Roommate (22f) keeps stealing my panties in secret (23f)

I’ll try to make this short. My roommate has been stealing my panties. I noticed some of my underwear going missing and was suspicious she was stealing it at first, but didn’t want to confront her until I had actual proof they were mine. I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt that possibly we just had.... multiple of the same exact pair? I don’t know. Anyway, confirmed she had a few of my panties, including my nicer lingerie, none of this she mentioned that she “borrowed” from me. I confronted her about this, asking if she had been taking them. She said she was so sorry, she just did it because she hasn’t been doing her laundry and needed underwear. What?! Super weird and invasive in my opinion. I told her underwear drawer was off limits and to never take them again. She agreed.

Months later, today, I walk past her bedroom and peep some of my panties on her bed. Newer ones I had noticed gone missing as of lately. I go in to investigate, and sure enough they’re my fucking panties. 5 new steals. I confronted her again and she said she only does it when she needs them and she doesn’t seem to understand why I’m so upset.

I hate the thought of her rummaging through my stuff and disrespecting me while I’m not home. It’s disgusting. She does this with basically all my other stuff too, but the panties was the last straw.

TL;DR: my roommate is stealing my panties in secret after I’ve repeatedly asked her to stop. What do you guys think I should do.

Submitted December 27, 2019 at 11:55PM

I’ll try to make this short. My roommate has been stealing my panties. I noticed some of my underwear going missing and was suspicious she was stealing it at first, but didn’t want to confront her until I had actual proof they were mine. I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt that possibly we just had.... multiple of the same exact pair? I don’t know. Anyway, confirmed she had a few of my panties, including my nicer lingerie, none of this she mentioned that she “borrowed” from me. I confronted her about this, asking if she had been taking them. She said she was so sorry, she just did it because she hasn’t been doing her laundry and needed underwear. What?! Super weird and invasive in my opinion. I told her underwear drawer was off limits and to never take them again. She agreed.Months later, today, I walk past her bedroom and peep some of my panties on her bed. Newer ones I had noticed gone missing as of lately. I go in to investigate, and sure enough they’re my fucking panties. 5 new steals. I confronted her again and she said she only does it when she needs them and she doesn’t seem to understand why I’m so upset.I hate the thought of her rummaging through my stuff and disrespecting me while I’m not home. It’s disgusting. She does this with basically all my other stuff too, but the panties was the last straw.TL;DR: my roommate is stealing my panties in secret after I’ve repeatedly asked her to stop. What do you guys think I should do.