Hey I just wanted to know when the spotting/ bleeding stopped because I’m on my 6th month of spotting and now it’s getting heavier but I still had like periods in between spotting. I’m just so confused if the spotting should be stopping soon and I know everyone body is different but I just wanted know when you guys spotting or bleeding stopped because it is getting very annoying at this point. Submitted June 01, 2021 at 12:22AM Hey I just wanted to know when the spotting/ bleeding stopped because I’m on my 6th month of spotting and now it’s getting heavier but I still had like periods in between spotting. I’m just so confused if the spotting should be stopping soon and I know everyone body is different but I just wanted know when you guys spotting or bleeding stopped because it is getting very annoying at this point.

Hii I'm a 19-year-old gay dude, who has trouble finishing the job when I'm with other people. I have never finished when hooking up with other guys, except for 1 time but I had to try super hard to finish. I have even had trouble finishing when jacking off to other guys through vidcall. I can usually get off pretty easily when jacking off on my own so I was maybe wondering if this is death grip syndrome? or maybe I'm getting too nervous around other people. There are times where I even struggle to stay hard when hooking up. It takes a bit of effort to get it hard again and It also goes away easily A few things I have been trying to fix it Jack off with a looser grip Jack off with no porn Not masturbating for a few days I think abstaining from masturbation helped the most I don't get too disappointed when I dont finish. I'm already pretty satisfied with touching and rubbing up against another guy, but I would really like to cum when I'm with someone else...

Nice June 01, 2021 at 12:04AM

I think it's because straights get mad that they might find someone attractive that doesn't want to have sex with them. June 01, 2021 at 12:03AM

Thank you so much! I'm sorry you had to go through that but I'm glad to hear it's better now. I'll try to keep an open mind and hope she comes around. Though I'm not quite sure how to do that without outing myself and after today I don't really think I want to tell her for right now. June 01, 2021 at 12:01AM

Target has a pride shirt that has asexual representation. The shirt is gray and has the words "pride 360" in block letters with different pride flags filling them in. May 31, 2021 at 11:58PM

The fancy one word answer to Hanya's questions is Amatonormativity . I found it a surprisingly helpful concept I'd never heard of until people on this subreddit pointed it out to me. May 31, 2021 at 11:58PM

That's Aegosexual! I'm in that category too. May 31, 2021 at 11:55PM

It's not a specifically Christian thing. Hitler and Stalin were atheists. Osama Bin Ladin and Tamerlane were Muslim. Ghengis Kahn was Tengri. Alexander the Great was Hellenistic. Robespierre had his own religion. Not to mention the entirety of the Roman Empire. May 31, 2021 at 11:46PM

So had you been diagnosed with OCD before this? Were/are you getting professional help for it? Have you brought up these new changes and been able to discuss them? The mental/physical connection is immense. Sounds like something has triggered you and your mental health has caused these changes. Sounds like you should try and address whatever the root issue is here. May 31, 2021 at 11:43PM

you too! May 31, 2021 at 11:43PM

Ik her logic is so weird. Pretty much in her eyes being gay is fine because you're still experiencing sexual and romantic feelings. But being asexual is weird because a person should biologically experience both sexual and romantic attraction. So if you only experience one over the other or less of one, there's something wrong with you. It makes no sense but that's her thought process ig May 31, 2021 at 11:43PM

So sorry you had to go through that! Really hope the situation with your parents improves in the future, and remember you have the support of a whole community here. Personally, the first time I came out to my parents, they didn’t say anything against it but were still pretty dismissive, as if it wasn’t something of importance, and still thinking I would change my mind in the future. It took me a few separate talks, some years apart, to slowly keep clarifying the concept to them, explaining what being aroace really meant, and also to open up about how their initial reaction had hurt me. It was a slow process but they did change their attitude. They started asking me questions and saying they wanted to learn more about aromanticism and asexuality so that I could could feel free to share my experiences with them. So yeah, don’t loose hope. Aphobia tends to come from a place of ignorance and it is possible to slowly introduce the concept to them and have them change their minds. That s...

