know that after I tell my ex that I won’t go I won’t see him again, he was my best friend. How should I tell them both? Submitted October 31, 2021 at 12:04AM So me and my ex broke up around a year ago but we have been in contact (very little) in the rest of the year, mainly because he is really antisocial and he just moved to another...

Yup October 30, 2021 at 11:44PM

Yep, felt that one (Danganronpa fan 🥲) October 30, 2021 at 11:43PM

I think that's cool, it helps to show that not every ace is sex repulsed & totally against anything sexual(those of us who are that way are very valid though) October 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

I thought fan service was upskirts in anime. Those don't bother me because I don't really look for them. October 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

Can't speak for the person who wrote the original comment, but as a fellow ace person I myself use "hot" equal to "I find this person aethetically pleasant, they look really good" - although tbf for the longest time I thought this is precisely what people mean when they say someone is "hot"... Apparently people can actually feel hot or something when they're sexually attracted to people... ^^° October 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

First off: Fuck this person and everything they stand for. Secondly, there's nothing wrong with you and I am glad you were able to figure yourself out. The fact that this individual not only dismissed your attempt to be vulnerable with them but also belittled you and assumed you must hate yourself because you came out as ace shows a shortcoming on their part, not you. You are not less for being ace, you aren't undateable because you're ace, and your worth isn't measured by your looks or whether or not you're single. The bright side of this is you now know this person isn't a friend and no longer have to waste time putting your trust in someone who doesn't respect you. October 30, 2021 at 12:03AM

The problem is that being asexual isn't something that is hurting people, so why would a doctor want to treat it? To be fair, there are reasons for a person to have not had sex that can be of medical concern. It's not completely out of line for a doctor to think of that. The specific comment this doctor made was rude and out of line, but expressing concern about it in an otherwise healthy-appearing patient is reasonable, as long as it's expressed in a respectful and compassionate manner. Asexuality is weird among sexualities in that way—lack of sexual interest can be a symptom of certain medical conditions in ways that other sexualities cannot be. October 30, 2021 at 12:01AM

Not a good friend to keep around… 😢 That’s so rude of them. Being Ace has nothing to do with being single or lonely or feeling like you can’t be with someone. I’m sure you’ll find someone. You’ll find better friends who won’t be rude or disrespectful of your sexuality. A lot of people don’t understand Asexuality, unfortunately when people don’t understand things they turn to making fun of it.. but that’s no excuse to be a butt wipe. You are valid and so it your sexuality. October 30, 2021 at 12:00AM

So you described promiscuity, meaning your understanding of ace is some level of chastity. Asexual does not mean prude or celibate. It's a very common misconception. October 29, 2021 at 11:59PM

I don't want to discourage you if you feel like it's safe to come out to them, but them teaching you to "wait until marriage" does not equate to them being on board. I also reccomend having something to fallback to in case thing go bad, it could be as simple as friends who know and support you. October 29, 2021 at 11:56PM

Lot of times it gets painful to take a piss after cumming even if my tank is full . Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:26AM Lot of times it gets painful to take a piss after cumming even if my tank is full .

I don't understand why guys are so weird. I'm 5'0 and 140 lbs but guys literally tell me if I was 50 lbs lighter they would be able to "throw me around and pick me up" better. Does a short woman or any woman have to be under 5'3 and weigh 110 lbs and less to achieve this act? One guy even told me that women that are 5'3+ are too tall and not "spinner" type! I was shocked Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:42AM I don't understand why guys are so weird. I'm 5'0 and 140 lbs but guys literally tell me if I was 50 lbs lighter they would be able to "throw me around and pick me up" better. Does a short woman or any woman have to be under 5'3 and weigh 110 lbs and less to achieve this act? One guy even told me that women that are 5'3+ are too tall and not "spinner" type! I was shocked

possibly looking to bringing a 3rd in to try it out and I've been curious about some ideas of what to do. I've seen multiple things about giving equal attention so no jealousy, but idk how it would work. if he kisses me or something does he have to kiss her too? or would that rule only apply to the other person? explainations and ideas welcomed, please and thank you:) Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:45AM possibly looking to bringing a 3rd in to try it out and I've been curious about some ideas of what to do. I've seen multiple things about giving equal attention so no jealousy, but idk how it would work. if he kisses me or something does he have to kiss her too? or would that rule only apply to the other person? explainations and ideas welcomed, please and thank you:)

