My (44M) girlfriend (30) got drunk in from of my kids (8M&4M)

I've been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. We decided to take out first vacation together. We went to Disney with my sons. Surprisingly, my soon to be ex wife was completely ok with this. Long story short, she decided to invite one of her friends (also 30F) so they could have fun while I was doing dad activities. Not exactly what I had planned, but went along for it. I wanted everyone to have fun. My girlfriend and her friend decided to go to Epcot and get drunk. They met up with my kids and I in Animal Kingdom. We all went on the safari and things took an unfortunate turn. The 30 year olds started acting up and tried to get off the safari to pet the animals. I had to get my girlfriend to calm down. Luckily, after talking with the guide they did not get in any trouble, but my kids told my ex this and now she's pissed. I'm also pissed she acted like this and have told her she CANNOT do this around my kids or it will cause issues. She never drinks so I don't know why the need to act out on a trip.

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TL;DR: Girlfriend got drunk in front of my kids and wife is pissed.



Submitted August 04, 2019 at 11:59PM

I've been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. We decided to take out first vacation together. We went to Disney with my sons. Surprisingly, my soon to be ex wife was completely ok with this. Long story short, she decided to invite one of her friends (also 30F) so they could have fun while I was doing dad activities. Not exactly what I had planned, but went along for it. I wanted everyone to have fun. My girlfriend and her friend decided to go to Epcot and get drunk. They met up with my kids and I in Animal Kingdom. We all went on the safari and things took an unfortunate turn. The 30 year olds started acting up and tried to get off the safari to pet the animals. I had to get my girlfriend to calm down. Luckily, after talking with the guide they did not get in any trouble, but my kids told my ex this and now she's pissed. I'm also pissed she acted like this and have told her she CANNOT do this around my kids or it will cause issues. She never drinks so I don't know why the need to act out on a trip.​TL;DR: Girlfriend got drunk in front of my kids and wife is pissed.
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