Happy pride mate May 31, 2021 at 11:42PM

I'd say at the very least make sure they understand that it's not just them that you dont have sexual feelings for. I made sure my partner understood that I love him, but i dont feel any sexual attraction at all, to him or anyone else. And be ready to understand that they may need time to process what you are saying. Try not to make a big deal out of the sexual advances being awful. Definitely explain that it wasn't for you and that you may be sex-repulsed, but try to make sure they understand that it wasn't them that was the problem. Sorry I can't help more, I'm still working a lot of this out as well, and good luck.😊 May 31, 2021 at 11:32PM

That doesn't even make sense lmao. Ask her why she thinks being gay is fine but being ace is abnormal, when "biologically" they're not exactly the best for reproduction. May 31, 2021 at 11:18PM

I dont think so... there are probably reasons to explain whats going on May 31, 2021 at 11:16PM

As long as my cross country state one can, sure why not? May 31, 2021 at 11:16PM

No she supports gay people. Its just asexuals who are the weird ones to her apparently May 31, 2021 at 11:15PM

If it's about biology, so does she think gay people have the minds of children too? May 31, 2021 at 11:13PM

I feel your pain. I am pretty confused too. I am trying to make it through life by reminding myself that as long as I have a vague idea of who I am, I don't need to go down rabbit holes of defining myself to the T. Attraction is complex and confusing enough even without having to continuously second-guess the "type" of attraction. Personally, I tell myself that I just have to be open and experience things as they come. Trying to put myself in little boxes will only take away from the experiences. :) May 31, 2021 at 11:11PM

When people tell me this I just say, "I like to make jokes about sex because to me, sex is a joke" May 31, 2021 at 11:08PM

I’d prefer you refrain from referring to it as a “Christian” thing. Xenophobia is, unfortunately, a “humanity” thing. May 31, 2021 at 11:07PM

Honestly with me similar things happen when it comes to people thinking I wanna hook up. And for me the only time I have sex is with my fiance because I love him and while I don’t need sex, it's nice and stuff. But people seem to think me being nice to them means I want to have sex with them May 30, 2021 at 11:57PM

you’re welcome, always happy to explain ^^ May 30, 2021 at 11:56PM

personally, i don’t mind sex. i see it as an intimate activity you can do with someone, but i also see cuddling, holding hands, talking, video games, and all kinds of things as intimate activities. to me, it’s all about the feelings you have for the person, and the intentions of the interaction. May 30, 2021 at 11:56PM

Thanks for taking the time to read and reply. It feels good to have thrown it out there, and means a lot to know that someone kinda gets how I’m feeling. Thanks for the advice too. May 30, 2021 at 11:55PM

Hmmm... you make some good points. Thank you for explaining. May 30, 2021 at 11:54PM

Need to find me a love like that. May 30, 2021 at 11:53PM

Yes, I've always wondered about this! I think I'm just really a fan of Aesthetic beauty and for me that is Art, humans can be beautiful too, I am aware but beauty is in the eye of the beholder and for me I prefer fictional characters. May 30, 2021 at 11:52PM

Once upon a time, in a different dimension, I liked it, 2 bf's I had (at different times) but outside of those 2, I've had sex more times than I could count when I just wanted the person to like me or to not be upset. Because I'm the female and its my 'duty' to keep my guy happy. It was expected. I'm older, and wiser, and now it grosses me out. I can't imagine going there ever again. Yuk. May 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

To me, someone who is very sex repulsed, it’s just a HUGE invasion of privacy. I don’t understand it at all, and the thought of anyone having it is very uncomfortable and disgusting. May 30, 2021 at 11:44PM

arghh I feel that so bad.... I sometimes just want to be and feel like everyone else .. just go out dating without worrying If the person I’m seeing will eventually expect more from me than I’ll be able to give them, to just flirt with others and fall in love without worrying about their feelings and what it’ll do to them, to dream about my beautiful dream wedding and what dress I might be wearing one day, to dream about being loved by someone in a different way than just friendship or like your parents love you, to dream about cuddling with someone on a cold winter‘s day 😍🥰 that would be so beautiful.. but sadly I’m most likely never going to have any of that and that’s just devastating 😭 May 30, 2021 at 11:43PM

I'm glad at least one other person thinks like me😭💞 May 30, 2021 at 11:38PM

Indeed May 30, 2021 at 11:37PM

Oh, I'm glad to hear this too! 😁 May 30, 2021 at 11:37PM

I relate to this so much, it's like I've finally found my people! May 30, 2021 at 11:34PM

should not have to think about these kinds of things. Children shouldn't be aware family structures aren't always just a "mommy" and a "daddy"? May 30, 2021 at 11:31PM

I see it as something that only occurs in movies and get flabbergasted that people actually do it in real life. Nothing wrong with people that enjoy it, I just rather not be seen in a sexual way or wish to not be seen naked or seductive or something. Idk, I could never see myself being the seductive type. May 30, 2021 at 11:29PM

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So there is no way i can concentrate 😢 May 30, 2021 at 11:26PM

even better : you come out of the shower and then snuggle into your warm bed with FRESH sheets and while slowly drifting into your dream world you smell the scent of the washing powder and feel so protected under your warm blanket like nothing can ever happen to you and like *everything in the world is perfect 🥰😴 May 30, 2021 at 11:25PM

