I'd love to be someone's financial dominatrix... Got bills to pay September 01, 2019 at 12:17AM

Todd from BoJack Horseman is canonically ace! and a super cutie to draw. September 01, 2019 at 12:16AM

if you like fantasy / post-apocalyptic kind of books. There's "Chameleon Moon" by Roanna Sylver. The main character is Asexual and there is a lot LGBT+ representation in the book as well. There also this website that is a database for LGBT+ books, and it includes an Asexual tab. It even has tags for genre, race, religion, etc. I highly recommend it. http://queerbooksforteens.com/find-books/?fwp_orientation=asexual September 01, 2019 at 12:15AM

That is some real Footloose shit September 01, 2019 at 12:04AM

not funny cried :( September 01, 2019 at 12:03AM

Lol... September 01, 2019 at 12:03AM

This would be an absolutely phenomenal tattoo!!! Oh man I love it! August 31, 2019 at 11:57PM

Well, I really think it's actually simple. Do you think "Damn, that person is hot" or "Damn, I would totally fuck her/him"? If former, then it's aesthetic attraction. If latter, or both, it's sexual attraction. August 31, 2019 at 11:57PM

TLDR; I'm a good looking 21 yo dude, but get shook when talking to cute girls. I have no experience. How do I make a move without blowing it? I can confidently say that I am a handsome guy. I'm tall and in decent shape. I could be in better shape, but I could still keep up whenever I play sports. I wouldn't say that I could be a model, but who knows. I'm Mexican with brown skin, but I've been told that I look puerto Rican, Dominican, and even middle eastern one time. I guess I sort of look like a Mexican Chris Brown. I've been feeling this way since I was about 19. I'm 21 now and feel this way every day I wake up. In short, I am for the most part confident about my looks. Despite my good looks, I have never had a girlfriend. I was never interested in having a GF throughout high school because I went to small school. I honestly did feel attracted to many of them. And the ones I that I was to, were taken. Another issue I had throughout school was having gi...

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Ok, this is weird. To preface, I'm male and a virgin. Basically, the only way I can cum is by sort of grinding against a blanket. I've tried 'regular' jerking off, simulating blow jobs, and lots of other techniques I've read about/been recommended. They all feel good, but I can't orgasm from them Submitted August 31, 2019 at 10:07PM Ok, this is weird. To preface, I'm male and a virgin. Basically, the only way I can cum is by sort of grinding against a blanket. I've tried 'regular' jerking off, simulating blow jobs, and lots of other techniques I've read about/been recommended. They all feel good, but I can't orgasm from them

Hello! I (20F) feel like (and recognize that I am) the most unattractive human on the planet. I have even had friends stop hanging out with me because they said being around me prevented guys from coming up to them and talking to them. The only sex I have had has been people who have taken me home when I was already too drunk to be aware of what was going on. Other times I’ve started hookups but I’ve had them say that I’m too ugly for them to want to touch me. I workout constantly, and can’t go a day without it. I love it, and I’m muscular but I’m still heavy-set. I have a decent ass, because of all the hard work I’ve put into it, but I can’t get rid of all the extra fat. So, I’m about to start a very restrictive diet that I have done plenty of times before, but there’s one downside. I will lose my but. So, I’m wondering, would you rather have a girl that’s perfectly skinny with as little fat as possible on her body, or a girl that’s a little heavier but has an ass? Before it’s as...

So my boyfriend and I have been having this certain conversation for.... Almost the whole time we've been dating (over a year.) He wants me to dom him and... Well, you know fuck him. I'm not into it, I'm not a Dom, I don't find traps attractive. But I don't mind him being into it, everyone has their own kinks why should I judge. And again, I'm giving this spill to him about how I'm not into it, idk how to do it, it makes me feel more anxious than turned on. And then he said that he doesn't like domming either. Thing is, that's how it goes. He's the Dom I'm the Sub. I feel bad, I've told him time and time before I'll try it out just for him when we get the supplies to, like a strap on and stuff. But now that he said he doesn't want to dom either idk what to say or do. Help? Submitted August 31, 2019 at 10:12PM So my boyfriend and I have been having this certain conversation for.... Almost the whole time we've been dating...

