My sisters (18F and 17F) got into a fight and I (19M) am tired of dealing with it

I know the title sounds bad but hear me out. I have 2 lists (both younger). I am 19 and my sisters are 18 and 17, they HATE each other, I used t be like them but I made peace with both of them when I was like 14 and they get along and are close with me but not with each other. Its not just arguing but they have full on fights. I usually just break it up and act like a 3rd parent cause my parents don't really know how to deal with them and they are super rebellious except with me, I have no idea why thats the case but they respect me I guess.

This whole situation started at like 10 or 11, I was with the older sister in the kitchen and when the other one woke up and got pissed that we ate the rest of the cereal. I rolled my eyes knowing there was gonna be another fight, I tried to stop it tho by saying that id go to the store and get more and I planned on doing that cause I really didn't want to hear screaming THIS early in the morning. I got ready and they had full on red faces from yelling, at this point my patience is VERY low. I tell them to shut the fuck up and walk outside to get fast food for the younger sister as a sorry cause I was the one who took the last of cereal. I came home and the kitchen is DESTROYED. I see my older sister on the floor crying and I go to check up on her and wow it happened again she had a somewhat busted lip (it really wasn't that bad, was just a small cut that bled a lot). I went to my younger sister who locked herself in her room. She finally opened up and she had a bite mark on her hand. My patience is at a all time low and I kinda lost it on her I told her to grow up and she needs to stop fighting cause I'm done picking up the mess every time. She got kinda mad at that and told me that maybe I shouldn't have left and this wouldn't have happened. I didn't say anything and just left. I gave them cleaning supplies and made them clean up the kitchen TOGETHER. If they wanna fight and act like 3 year olds I'm gonna treat them like 3 year olds, they protested of course but I used the fact that I could get our parents involved or hell the cops and then no one will be happy. I would have never done either but it worked and they cleaned up their mess

I am so done with their BS and dealing with their BS, I move out to live with my GF in a month and I can't wait to be away from these 2.

Could I have done more to stop them from fighting?

TL;DR:My sisters got into a fight and I made them clean up the kitchen afterwards.



Submitted October 06, 2019 at 12:11AM

I know the title sounds bad but hear me out. I have 2 lists (both younger). I am 19 and my sisters are 18 and 17, they HATE each other, I used t be like them but I made peace with both of them when I was like 14 and they get along and are close with me but not with each other. Its not just arguing but they have full on fights. I usually just break it up and act like a 3rd parent cause my parents don't really know how to deal with them and they are super rebellious except with me, I have no idea why thats the case but they respect me I guess.This whole situation started at like 10 or 11, I was with the older sister in the kitchen and when the other one woke up and got pissed that we ate the rest of the cereal. I rolled my eyes knowing there was gonna be another fight, I tried to stop it tho by saying that id go to the store and get more and I planned on doing that cause I really didn't want to hear screaming THIS early in the morning. I got ready and they had full on red faces from yelling, at this point my patience is VERY low. I tell them to shut the fuck up and walk outside to get fast food for the younger sister as a sorry cause I was the one who took the last of cereal. I came home and the kitchen is DESTROYED. I see my older sister on the floor crying and I go to check up on her and wow it happened again she had a somewhat busted lip (it really wasn't that bad, was just a small cut that bled a lot). I went to my younger sister who locked herself in her room. She finally opened up and she had a bite mark on her hand. My patience is at a all time low and I kinda lost it on her I told her to grow up and she needs to stop fighting cause I'm done picking up the mess every time. She got kinda mad at that and told me that maybe I shouldn't have left and this wouldn't have happened. I didn't say anything and just left. I gave them cleaning supplies and made them clean up the kitchen TOGETHER. If they wanna fight and act like 3 year olds I'm gonna treat them like 3 year olds, they protested of course but I used the fact that I could get our parents involved or hell the cops and then no one will be happy. I would have never done either but it worked and they cleaned up their messI am so done with their BS and dealing with their BS, I move out to live with my GF in a month and I can't wait to be away from these 2.Could I have done more to stop them from fighting?TL;DR:My sisters got into a fight and I made them clean up the kitchen afterwards.

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