i didnt know this was a thing thank you for the info March 01, 2020 at 12:14AM

Before people ask, this is a throwaway account because there are certain people who know my main reddit account who I am not comfortable coming out to at this moment in time. Love y’all! March 01, 2020 at 12:11AM

as someone who isnt 18 yet i think nude drawing classes are useful bc you get to examine the anatomy closer and dissect it more fully March 01, 2020 at 12:10AM

Every time I see the word aphobe, I think it’s a bug or some kind of aquatic creature March 01, 2020 at 12:06AM

Well he’s not going to just understand it. And remember Asexuality is a large spectrum. Just understanding the basics of what a Demi is doesn’t meant he will know what your personal version is. I know lots of Demi’s that would never do anything sexy with someone they weren’t in love with. So he could easily have gotten confused by your willingness. February 29, 2020 at 11:50PM

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So last night I (19F) sort of lost my virginity and well he was fingering me and it felt good, but at the same time it felt uncomfortable, like I wanted him to stop but it also just felt good. I also wasn't as wet as I usually do when I masturbate, maybe that just created friction? Eventually I did tell him to stop and I felt conflicted, I've masturbated before, mostly with my hand but I also have a small vibrator where same thing happens, it feels really good, but at the same time I want it to stop. Very wet or not it's somewhat uncomfortable. I've never had an orgasm, probably because of how I want to stop when it gets good, so basically is it supposed to feel this way? Am I weird? Should I be worried? Am I too sensitive? Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:06PM So last night I (19F) sort of lost my virginity and well he was fingering me and it felt good, but at the same time it felt uncomfortable, like I wanted him to stop but it also just felt good. I also wasn...

Let me first say that I want to either learn how to enjoy vanilla sex again or outright, completely 'unlearn' a particular (legal, mutually shared) fetish. This has nothing to do with having illegal fetishes or being ashamed (although I am ashamed and embarrassed for reasons unknown to me, I know that there's nothing wrong with it, don't have a Christian upbringing, etc. I'm just a neurotic mess I guess, but that's not something I feel can be fixed). I've also tried certain things to fix the issue, but it gets tremendously worse with each passing year, not better. First, I tried not mentioning it to my significant other of 6 years. If we're being honest, it's not so much that I tried, but that I didn't have the balls to say anything. This did nothing but ruin our sex life so that was a definite no. I've tried not watching porn (and still haven't for quite some time) but that doesn't help. I still do this as it has a positive effect...

Do women care about mens butthole hair? Do you think men should shave it? Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:11PM Do women care about mens butthole hair? Do you think men should shave it?

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Would long term use of lube affect a women long term? Like she doesnt have vaginal dryness, we just add it for more pleasure and for having sex after too much sex and were still at it... like would it make her lubricate by her own less when she wont use it because she relied on lube most of the time? Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:14PM Would long term use of lube affect a women long term? Like she doesnt have vaginal dryness, we just add it for more pleasure and for having sex after too much sex and were still at it... like would it make her lubricate by her own less when she wont use it because she relied on lube most of the time?

This is kind of a weird question but are the males in your family circumcised? If you have sons or nephews I suppose this also applies. My brothers all are, I even witnessed my youngest brothers procedure due to a very large age gap. My nephew is not, he is intact. Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:15PM This is kind of a weird question but are the males in your family circumcised? If you have sons or nephews I suppose this also applies. My brothers all are, I even witnessed my youngest brothers procedure due to a very large age gap. My nephew is not, he is intact.

Why do we have to bring love into the sexual relationship? Why do we have to bring this deep rooted emotional thing into a physical act? Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:17PM Why do we have to bring love into the sexual relationship? Why do we have to bring this deep rooted emotional thing into a physical act?

A condom I just used had a tear on the packaging. The tear was in the top corner very high away from the actually condom. The condoms have just been sitting in my drawer for a month so there shouldn’t be any physical damage. Should I be worried or anything? Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:20PM A condom I just used had a tear on the packaging. The tear was in the top corner very high away from the actually condom. The condoms have just been sitting in my drawer for a month so there shouldn’t be any physical damage. Should I be worried or anything?

I [M19] messed up, it was my first time a few nights ago after drinking and I went back to a girls dorm. When I went to put on the condom i wasn’t that hard and after putting it on I definitely wasn’t hard enough to put it in. Before that we were making out and I was definitely into it so idk what the problem was. I went back that night after chalking up the night before as just being too drunk but the same thing happened. Even when she went down on me I could maybe only get 75% hard. I’m not too concerned with getting off as long as she has a good time so I tried to go down on her like the Nina Hartley videos suggested and did the fingering techniques etc. I feel like I was doing everything right but it seemed as if it just wasn’t working. She got wet but wasn’t making too much noise. So two questions: the first is how did any of you overcome not getting hard enough, and the second is, what do you resort to when the moves you thought would work aren’t working. I just want to be able ...

I know it's iconic, but I only watched the first part of it and it left a bad taste in my mouth. A woman with mental issues being perved on by her boss, who was obviously testing to see how much he could push her around. Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:22PM I know it's iconic, but I only watched the first part of it and it left a bad taste in my mouth. A woman with mental issues being perved on by her boss, who was obviously testing to see how much he could push her around.