It was 9 years ago that I had symptoms (warts). I (34m) got it treated and have been in one relationship since then that lasted for 7 years. I told that partner about it before becoming sexually active together. My partner never got symptoms in our 7 years together. I'm now dating again and wondering if this is something that should be brought up? I know the facts for HPV: - it's technically in my body forever- the vaccine prevents the most common strains, but not every strain- HPV is incredibly common if you're sexually active- the strain I had was a low-risk strain, not one of the strains that can cause cervical cancer etc. It seems like with HSV (herpes) the common moral stance is to discuss it if it's HSV-2 (typically genital) but I don't see the same mentality when it comes to HSV-1 (typically oral) because of how common it is. Where does HPV fall for you? Should it be discussed 100% of the time before becoming sexually active with someone? Or is it "...

I got a cheap suction cup dildo to see if i liked giving it a blow job or hand job, it's hard to tell what I like, I was pretty sure I was Ace for a while there.. I have to admit it was fun sucking on it and finding ways to mess with it, lick, it but I never got a boner just an increased heart rate, and I don't know if that's because I like doing it or I wanted someone to do it to me. I also tried giving it a hand job for about 12 minutes While listening to my favorite masturbation music, adding Lube is needed as friction got bad, and spit, and it felt kind of good but it also felt like I was just trying to masturbate and it just wasn't working, so that could explain some level of enjoyment. what do you think? I really want to know I'm not honestly scared at this point I'm out of shape, my heart rate at the end was 130 or 140 and I'm still kind of excited and a little shaky but I never got an erection Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:49AM I got a ...

I(16M) like this girl(17F). First off I’m just gonna say I have no relationship experience I’ve only dated one girl and it only lasted a week (we rushed into things and we ended up not liking each other like we thought we did) but onto the present. So I’ve made some mistakes out of awkwardness and just don’t really understand how to work a relationship but I’m trying. So honestly I’m getting mixed signals from her kind of. We’ve known each other for a couple of months and I have some reasons to believe she likes me and I have reasons to think she doesn’t. First I’ll start off with the good things. A while ago she asked for my instagram, I catch her looking at me a lot, she usually laughs at my jokes, and I kinda seem to make her nervous (In a good way she seems shy around me). She also used to get very close to me when we walked together in the hallway (to the point where we would be touching). I would also say that she seems to be flirty with me sometimes (not as much anymore though)...

I've always dated men that are over 6 feet. Taller guys seem to always be interested in me so thats just how things have ended up the last few years. So I recently met this guy whos my height, maybe even a couple cm shorter. Hes perfect. We get along so well and hes wonderful. Hes extremely upfront(adore that about him) and we've shared our feelings which ended up being mutual. My only issue is that he seems insecure when we're together in public but wont mention anything about it. His insecurity makes me feel uneasy. He also keeps joking that I'm completely out of his league. I don't want to even bring all of this up to him because it just kind of sucks. I legitimately like him. If he cant feel comfortable around me, theres no solving it really. I wish i could shrink, lmao. Idk. So short men, do you prefer shorter women? How would you feel dating a girl who is your height? What could be going through his head? Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:10AM I've...

Hi I'm on here seeking both advice and a place to vent some of my emotions. I'm M(17) and this girl I'm talking to is F(15). I'm a senior and she's a sophomore. I hope I don't make any of you uncomfortable because I'm underage. Anyways onto the story. Let's call her K. So about two weeks ago me and K hung out closely for the first time (we knew each other a few months before this) after a few days of hanging out all day every day, I started to catch feelings. Then I realized she had feelings for me too, so I decided to admit my feelings and she said it was mutual. I told her that I didn't want to start dating yet because I wanted to get to know her more as a friend before things escalated. She said she'd prefer that, so everything went perfect. It wasn't until she started talking about her ex, let's call him J. J would ask some of the creepiest questions over text. For example, he asked her what she'd do if she saw him naked, he as...