The way I think of it is 'You see a beautiful painting. You think it's stunning... would you want to have sex with that painting?' This is more of a description for the difference between aesthetic and sexual attraction, and it doesn't cover the romantic aspect of things, but I think it fits alright for a general description. People are paintings. May 30, 2021 at 11:20PM

Asexuals still experience arousal and feel “horny”. May 30, 2021 at 11:19PM

Well, then you're grey-ace or maybe ace-spike or ace-jump. Asexuality as a spectrum is the lack of sexual attraction. That's the whole definition. If you have sex every day, you're still ace ("It's the attraction, not the act). Not wanting to act on sexual attraction isn't asexuality, it's your preference on how to deal with sexual attraction. A celibate person also experiences sexual attraction but doesn't act in it, that doesn't make them asexual. You're valid nevertheless. May 30, 2021 at 11:18PM

I didn’t get far before realizing it was the wrong way, but I’m now scared I might have made her pregnant. I don’t know if there was pre cum or not. What are the chances of pregnancy? Submitted May 30, 2021 at 01:04AM I didn’t get far before realizing it was the wrong way, but I’m now scared I might have made her pregnant. I don’t know if there was pre cum or not. What are the chances of pregnancy?

I have a fuck buddy for two years now (this is my first fuck buddy relationship) and the sex is amazing, always intense and always just yummmm. I’m 29, and I’ve been in relationships also was married before but the sex doesn’t even compare. Submitted May 30, 2021 at 01:09AM I have a fuck buddy for two years now (this is my first fuck buddy relationship) and the sex is amazing, always intense and always just yummmm. I’m 29, and I’ve been in relationships also was married before but the sex doesn’t even compare.

I work long hours. I get horny pretty often especially since I take Testosterone. Masturbating during a bathroom break doesn’t really seem like a realistic option for me because it takes quite a while for me to orgasm and I also have to be in the right headspace. It’s not a one person bathroom either, there are stalls, so other people would be able to come in. I don’t think I would be able to masturbate in that setting, I wouldn’t be able to relax enough to enjoy myself. Is there nothing else that I can do? Currently I just die inside until I can get home. Is there any way that I can distract myself from feeling horny or something? Submitted May 30, 2021 at 01:14AM I work long hours. I get horny pretty often especially since I take Testosterone.Masturbating during a bathroom break doesn’t really seem like a realistic option for me because it takes quite a while for me to orgasm and I also have to be in the right headspace. It’s not a one person bathroom either, there are stall...

I get attached after sex meaning i want a connection but don’t want more than that. All my friends tell me i want a boyfriend but i don’t want to commit to one but don’t just want sex either. It’s really confusing and at this point i am confused as well. I think i have some jesus fancy because i was in a toxic relationship before. Is there anything I can do about this? Submitted May 29, 2021 at 11:36PM I get attached after sex meaning i want a connection but don’t want more than that. All my friends tell me i want a boyfriend but i don’t want to commit to one but don’t just want sex either. It’s really confusing and at this point i am confused as well. I think i have some jesus fancy because i was in a toxic relationship before. Is there anything I can do about this?

So I 18f have a bf 17m and we’re experimenting with kinky shit and his new idea to try is me essentially controlling when he can do anything sexual. So now tomorrow he hasn’t came from even a wank in over a week and a half. When he comes over what’s some good things I could try to get him begging for it? 😈 like proper torture him Submitted May 29, 2021 at 11:46PM So I 18f have a bf 17m and we’re experimenting with kinky shit and his new idea to try is me essentially controlling when he can do anything sexual.So now tomorrow he hasn’t came from even a wank in over a week and a half.When he comes over what’s some good things I could try to get him begging for it? 😈 like proper torture him

Recently discovered that sucking my bfs dick when I’m using toys makes me cum so much faster. 10/10 recommend Submitted May 29, 2021 at 11:48PM Recently discovered that sucking my bfs dick when I’m using toys makes me cum so much faster. 10/10 recommend

I know this will probably get deleted, but this was such a useful post and I guess I forgot to save it 🤦🏿‍♀️ But it was basically a guy sharing how he helped his girlfriend orgasm with psychological techniques. It was basically a tier list of what to do before moving to the next level. It was posted in the last week Please, help 🙇🏿‍♀️ Submitted May 29, 2021 at 11:53PM I know this will probably get deleted, but this was such a useful post and I guess I forgot to save it 🤦🏿‍♀️But it was basically a guy sharing how he helped his girlfriend orgasm with psychological techniques. It was basically a tier list of what to do before moving to the next level. It was posted in the last weekPlease, help 🙇🏿‍♀️

I’ve (27 F) been on antidepressants for a while now and I’ve lost my orgasm, I was wondering- has anyone been able to get back their orgasm while on antidepressants? My partner (26 M) has been doing his best but I need to know if anyone has been able to get it back? Submitted May 29, 2021 at 11:53PM I’ve (27 F) been on antidepressants for a while now and I’ve lost my orgasm, I was wondering- has anyone been able to get back their orgasm while on antidepressants? My partner (26 M) has been doing his best but I need to know if anyone has been able to get it back?