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One night as my wife and I started to play, she stopped and asked "umm, did you chop some chiles today?" as her pussy started to burn. Oops, I should have worn some gloves. As her pussy cooled down, she was ready to continue. Not much can stop her when she wants it, lucky for me! The oils from chiles absorb into the skin and you can't wash it off. The oils will linger on your fingers and your lips for hours! Hopefully not her lips. Another afternoon, I was chopping my serranos before dinner. An hour after dinner, I took a shower, even had shampoo and shave creme on my hands during the shower. That night, "you chopped chiles, didn't you." This time it wasn't bad. After my apologies, her comment "hmm, feels interesting". Anyone else spice up their sex life with chiles? Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:30PM One night as my wife and I started to play, she stopped and asked "umm, did you chop some chiles today?" as her pussy sta...

Female here on throwaway. Anyone else here get super passionate in the lead up/beginning of sex and then it starts to not feel as passionate and you’re just all up in your thoughts? Other partner still just as passionate and the sex is good - I just can’t seem to stay horny through the whole process. Any reasons? Maybe not relaxing? The use of hormonal contraceptive? Any advice? (I’ve always had this issue regardless of who I’m with) Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:35PM Female here on throwaway.Anyone else here get super passionate in the lead up/beginning of sex and then it starts to not feel as passionate and you’re just all up in your thoughts? Other partner still just as passionate and the sex is good - I just can’t seem to stay horny through the whole process.Any reasons? Maybe not relaxing? The use of hormonal contraceptive? Any advice?(I’ve always had this issue regardless of who I’m with)

I absolutely love the idea of my boyfriend to moan from me making him feel good but he’s says that he just doesn’t moan. Does anyone have any tips to make him feel better maybe to the point of making him moan? Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:39PM I absolutely love the idea of my boyfriend to moan from me making him feel good but he’s says that he just doesn’t moan. Does anyone have any tips to make him feel better maybe to the point of making him moan?

So not to brag but girls are always into my body. The problem is, I have this fantasy where I am on an island like I said. I give all the sex to this one girl as she rides me, she gets all of me and all the pleasure while the other girl, just to be cruel, she gets none. She gets to watch and be left to the side and ignored, only able to watch us. Watch her friend get all of the sex as she rides me in ecstasy. There's a video where two ebony cheerleader girls wearing sockings ride this white guy. they are both gorgeous.. but majority of the video it's her friend riding him she just sits around and touches herself or spanks her friends butt. Tall, lean but athletic, nice butts. Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:39PM So not to brag but girls are always into my body. The problem is, I have this fantasy where I am on an island like I said. I give all the sex to this one girl as she rides me, she gets all of me and all the pleasure while the other girl, just to be cruel, she...

(My post got removed yesterday and I wanna try this again just in case) When I mean “first” I mean that the first time I ever did anything was with a girl but I was drunk and don’t remember anything. Well so I have been with a girl but it really wasn’t fun for me and I’ve wanted to experience a lot. I’m not bi curious or anything I know what I like. I just never put myself out there for myself to do anything with girls. I’m not saying it’ll happen in a week or so but this chick is really fun to hang out with and she’s pretty hot. I don’t like like her, but she said maybe we could mess around a little ha. So I want tips of any kind, please. What are some tips y’all would give me for my “first” time with a girl? Submitted February 29, 2020 at 11:43PM (My post got removed yesterday and I wanna try this again just in case)When I mean “first” I mean that the first time I ever did anything was with a girl but I was drunk and don’t remember anything.Well so I have been with a girl ...

Had problems with the last maybe four girl... was hard to get inside... and when it worked, they couldn't enjoy... pls help me... what can i do and am i really too big? 22x8cm... Submitted March 01, 2020 at 12:08AM Had problems with the last maybe four girl... was hard to get inside... and when it worked, they couldn't enjoy... pls help me... what can i do and am i really too big? 22x8cm...

“If I get all the sexuality’s I can summon the great rainbow kazoo of POWER!!!!!!” February 29, 2020 at 12:02AM

what a moron. "you didn't face the same oppression as me, therefore your sexuality is not real!!1" btw happy cake day February 29, 2020 at 12:01AM

Yeah, so rude lol February 29, 2020 at 12:01AM

I think I mastered it. I mean I think my post got him to delete all his comments that are trans/a phobic so uh yeah, fear the wrath of the aces!!! February 29, 2020 at 12:01AM

LOL ITS OVER!! February 28, 2020 at 11:59PM

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Thanks! Lol I’m getting like all the sexuality’s on my side lol. I got aces,straight and gay on my side, it’s like I have Pokémon cards February 28, 2020 at 11:58PM

You are very correct! The important part is that you should always fight back and not let yourself be belittled :D February 28, 2020 at 11:58PM

Yay :D fighting people off politely is an art that I’m sure you’ve mastered! I’m proud of you! And yes I also go ham if someone else is being attacked lol February 28, 2020 at 11:56PM

He posts in r/LGBDropTheT so i'm not surprised, anyone who does isn't actually LGBT at all (like literally in multiple ways, the overlap with incel subs and LGBDropTheT posters is insane) February 28, 2020 at 11:56PM

i like giving my bf a handjob and i have no problem to do it for a long time, im into it and he turns me on. but there were times he gets very close to ejaculate. he told me that and i noticed it before because he started shaking breathes heavily. at the point i feel sick and i need to stop, because i dont want to see or even smell his cum. he would turn away from me if he cums but even this makes me feel unsure, idk. how to get comfortable with him ejaculating and the smell of it? (i heard that cum often smells like chlorine and i cant stand that smell, makes me puke.) Submitted February 28, 2020 at 10:50PM i like giving my bf a handjob and i have no problem to do it for a long time, im into it and he turns me on. but there were times he gets very close to ejaculate. he told me that and i noticed it before because he started shaking breathes heavily. at the point i feel sick and i need to stop, because i dont want to see or even smell his cum. he would turn away from me if he ...

