My (22, F) ex fiance narcissist (21, M) has a new girlfriend, but is stalking/harassing me. What steps do I proceed with?

Welcome to the fckn magic show. 2 years, engaged, threw me out of my own apartment in january, fucked countless girls since, while using me as well.

I have been doing my best to forget this person, and move on. I just put my two weeks in at the job I work, which is his family's business. I cannot work there anymore, as he shows up and makes it clear his only motive is to hurt me. Let's see, in the beginning of June, he was trying to get with his brother's ex girlfriend after sucking me back in with those fake promises and fake declarations of love. He's already on girl number 3, in a matter of weeks. Priceless..

I have since ran for my life from him. I was done. He has since texted me from different phone numbers and made a fake Instagram and Twitter to harass me. His texts:

"I wouldn't be able to trust anyone either after all things I did to you, so I understand."

and when I did not reply,

"Fuck you."

Two days later:

"I need my wake board back."

Thursday:

"-sends picture of his mothers Find My Friends iPhone location, as she is in Yellowstone, a place we would visit and loved.-"

I did not reply.

Friday: He now magically has a new girlfriend! Wow, shocking! This is where it gets creepy. On Friday, I went to the beach with some friends. I kept getting notifications on my phone saying "@_____ has liked your tweet." over and over and over. He went onto my twitter and liked every single tweet I have ever posted. He did this with a fake twitter account. He gave himself away because my friends took a group snapchat of us at the beach, posted it on his story, and he immediately messaged my friend and said "Wow you all look like you are having fun." busted....

My twitter has always been private. It is now magically public, which is leading me to believe he logged into my account. His cousin sent me a photo he posted with the new supply. Lovely. I just blocked and laughed. Unbelievable.

My question is, if this stalking keeps up, which i am sure it will, do I take action with the police? What appropriate actions should I actually take to stop this behavior? I have issued countless warnings to STOP contacting me.

TLDR; My ex fiance is harassing me even though he has a new girlfriend, and I don't know how to get him to stop without taking some sort of legal action. Advice much appreciated.



Submitted July 01, 2019 at 12:10AM

Welcome to the fckn magic show. 2 years, engaged, threw me out of my own apartment in january, fucked countless girls since, while using me as well.I have been doing my best to forget this person, and move on. I just put my two weeks in at the job I work, which is his family's business. I cannot work there anymore, as he shows up and makes it clear his only motive is to hurt me. Let's see, in the beginning of June, he was trying to get with his brother's ex girlfriend after sucking me back in with those fake promises and fake declarations of love. He's already on girl number 3, in a matter of weeks. Priceless..I have since ran for my life from him. I was done. He has since texted me from different phone numbers and made a fake Instagram and Twitter to harass me. His texts:"I wouldn't be able to trust anyone either after all things I did to you, so I understand."and when I did not reply,"Fuck you."Two days later:"I need my wake board back."Thursday:"-sends picture of his mothers Find My Friends iPhone location, as she is in Yellowstone, a place we would visit and loved.-"I did not reply.Friday: He now magically has a new girlfriend! Wow, shocking! This is where it gets creepy. On Friday, I went to the beach with some friends. I kept getting notifications on my phone saying "@_____ has liked your tweet." over and over and over. He went onto my twitter and liked every single tweet I have ever posted. He did this with a fake twitter account. He gave himself away because my friends took a group snapchat of us at the beach, posted it on his story, and he immediately messaged my friend and said "Wow you all look like you are having fun." busted....My twitter has always been private. It is now magically public, which is leading me to believe he logged into my account. His cousin sent me a photo he posted with the new supply. Lovely. I just blocked and laughed. Unbelievable.My question is, if this stalking keeps up, which i am sure it will, do I take action with the police? What appropriate actions should I actually take to stop this behavior? I have issued countless warnings to STOP contacting me.TLDR; My ex fiance is harassing me even though he has a new girlfriend, and I don't know how to get him to stop without taking some sort of legal action. Advice much appreciated.
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