Our relationship has gotten pretty bad. The more dysfunction the hotter the sex. Its making me want to never be with a normal healthy guy because the dick is just too good...... Submitted May 29, 2021 at 11:54PM Our relationship has gotten pretty bad. The more dysfunction the hotter the sex. Its making me want to never be with a normal healthy guy because the dick is just too good......

So I recently got a blowjob from a girl that had herpes on her lip. How high is the risk of me getting it on my genitals? Submitted May 29, 2021 at 11:54PM So I recently got a blowjob from a girl that had herpes on her lip. How high is the risk of me getting it on my genitals?

Wouldn’t getting infected with both hsv1 and hsv2 orally help provide long term protection against both on your genitals Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:00AM Wouldn’t getting infected with both hsv1 and hsv2 orally help provide long term protection against both on your genitals

I have never discussed the smell in question with any partners, and I can't think of anything that it smells like. Is it the scent of something actually present, or is it like how you might taste blood in your mouth when you push your body to the limit, though it isn't there? Is it a hormonal thing? Is it a sensation that seems like a smell, similar to how you can "smell" when it is cold? I don't know. I have tried to describe it to a friend, and he doesn't have a clue what I'm on about. Any feedback would much much be appreciated. Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:02AM I have never discussed the smell in question with any partners, and I can't think of anything that it smells like.Is it the scent of something actually present, or is it like how you might taste blood in your mouth when you push your body to the limit, though it isn't there?Is it a hormonal thing?Is it a sensation that seems like a smell, similar to how you can "smell...

I'm 7.3 lengthX5.5 in girth erect. For when I get A girl i want to be prepared for when i for when i do the deed. I want some tips before going in so I'm not going in blind Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:04AM I'm 7.3 lengthX5.5 in girth erect. For when I get A girl i want to be prepared for when i for when i do the deed. I want some tips before going in so I'm not going in blind

I'm 32 and unfortunately had a difficult time growing up when my cousin sexually assaulted me for many years. As a result blowjobs were extremely traumatic for me. I had gone through many years of therapy, many different partners but I couldn't enjoy or get into it. I had panic attacks and then ended up going soft whenever my ex's went down on me. My girlfriend on the other hand is absolutely amazing and understanding. We have been doing different things to test the boundaries then slowly moving up from there. It took me many months but she was so incredibly patient and understanding, unlike my previous partners she never once got upset or frustrated with me. I'm so happy to say today when I finished work I took a shower, while I was showing my girlfriend entered the bathroom, did a little strip tease and got in the shower with me. I was naturally hard so she then started by giving me a hand job before getting on her knees to give me my first most enjoyable blowjob I...

this is super embarrassing but i love when my bf shoves my head until i'm gagging on his dick and crying.. but when he cums, he puts my head all the way down and i'm trying to swallow it but some of it comes out of my nose and i can feel it!! i usually try to pass it off as snot but i just wanna feel sexier when i pull up from giving head and cum running out of my nose is not sexy at all... any advice on how to take cum shots better?? Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:05AM this is super embarrassing but i love when my bf shoves my head until i'm gagging on his dick and crying.. but when he cums, he puts my head all the way down and i'm trying to swallow it but some of it comes out of my nose and i can feel it!! i usually try to pass it off as snot but i just wanna feel sexier when i pull up from giving head and cum running out of my nose is not sexy at all... any advice on how to take cum shots better??

For most of my life I have had a sexual fetish for women with big bellies also known as pregnancy fetishism and fat fetishism. For context I am a 24 year old male. I know that this fetish has its origins as an early childhood trauma response of mine that had somehow turned a neutral body part into something of a sexual symbol in my mind. This fetish has been a mostly negative psychosexual experience not due to rejection of it but simply because of the limiting effect that it has had on my sexual psychology to an unhealthy and damaging degree. For most of my life I could only ever get sexually aroused to this fetish. Because of this it has played a part in preventing me from having normative sexual attraction in my teenage years and has had a part in preventing the forming of intimate relationships that I could have had as a teenager and young adult. This inner block, this trauma within me is something I would very much like to heal and resolve so that I can come to a much healthier pl...

A question for the men of Reddit on the forum r/sex . Do boobs and booty make you hard? Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:13AM A question for the men of Reddit on the forum r/sex. Do boobs and booty make you hard?