How do I turn on my partner she’s 32 and I’m 28. I feel Like I’m not warming her up enough or how do I start foreplay? What do girl like or what turns on a woman? I kinda lost I wanna know what girl likes or what guys do to turn on their partner. Also we have an 11 month old baby ever since we had the baby she feels tire I do my best to help after work out she’s a stay home. Thanks Submitted February 28, 2020 at 10:54PM How do I turn on my partner she’s 32 and I’m 28. I feel Like I’m not warming her up enough or how do I start foreplay? What do girl like or what turns on a woman? I kinda lost I wanna know what girl likes or what guys do to turn on their partner. Also we have an 11 month old baby ever since we had the baby she feels tire I do my best to help after work out she’s a stay home. Thanks

Hi there. For reasons I don't want to get into, I've been feeling less-than attractive, desirable, or sexy in any way recently. I'm not even 30 yet. I'm not overweight, and I thought I was pretty. I really thought I was. I used to be able to look at a (now ex) partner a certain way and they would pounce me. Less than 10 years later, I feel like I'm rock bottom. Undesirable, ugly, valueless trash. I want and need to change that. I want to learn to do things- that don't involve anyone else, at all- to help me to build back up to feeling more attractive, confident, and valuable again. Has anyone felt like this and worked their way back up to feeling better and more attractive again? I feel like I'm wasting my "sexual prime" 😓 Any suggestions? Help is appreciated 😔 Submitted February 28, 2020 at 10:58PM Hi there.For reasons I don't want to get into, I've been feeling less-than attractive, desirable, or sexy in any way recently.I...

So... this morning while I was still asleep, my hubby had already been awake for a while (he’s an early riser) and I feel him slide back into bed with me, scootching close to me in the spooning position. A few seconds later I start feeling soft and tender kisses on my neck, then down my shoulders...then he began sliding under the covers, continuing his sweet kisses down my back to my bottom... of course then I’m stirring awake and slide over to my back where he can have “easier access” to where I felt this was going... and boy was I right! Repositioning ourselves where his head was perfectly between my legs, he then began to kiss my freshly shaved pussy lips waking me up even more. Gently pressing his tongue between my pussy lips he started to softly lick and kiss my love button, making me sigh and moan. His hands were touching my inner thighs and sliding down to grab my bottom while his lips and tongue were steady at work...tenderly sucking my love button now and then sliding his fin...

Was thinking of getting the gravity butt plug to experiment with anal stimulation and wearing it in public. Just cause the thrill of it seems fun. Does anyone have any good reviews of the toy? Submitted February 28, 2020 at 11:09PM Was thinking of getting the gravity butt plug to experiment with anal stimulation and wearing it in public. Just cause the thrill of it seems fun. Does anyone have any good reviews of the toy?

Above, me and my girl looking for that. looking for good quality too. Submitted February 28, 2020 at 11:17PM Above, me and my girl looking for that. looking for good quality too.

I would really like to give my wife a yoni massage, but I have no experience doing that so I need advice on how to perform one. I have read that this is a practice where everything is about her and no sex is to be expected, is it? is it better if she gets off to finish the massage or is not advisable? Should the man keep the clothes on? Would you start with a full body massage to let her relax? For women that have enjoyed one, is it as good as it seems? would you recommend it? Please share your experience so she can learn what to expect from this massage. Should I use lube or something more natural like Shea butter or coconut oil? Any howto or guide would be much appreciated if you have one to share. Submitted February 28, 2020 at 11:26PM I would really like to give my wife a yoni massage, but I have no experience doing that so I need advice on how to perform one.I have read that this is a practice where everything is about her and no sex is to be expected, is it? is it bett...

One of my friends said she does this, and it made her boyfriend really work on lasting longer every time. But is this...like manipulative? Or is it okay? I think I might copy her. Submitted February 28, 2020 at 11:29PM One of my friends said she does this, and it made her boyfriend really work on lasting longer every time. But is this...like manipulative? Or is it okay? I think I might copy her.

I'm actually a virgin but I've always felt this way. If he can't get me off, why should I do it for him? But do you think this sounds too conditional? I think I'm afraid of feeling used, like just used me to orgasm. So I have to cum or else that means he used me...I'm not saying that's the truth. I'm looking for different perspectives. It's possible I'm wrong and that I have issues. But any advice is great. Submitted February 28, 2020 at 11:34PM I'm actually a virgin but I've always felt this way. If he can't get me off, why should I do it for him? But do you think this sounds too conditional?I think I'm afraid of feeling used, like just used me to orgasm. So I have to cum or else that means he used me...I'm not saying that's the truth. I'm looking for different perspectives.It's possible I'm wrong and that I have issues. But any advice is great.

It’s like this for me. I find the majority of sexual activity basically doesn’t feel like much, my penis is mostly numb. I feel they”pressure” and friction, it’s like satisfying the mental urge, but it doesn’t really “feel good” until the last 10 seconds before orgasm. Is this normal? Submitted February 28, 2020 at 11:37PM It’s like this for me. I find the majority of sexual activity basically doesn’t feel like much, my penis is mostly numb. I feel they”pressure” and friction, it’s like satisfying the mental urge, but it doesn’t really “feel good” until the last 10 seconds before orgasm.Is this normal?

