We barely dated but I can't get over him :(

I'm sorry for the long paragraph, but this is a weird a story.

So last summer I moved to a different city and i met this guy. We are both in our twenties. We went on a few dates. We kissed at the end of a date and the next date he wanted more. I felt like he liked me, and I liked him too and was very attracted to him but I'm very strict on saving myself for marriage which I felt like was a deal breaker for him. That night we just made out at his place. The next morning I texted him and asked him directly if the fact that I'm saving myself bothers him and he basically replied that I deserve better and that he is not the one for me. He added that if I ever change my mind I can let him know. I answered that I will never change my mind on that matter. So I just moved on and stayed busy but still liked him.

6 months later he texted me saying it's been so long since we've talked. We talked a little bit over text and he kept asking me to hang out but mostly to come over. We are both very busy working at the same hospital so I accepted to go over to his place and catch up. We ended up kissing. After that night, we mostly just texted but everytime I would offer to go out somewhere, he just ends up asking me to come over to his place and promised that we wouldnt have sex. But it really pissed me off so I just told him that I'm not the "come over" girl, and that if he doesnt want something serious then i'm out. But he kept calling and texting and saying that he would try. What was blocking him is that I was planning on moving out of the city summer 2020, but i told him that if something happens between us I am open to changing plans. However, I felt like nothing changed, he wasnt putting any effort and all he kept asking me was to come over.

So one day I blocked him because i had enough of those "come over" texts. I know with covid there wasnt much we could do, but i felt disrespected because that was all he could think of.

It's been now 3 months almost and recently i cant stop thinking about him, deep down I was very attracted to him and really liked him when we first started dating and I thought that the fact that he would always call and text after we stopped talking was a sign that he still liked me. I also hate that I blocked him before seeing what he was going to answer. I feel pathetic but now I have this urge to text him. so I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to move on from someone I barely dated and kept talking to on and off. I've tried dating but it's I always think about him :'(

Submitted September 04, 2020 at 11:53PM

I'm sorry for the long paragraph, but this is a weird a story.So last summer I moved to a different city and i met this guy. We are both in our twenties. We went on a few dates. We kissed at the end of a date and the next date he wanted more. I felt like he liked me, and I liked him too and was very attracted to him but I'm very strict on saving myself for marriage which I felt like was a deal breaker for him. That night we just made out at his place. The next morning I texted him and asked him directly if the fact that I'm saving myself bothers him and he basically replied that I deserve better and that he is not the one for me. He added that if I ever change my mind I can let him know. I answered that I will never change my mind on that matter. So I just moved on and stayed busy but still liked him.6 months later he texted me saying it's been so long since we've talked. We talked a little bit over text and he kept asking me to hang out but mostly to come over. We are both very busy working at the same hospital so I accepted to go over to his place and catch up. We ended up kissing. After that night, we mostly just texted but everytime I would offer to go out somewhere, he just ends up asking me to come over to his place and promised that we wouldnt have sex. But it really pissed me off so I just told him that I'm not the "come over" girl, and that if he doesnt want something serious then i'm out. But he kept calling and texting and saying that he would try. What was blocking him is that I was planning on moving out of the city summer 2020, but i told him that if something happens between us I am open to changing plans. However, I felt like nothing changed, he wasnt putting any effort and all he kept asking me was to come over.So one day I blocked him because i had enough of those "come over" texts. I know with covid there wasnt much we could do, but i felt disrespected because that was all he could think of.It's been now 3 months almost and recently i cant stop thinking about him, deep down I was very attracted to him and really liked him when we first started dating and I thought that the fact that he would always call and text after we stopped talking was a sign that he still liked me. I also hate that I blocked him before seeing what he was going to answer. I feel pathetic but now I have this urge to text him. so I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to move on from someone I barely dated and kept talking to on and off. I've tried dating but it's I always think about him :'(