I (20M) not sure how to handle this scenario with (19F) that reached out to me last week after a year.

So I met this girl on Easter of last year. The is my cousin's cousin. (I'll call my cousins cousin: Amy) (AND NO AMY IS NOT RELATED TO ME IN ANY WAY) I didnt met and greet Amy exactly but my cousin told me that Amy thought I was cute so my cousin gave me Amy's number. I texted Amy the next day, we chatted pretty good for the next few days. I finally asked her if she'd like to hang out some time. She agreed. The hang out was not the best, I think so. At first, while on the way to our destination I struck a nice convo with her. Awkward silences here and there. She had same taste of music as I. After, I take her to the beach at night, peaceful silence out there. Between us, extreme loads of awkward silences. Again, I'm very introverted so its difficult for me to initiate a convo. She did little to most talking. While on the way to take her home, even more silence between us, I play some music from personal playlist and she mentioned that she listens to most of the songs on my playlist. So we have music taste in common. Aside from that, I arrive at her home and before she gets off she gives me a hug and told me that she had fun and enjoyed it. I felt the opposite because I think I ruined it by not talking as much. Few days later, we stopped chatting and I did ask her out again, she agreed to hanging out again. Few days later we just stopped communicating. Not sure what was wrong. (End of first part) Next year, its Easter again and I unexpectedly see Amy again for a few seconds. We didnt say hi to eachother, awkwardness filled. Again, same night, my cousin texted me that Amy wants to talk to me. This time Amy texts me! I was pretty excited and confused. We start texting but I told her to call instead. We talked to 2 hours on the phone, this time no awkward silences. It went smooth. Next day I text her, eventually asking her why she reached out to me again. She types: "I decided to text you on here but you asked me "why you?" And I mean like I told you, I approached you again because I did miss you and you're probably thinking how can you miss someone you just met but I did lol also missed talking to you and you are just so sweet caring and such a fun person also can't forget funny and yeah I really did/ do like you"

She recently got out of an abusive relationship a few months ago. I'm not sure how to handle this scenario, do I ask her out? Does this mean something good or bad? What are you thoughts? I need help with this.

Submitted May 02, 2019 at 06:37AM

So I met this girl on Easter of last year. The is my cousin's cousin. (I'll call my cousins cousin: Amy) (AND NO AMY IS NOT RELATED TO ME IN ANY WAY) I didnt met and greet Amy exactly but my cousin told me that Amy thought I was cute so my cousin gave me Amy's number. I texted Amy the next day, we chatted pretty good for the next few days. I finally asked her if she'd like to hang out some time. She agreed. The hang out was not the best, I think so. At first, while on the way to our destination I struck a nice convo with her. Awkward silences here and there. She had same taste of music as I. After, I take her to the beach at night, peaceful silence out there. Between us, extreme loads of awkward silences. Again, I'm very introverted so its difficult for me to initiate a convo. She did little to most talking. While on the way to take her home, even more silence between us, I play some music from personal playlist and she mentioned that she listens to most of the songs on my playlist. So we have music taste in common. Aside from that, I arrive at her home and before she gets off she gives me a hug and told me that she had fun and enjoyed it. I felt the opposite because I think I ruined it by not talking as much. Few days later, we stopped chatting and I did ask her out again, she agreed to hanging out again. Few days later we just stopped communicating. Not sure what was wrong. (End of first part) Next year, its Easter again and I unexpectedly see Amy again for a few seconds. We didnt say hi to eachother, awkwardness filled. Again, same night, my cousin texted me that Amy wants to talk to me. This time Amy texts me! I was pretty excited and confused. We start texting but I told her to call instead. We talked to 2 hours on the phone, this time no awkward silences. It went smooth. Next day I text her, eventually asking her why she reached out to me again. She types: "I decided to text you on here but you asked me "why you?" And I mean like I told you, I approached you again because I did miss you and you're probably thinking how can you miss someone you just met but I did lol also missed talking to you and you are just so sweet caring and such a fun person also can't forget funny and yeah I really did/ do like you"She recently got out of an abusive relationship a few months ago. I'm not sure how to handle this scenario, do I ask her out? Does this mean something good or bad? What are you thoughts? I need help with this.