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What are the chances of getting pregnant while using pill and condom at the same time? That's what I'm doing with my boyfriend. We used to use 3 birth controls: pill, condom and pulling out with the condom on. He asked me to let him cum inside with the condom but I'm still not sure. I'm scared of getting pregnant. Submitted February 28, 2020 at 11:39PM What are the chances of getting pregnant while using pill and condom at the same time? That's what I'm doing with my boyfriend. We used to use 3 birth controls: pill, condom and pulling out with the condom on. He asked me to let him cum inside with the condom but I'm still not sure. I'm scared of getting pregnant.

Ladies would you like if your man used a vibrator on you during sex? Submitted February 28, 2020 at 11:41PM Ladies would you like if your man used a vibrator on you during sex?

Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy. I haven't really asked too many girls out before but I think this 23 year old girl at my work is very cute and I'd love to ask her out. I've never really talked to her but I'd like to I just don't know how to approach her. One of the problems that I'm having is she's not really on the same shift as me as she works Saturday-Monday 6am to 6pm and I work Saturday-Monday 6pm to 6am. The only times we see each other are in passing. Now, what I'd like is some advice on How I should approach her? Should I just ask her out right away or slowly kinda build up small talk then ask her out? *At my job the company is fine with coworkers dating Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:47PM Hello everyone, I'm a 24 year old guy. I haven't really asked too many girls out before but I think this 23 year old girl at my work is very cute and I'd love to ask her out. I've never really talked to her but I'd like...

Since r/deadbedrooms keeps removing with ZERO EXPLANATION... Been in the dating game for ~8 years and got very little for the effort. Maybe since a rather large part of my generation outright never wants kids or wants them "someday" (aka "when i'm 40 and my biological clock is ringing), and I do consider that a dealbreaker. Now I'm 30. What little SMV I had is down to zero, and I don't earn enough money to make up the difference. My last long-term romantic relationship admitted she doesn't want to marry me or have kids. On top of that she's been fighting illness so the last time we'd been intimate was in 2019. At this point it's time to cut my losses. Deleting my accounts on all the dating apps, throwing out my condom stash, donating the children's books I still had...the whole works. The problem is my brain doesn't want to cooperate at all . I desperately, beyond words, want not just to get laid but have a lifemate and children....

My friend I’ve liked for a while asked me to get lunch Friday and his bdays this weekend too, so I thought I’d make a gesture of buying him lunch for his bday. We did meet on a dating app like 2 years ago, but it just has never gone anywhere. I don’t know whether this is actually going to be perceived as a gesture of affection or not. Any advice? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:57PM My friend I’ve liked for a while asked me to get lunch Friday and his bdays this weekend too, so I thought I’d make a gesture of buying him lunch for his bday. We did meet on a dating app like 2 years ago, but it just has never gone anywhere.I don’t know whether this is actually going to be perceived as a gesture of affection or not.Any advice?

I just found out that two close friends that I haven't seen in awhile have both moved out with boyfriends while I'm still single and stuck in life. I feel kind of "less than" because I'm the oldest of them too. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:59PM I just found out that two close friends that I haven't seen in awhile have both moved out with boyfriends while I'm still single and stuck in life. I feel kind of "less than" because I'm the oldest of them too.

I'm a 25 year old woman. I've been ghosted more times than I can count by guys or I've always been told guys don't see me as anything more than a friend. Last year I became friends with this guy (26 m) who I started to like more and more over the period of us being friends. Mutual friends constantly hinted that he liked me, would try to get us together any chance they could, and according to two mutual friends, he has a huge crush on me. I finally told him I like him. He says he likes me too, but just wants to remain friends. I have had similar situations happen in the past. Even with guys who supposedly like me and are crushing on me, they can't see me as girlfriend material. Even the guys who I have the best chance with and I'm sure it's going to work out, it doesn't even get anywhere in the first place. I have no idea what to do. I feel like I'm going to be single forever. He was honest and upfront so I'm not upset with this guy. It's jus...

So I got this series of text from the owner of my old job ( https://imgur.com/a/yZ4rZCb ) do you guys think this was an accident and even if it was how should I go about asking her if she wants to hook up because Id love to hook up with her tomorrow night. Submitted February 28, 2020 at 12:02AM So I got this series of text from the owner of my old job ( https://ift.tt/3aa7RDG ) do you guys think this was an accident and even if it was how should I go about asking her if she wants to hook up because Id love to hook up with her tomorrow night.

Yesterday I posted here, but I deleted the topic as I felt I had shared too much private information. After I asked the holiday guy why he didn't respond and if he was still interested, I got a 'lot's on my mind, didn't feel like replying'. I was baffled, I asked him if that meant he had lost interest and if so, could he delete my pictures please?'. No answer. It annoys me so much, I mostly want a response on the picture thing as my interest is gone now too. I've been OLD since last March and it's driving me crazy how some guys text 24/7, go on a date, then fall silent after a few days/weeks. Or just even before meeting. One moment I'm all that, the next I'm not worthy of a reply. I wish to meet a guy who just texts at a normal pace but apparently for those I match it's all or nothing and it sets these expectations and me getting my hopes up.I've reread my comversations but there's never a turning point, suddenly it just fades and i...

