Was this being led on?

So I have been thinking about when I use to be friends with someone we went on only one date and I'm wondering if she was leading me on. We texted everyday after that date.

It started off when I asked her out for dinner on a Saturday when we were both off and she responds by saying that she would ask if her friend who always drags her into stuff has plans but never tells me. 2 days pass and I bring it up, her response is that she was sick and goes to a truck rally that Saturday. I only found out since she was texting me photos of it. I ask her out again she says she will let me know but never does. She then texts me after getting back from Olive Garden and I ask her out a final time. Her reponse was that she was working from 5-8 but 6 days later complains to me that she was working 9-5. I point this out and she claims she doesn't know what she sends.

I start becoming a bit distant and she tells me that she needs time to work two jobs and be herself but wanted me to continue flirting with her. We only knew eachother for two months and went on one date. After three weeks we start to become more distant and I begin to see that my health both physically and mentally was declining. I was vomiting, losing sleeping, depressed, and working so much that I lose it and told her I was done being her friend. Two weeks later she tells me in person that what I did was low. Was she leading me on or was I being crazy?

Submitted February 03, 2020 at 11:38PM

So I have been thinking about when I use to be friends with someone we went on only one date and I'm wondering if she was leading me on. We texted everyday after that date.It started off when I asked her out for dinner on a Saturday when we were both off and she responds by saying that she would ask if her friend who always drags her into stuff has plans but never tells me. 2 days pass and I bring it up, her response is that she was sick and goes to a truck rally that Saturday. I only found out since she was texting me photos of it. I ask her out again she says she will let me know but never does. She then texts me after getting back from Olive Garden and I ask her out a final time. Her reponse was that she was working from 5-8 but 6 days later complains to me that she was working 9-5. I point this out and she claims she doesn't know what she sends.I start becoming a bit distant and she tells me that she needs time to work two jobs and be herself but wanted me to continue flirting with her. We only knew eachother for two months and went on one date. After three weeks we start to become more distant and I begin to see that my health both physically and mentally was declining. I was vomiting, losing sleeping, depressed, and working so much that I lose it and told her I was done being her friend. Two weeks later she tells me in person that what I did was low. Was she leading me on or was I being crazy?