Do I keep talking to her?

So I [m21] have been talking to a girl [f21] over the years on and off but we’ve both always had something going on in life to so things never really got anywhere. Recently we have both been available a lot more so saw each a couple times and have been taking/texting more. Over the last month however we both haven’t spoke as much. Sometimes she will messsage me first, but it’s always been at weird times like at 2 am when I’m asleep or a random snap video of her and her friend late in the evening. So I would reply an make conversation then she wouldn’t reply for days, again it’ll be super later at night when she does. Then this will repeat itself, the majority of the time her messaging first. I do quite like the girl but really cba with games. Do I keep persisting with her or just stop messaging first completely to see if she still bothers?

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Submitted August 12, 2020 at 12:05AM

So I [m21] have been talking to a girl [f21] over the years on and off but we’ve both always had something going on in life to so things never really got anywhere. Recently we have both been available a lot more so saw each a couple times and have been taking/texting more. Over the last month however we both haven’t spoke as much. Sometimes she will messsage me first, but it’s always been at weird times like at 2 am when I’m asleep or a random snap video of her and her friend late in the evening. So I would reply an make conversation then she wouldn’t reply for days, again it’ll be super later at night when she does. Then this will repeat itself, the majority of the time her messaging first. I do quite like the girl but really cba with games. Do I keep persisting with her or just stop messaging first completely to see if she still bothers?Edited to show age to follow rules