Issue with buying house

My wife (F30) and myself (M34) are in process of buying a house. Only I work in the family and I saved up $10K and put deposit towards is 3BHK house. It’s been 10 days and my wife is now saying she doesn’t like the house because the fengshui (changed concept, she follows something similar to fengshui) is not correct. She will only move if she can use one of the bedrooms as entertainment room. This will leave only 1 bedroom for guest with Master bedroom being used by us.

The problem here is we bought the house because we needed at least 3 bedrooms. One for us, one for my daughter from previous marriage and one for family/friends staying over. Both of us are immigrants and my family comes over 2-3 months on summer. She is new here and her family hasn’t been over. She is telling me her family will never come over, my family cannot stay in guest bedroom and she wants them to share room with my daughter. I don’t want that simply because I am not paying $500K on a house and not use extra bedroom properly.

This has been causing a lot of stress because I am at the point where I will lose $10K. She doesn’t care because she is saying losing $10K is better than fengshui not being right and losing everything in future.

I was discussing this fengshui issue with my parents because it’s a big purchase and I wanted some advice, my family told me they will manage somehow if my wife doesn’t give them a room but also said in not a nice way that she is trying create issues out of nothing. My wife snooped around my phone and read their messages. There has also been spats between her and my mother for a long time. I spoke to both of them when it all the boiled over last year and settled things. Now my wife is pissed again and I am very frustrated because I also feel like my wife doesn’t want anything to do with my family and trying to power play here.

I am upset because this house has almost all the things we wanted, took two years to find and I feel stuck because of her fengshui issue. What should I do?

Tdlr: Paid deposit on house, wife is not ok with fengshui, snooped around my phone and upset.

Edit 1: wording

Submitted October 05, 2019 at 11:54PM

My wife (F30) and myself (M34) are in process of buying a house. Only I work in the family and I saved up $10K and put deposit towards is 3BHK house. It’s been 10 days and my wife is now saying she doesn’t like the house because the fengshui (changed concept, she follows something similar to fengshui) is not correct. She will only move if she can use one of the bedrooms as entertainment room. This will leave only 1 bedroom for guest with Master bedroom being used by us.The problem here is we bought the house because we needed at least 3 bedrooms. One for us, one for my daughter from previous marriage and one for family/friends staying over. Both of us are immigrants and my family comes over 2-3 months on summer. She is new here and her family hasn’t been over. She is telling me her family will never come over, my family cannot stay in guest bedroom and she wants them to share room with my daughter. I don’t want that simply because I am not paying $500K on a house and not use extra bedroom properly.This has been causing a lot of stress because I am at the point where I will lose $10K. She doesn’t care because she is saying losing $10K is better than fengshui not being right and losing everything in future.I was discussing this fengshui issue with my parents because it’s a big purchase and I wanted some advice, my family told me they will manage somehow if my wife doesn’t give them a room but also said in not a nice way that she is trying create issues out of nothing. My wife snooped around my phone and read their messages. There has also been spats between her and my mother for a long time. I spoke to both of them when it all the boiled over last year and settled things. Now my wife is pissed again and I am very frustrated because I also feel like my wife doesn’t want anything to do with my family and trying to power play here.I am upset because this house has almost all the things we wanted, took two years to find and I feel stuck because of her fengshui issue. What should I do?Tdlr: Paid deposit on house, wife is not ok with fengshui, snooped around my phone and upset.Edit 1: wording