So I called him and asked why I had to pay for the whole date and told him that it was uncouth and made him look cheap. So he called him a bi ch for not taking to him after the date until today (yesterday as of now) and talking about the issues. I told him that he was a cheap bas ard and told him that I wouldn't go on another date with him while I draw breath. And he went ballistic calling me all sorts of names so I told him that maybe before dating someone being able to sustain himself would be a good idea. And listed all the problems with him and reiterated how it's uncommon to have your date pay for everything and told him that if he wanted a meal he could have just asked. Since then I have had 13 texts saying sorry to calling me a sl*t Tldr probably want be wedding bells in the future Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:12AM So I called him and asked why I had to pay for the whole date and told him that it was uncouth and made him look cheap. So he called him a bich fo...

I’m 21f, and still a virgin. It isn’t a conciliatory choice and I’m not religious, but I don’t feel comfortable doing it with just anyone as it is a very personal and vulnerable thing. I am the only one of my friends that still has the card of V, and my opinions differ from theirs on the topic. Because I am so inexperienced, the idea of my partner being with a lot of women before me bugs me and it’s kind of an ‘ick,’ for lack of a better term. It isn’t a judgment thing. Like I don’t think less of them for it. It just puts me off because that means our views on the subject are different and he won’t feel the same way about it as I do. My friends keep on telling me that it isn’t a big deal, that it’s better to have someone experienced because then it’ll be good, and that I’m being bitchy by having that opinion. I just need some advice. Are my feelings wrong? Should I loosen up? (pun intended) AM I being judgy? By ‘a lot’ I mean like 7+. Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:14AM I...

:0 an ace and enby sticker, then the gay one? I won't have to spend ages searching for a sticker that's got the enby or ace flags on?? we did it bois erasure is no more <3 October 29, 2021 at 11:13PM

which ones the redo, i'm not the best with flags October 29, 2021 at 11:09PM

Respectfully at the very beginning. October 29, 2021 at 11:09PM

I can understand that. I feel that way sometimes. October 29, 2021 at 11:08PM

Reminds me of Yolanda Buenaventura! :-) October 29, 2021 at 11:08PM

One of my favorite things was a little comic by someone who represented themselves using Mothman. The comic basically said, "Sex involving me? No thank you. Sex as a concept? Yeeeeee" and I'm just like, "Yeah. This. This is me." October 28, 2021 at 11:59PM

I wish a lot of people are like that too... Respect is a amazing thing. October 28, 2021 at 11:58PM

honestly, I was the opposite of this. I was like - huh, well I don't really feel the need to date boys, but they boys I interact with regularly are all incapable of holding a good conversation so it must just be this batch that I don't like. But then I also feel exactly the same about girls, and I think my enby friend is literally the most beautiful person on the planet, so I must just be pansexual, right? Because I like all of them? and then I had the latent realization that sexual attraction means you want to have actual body-on-body intercourse with people, not just hypothetically to make kids some indefinite point in the future but just. recreationally and stuff. Yeah, that was a time. October 28, 2021 at 11:52PM

The fact that some people think that an ace having a romantic relationship with no sex with an allo is abusive is really scary. Like it actually makes me want to throw up. October 28, 2021 at 11:51PM

Can someone please explain why guys like it when a woman sits their fat sweaty smelly asshole on their face? Sounds fucking awful if u ask me l the smell of shit and sweat 🤮 Thanks in advance Submitted October 29, 2021 at 12:48AM Can someone please explain why guys like it when a woman sits their fat sweaty smelly asshole on their face? Sounds fucking awful if u ask me l the smell of shit and sweat 🤮Thanks in advance