I haven’t had sex since last November (with my ex btw) and I’ve been talking to this guy for about 3 months now, I really like him. And I want to have sex with him. My question is, how do I please him ? I didn’t know him sexually and I’m kind of inexperienced I’m 21 with only two sexual partners. So I’m very inexperienced. How can I please him so he doesn’t think I am boring ? Submitted August 31, 2019 at 11:39PM I haven’t had sex since last November (with my ex btw) and I’ve been talking to this guy for about 3 months now, I really like him. And I want to have sex with him. My question is, how do I please him ? I didn’t know him sexually and I’m kind of inexperienced I’m 21 with only two sexual partners. So I’m very inexperienced. How can I please him so he doesn’t think I am boring ?

I'm not talking about just no eye contact I mean like not looking at all. Not at my face, not at my body, nothing. The guy I'm hooking up with constantly has his face in my neck/shoulder when we are having sex and I don't know if I should be offended by it or not. Occasionally he'll come up to kiss me but then it's right back down to my neck. And it's not even like he's kissing my neck, he's just sort of there. I try to pull his face up a little but it seems like he resists and if he does give in, it's just to kiss me. It kind of makes me feel like he's just not attracted to me, but he compliments me a lot and he gives me that "you're so hot let's fuck" up and down look when I'm undressing and during foreplay. He also doesn't really let me look at him. Whenever I'm going down on him, I try to look up at him but he just kinda grabs my hair so I can't tilt my head to look at him. Which is annoying because that...

Looking for essentially a Kinky Tinder. But I can only find apps that you are required to pay for after signing up. Can someone give me advice on where to look? As bad as it sounds, I'm just looking for a hook up, but I'm into bdsm etc. Submitted August 31, 2019 at 11:51PM Looking for essentially a Kinky Tinder. But I can only find apps that you are required to pay for after signing up. Can someone give me advice on where to look? As bad as it sounds, I'm just looking for a hook up, but I'm into bdsm etc.

Ive gotten BV 3x now since I bought a new wand, the rechargeable one from “evolved.” The first time was in May right after I purchased the toy, the last two just this month. I’ve tried two new toy cleaners since and still get it. I store the stupid thing the same way as my old wand. I clean it the same way (was until I got the BV). My hygiene habits are the same, if not better now than they were previously. The new toy was all that changed when i got it the first time. This one feels like silicone, I’m not sure what the previous one was. It was the hitachi magic wand. I’ve cleaned every nook and cranny of this vibrator, yet still get BV. At this point, do I need to throw it away and go back to what I used to have? How long should I wait after the antibiotics of being symptom free to try using this potential new toy again? I want to enjoy my me time but I’m tired of being on antibiotics and not being able to drink. Submitted August 31, 2019 at 11:54PM Ive gotten BV 3x now since...

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Yes that's it , and in return I eat your pussy . My wife doesn't like that but I crave it and I don't wanna have regular sex I've been lead on by my wife and it never happens kind of a let down at this point. Might have to find a FWB in Oregon. Submitted August 31, 2019 at 11:57PM Yes that's it , and in return I eat your pussy .My wife doesn't like that but I crave it and I don't wanna have regular sex I've been lead on by my wife and it never happens kind of a let down at this point.Might have to find a FWB in Oregon.

So I’m transgender mtf and have been on hrt since I was 13 (I’m 19 now) and because of how much I hate the fact that I have a penis I never masturbated. I haven’t gotten sexual reassignment surgery yet but I am going to relatively soon, I feel like I should masturbate at least 1 time before I get surgery. But I was just wondering if there is anything I should know about masturbation as a trans women that would be different from a cis man masturbating. Thanks :) Submitted September 01, 2019 at 12:03AM So I’m transgender mtf and have been on hrt since I was 13 (I’m 19 now) and because of how much I hate the fact that I have a penis I never masturbated. I haven’t gotten sexual reassignment surgery yet but I am going to relatively soon, I feel like I should masturbate at least 1 time before I get surgery. But I was just wondering if there is anything I should know about masturbation as a trans women that would be different from a cis man masturbating. Thanks :)