Edit: Just to clarify, I’m asking about metal brackets and wires. I wouldn’t even bat an eye thinking about Invisaligners. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:57PM Edit: Just to clarify, I’m asking about metal brackets and wires. I wouldn’t even bat an eye thinking about Invisaligners.

He'll keep talking about having me come over to join him and his friend on a certain day next week. He mentioned this a couple of times and I had expressed interest. Come day of, he is radio silent. I try to call him and he didn't even call me back. Only got a email message end of the night with some random video link. I get the feeling he changed his mind about inviting me over that night and didn't want to be bothered so, didn't pick up or call me back. I feel it's ok that he wants his space but he doesn't seem to communicate it in a healthy way.... In a healthy relationship, how would a significant other have handled this situation (in my place and his)? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:57PM He'll keep talking about having me come over to join him and his friend on a certain day next week. He mentioned this a couple of times and I had expressed interest. Come day of, he is radio silent. I try to call him and he didn't even call me back. Only ...

Seriously it’s so ridiculous. For the last several months I can’t get over a girl that would be perfect for me but she’s already with someone else. Everyone I run into already has kids and is in a relationship. And online dating doesn’t work at all for me. Don’t have time for that shit anyway. But it doesn’t work if I did have time. It would be nice to just fucking run into someone single, get a crush on them, then get in a relationship with them. Feel like that’s impossible these days. I hate it so much Submitted February 28, 2020 at 12:19AM Seriously it’s so ridiculous. For the last several months I can’t get over a girl that would be perfect for me but she’s already with someone else. Everyone I run into already has kids and is in a relationship. And online dating doesn’t work at all for me. Don’t have time for that shit anyway. But it doesn’t work if I did have time. It would be nice to just fucking run into someone single, get a crush on them, then get in a relationship wit...

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My girlfriend has been on birth control for one pack now (after a one month break cause fuck pharmacies) and she just started her second pack today. She uses the progestin only pill. Is she protected today? Or do we have to wait the two days (according to most sources on google) to have sex safely again? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 10:56PM My girlfriend has been on birth control for one pack now (after a one month break cause fuck pharmacies) and she just started her second pack today. She uses the progestin only pill. Is she protected today? Or do we have to wait the two days (according to most sources on google) to have sex safely again?

I am researching this more as I’ve had trouble orgasming over the past year. (Orgasms feel week and not satisfying - sometimes I can’t even tell if I’m having them. Have only been able to achieve with a vibrator the past year, and it doesn’t even help anymore). I have been researching info for myself regarding women, but having trouble finding resources designed for men and would like to suggest some to my boyfriend. Serious replies only please, thanks in advance. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 10:56PM I am researching this more as I’ve had trouble orgasming over the past year. (Orgasms feel week and not satisfying - sometimes I can’t even tell if I’m having them. Have only been able to achieve with a vibrator the past year, and it doesn’t even help anymore). I have been researching info for myself regarding women, but having trouble finding resources designed for men and would like to suggest some to my boyfriend. Serious replies only please, thanks in advance.

You hear a lot about random guys and girls hooking up and they're not even particularly attracted to each other, they just wanna get laid. I can't seem to do that? I've tried but there will just be a point during sex when I realise; oh wait, I'm not interested in this girl at all actually and I just lose interest immediately and lose my erection. I feel like most guys would just think, oh well, sex is sex. And then get the job done? Maybe? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 10:58PM You hear a lot about random guys and girls hooking up and they're not even particularly attracted to each other, they just wanna get laid. I can't seem to do that? I've tried but there will just be a point during sex when I realise; oh wait, I'm not interested in this girl at all actually and I just lose interest immediately and lose my erection. I feel like most guys would just think, oh well, sex is sex. And then get the job done? Maybe?

I have tried a lot already, different ways of fongering but nothing has worked so far, does any one have any tips? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 10:59PM I have tried a lot already, different ways of fongering but nothing has worked so far, does any one have any tips?

A tight pelvic floor is a condition is which... your pelvic floor is tight. It means that the muscles doen there are contracted most of the time and especially during sex. Often times this comes with a lack of sensation and pleasure during sex or even pain. Has any of you fixed this? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:09PM A tight pelvic floor is a condition is which... your pelvic floor is tight. It means that the muscles doen there are contracted most of the time and especially during sex. Often times this comes with a lack of sensation and pleasure during sex or even pain.Has any of you fixed this?

Pretty self explanatory, what are peoples opinions on kissing FWB in public? For example your out having a beer together. I have been doing this because we're out and I'm sexually attracted to him, but I have no feels and want to keep it that way for him, just wondering if this is weird. :) Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:10PM Pretty self explanatory, what are peoples opinions on kissing FWB in public? For example your out having a beer together.I have been doing this because we're out and I'm sexually attracted to him, but I have no feels and want to keep it that way for him, just wondering if this is weird.:)

'PLEASE LIKE ME' CREATOR JOSH THOMAS PROMISES GAY SEX IN NEW TV SERIES The Australian actor is writing and starring in the new autism-focused show 'Everything's Gonna Be Okay' 2018-12-14 Please Like Me creator Josh Thomas has promised gay sex in his new TV series Everything's Gonna Be Okay. Australian actor and comedian Josh Thomas, whose LGBT-themed show won legions of critical acclaim and a loyal cult following before wrapping in December 2016 after four seasons, is starring and writing a new show for US cable channel Freeform entitled Everything's Gonna Be Okay. ADVERTISING The upcoming comedy "revolves around Nicholas (Thomas), a typical 25-year-old still living at home with his single dad and two teenage half sisters, who is not particularly helpful in raising his siblings, one of which has autism. "However, when their dad becomes terminally ill, the girls have to cope with not only a devastating loss but also the realization that Nichol...