Hello kinda wierd thing one night i was masturbathing while i masturbathe my penis suddenly shrink as in flat and not getting erection while thinking sex alltime. But everytime i wake up morning i have a soft erection not getting hard enough as i used to be for a week. Pls help Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:17AM Hello kinda wierd thing one night i was masturbathing while i masturbathe my penis suddenly shrink as in flat and not getting erection while thinking sex alltime. But everytime i wake up morning i have a soft erection not getting hard enough as i used to be for a week. Pls help

It will not hurt my feelings. I'm just curious lol. Please please please be honest. Do men fantasize about other women while in relationships? Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:18AM It will not hurt my feelings. I'm just curious lol. Please please please be honest. Do men fantasize about other women while in relationships?

Innocent context, but they went in for a huge, I hugged her back as a "friends" thing, dick sort of brushed against her (not a full boner). Nothing insane, just a bit of contact, she didn't seem too awkward after and actually went in for a second hug a few minutes after, nothing happened then, so I'm thinking she wasn't weirded out, hence the second hug. What you guys think? Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:22AM Innocent context, but they went in for a huge, I hugged her back as a "friends" thing, dick sort of brushed against her (not a full boner). Nothing insane, just a bit of contact, she didn't seem too awkward after and actually went in for a second hug a few minutes after, nothing happened then, so I'm thinking she wasn't weirded out, hence the second hug. What you guys think?

So im 27 and a virgin, never even kissed a chick before. I go to university and live with my parents but I had major, and still have some self esteem and fear of rejection issues that ultimately were the main reason for me avoiding sex and remaining a virgin. Just some advice, how screwed am I being this late in life in finding sexual partners, not necessarily long term partners, and should I be upfront about it or just lie about it with a woman? Pics for those who need more info to answer https://imgur.com/a/wXh7wfJ (first pic was during Halloween, I dont have actual teeth like that lol) Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:27AM So im 27 and a virgin, never even kissed a chick before. I go to university and live with my parents but I had major, and still have some self esteem and fear of rejection issues that ultimately were the main reason for me avoiding sex and remaining a virgin. Just some advice, how screwed am I being this late in life in finding sexual partners, not necessaril...

I have a new sexual partner, and I am using condoms with her. This is the first time in a long time that I’ve used condoms. I am above average, so I need larger condoms. So far with her I used Magnum Bareskin and Skyn, and they both suck; I felt nothing and it smelled like burnt rubber afterwards. A while back I used Trojan Supra, and I really liked them, but they were too small. Are they’re any comparable large condoms comparable to Supra? Thank you. Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:28AM I have a new sexual partner, and I am using condoms with her. This is the first time in a long time that I’ve used condoms. I am above average, so I need larger condoms. So far with her I used Magnum Bareskin and Skyn, and they both suck; I felt nothing and it smelled like burnt rubber afterwards. A while back I used Trojan Supra, and I really liked them, but they were too small.Are they’re any comparable large condoms comparable to Supra? Thank you.

hi guys, i’m seeing this guy and i really like him and he likes me too. i’m 19f and he’s 21m and he’s never even kissed a girl before let alone had sex. so i was just wondering if any of you guys lost your v card a little later than everyone else, do you have a reason why ? and how can i show him that he can be comfortable enough to do it with me but also he doesn’t need to be pressured too, thanks !! Submitted May 30, 2021 at 12:31AM hi guys, i’m seeing this guy and i really like him and he likes me too. i’m 19f and he’s 21m and he’s never even kissed a girl before let alone had sex. so i was just wondering if any of you guys lost your v card a little later than everyone else, do you have a reason why ? and how can i show him that he can be comfortable enough to do it with me but also he doesn’t need to be pressured too, thanks !!

We Stan a wholesome pun all the same. May 29, 2021 at 12:02AM

Came so far from Brian and Mike having to beg to let Korra and Assami hold hands with a glance. May 28, 2021 at 11:59PM

The pressure to pursue sex, and the feeling of brokenness because we don't, are still there, but in a different context. We are often perceived as "losers", "incels", or "prudes" because we either "can't get laid" or "hate sex". A major part of masculinity in western culture is the idea of sexual conquest and a strong sex drive, so it's difficult to figure out where (or even if) you fit in. I'm in my 30's and I'm still not sure there's really a place for me in "traditional" masculinity. If, as a hetero-oriented sex-neutral Ace, I find myself in a sexual situation I feel pressure to perform. If I can't (because stress, not enough foreplay, low on libido, etc.) I can't just use lube and fake it, and then I need to comfort her and assure her that she's attractive. I am extremely offended by the idea that just because I'm a man, I must be horny all the time, or can't control mysel...