Alright here it goes... I’ve never told anyone, whether a close friend or a lover, about this so hey why not tell a bunch of strangers on Reddit! Ever since I was a kid I’ve had a weird fetish. I discovered masturbation by touching myself while watching cartoons. I don’t know how it developed but I ended up with a fart kink. I’ve burried this deep within me for almost my entire life. I’ve been in constant denial and have always insisted “I can orgasm without it!” I’ve always found myself turned on by specifically women farting. Whether it’s intentional, unintentional, real or not, it’s so fucking hot to me. I know that’s gross, but I have no control over it. Well, now that I’m sexually active I’ve realized no matter how turned on I get or how long I’ve been caressed and fucked I still can’t come. This hidden kink contributes to my orgasm anxiety and how I have trouble coming without my kink. Now I have a shitty mental block that prevents me from coming, even while masturbating. I...

How the fuck am I (a straight male) supposed to be confident when I think of stuff like this https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/cy0c0f/as_a_guy_i_have_a_hard_time_understanding_what/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share ? (I have a similar thought process as OP.) Not only that but also me being a virgin and simply objectively unattractive, is there even a chance? Worse yet, confidence (atleast according to majority here) is one of the prerequisites to getting laid so I'm just stuck in this weird Catch-22 type of thing. I know these kind of questions get asked here a lot but any advice (sans "hit the gym" - I do that, doesn't help much, atleast for now) is appreciated. Submitted September 01, 2019 at 12:08AM How the fuck am I (a straight male) supposed to be confident when I think of stuff like this https://ift.tt/2NI1109 ? (I have a similar thought process as OP.)Not only that but also me being a virgin and simply objectively unattractive, is there...

Hey, 17 year old boy here. I am in desperate need of an answer to my question. I grew up with a single mother who is a really good human. She taught me good manners and all that stuff but she hasn't had the best youth tho. I never met my dad. I never had a father figure in my life. The family I spent the Most time with were females,like my aunt and cousin. Other family lives in an other country and we do not have contact with them anymore. So my childhood was great. I had friends and I didn't get bullied and I was popular kinda. Everything changed when I went to high school. I was the only guy of color on my high school and that meant that people did not really want to be friends with me. That + normal insecurities for a teen + no father led to 3 years of social isolation in me 12-15. Only thing I did was gaming in my room. I NEVER went out with someone in that time and got teased in class. When I turned 15 we moved to a city (before was a village) and I actually managed to...

So, I (20M) have recently decided to get back into the dating game after a relationship of about a year and a half ended. I haven't made any effort to start dating again, and we broke up when I was 18 and a senior in High School. It was the first serious relationship I was ever in, so it took some time to feel ready to start dating again after it. Now its been a little while and I've been feeling my confidence get back to me, and was really excited to start dating again when I kinda hit a wall in my excitement. See, I'm not particularly rich, and neither is my family, so I still live at home with my mother. I love my mother, and would definitely consider myself a bit of a mamas boy, but I also like to think my relationship with my mother is fairly healthy for someone of my age. I can ask her for advice comfortably and enjoy spending time with my mom, but I also have other things going on in my life and I have my own interests. But considering that we are kind of poor, and...

I’m talking to a guy who makes a lot less than me and I don’t have a problem with that, but I feel as if he’s insecure and he makes comments that makes me feel bad Submitted August 30, 2019 at 11:39PM I’m talking to a guy who makes a lot less than me and I don’t have a problem with that, but I feel as if he’s insecure and he makes comments that makes me feel bad

Okay, my dream has basically come true. One of my friends has asked if I wanted to go to pride with her, even though she thinks I'm straight. So now, I just seem like I'm being supportive of her, while I get the chance to go to something I've wanted to be a part of for a long time. Does anyone have any ways/advice for how to initiate a conversation with some guys there? I want to really get out there, and meet some people, but I also don't want to out myself. Any advice/suggestions welcome. (Me, 15 year old male, looking for similarity aged males) Submitted August 30, 2019 at 11:45PM Okay, my dream has basically come true. One of my friends has asked if I wanted to go to pride with her, even though she thinks I'm straight. So now, I just seem like I'm being supportive of her, while I get the chance to go to something I've wanted to be a part of for a long time.Does anyone have any ways/advice for how to initiate a conversation with some guys there? ...

