My (38M) married friend (40F) visited alone for 5 days.

My friend who is married (40f) came to visit me (38m) for the last 5 days. Things went mostly great, the instant connection that we felt 8 years ago is still there between us. We went out with friends of mine and everyone commented on how they could see how much we loved each other. The first night together the fireworks went off and we ended up trying to have sex. It didn't go as either of us planned because I'm bigger than she can handle comfortably. We tried again the next night and after a lot of foreplay and lube things went smoother, still a bit painful for her but we both enjoyed it.

We spent a lot of time connecting even closer than we were before. We took some road trips, and just enjoyed one another's company. Today she left, in tears, at one point turning around on her 11 hour drive back home to drive back here two hours because she felt heartbroken. I am definitely sad, but we both knew the circumstances when she decided to make this trip.

Now we are trying to figure out how to move forward. Her relationship has been over for years and she's been on the verge of divorce for a while. She said before she came here that she wanted to see if the connection was still there between us before she made a drastic life change. Now we are at the bridge, both of us a little afraid to cross it.

TL;DR My married friend came to visit me for 5 days. Things went great and now we don't know what to do.



Submitted September 09, 2019 at 11:54PM

My friend who is married (40f) came to visit me (38m) for the last 5 days. Things went mostly great, the instant connection that we felt 8 years ago is still there between us. We went out with friends of mine and everyone commented on how they could see how much we loved each other. The first night together the fireworks went off and we ended up trying to have sex. It didn't go as either of us planned because I'm bigger than she can handle comfortably. We tried again the next night and after a lot of foreplay and lube things went smoother, still a bit painful for her but we both enjoyed it.We spent a lot of time connecting even closer than we were before. We took some road trips, and just enjoyed one another's company. Today she left, in tears, at one point turning around on her 11 hour drive back home to drive back here two hours because she felt heartbroken. I am definitely sad, but we both knew the circumstances when she decided to make this trip.Now we are trying to figure out how to move forward. Her relationship has been over for years and she's been on the verge of divorce for a while. She said before she came here that she wanted to see if the connection was still there between us before she made a drastic life change. Now we are at the bridge, both of us a little afraid to cross it.TL;DR My married friend came to visit me for 5 days. Things went great and now we don't know what to do.
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