So I have several FWBs and have had them in the past. It's always been pretty clear cut and dry. We hang out, we get a drink, we talk about stuff, but we also fuck. Sounds simple enough. But this 1 FWB I've been seeing for about 8 months is really starting to confuse me. It was normal in the beginning just like all FWB relationships. But she's started to sleep over my apt after sex. Which was cute. No problem. She started coming over 3x a week and we fucked 3x a week and it was AWESOME. But only on weekdays, because during the weekends, she hangs out her boyfriend/ex/whatever-they-are Then, for the past 2 months, she just... comes over... after work... and just... hangs out at my place. I can't even invite other FWBs over. We don't even have sex most the time she's over! Like, I really like her, she's cool, we're good friends... but I have no idea what she wants. She has her own apt but shes over all the time and we're NOT fucking. I'd b...

I’m wondering because I’ve never tried penetration but it’s difficult for me to cum from clitoral stimulation. I know for a lot of women it’s difficult to cum from penetration, so I’ve never really considered it (I’m a lesbian btw). Submitted October 29, 2021 at 12:52AM I’m wondering because I’ve never tried penetration but it’s difficult for me to cum from clitoral stimulation. I know for a lot of women it’s difficult to cum from penetration, so I’ve never really considered it (I’m a lesbian btw).

I feel like he just wants to have sex with me and doesn’t feel like he needs to try and charm me anymore. My sexual needs don’t get met when I don’t have someone reciprocating feelings or just an emotional bond. I don’t want a relationship, I’d just like more effort. Not sure if he’s willing to give. He gave a lot of effort in the beginning but it seems to be dying out. Submitted October 29, 2021 at 12:53AM I feel like he just wants to have sex with me and doesn’t feel like he needs to try and charm me anymore. My sexual needs don’t get met when I don’t have someone reciprocating feelings or just an emotional bond. I don’t want a relationship, I’d just like more effort. Not sure if he’s willing to give. He gave a lot of effort in the beginning but it seems to be dying out.

Okay so I’ve been seeing this guy for over a year casually… We’ve always had a great friendship but we are friends with benefits. He’s (40M) I’m (24F) . A few nights ago we were messing around and he wanted to FaceTime his guy friend and show him what was going on (I’m a squirter) so I didn’t think anything of it . It was a turn on for me and him but I feel like it made him not respect me as much. Last night he asked me if I would ever sell my pussy … I was shocked he would even ask me something like that. He basically was trying to pimp me out to his friend , I kept saying no and he kept saying I could make hella money and he would fuck with me regardless. I told him I only wanted to be with him and he just said think about what I said and that was it. So my question is do you guys think he’s just into that kind of thing or is he trying to pimp me. ? Submitted October 29, 2021 at 12:54AM Okay so I’ve been seeing this guy for over a year casually… We’ve always had a great friend...

Hi, I’m just posting here cause I thought it might be useful to get some people’s advice. Recently, I (19M) was wondering what might happen if I messaged my old high school crush (17F) just for the heck of it to see how things go. And to my surprise, it was pretty good! She messaged back and we had a good conversation that flowed really well :). Things seemed to be going great! I was wanting to ask her if she wanted to meet up in person but the opportunity never came around — she said she had to go and have a rest bc the other night she only had 3 hrs of sleep (fair enough). Anyway, towards the end, she sent a message wishing me “good luck with uni and stuff”, which was nice, but IDK, almost seemed like a conversation closer — as if the exchange was just gonna come to a close and be a one-off thing :/. I wished her good luck with her studies and work too and we finished off positively, however, I was left wondering what to do next. The way it ended sort of almost made it seem she tho...

Yesterday I hang out with some friends and there was this guy, who was a friend of some uni mates of mine. He seemed pretty interesting and I found his personality attractive. He seemed interested in me as well, but the problem is that I am quite socially awkward. I mean, I make friends quite easily but I've noticed that I struggle to bond closer with people, especially in a romantic sense. So, a friend of mine asked him his instagram, then he showed interest in me and asked for my name twice, but not for my insta. Since I am a dumb ass who does not use much social networks and who isn't able to catch implicit signals, my mind was going elsewhere and I spat out only some confused words and didn't give him my insta. Basically I am afraid the response sounded a bit cold, but then the convo carried on pretty fine, even if we only talked about simple things. I really don't know what to think. Later on I looked for him on insta but idk if I should send the following request...