It's been 3 months and I don't miss him as much as I did before- but i still miss him. He was one of the best friends I could ever have and still have. We still text every few days but it's getting less often :( I guess since we talked pretty often I didn't miss him as much but now that we're not as much I miss him. This always happens but then we start texting again somehow. It's drives me crazy Submitted August 30, 2019 at 11:45PM It's been 3 months and I don't miss him as much as I did before- but i still miss him. He was one of the best friends I could ever have and still have. We still text every few days but it's getting less often :( I guess since we talked pretty often I didn't miss him as much but now that we're not as much I miss him. This always happens but then we start texting again somehow. It's drives me crazy

So recently, two of my best friends found out they had crushes on each other. We'll call them Paint (17 M) and Brush (15 F). I mean head over heels in love, not just a little crush. The problem is that Paint has a girlfriend whom we'll call Bucket (17 F). Paint really does not want to hurt Bucket by breaking up with her, but he really wants to be with Brush. So Brush is stressed because she doesn't know who he'll choose, and Bucket doesn't even know anythings happening. Well Paint still hasn't picked. Brush told me they'll "date later." I really want to help Brush here but she told me not to talk to Paint because I'm not supposed to know about them. Is there any way I can get Paint and Brush together without anyone ending up hurt? If so how? Submitted August 30, 2019 at 11:49PM So recently, two of my best friends found out they had crushes on each other. We'll call them Paint (17 M) and Brush (15 F). I mean head over heels in love, n...

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How do I open up without vomiting all my inner problems emotions on a person and drive them away ? Submitted August 31, 2019 at 12:05AM How do I open up without vomiting all my inner problems emotions on a person and drive them away ?

So basicly me and her family were on holiday together and I stayed in her families house. It was really fun. For example we watched a netflix show together we were both interested in.I also did small (subtle) gestures to her like getting her something she needed so i grabbed it for her or when i was grilling she would be one of the first to recieve something from the grill. I even gotten a text from her mom saying she and her hole family enjoyed my company. maybe im grasphing for straws that aren't there idk. ​ so i developt quite the crush for her that holiday and was wondering how I can check the best for signs she likes me back. Im going to them again in a few weeks to stay a night there and maybe i could recieve some tips to look clues or give her small hints to let her know i like her. ​ Also my mom and her mom are big bffs so is it even good to ask my mom for advise with or w/o telling her its this girl and/or if she knows and how to minimise the akwardness if i get reje...

Background! Long story short, a few months ago I (22m) had feelings and she (24f) didn't. Said she wasn't in a place where she wanted to date (genuinely wasn't). She got into a relationship a while after that (couple months after not being in a good place to date) and I said I can't be just friends and went out separate ways, that was about a month and a half ago (they broke up kinda quickly). Present time, we're talking again but I'm assuming as friends. I’m mostly over her from the time away & fine w/ friends but wouldn’t complain if it were something more. I know it feels & seems like we’re just friends and prob won’t be any more than that. We went out and grabbed dinner and she was a little more touchy than usual but not trying to read too much into it. She asked me if I was dating anyone, I said I wasn't dating anyone & I asked the same, she isn't dating anyone either. We’re both fairly shy people and have never really talked about it ...

I have been single for some time now and have been on a number of dates but they all seem to go the same way, we go on a couple of really good dates everything seems right we text and then suddenly they disappear. Why is that? Submitted August 31, 2019 at 12:06AM I have been single for some time now and have been on a number of dates but they all seem to go the same way, we go on a couple of really good dates everything seems right we text and then suddenly they disappear. Why is that?

18 YO male, 5’10, 153 pounds, attending T20 uni Can personalities change? I’m not bad looking and started to lift lots of weights. However, I’m extremely shy and overall a boring person. I have never done drugs, never drank to the point of getting drunk, and rarely hang out with 1-2 friends (I have an addiction problem so I stay away from anything I could ruin my life with). I’m smart and stuff but I just feel so fucking lonely and my one hindrance is my shifty personality. So here is another question: Can a bad personality be over looked if I have looks and a good future in a way? I know this is probably a dumb ass question I’ll get roasted about but any thoughts/advice would be great. Submitted August 31, 2019 at 12:07AM 18 YO male, 5’10, 153 pounds, attending T20 uniCan personalities change?I’m not bad looking and started to lift lots of weights. However, I’m extremely shy and overall a boring person.I have never done drugs, never drank to the point of getting drunk, an...

