GF (28F) pretended to cheat on me (32M).

My girl (28) had been with me (32 M) for 2 years, and we were living together for 1 year. It was a great relationship. We had plans for marriage, kids, etc. We would express our love for each other every day and how we were lucky to have each other. We had fun together...traveling, working out, cooking, adventures with friends, etc. I make comfortable money, so she would be financially set. This seemed to be the perfect relationship.

We had sex about 5 times a week, and we both loved (I thought) the sex. I gave her decent foreplay and she would cum at least once before I let loose. After, she would say that she loved it.

A few days ago, after blowing me, she pulled out a vibrator and wanted me to use it on her. I wasn't excited, but I put on my best face and used it on her because I loved her and wanted to make her happy. She was loving it, but my dick went limp after about 5 minutes of it.

When she saw my dick go limp she immediately had an aggressive outburst. She wouldn't finish the sex, and told me that my sex is boring and didn't like that it was always in the bed...and that if she didn't get the satisfaction from me that she inevitably would have to look for sex elsewhere.

Although, I was not happy that she was having an outburst and was not willing to engage in a calm conversation, I was happy that she told me this so that we could work it out. I forgave her behavior because it was her time of the month, and we had been stuck together for the last month because of lockdown.

I told her that I will work harder to fulfill her needs. I would plan to have sex with her in new locations, new positions, role play, and use the vibrator... whatever she wanted. She was not willing to acknowledge that this was a good idea. She would only rant that my sex is boring and that it is a big problem for the future. She wouldn't let me sit with her and slept on the couch that night.

The next morning, as my roommate and I were having breakfast, my GF was dressed sexy and made a point to let us know that she was going out. When I asked where she was going she wouldn't say, and said she had things to do. When, I pressed harder for information, she still wouldn't answer and defiantly left.

She returned a few hours later, and I asked her where she went. She said she went to the bank. When I asked why, she had no answer. I asked her if she was trying to mindfuck me into thinking that she was having an affair. After much deliberation, she admitted that this was the case, and that she had been doing it in the past in order to punish/manipulate me. She had left in similar manners a few times before, but I thought nothing of it. I just thought she was getting space to cool off from her irrational arguments. The only reason I pressed this time was because my roommate was giving me a weird look to signal me that she was acting sketchy.

During this conversation I broke up with her, and had her moved two states away the next day. She was crying and pleading to stay the whole time. Saying that she will always love me and that she wasn't cheating on me. I explained to her that the reason that I was breaking up was because she was trying to Jedi mind trick me into thinking that she was cheating. Cheating or dancing on the line with cheating is a no-go for me, and it was even worse that it was being used as a tool to manipulate me.

She wants to get back together. She says she has learned and will never do that again. She says she wasn't acting right because she was furloughed and we've been locked down. I still love her, but I fear that if we get back together, she will have to be watched closely as I don't trust her now. Should I give her another chance?

TL;DR: GF admits that she was pretending to cheat on me as a punishment/manipulation. I broke up with her. She wants to get back together.

Submitted May 05, 2020 at 11:24PM

My girl (28) had been with me (32 M) for 2 years, and we were living together for 1 year. It was a great relationship. We had plans for marriage, kids, etc. We would express our love for each other every day and how we were lucky to have each other. We had fun together...traveling, working out, cooking, adventures with friends, etc. I make comfortable money, so she would be financially set. This seemed to be the perfect relationship.We had sex about 5 times a week, and we both loved (I thought) the sex. I gave her decent foreplay and she would cum at least once before I let loose. After, she would say that she loved it.A few days ago, after blowing me, she pulled out a vibrator and wanted me to use it on her. I wasn't excited, but I put on my best face and used it on her because I loved her and wanted to make her happy. She was loving it, but my dick went limp after about 5 minutes of it.When she saw my dick go limp she immediately had an aggressive outburst. She wouldn't finish the sex, and told me that my sex is boring and didn't like that it was always in the bed...and that if she didn't get the satisfaction from me that she inevitably would have to look for sex elsewhere.Although, I was not happy that she was having an outburst and was not willing to engage in a calm conversation, I was happy that she told me this so that we could work it out. I forgave her behavior because it was her time of the month, and we had been stuck together for the last month because of lockdown.I told her that I will work harder to fulfill her needs. I would plan to have sex with her in new locations, new positions, role play, and use the vibrator... whatever she wanted. She was not willing to acknowledge that this was a good idea. She would only rant that my sex is boring and that it is a big problem for the future. She wouldn't let me sit with her and slept on the couch that night.The next morning, as my roommate and I were having breakfast, my GF was dressed sexy and made a point to let us know that she was going out. When I asked where she was going she wouldn't say, and said she had things to do. When, I pressed harder for information, she still wouldn't answer and defiantly left.She returned a few hours later, and I asked her where she went. She said she went to the bank. When I asked why, she had no answer. I asked her if she was trying to mindfuck me into thinking that she was having an affair. After much deliberation, she admitted that this was the case, and that she had been doing it in the past in order to punish/manipulate me. She had left in similar manners a few times before, but I thought nothing of it. I just thought she was getting space to cool off from her irrational arguments. The only reason I pressed this time was because my roommate was giving me a weird look to signal me that she was acting sketchy.During this conversation I broke up with her, and had her moved two states away the next day. She was crying and pleading to stay the whole time. Saying that she will always love me and that she wasn't cheating on me. I explained to her that the reason that I was breaking up was because she was trying to Jedi mind trick me into thinking that she was cheating. Cheating or dancing on the line with cheating is a no-go for me, and it was even worse that it was being used as a tool to manipulate me.She wants to get back together. She says she has learned and will never do that again. She says she wasn't acting right because she was furloughed and we've been locked down. I still love her, but I fear that if we get back together, she will have to be watched closely as I don't trust her now. Should I give her another chance?TL;DR: GF admits that she was pretending to cheat on me as a punishment/manipulation. I broke up with her. She wants to get back together.