My mom won't stop farting and doesn't acknowledge it

To get straight to the point, my mom farts a lot. Like, really loudly, and about half the time also very smelly. Really loudly though. Wet farts. All the fucking time. In mid-conversation, whether or not she is the one speaking, doesn't matter if we are all eating or out for our meal, or at a bar as a family, or in the car, out shopping etc etc. The problem is is that at first we would be like "uhm...?" (because she never said excuse me; just pretended like it never happened) but that was about 10 years ago... 10. Long. Years. Over the years, we have gotten more and more aggressive and/or visibly disgusting with our "MOM!!"-ing. She may fart, we say "mom!" She continues to fart, we say "Mom!!!" She continues, we say "MOM!!!!" Most of the time she will ignore us, despite us saying it 3 times during one fart and her continuing to speak... The other times she will laugh at us. And guess what? Her laughing makes the fart come out even more so that makes her laugh again. Myself, my dad and my 2 brothers all hate it. So much. She might whisper "sorry" and giggle and pretend it's no big deal despite the fact we have left the kitchen table, abandoned conversation, and I have literally gotten sick from this. Like, physically thrown up. To be fair, I have gastroparesis and it's when I feel a bit nauseous anyway, but she has encouraged the food to come back up and out of me. Our dog used to walk away from the smell as well, the times her farts smelt bad. Every time a "conversation" lasts longer than the "MOM!!!" that we do, she feels AtTaCkEd?! What can we do to make her acknowledge she just farted and make her excuse herself without us getting angry and disgusted and actually giving out first! She never even says "excuse me." Just "lol sorry haha farts." How can we get her to acknowledge she just did something rude?! 10 fucking years. I'm just so sick of this. This was one of those times I almost got sick on the couch (I literally gagged) and she didn't even do her joking/mocking "sorry." I'm so sick of this, by all definitions.

Tl;dr My mom has been farting badly about 10 years, she never acknowledges it or says "excuse me" despite myself, my dad and my 2 brothers getting v disgusted and we tell her. We ask her to excuse herself and she just laughs.



Submitted November 25, 2019 at 12:06AM

To get straight to the point, my mom farts a lot. Like, really loudly, and about half the time also very smelly. Really loudly though. Wet farts. All the fucking time. In mid-conversation, whether or not she is the one speaking, doesn't matter if we are all eating or out for our meal, or at a bar as a family, or in the car, out shopping etc etc. The problem is is that at first we would be like "uhm...?" (because she never said excuse me; just pretended like it never happened) but that was about 10 years ago... 10. Long. Years. Over the years, we have gotten more and more aggressive and/or visibly disgusting with our "MOM!!"-ing. She may fart, we say "mom!" She continues to fart, we say "Mom!!!" She continues, we say "MOM!!!!" Most of the time she will ignore us, despite us saying it 3 times during one fart and her continuing to speak... The other times she will laugh at us. And guess what? Her laughing makes the fart come out even more so that makes her laugh again. Myself, my dad and my 2 brothers all hate it. So much. She might whisper "sorry" and giggle and pretend it's no big deal despite the fact we have left the kitchen table, abandoned conversation, and I have literally gotten sick from this. Like, physically thrown up. To be fair, I have gastroparesis and it's when I feel a bit nauseous anyway, but she has encouraged the food to come back up and out of me. Our dog used to walk away from the smell as well, the times her farts smelt bad. Every time a "conversation" lasts longer than the "MOM!!!" that we do, she feels AtTaCkEd?! What can we do to make her acknowledge she just farted and make her excuse herself without us getting angry and disgusted and actually giving out first! She never even says "excuse me." Just "lol sorry haha farts." How can we get her to acknowledge she just did something rude?! 10 fucking years. I'm just so sick of this. This was one of those times I almost got sick on the couch (I literally gagged) and she didn't even do her joking/mocking "sorry." I'm so sick of this, by all definitions.Tl;dr My mom has been farting badly about 10 years, she never acknowledges it or says "excuse me" despite myself, my dad and my 2 brothers getting v disgusted and we tell her. We ask her to excuse herself and she just laughs.
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