I (18M) hooked up with a girl (19F) I met a few weeks ago from a summer school class. It was a very casual and no-strings-attached ONS in a motel room over a week ago, and I have no interest in remaining in touch. We are not friends otherwise, and the class has ended so we most likely won't run into each other again (neither of us attend that community college during the year). However, she recently reached out to me a couple times this week through WeChat (we had texted a few times last week to arrange the hookup but not afterwards), clearly seeming interested in meeting/hooking up again, which I thought had been clear would not happen from the fact that it seemed quite clear it was just a one night stand and we didn't keep in touch afterwards. I am not interested and was not prepared to hear from this girl after the first hookup, I didn't respond hoping she'd take the hint but she sent another message basically checking if I had seen the first one, and it came off ra...

Idk if this is the right sub but I (16M) went to a party today/yesterday for the first time, got pretty tipsy and l just sat next to this girl (probably 16f) and we kinda like cuddled and she had her head in my shoulders and we just talked and laughed for like a whole hour, we genuinely clicked so well. We were both drunk and idk, I'm sober now, she added my snap a few mins ago and it got me thinking, l definitely want to pursue something with her. But I'm not used to this partying thing, I used to have social anxiety and l recently overcame that. Is this something that people do when they're drunk/at parties and it's just like meh or could it have been more meaningful? I also doubt sober me is as witty or funny or charismatic as tipsy me so there's that too, idk what do you guys think? TL;DR got close with a girl but were both drunk, is it weird to pursue things? Submitted August 31, 2019 at 12:11AM Idk if this is the right sub but I (16M) went to a party...

High school just started and there's this girl that sits by me. I saw her show signs of her liking me back, and I've sat by her for 2 days and think I should talk to her on Monday. So I was wondering what I should say. Also the homecoming dance and game is coming up next week so maybe I could ask her if she's going. Submitted August 31, 2019 at 12:13AM High school just started and there's this girl that sits by me. I saw her show signs of her liking me back, and I've sat by her for 2 days and think I should talk to her on Monday.So I was wondering what I should say. Also the homecoming dance and game is coming up next week so maybe I could ask her if she's going.

So exposition time! I’m likely goong to be moving to Florida next year, but I have interest in talking to several classmates in college. So obviously going the long term route isn’t wise. And while long distance definitely works, I’m not interested because every person I’ve dated LD has dated behind my back unfortunately. So can someone kindly tell me how I should change up my approach from long term? I’d wager the texting would be less and word “love” tossed around if not nonexistent. I understand short term is preferred in my age group as well. Anything else I should consider? Submitted August 31, 2019 at 12:13AM So exposition time! I’m likely goong to be moving to Florida next year, but I have interest in talking to several classmates in college. So obviously going the long term route isn’t wise. And while long distance definitely works, I’m not interested because every person I’ve dated LD has dated behind my back unfortunately.So can someone kindly tell me how I should ch...

Today was my first day of class in college. I noticed this beautiful girl right away that cought my interest so I just sat near her, not obviously near her though. The teacher asked us to join in groups of 3 so I immediately turn to her and ask if she would like to group, I had also asked the disabled student behind her to join us. He might of had a serious torrets syndrome and it was very hard for him to articulate, and he had no control over his muscular reactions, but I saw through this and treated him like any other person or friend, he was also a cool guy and we are now friends. Anyway we are in the group and I find shes Arabic, Jordanian, and loves her culture. I too am Arabic, Palestinian, and I too love arabic culture. I found many things in common with her, and as we 4 speak, (including the disabled students assistant who was also very pretty and a student) she paid a lot of attention to me and would ask me many questions that she would not ask the assistant, even though we a...