Being a horny ace is a weird thing May 28, 2021 at 11:57PM

Honestly i did ngl May 28, 2021 at 11:48PM

I may have teared up a bit being validated by a children's show song. May 28, 2021 at 11:47PM

As an Ace Aro I agree completely! While I do feel the quote kinda doesn't consider the romantic aspect of a relationship, it still holds true. Friendship can be just as strong as a relationship and there isn't one that's inherently better than the other. All that matters is the bond you have with the person May 28, 2021 at 11:47PM

Even then it’s kinda gross for me May 28, 2021 at 11:47PM

oh my god ths is so much representation! May 28, 2021 at 11:46PM

Ayeeee Im here, Ace Aro to the core! May 28, 2021 at 11:41PM

Ikr!! It just kept going and adding more and more types of people. It’s great to teach kids that the way they feel is normal so maybe they can know themselves earlier and not have to go through the fumbling some of us do way later than our peers because we didn’t know there were names to what we feel. May 28, 2021 at 11:36PM

Like they are marching to war Loads gun "... huh?" May 28, 2021 at 11:34PM

My mind only goes as far to imagine characters kiss and hug.. Tbh i dont mind bc its so cute May 28, 2021 at 11:34PM

Damn its a banger too May 28, 2021 at 11:34PM

I literally cried watching this the first time. I love how a mainstream children’s TV show went out of their way to include SO many different kinds of people. May 28, 2021 at 11:33PM

I 100% agree, the difference in how I felt immediately before and after was drastic May 28, 2021 at 11:29PM

Sounds like what I would do. But... Would a knife count as a sword... May 28, 2021 at 11:26PM

Thanks that’s really helpful!!!!! May 28, 2021 at 11:25PM

I just imagine being hugged🥲 May 28, 2021 at 11:24PM

I thought this was her!! May 28, 2021 at 11:23PM

I'm glad they're putting this is a little kids show! It's nice to see representation 😊 May 28, 2021 at 11:23PM

why is this pic so ridiculously aesthetic, i feel compelled to use it in a mood board or something May 28, 2021 at 11:21PM

My husband was appalled when I told him I wasn't sexually attracted to Ryan Reynolds. Love my man May 28, 2021 at 11:18PM

18M I have got a chance with a girl who is hot imo. I know her boyfriend but we aren't that close. She knows that I am a virgin and she is very nice and comforting towards me as of now about the situation. I want to do it but I have conflicting feelings because I would like my first time to be with someone special that I have a relationship with. But that is a long time ahead probably because I am moving to uni in a few months. Now, I'm horny and Idk what to do. I also fear that other girls who I might be in a relationship with in the future find it negative and somewhat distasteful. Please comment on suggestions. I'm not clear on what to do and I need advice. I'm not lacking in the confidence department. Just throwing that out there. Please be kind to me in the comments, I am young xD Submitted May 28, 2021 at 01:15AM 18MI have got a chance with a girl who is hot imo. I know her boyfriend but we aren't that close. She knows that I am a virgin and she is ve...

I have to say i think im a pretty open minded person. I have tried many thing sexual, done personal research in books and the internet to learn new things, and have said yes to every first sexual experience i have ever been offered. So I have done a lot of crazy and fantastic stuff. What surprises me is how little people know about sex, sex play, the opposite gender body parts. Is this because sex is still a very taboo subject? we all look up how to cook, how to repair, how build, or how to play video games. Why is it so hard to find good content on how to have better sex? please comment what you think the reasons are. love one another and lots of hugs. and most of all Love yourself Submitted May 28, 2021 at 01:25AM I have to say i think im a pretty open minded person. I have tried many thing sexual, done personal research in books and the internet to learn new things, and have said yes to every first sexual experience i have ever been offered. So I have done a lot of crazy a...

My boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have been together for about two months now and have basically been messing around and such the entire time we've been together. I was a virgin and he was my first relationship, so he is more experienced than I am which makes me happy that he knows what he's doing. For the most part, the sex is great. I was never interested in sex or anything before him, but he just really does it for me. He knows how to press all the right buttons for me and it feels great. There is just one slight problem. Every single time he gets me close to having an orgasm, either through oral or rubbing me, I freak out and make him stop. Like, I'm all in the mood and I hype myself up every time to just let it happen, but then I get close, I feel this pressure in my hips and legs and know it's coming, and I just can't handle it anymore. I have no idea why I do this. I've never had an orgasm before, but I want one. When we first started having sex, I never ...

I've always had a hard time orgasming during sex. But I finally did it. During doggy style I decided to try to stimulate my clit, and it worked! I came, and I'm so fucking happy. I can't wait to experiment more to find more comfortable ways to do it and to see if I can do it in other positions. Submitted May 28, 2021 at 01:29AM I've always had a hard time orgasming during sex. But I finally did it. During doggy style I decided to try to stimulate my clit, and it worked! I came, and I'm so fucking happy. I can't wait to experiment more to find more comfortable ways to do it and to see if I can do it in other positions.

