My [17M] sister’s friend [24F] is mad at me after we hooked up because she thought I was older

I have known her for not too long but she is a good friend of my sister’s. She is a bit older, but it’s not that bad of an age gap either. I started hanging our with her and getting to know her a lot and I have a crush on her. I like her personality, hiw good of a person she is, she is also a very good looking person, and she has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen in my life.

Well she came over to hang out with my sister and since she had some drinks, she ended staying over because she didn’t want to drive back home like that. She and I hooked up when she stayed over and I loved it. We started talking more and more and she found out that I am 17 still through my sister.

Now I just saw her again when she came over and she asked me why I didn’t tell her I wasn’t 18 yet and she seemed kinda upset. I apologized and she said it was fine, but I can tell she is still upset and I feel bad. I like her a ton and I feel like I messed up. She doesn’t text me as much as she would before and I want to make things right.

I don’t know what to do because I apologized already and she just said it was fine but is acting distant. What should I do? How can I make things up for her after I messed up?

Tldr: I hooked up with my sister’s friend and she thiught I was older than I am. She found out I am not 18 yet and she is acting distant. How can I make things better?



Submitted April 25, 2020 at 11:34PM

I have known her for not too long but she is a good friend of my sister’s. She is a bit older, but it’s not that bad of an age gap either. I started hanging our with her and getting to know her a lot and I have a crush on her. I like her personality, hiw good of a person she is, she is also a very good looking person, and she has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen in my life.Well she came over to hang out with my sister and since she had some drinks, she ended staying over because she didn’t want to drive back home like that. She and I hooked up when she stayed over and I loved it. We started talking more and more and she found out that I am 17 still through my sister.Now I just saw her again when she came over and she asked me why I didn’t tell her I wasn’t 18 yet and she seemed kinda upset. I apologized and she said it was fine, but I can tell she is still upset and I feel bad. I like her a ton and I feel like I messed up. She doesn’t text me as much as she would before and I want to make things right.I don’t know what to do because I apologized already and she just said it was fine but is acting distant. What should I do? How can I make things up for her after I messed up?Tldr: I hooked up with my sister’s friend and she thiught I was older than I am. She found out I am not 18 yet and she is acting distant. How can I make things better?
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