I (19m) find myself getting frustrated with the feeling that because I'm a guy I constantly have to be chasing girls and trying to make things happen while a girl can sit back and wait for people to try and talk to them. I know that's a simplified version of reality but I hope it gets my point across. I can give my very best effort and still not even be able to get a text back where as a girl will have guys reach out to pursue them. Do girls ever pursue guys? How do I deal with that frustration of that dynamic, regardless of its accuracy, how to I stop it from frustrating me? Some of this probably stems from my recent first break up, my ex was incredibly attractive and I knew she was talking to guys just a few days or weeks after she broke up with me while I'm left still broken hearted and unable to get a good date months later and from time to time that makes me so angry. I treated my ex absolutely amazing, she really didn't treat me well at all during the relationshi...

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There is a man. He is so handsome. I catch him looking at me and at first he would act caught, and let his eyes quickly dart away. Each night we open ourselves a little bit more and a little bit more and we begin to see some similarities. In appetite, similarities of desire. Its just been a slow reveal .....So last night again I catch him looking at me and his eyes no longer surrender or look away. Now his stare stays right there and he gives me this confident serious stare and I return that stare just as connecting, just as determined. This is such a mature invitation. I cant wait to see him again tonight. It might be the beginning of Love. Will there be words this time? If there is I will write tomorrow .....ahhhh Submitted August 30, 2019 at 11:55PM There is a man. He is so handsome. I catch him looking at me and at first he would act caught, and let his eyes quickly dart away. Each night we open ourselves a little bit more and a little bit more and we begin to see some sim...

About week ago, I started getting really in to true crime podcasts. One of them, The Vanished, was about missing people. (I swear this is relevant, I promise). Me being me, I got sucked in, but the whole thing made me feel kind of anxious. One thing in particular that I noticed was that almost every single person, especially the women, had been involved in an abusive relationship. I was especially affected by the case of a woman whose husband was so abusive and so isolating that when she went missing (read: was killed by him) her own family didn’t know for thirteen months. The whole thing makes me feel super scared. I guess my question is, how do you find a good person to love? How do you know that that person will never harm you? How do you know that they will never get physical during an argument? Is there a way to tell? Some metric to use? And if you can find a good person, how do you ensure mutual love and respect? I get that these are big, kind of uncomfortable questions, and ...

I recently accepted that I am non-binary. It is a hard process. But it gave me courage to dress and be the way I want to be August 31, 2019 at 12:04AM

The first guy is someone she dated for a few months but she didn’t like the dynamic and broke up with him. The other guy used to date one of her friends and she hooked up with him after they broke up. She said she’s used to close knit communities where everyone hooks up with everyone and it isn’t a big deal. I guess I’m just not used to this. She says that I’d probably be friends with the first guy, but I know for a fact that I will just think about the two of them together and it doesn’t seem fair to make her feel guilty about it. Maybe this makes me insecure, but I’ve tried to fight it and I just can’t. I just want to date someone that isn’t friends with people they used to have sex with. Does that make me immature? Cause I don’t know how to get over it. I don’t want to hang out with guys that have seen her naked. I’m fine with guy friends, but not ones that are attracted to her. Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:29PM The first guy is someone she dated for a few months but sh...

Please rate my attractiveness. I have a very low self esteem and would love to receive some advice or feedback. Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:31PM Please rate my attractiveness. I have a very low self esteem and would love to receive some advice or feedback.

So this guy and I met on an online dating app but ending up being friends instead. I mean we had fun on our first meeting. Spent more than half a day with him. We’ve been talking for a month before we met. Did tell him I like his personality and see him as more than a friend. but he has his issues and I have mine hence the friendship. So we only met once. And the second time we’re meeting, we’re gonna do a movie marathon (his idea) at my place and his probably gonna stay overnight. We’ve already established that we are not gonna date each other and I told him I never sleep with someone that I’m not dating. This is okay, right? I’m sorry. I’m so clueless about these things 🤦‍♀️ Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:35PM So this guy and I met on an online dating app but ending up being friends instead. I mean we had fun on our first meeting. Spent more than half a day with him. We’ve been talking for a month before we met. Did tell him I like his personality and see him as more than a ...