I am home waiting for him and I want him to suffer at work while he has to wait to come home to me... but i am horrible at this type of thing What is one thing I can text him to catch him off guard while make him... hard Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:13PM I am home waiting for him and I want him to suffer at work while he has to wait to come home to me... but i am horrible at this type of thingWhat is one thing I can text him to catch him off guard while make him... hard

I’ve only ever slept with one girl - my current gf. We fuck all the time and and sometimes moans a little when I’m going down on her or when I’m going at it HARD lol. Anyways, you know how in porn etc. Girls usually moan a LOT, and guys like grunt and moan... well I don’t really moan or grunt, and she’s pretty quiet. I breathe heavily I guess. I get that everyone is different and sex between two people is actually a very unique one of a kind thing, but seen as I’m not so experienced, I just wanna know if it’s normal for girls to be on the quiet side and rarely moan. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:26PM I’ve only ever slept with one girl - my current gf. We fuck all the time and and sometimes moans a little when I’m going down on her or when I’m going at it HARD lol. Anyways, you know how in porn etc. Girls usually moan a LOT, and guys like grunt and moan... well I don’t really moan or grunt, and she’s pretty quiet. I breathe heavily I guess. I get that everyone is different an...

I’ve only had sex with one guy for like 3 years. We’re now broken up but sometimes have sex together. The only difference between him and I? He’s already fucked other girls and I’ve never had sex with anyone else. Every time I have the opportunity I panic. Am I pretty enough? Am I shaved/waxed enough? Imagine the guy doesn’t like the way I do things... everything seems so far from normalcy and it’s very awkward. Has anyone been there? Can anyone help? I am desperate. Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:32PM I’ve only had sex with one guy for like 3 years. We’re now broken up but sometimes have sex together. The only difference between him and I? He’s already fucked other girls and I’ve never had sex with anyone else.Every time I have the opportunity I panic. Am I pretty enough? Am I shaved/waxed enough? Imagine the guy doesn’t like the way I do things... everything seems so far from normalcy and it’s very awkward.Has anyone been there? Can anyone help? I am desperate.

She has only been in relationships where her opinion or pleasure didn't matter. But for me it matters quiet a lot. So whenever I ask her about stuff, she just doesn't know what to say. So I start to feel awkward about it for even asking and then it upsets me because I still don't know what she thinks about the stuff. Like there could be some fetish or kink hidden or something.. And I'm quiet the talker, about everything. I want to help her into talking more about things but I just don't know how to help her. I've tried a slow approach or whatever but it seems to always result in her just not knowing what to say.. Any insight on this? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:32PM She has only been in relationships where her opinion or pleasure didn't matter. But for me it matters quiet a lot. So whenever I ask her about stuff, she just doesn't know what to say. So I start to feel awkward about it for even asking and then it upsets me because I still don...

Just bought some handcuffs for the bedroom and I am curious on the best way for me to use them on my boyfriend and him on me ( F). Tips would be great! Submitted February 27, 2020 at 11:48PM Just bought some handcuffs for the bedroom and I am curious on the best way for me to use them on my boyfriend and him on me ( F). Tips would be great!

I had sex for the first time and it’s been 3 days and everytime I open my bowel I start bleeding (medium with clots)! I was wondering if that is dangerous and I’m really freaking out! It doesn’t happen when I pee though? Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:52PM I had sex for the first time and it’s been 3 days and everytime I open my bowel I start bleeding (medium with clots)! I was wondering if that is dangerous and I’m really freaking out! It doesn’t happen when I pee though?

Throwaway because a lot of family/friends know my username. Context : me and my gf (both in our 20s) have been together for 8 years, live together and things are pretty good ! We communicate a lot and quite early in our relationship she mentionned she was attracted to both men and women. No bother, i'm pretty open about this stuff, so i said sure, we can be looking for a threesome or even open the relationship a bit, in the sense where we can both look for fun elsewhere and still have our loving relationship together. It took a while for things to get in motion, due to many different factors, but last week we matched with this girl on a popular online dating app, she's basically in the same spot as my gf, except she's single. She's looking to experiment both with a woman and with a threesome situation, so great ! We talked every day since we matched and even though we mentionned early on in the discussion what we were looking for, we all agreed to start by learning ...

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21 female, did all the necessary research before I decided to get my first dildo. Bought some lube, stretched my hymen out pretty far already, have used this 4-5 inch thing with it for a month and I’ve slowly been getting used to it. Now, my most annoying problem is that any time I try to pull the dildo out, the back of the head gets jammed against this noticeable dip at the top of my vagina and it hurts like hell if I try to remove it at normal speed. So much so that I have to go excruciatingly slow to pull it out. I don’t think it’s my another part of my hymen? It’s not a thin membrane and the dip is a little ways inside but still closer to the entrance. As for the toy, I believe the dildo in question is a medium/ ‘softer’ firm firmness and the exact model can be found on Eden Fantasies, called ‘Perfecto.’ Is it me? Is it the dildo’s head being too firm for my body? Is there a way for me to get myself used to this so it’ll stop hurting? And yes, I am using a lot of lube to try and...