My FWB (39 M) and I (32F) have been using edibles together lately. Usually we have sex while on them and it really enhances the sex for me and makes me more horny. A few nights ago, we tried it and it seemed to hit us both hard. We could not stop laughing and cuddled and talked for hours. But he got so relaxed, he feel asleep without us having sex. Is that normal? We always normally have sex whenever we see one another. This is a new thing for me and I don’t know how to take not having sex with someone I have a sex-based relationship with. I’m interested in knowing people’s experience with edibles and sex, and if maybe they don’t mix? Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:31PM My FWB (39 M) and I (32F) have been using edibles together lately. Usually we have sex while on them and it really enhances the sex for me and makes me more horny. A few nights ago, we tried it and it seemed to hit us both hard. We could not stop laughing and cuddled and talked for hours. But he got so relaxed, he ...

My first time is later today. I'm trying to practice putting a condom on, and it just won't go on at all. Like, it won't even go over the head of my penis, and if I try to force it over it, I can't roll it down. It's Durex thin feel classic, and it says it has a large girth with 56mm nominal width. My penis is quite girthy, but surely it's not that big. This feels way too small. I must be doing something wrong. I'm using online tutorials, but it wouldn't come close to going on. Can anybody help me? This is urgent? Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:31PM My first time is later today. I'm trying to practice putting a condom on, and it just won't go on at all. Like, it won't even go over the head of my penis, and if I try to force it over it, I can't roll it down.It's Durex thin feel classic, and it says it has a large girth with 56mm nominal width. My penis is quite girthy, but surely it's not that big. This feels way too small. ...

Hi guys! About 6 years ago I (25F) contracted chlamydia when a guy removed the condom without permission/asking/telling. Since then, I have met my loving, incredible fiance (28M), but still feel insanely dirty and insecure about my past. I don't like his face or hands close to my vagina, so I haven't gotten head since then. My fiance is eager, and would love to try. Even though I've been clean and repeatedly tested, I still have it in my head that I'm going to give him an STD. How do I shake this dirty feeling? Any advice is appreciated. Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:39PM Hi guys!About 6 years ago I (25F) contracted chlamydia when a guy removed the condom without permission/asking/telling. Since then, I have met my loving, incredible fiance (28M), but still feel insanely dirty and insecure about my past. I don't like his face or hands close to my vagina, so I haven't gotten head since then. My fiance is eager, and would love to try. Even though I've b...

Hi everyone! This is my first post in the group and I am just looking for a little help. My boyfriend is on anti-depressants and can’t seem to finish without masturbation. Do you guys have any tips or tricks we can do to get him off normally? I really want to help him out. Thank you so much in advance! Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:39PM Hi everyone! This is my first post in the group and I am just looking for a little help. My boyfriend is on anti-depressants and can’t seem to finish without masturbation. Do you guys have any tips or tricks we can do to get him off normally? I really want to help him out. Thank you so much in advance!

My bf is the first sexual partner I’ve had, and I’m also a very short (5’2), slim built girl, while he is well-endowed and has a dick that’s kind of girth-y. The first time we had sex, he said he’d only put the head in but I felt a really intense pain and felt like I was already stuffed. The next times we tried sex he said he’s only put half or just his head in at most but I always feel like it’s the most I could take. So penetration sex for me just doesn’t feel as good and most of the time we’ve just been doing handjobs or oral sex. I think the hard parts are: 1) he gets very hard when we’re about to have sex and it’s difficult for me to put it in sometimes since it’s not bending. 2) I don’t get very wet and we have tried lube, but we also use condoms every time and I think I don’t really like the rubbery feel of the condom. 3) I can only fit it in when I’m on bottom, when I tried being on top I couldn’t even get his penis inside even if I stretched my legs out very hard. So Idk wh...

I don’t know if this belongs here, but I genuinely don’t know where else to go for advice. I’m an 18 yo female, and though I don’t have any sexual experience, I have interest in sex/sexuality. But sometimes when I think about actually having sex (specifically having oral sex performed on me) and experiencing orgasm I become genuinely terrified of the sensation, and often am reduced to tears. It seems to be triggered specifically on the mention of female sexuality, especially regarding the clitoris. It seems like a stretch that I think immediately that I may have been sexually abused/have had sexual trauma, especially since I cannot recall any time that has come even close to happening, I genuinely can’t think of any other explanation. I know this post in awkward, but does anyone have any advice/similar experience? EDIT: i also generally dislike masturbation. when i do, it’s typically over my clothes, and doesn’t do much for me. in fact, it’s often more uncomfortable than it is pleasu...

