I (29m) have been seeing a girl casually (23f) for a month. Should I pop the question?

The question being - should we be a couple?

TL; DR - after how long / how many times seeing someone, is it reasonable to propose being bf/gf?

Have been seeing a girl for a month, like once a week so far. It's casual but I have taken her out a couple times (bar + clubbing one time, and then lunch + shopping for me the other time)

She's dropped what I think are hints shes up for a relationship - said she's mostly been a relationship person before & she told me if I was fucking anyone else to wear a rubber but think it was a trick to feel out if I was seeing other girls.

Btw the sexual chemistry is like 1000% good. We are quite different personality and opinions wise but so far its been complementary.

My relationship is a bit odd. I had one gf for most of my adult life, we broke up a year ago and since then I have only pursued casual sex, so must admit a bit unsure if proposing a relationship to this girl is premature / not best right now. Any advice?

Submitted July 29, 2019 at 11:59PM

The question being - should we be a couple?TL; DR - after how long / how many times seeing someone, is it reasonable to propose being bf/gf?Have been seeing a girl for a month, like once a week so far. It's casual but I have taken her out a couple times (bar + clubbing one time, and then lunch + shopping for me the other time)She's dropped what I think are hints shes up for a relationship - said she's mostly been a relationship person before & she told me if I was fucking anyone else to wear a rubber but think it was a trick to feel out if I was seeing other girls.Btw the sexual chemistry is like 1000% good. We are quite different personality and opinions wise but so far its been complementary.My relationship is a bit odd. I had one gf for most of my adult life, we broke up a year ago and since then I have only pursued casual sex, so must admit a bit unsure if proposing a relationship to this girl is premature / not best right now. Any advice?