I like being eaten out but not as much as I like PIV sex. It’s weird because I see most girls posting online about how they can’t have an orgasm with just PIV sex but that’s the ONLY way I can orgasm (yes I am sure I know what an orgasm feels like). I hate when oral sex lasts too long, it’s a nice way to start out for a few minutes but the actual PIV sex part is what I enjoy most. I also have never, ever, EVER felt the need to masturbate and the only times i’ve tried it, it’s because i’ve felt like it’s weird that I don’t masturbate while majority of women do. I don’t enjoy it at all regardless of toys or my fingers. I guess I’m “vanilla” but I enjoy the warmth and sensation of an actual human penis more and I’m not horny enough to want a substitute. I guess I’m just venting here because I feel like I’m weird for being this way? Help!! Am I weird for this? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:00AM I like being eaten out but not as much as I like PIV sex. It’s weird because I see mo...

What are some ways to make sure an escort isn't affiliated with LE? My go-to was to ask them to write my name on a piece of paper lol. But that might just verify they are legit rather than not being affiliated with LE... Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:02AM What are some ways to make sure an escort isn't affiliated with LE? My go-to was to ask them to write my name on a piece of paper lol. But that might just verify they are legit rather than not being affiliated with LE...

i started seeing this guy and we're both crazy into freaky bdsm. he hurts me really well and after our first session this weekend my ass was wholly bruised, like i got beat the fuck up. it looks medical but otherwise feels normal. it's been about 3 days and i'm nearly healed, by the end of the week when i see him again i'll probably be back to normal. he says he was only getting started this time and i assume later sessions might be even more brutal. i don't know what we are yet or how long this will go on for, but assuming that i see him at least once a week for the forseeable months, will this actually fuck up my veins and tissue at some point? what type of damage is this causing? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:03AM i started seeing this guy and we're both crazy into freaky bdsm. he hurts me really well and after our first session this weekend my ass was wholly bruised, like i got beat the fuck up. it looks medical but otherwise feels normal. it...

We live together. Shortly after I moved in he asked me to ask permission to masturbate. That was fine, so I did. He basically always said yes. A few times he wasn't available to ask so I masturbated anyway. I later confessed, and he said it was fine. But then it happened again and I confessed again. At this time he admitted he never liked that I masturbated anyway, and he doesn't masturbate, and would really prefer if I didn't. He really doesn't, I promise. So it's not a double standard. So anyway I reluctantly agreed and didn't masturbate for a whole year. I asked if we could buy a vibrator so he could use it on me, and he said no, and used the example should we get a fleshlight for you to use on me? To try to convince me using a toy would be weird. I just wanted it so he could get me off faster, it takes like 30 minutes with his hand. Recently I gave in and haven't stopped since, though I do feel bad. What should I do? Submitted February 27, 2020 at...

Help! I have phimosis and today was the first day I was able to retract my foreskin entirely but it got stuck behind the head of my penis. Is there any way to undo this? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:16AM Help!I have phimosis and today was the first day I was able to retract my foreskin entirely but it got stuck behind the head of my penis. Is there any way to undo this?

Hi Reddit, I can't find a clear answer online so I want to ask you. Me and my girlfriend want preform oral sex on eachother, but we have a question about using protection. We are having (unprotected) sex about 8 months now, we dont have any other sex partners and we both don't have any STI's/STD's. Do we need to use protection for oral sex Thank you in advance! Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:16AM Hi Reddit,I can't find a clear answer online so I want to ask you.Me and my girlfriend want preform oral sex on eachother, but we have a question about using protection. We are having (unprotected) sex about 8 months now, we dont have any other sex partners and we both don't have any STI's/STD's. Do we need to use protection for oral sexThank you in advance!

So I went to town with my flatmate and she was trying to set me up with one of her guy friends, I've met him a couple times and we get along quite well and me being drunk I was like fuck yea I want to get with him. He was very shy so it took a while to lead up to as we were walking around he was making sure I didn't get split up from them and he held my hand and then bought me a drink. we ended up making out and dancing and there was a little bit of touching (me rubbing him up and him grabbing my boobs and stuff like that) he decided to walk me home and came up for some water and he started to fall asleep so I said he could stay the night if he wanted. Now I thought this would lead to sex but I'm quite surprised it didn't. I generally thought if a guy came home with you he would expect that you would have sex but he didn't which is actually really nice to me. Anyway he ended up staying at mine and he just cuddled me all night and then this morning me and my flatmat...

9 lessons I learned from this Life 1. Giving too Many Fucks, Fucks Up Your Life Most of us give too many fucks: we care about some celebrity’s new car, our ex-boyfriend’s cute girl, having the latest footwear, and many more trivial things. Little do we know that giving too many fucks has a detrimental effect on our mental health as it makes us focus on having unrealistic and fake things that we might never get. 2. Choose the Things to Give a Fuck About We are wired to care about many things. However, if we want to progress, we must choose to only care about things that add value to our lives. We must stop giving a fuck about useless things such as posting a perfect selfie on Facebook or having the best swag in town. 3. Life is Fucking Full of Problems Never expect to live a life of everlasting happiness because problems will never end. For example, if you are poor, you will have money problems, and if you become rich, you will experience money management problems. Problems never end, ...

