Guy (M 21) I‘m (F 21) texting with since a month forgot to call and didn’t reach out first (I did).

I (F, 21) matched with a guy (M, 21) on tinder. We‘ve been texting on WA since about a month and it’s going well, I think. We both stated that we are interested in meeting and getting to know each other personally. Now, the problem is, we‘re both university students and currently in the finals period. He has a looot more exams than I do and is much more occupied/busy with studying (is studying a harder subject than I am). So his head is full with uni stuff atm. Thus, he stated that unfortunately he can‘t meet me until after his exams bc he wants to rlly focus on his finals. I don’t have a problem with that. A couple days ago I suggested that we call for a short time and he agreed and we decided to set the call for yesterday evening. While we decided on the call he warned me that since he knows himself and he knows how worked up he can get when he‘s in the middle of his studies that he might fuck it up and can’t remind himself to call me. He apologized in advance for if that would happen. Long story short, he rlly ultimately forgot. I texted him the next day around noon and he said that he remembered late at night before he went to bed and said that scheduling a call might rlly not be optimal rn and isn’t working for him. He didn’t apologize again though and just said that he‘d contact me whenever he‘s got enough time and isn’t focused on studying.

My question is: Am I overreacting by having the thought that he should have properly contacted me and apologized again after realizing that he forgot the call? Is this a red flag or nothing to worry about? We are nothing serious yet, just texting and calling twice so I rlly don’t know if I‘m being unreasonable for expecting a proper apology even after he warned me.

TL;DR : Guy I matched with on tinder and I‘m texting with since a month forgot to call and didn’t reach out (I did).

Submitted January 03, 2020 at 12:05AM

I (F, 21) matched with a guy (M, 21) on tinder. We‘ve been texting on WA since about a month and it’s going well, I think. We both stated that we are interested in meeting and getting to know each other personally. Now, the problem is, we‘re both university students and currently in the finals period. He has a looot more exams than I do and is much more occupied/busy with studying (is studying a harder subject than I am). So his head is full with uni stuff atm. Thus, he stated that unfortunately he can‘t meet me until after his exams bc he wants to rlly focus on his finals. I don’t have a problem with that. A couple days ago I suggested that we call for a short time and he agreed and we decided to set the call for yesterday evening. While we decided on the call he warned me that since he knows himself and he knows how worked up he can get when he‘s in the middle of his studies that he might fuck it up and can’t remind himself to call me. He apologized in advance for if that would happen. Long story short, he rlly ultimately forgot. I texted him the next day around noon and he said that he remembered late at night before he went to bed and said that scheduling a call might rlly not be optimal rn and isn’t working for him. He didn’t apologize again though and just said that he‘d contact me whenever he‘s got enough time and isn’t focused on studying.My question is: Am I overreacting by having the thought that he should have properly contacted me and apologized again after realizing that he forgot the call? Is this a red flag or nothing to worry about? We are nothing serious yet, just texting and calling twice so I rlly don’t know if I‘m being unreasonable for expecting a proper apology even after he warned me.TL;DR : Guy I matched with on tinder and I‘m texting with since a month forgot to call and didn’t reach out (I did).