Does she still love me?

So we got into an argument a few days ago because she has been acting weird and it doesn’t help that I overthink. Basically it was about what’s going on and why she is acting so differently. Like leaving me on read, not saying she loves me after I say it and just sending smile faces. Also just sending blank picture back and forth on snap and just not able to hold a conversation anymore. During the argument she told me to just block her and I kept saying no because I wanted to work it out but then it lead her to telling me to not message her all the next day. So I did what she asked and didn’t message her untill sometime the next day I messaged her like I’m sad about all this I need to removed you odd stuff because it makes me sad seeing you ignore me and what not but told her she can text me whenever on my phone. So she texted me about 30 mins later saying stuff like she’s sorry and how she was crying and what not and we worked it out but the it instantly went back to being left on read, no Ily anymore and juts back to what it was. She told me she was also really sad right now but won’t tell me what she is abkut and when she is so I can’t even help. And when I do I usally get the anger taken out On me Now I’m just hella confused on if I’m trying something that is false hope for me because i have never had something like this happen to me. Im pretty sure I understand she needs space but she went from being clingy to want to have nothing to do with me even tho when I ask if she still likes me she said yes and I’m always first option but her actions don’t say that and that’s what hurts. So idk if I’m being played as a backup plan or not.

Anything will help please. Please tell me even if I’m in the wrong I wanna know what I can do to keep her.



Submitted April 24, 2020 at 11:59PM

So we got into an argument a few days ago because she has been acting weird and it doesn’t help that I overthink. Basically it was about what’s going on and why she is acting so differently. Like leaving me on read, not saying she loves me after I say it and just sending smile faces. Also just sending blank picture back and forth on snap and just not able to hold a conversation anymore. During the argument she told me to just block her and I kept saying no because I wanted to work it out but then it lead her to telling me to not message her all the next day. So I did what she asked and didn’t message her untill sometime the next day I messaged her like I’m sad about all this I need to removed you odd stuff because it makes me sad seeing you ignore me and what not but told her she can text me whenever on my phone. So she texted me about 30 mins later saying stuff like she’s sorry and how she was crying and what not and we worked it out but the it instantly went back to being left on read, no Ily anymore and juts back to what it was. She told me she was also really sad right now but won’t tell me what she is abkut and when she is so I can’t even help. And when I do I usally get the anger taken out On me Now I’m just hella confused on if I’m trying something that is false hope for me because i have never had something like this happen to me. Im pretty sure I understand she needs space but she went from being clingy to want to have nothing to do with me even tho when I ask if she still likes me she said yes and I’m always first option but her actions don’t say that and that’s what hurts. So idk if I’m being played as a backup plan or not.Anything will help please. Please tell me even if I’m in the wrong I wanna know what I can do to keep her.

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