Goddamnit I love you. I love remembering how it all started. From sharing laughs with you, to having your arm in my mine, to having you cuddled in my lap, and then feeling your lips against mine. Leading to sneaking out at night just to see you and that leading to more. Now my heart belongs to you. I love your smile and the voice behind it, the way your lips are curved entrance me. I can’t help but taking the time to look you up and down to soak it all in. Your mind is complex and deep and wonderful. I love hearing you talk about the things you love, I could listen to you for hours. I want to give you everything I have... give you as much as I can. In the future I hope to be able to come home to you, to see your amazing eyes (and butt 🥰). Then hear you talk about your day. Everything from the highs to the lows. You are the beautiful girl I revolve around, the girl that makes me feel like I exist. Absolutely nothing compares to you. I love writing about you. I struggle to tell you ev...

I (25 F) have never had a boyfriend or had sex. I’ve barley even been kissed. I’m not “saving myself for marriage” or anything, just shy and unsocial so meeting new people has been and issue. I go through phases where I have no desire to be with anyone/date and then I’ll think about it and realize it would be nice to have someone. I’ve gotten so used to being alone and honestly I like being independent but I think I’m ready for a relationship. I want to try and start dating for real but the older I’ve gotten, the more embarrassed I am to bring up the fact that I’m still a virgin. What’s the best way to bring it up? Will guys think I’m weird? Any advice helps!! Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:33PM I (25 F) have never had a boyfriend or had sex. I’ve barley even been kissed. I’m not “saving myself for marriage” or anything, just shy and unsocial so meeting new people has been and issue. I go through phases where I have no desire to be with anyone/date and then I’ll think about...

I met this fantastic guy off hinge who is from the UK. I am from Canada. I spontaneously said yes to going on a date with him and it was fantastic. We connected so quickly, humorous banter, lots to discuss. We spent about 2 hours at the restaurant and then he walked me back to my place. I invited him upstairs and one thing led to another. He stayed until the morning and left before he had to go to work. He came over the next night and then the following night. It was honestly magical. I thought this was the first sign of a long term thing. Now, on the first date he mentioned that he would be flying home at the end of the week, but his company was planning to have someone come live in Canada more permanently at the end of the month. Once he flew home, we chatted on and off. He wasn’t the best texter, maybe hearing from him every couple days, but I was having trouble forgetting the incredible dates we had. Turns out his company didn’t need to send anyone to Canada anymore, and he mad...

What is a good conversation starter to your crush in chat aside from "How's your day", "How are you", and "Hows your week?" Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:37PM What is a good conversation starter to your crush in chat aside from "How's your day", "How are you", and "Hows your week?"

I was supposed to go on museum date last weekend but the guy literally never messaged me back on Instagram until today because he “didnt check ig in a while.” Honestly, I’m really debating if I should continue talking to him since I had waited all day to hear back but he decides to go MIA for a couple days instead. I thought he was “different” he seemed pretty nice and genuinely interested in talking but now I feel like I’m wasting my time putting in extra effort when a guy only puts in half Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:41PM I was supposed to go on museum date last weekend but the guy literally never messaged me back on Instagram until today because he “didnt check ig in a while.” Honestly, I’m really debating if I should continue talking to him since I had waited all day to hear back but he decides to go MIA for a couple days instead. I thought he was “different” he seemed pretty nice and genuinely interested in talking but now I feel like I’m wasting my time putting in ex...

I've had a traumatic brain injury for five years now and I haven't been able to make anything happen for nearly 3 years from my last dating experience to the point where I don't know what's going wrong. Online dating is basically going nowhere, along with mobile, and I'm generally too tired to go out and can't handle loud environments for too long. At this point I'm just going through the motions and am ready to give up. What should I do? Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:46PM I've had a traumatic brain injury for five years now and I haven't been able to make anything happen for nearly 3 years from my last dating experience to the point where I don't know what's going wrong. Online dating is basically going nowhere, along with mobile, and I'm generally too tired to go out and can't handle loud environments for too long. At this point I'm just going through the motions and am ready to give up.What should I do?

Alright so there’s this girl (15F) that I am (16M) interested in at school. She’s said hey to me a couple times and would call us “twins” because we are both tall (She said she was 5’10” and I’m 6’7”). Earlier today in study hall I asked for her snap and she took my phone and added herself for me. The issue is though, is that she never added me back lol. Is there a chance she just forgot to add me back? All of this happened before class ended. I guess I was getting the wrong signals from her and she’s probably not interested. I’ll talk to her tomorrow but probably won’t bring up that she never added me, or if I do it’ll be in a joking type of way. Any help about this? Anyone of y’all been in this type of situation before? Thanks in advance Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:51PM Alright so there’s this girl (15F) that I am (16M) interested in at school. She’s said hey to me a couple times and would call us “twins” because we are both tall (She said she was 5’10” and I’m 6’7”). ...

Hello guys, I'm 22 yo, male, and I decided to share my story, with confidence that I will find the answer of my question here. When I was  pregraduation enginner , I watched most of the RSD natural course and had a lot of results which I am very proud about that because in my area, there are just a few people with this ability. When I graduate, I was very busy for searching  a job and had depression and a lot of stress, so unconsciously I forgot the knowledge of being an alpha, and creative person. Even when I talk with a new girl, it is just a pep talk, nothing more. I stopped being funny, attractive and spontaneous and I don't know why. Now I work 8 hours a day as an intern in the bank and I want to regain this ability again, to challenge myself, to feel my fear, and to be a better person personally and socially. Did you have any experience like that and if you had this, how did you get from that situation? English is not my native language, sorry for mistakes :) ...