(For some perspective im 16 male that is into all genders) I got to the point where i love myself and I really want to be in a relationship. My high school is for kids with anxiety and deppresion and my grade has litterly 7 kids. Im not saying its not possible to find someone there, its just there are only 2 girls that im not that into and im pretty sure all the guys are straight but maybe not. I guess the point is, is there anyway to stsrt datting as a teen out of highschool? Submitted October 28, 2021 at 11:56PM (For some perspective im 16 male that is into all genders) I got to the point where i love myself and I really want to be in a relationship. My high school is for kids with anxiety and deppresion and my grade has litterly 7 kids. Im not saying its not possible to find someone there, its just there are only 2 girls that im not that into and im pretty sure all the guys are straight but maybe not.I guess the point is, is there anyway to stsrt datting as a teen out of hig...

I'm between 35-40F and I'm back using dating apps now. Pre covid, it was really easy to get plenty of dates. I feel like it has not been easy anymore. Is it because I'm 1.5 years older since covid started or is it because of covid that people aren't dating as much? Also I wonder if many single people left the Bay area. Something changed and I'm not sure how to address this. Submitted October 29, 2021 at 12:04AM I'm between 35-40F and I'm back using dating apps now. Pre covid, it was really easy to get plenty of dates.I feel like it has not been easy anymore.Is it because I'm 1.5 years older since covid started or is it because of covid that people aren't dating as much?Also I wonder if many single people left the Bay area.Something changed and I'm not sure how to address this.

I have good friends and great relationships with colleagues at work. I hang out with my friends at least once or twice a week either on or offline. My work allows me to meet many people and stay very social. But at the end of all this I feel so, so lonely. I do not have a good relationship with my family due to past events and barely speak with most of them besides my brother. I don’t have a girlfriend but feel a need for some kind of affection other than friendly jokes and conversations. I just want to be able to hug somebody. I don’t want sex or anything, I just want to feel like someone cares for me like I care for them. I feel so neglected. The other day I had a colleague of mine take my blood (I work in healthcare) and even the small amount of contact just touching and moving my arm made me feel almost relaxed. Is that how low my standards for physical contact have become? That being stabbed with a needle is comforting… how do I overcome this. Submitted October 29, 2021 at 1...

I met this guy, we exchanged numbers and texted for hours. I initiated a hang out and we had the best fricken time. We have a lot in common and we’re just laughing and talking the whole time. We text a lot. I mean, the conversations are great and in depth. So I’m wondering why he hasn’t asked to hang out yet. I thought maybe he’s waiting for me to ask again? If he wasn’t interested he wouldn’t put so much effort thru text, so idk what do you guys think Submitted October 29, 2021 at 12:16AM I met this guy, we exchanged numbers and texted for hours. I initiated a hang out and we had the best fricken time. We have a lot in common and we’re just laughing and talking the whole time. We text a lot. I mean, the conversations are great and in depth. So I’m wondering why he hasn’t asked to hang out yet. I thought maybe he’s waiting for me to ask again? If he wasn’t interested he wouldn’t put so much effort thru text, so idk what do you guys think

Since my husband and I have started dating I have gained 40 pounds in the past seven years. I have talked about my weight off off and on but the other day after I had sex with my husband he told me that my weight gain has made him less attractive to me, and on my weight may be the reason why he can’t get off so fast. This by the way was after we had had really good sex. I know he’s an honest person Who likes to share his feelings but I feel like there are times are honesty can go to far and this comment really hurt me. I just wanna make sure I’m correct in what I’m thinking. do you believe a statement like this is considered abusive? Submitted October 28, 2021 at 11:30PM Since my husband and I have started dating I have gained 40 pounds in the past seven years. I have talked about my weight off off and on but the other day after I had sex with my husband he told me that my weight gain has made him less attractive to me, and on my weight may be the reason why he can’t get off so ...