I check out guys and girls. Both genders are beautiful. But I’ve only had sex once and wish I didn’t. It’s overrated and would prefer to never give a bj either, that’s gross. I mean I’m still straight right? I want love but don’t care for sexual activity Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:35PM I check out guys and girls. Both genders are beautiful.But I’ve only had sex once and wish I didn’t. It’s overrated and would prefer to never give a bj either, that’s gross.I mean I’m still straight right?I want love but don’t care for sexual activity

I met this amazing girl about a month ago. We have been dating and spending time together every other day/ every third day or so since then. We have nearly opposite personalities on the surface but we are both pretty deep and enjoy philosophizing and have a lot to share and a whole lot in common. We are both 29, (I turn 29 in a few days) and we have genuinely enjoyed each other's company since meeting, from day 1. I have never met someone I've liked as much as her. We are both living in Utah right now, and dating here is pretty nuts. People tend to get married earlier than most states (in fact Utah has the youngest average marriage age in the nation) so finding someone special when you're both 29 and have floated through the highly competitive date-to-get-married system here in Utah is special. Now to the details. Last night I went to her house and we had a great time laughing and talking on her couch. she eventually hesitantly brought up that she liked me enough that she...

Im a guy I'm bisexual almost 15 and I'm looking for a boyfriend. But I don't know how to ask a guy if he's bi or not and I don't know how dating guys works Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:38PM Im a guy I'm bisexual almost 15 and I'm looking for a boyfriend. But I don't know how to ask a guy if he's bi or not and I don't know how dating guys works

Like, I’ve never had a relationship and I’m interested in this girl. She also said she likes me and we have been hanging out for maybe a week or so. I feel like im texting just boring stuff. We talk over the phone and all but are there any tips so that it feels “romantic” and all? Edit: i feel like im not being romantic enough lol Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:39PM Like, I’ve never had a relationship and I’m interested in this girl. She also said she likes me and we have been hanging out for maybe a week or so. I feel like im texting just boring stuff. We talk over the phone and all but are there any tips so that it feels “romantic” and all? Edit: i feel like im not being romantic enough lol

We always hug eachother when we cross in school (not common where I live if you don't know someone well), even tho we don't know eachother much. She always smiles at me and it's super kind. When it's cold she worries that I'll get sick (I don't like to wear warm clothes). I'm sure there is a good vibe (I'm not sure how to call it in English), and that she likes me, she told a friend of mine I'm cute. The thing is that we just small talk, and we don't know eachother much. Also, we don't cross paths everyday in school. I like her, and I want to be more than friends. What can I do to talk with her more often, and get to know each other better? Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:40PM We always hug eachother when we cross in school (not common where I live if you don't know someone well), even tho we don't know eachother much. She always smiles at me and it's super kind. When it's cold she worries that I'll get sick (I don...

I met him in 2013. He asked me to marry him four years ago. One month ago I was involved with him when he cheated on his SO with me. I called him in the last couple weeks and he answered, laughed, and calmly said “I really can’t talk to you, okay” and hung up. I told him I’m in love with him by text, the first I’ve ever admitted. His SO is livid but she claims she “gave him permission (to hook up with me), one month ago . Sounds like she is trying to save face. I want him back. I made a mistake not accepting when he proposed. Looking for responses of how to win him back Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:40PM I met him in 2013. He asked me to marry him four years ago. One month ago I was involved with him when he cheated on his SO with me. I called him in the last couple weeks and he answered, laughed, and calmly said “I really can’t talk to you, okay” and hung up. I told him I’m in love with him by text, the first I’ve ever admitted. His SO is livid but she claims she “gave him pe...

Since getting a women or laid is impossible in this day and age what to I do Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:41PM Since getting a women or laid is impossible in this day and age what to I do

We went on a date yesterday. There was a language barrier and I showed up an hour late because I thought he'd moved the date up two hours and I was just waiting at the mall. Anyway, I had a good time. We had to use Google Translate quite a bit, but I was into him at least, and he seemed into me. Near the end, he asked to touch my hair and I laughed and said no, that's something very intimate to me (I have locs). At the end of the date, he said bye and we went our separate ways. I asked a few hours later if he wanted to meet again. He asked if I wanted to. I asked my guy friend and he said it's not a good sign, so I thought to just move on. Now date dude responded saying of course. Should I schedule a second date? Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:47PM We went on a date yesterday. There was a language barrier and I showed up an hour late because I thought he'd moved the date up two hours and I was just waiting at the mall.Anyway, I had a good time. We had to use G...