As my subject states, I am 64 years old. My wife passed nearly 10 years ago. A young woman in my neighborhood has been showing interest in me sexually. I've been paying her for a number of years to garden and perform other tasks around my property. She’s always been extremely polite and helpful, but recently she's become more flirtatious. Normally I wouldn't make any assumptions that a woman was interested in me, but she's made it very clear. She’s been complimenting how handsome I am, she's told me I could have any woman I wanted, "even a girl [her] age," and she's even offered to cook me a "romantic dinner" on a few occasions (she's in culinary school). I don't feel that his flirtatiousness has ever crossed a line of being distasteful, and it has made me feel more confident as I've been working hard to stay in shape. I'll be completely honest, she's an extremely attractive young woman with a slim, curvy body and she...

Is there anything sexier than a girl who can see the humor in sex? To make light of our respective crazy desires and fantasies. I've been chatting with someone in particular and she's already super cute and sexy, but then she has to throw in the humor card and that doubles her hotness factor. Who else thinks humor is sexy? Submitted May 27, 2021 at 11:56PM Is there anything sexier than a girl who can see the humor in sex? To make light of our respective crazy desires and fantasies. I've been chatting with someone in particular and she's already super cute and sexy, but then she has to throw in the humor card and that doubles her hotness factor.Who else thinks humor is sexy?

Me and my boyfriend used to have a lot of sex, multiple times a day and times a week. We did foreplay a lot and experimented loads to see what we liked. Recently he always says no to sex and head, he never wants to do anything to me no matter how horny I am and begging for it. I crave sexual affection and he’s not giving me any. I understand I can’t force it but sometimes if he does want head and I give it and make him finish he then refuses to do anything to make me finish. I just don’t understand how it’s gone so downhill, when our sex life used to be amazing now it’s basically non existent. I’ve invested in lingerie and toys and he will literally only fuck me if I surprise him with lingerie (which I don’t do often because he’ll get used to it and bored). I just don’t know why his drive is so low, what can I do. EDIT I just wanted to add that I feel so awful begging for sex of some sort of sexual activity so often. I know it’s bad of me but I crave it so much and I always get reje...

Hey all, I had protected sex a couple days ago. It was a great time and she’s said she’s clean. It was somewhat rough and prolonged sex but nothing particularly crazy. However, I noticed since like five hours ago the lower left part of my penis has started hurting. It looks fine, no bumps or anything, isn’t itchy and I feel fine peeing. Lymph nodes are okay as well. Has anyone had this happen to them? I looked it up and lowkey am worried it’s cancer. Does anyone know about this sorta thing? Is it just a post-prolonged-sex thing? Submitted May 28, 2021 at 12:12AM Hey all, I had protected sex a couple days ago. It was a great time and she’s said she’s clean. It was somewhat rough and prolonged sex but nothing particularly crazy.However, I noticed since like five hours ago the lower left part of my penis has started hurting. It looks fine, no bumps or anything, isn’t itchy and I feel fine peeing. Lymph nodes are okay as well. Has anyone had this happen to them?I looked it up and ...

I lost my virginity years ago but later found out what happened is considered rape. That relationship was very sexually abusive and I didn’t realize it because nobody had ever taught me about sex. My then-bf was the one who gave me “the talk” and ended up being coercive and raping me more than once. I thought those things were normal for the duration of the relationship, but once I learned otherwise I broke up with him, which was late last year. We were together for three years before that. I’m 21 now and I have learned a lot about consent. I’m female btw sorry forgot to mention that. It was traumatizing and sex with my ex used to give me panic attacks and/or make me cry every time. Masturbation has that effect most times. I found a guy I really like, we made out, same effect (he was understanding cause he knows what happened to me). We didn’t even finish our make out session cause I freaked. This guy I like is super fucking hot. I’m into him but neither of us are ready for a relatio...

For background, feet are my #1 turn on. I’m not a very kinky person, I actually like my Gf’s feet to be clean before doing anything and she’s very vanilla which doesn’t bother me, but when I try expressing my fetish, I get shutdown very quick. To more or less get it off my chest I am frustrated that my gf doesn’t let me practice my foot fetish. Call me selfish, but it’s driving me crazy. We’ve been together for 1 year now and she’s been great for me compared to my exes and I told her that I was into feet when we were in the talking stage and she seemed to be indifferent about it, plus she doesn’t have the most attractive feet. Fast forward to now and I’ve probably been able to practice it less than a handful of times and it really sucks because my relationship before her was encouraging with a foot fetish, in fact, my ex before her was into my feet too, but she was super clingy and annoying outside of sex. I guess I’m more so venting just to get it off my chest, but it’s drove me ...