My(19F) BF(21M) follows a lot of girls he doesn't know on social media

Throwaway. So, my bf of 2 years is a ginger and has previously told me I'm not generally his type but he still loves me and finds me beuatiful. I believe this is true as he has never shown otherwise. To get to the point, his type is ideally a ginger, or a blonde, and pretty skinny. Now, I am a brunette and got some curves. The thing is, he follows a lot of pretty, ginger, skinny girls with either erotic on non-erotic feed. Not like influencers but just like random girls with less than 200 followers and from all over the world. I guess he just followed every ginger girl he found... I know he loves me but this makes me insecure because he likes all of their pictures... and only when they are in it, like if they post a pic of their dog, or a landscape he won't like it so i believe he isn't really interested in their lives but their looks. I don't know exactly how and should i bring this up? I mean he isn't doing anything wrong but it's bothering me a bit and i can't even compare myself to those women so it's making me insecure about why he has the need to follow them on inatagram and like their pictures. Or does he go and look at them at times? I really don't know and i'm too shy to ask him that type of question... So any advice on how or should i even bring this up?

Tldr: my bf follows a lot of beautiful ginger girls on ig and i'm wondering if i should ask him about it or not and how



Submitted August 12, 2020 at 12:11AM

Throwaway. So, my bf of 2 years is a ginger and has previously told me I'm not generally his type but he still loves me and finds me beuatiful. I believe this is true as he has never shown otherwise. To get to the point, his type is ideally a ginger, or a blonde, and pretty skinny. Now, I am a brunette and got some curves. The thing is, he follows a lot of pretty, ginger, skinny girls with either erotic on non-erotic feed. Not like influencers but just like random girls with less than 200 followers and from all over the world. I guess he just followed every ginger girl he found... I know he loves me but this makes me insecure because he likes all of their pictures... and only when they are in it, like if they post a pic of their dog, or a landscape he won't like it so i believe he isn't really interested in their lives but their looks. I don't know exactly how and should i bring this up? I mean he isn't doing anything wrong but it's bothering me a bit and i can't even compare myself to those women so it's making me insecure about why he has the need to follow them on inatagram and like their pictures. Or does he go and look at them at times? I really don't know and i'm too shy to ask him that type of question... So any advice on how or should i even bring this up?Tldr: my bf follows a lot of beautiful ginger girls on ig and i'm wondering if i should ask him about it or not and how
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