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TL;DR Boyfriend and I share videos of ourselves masturbating on our little "spank-bank" but I struggle to reach an orgasm from just watching videos of him jerking off. Hey! Using a throwaway account here. Okay so my boyfriend [23M] and I [22F] share videos of ourselves masturbating on our little "spank-bank" if you will, as an alternative to watching porn. However I struggle to reach an orgasm from just watching of him jerk off and play with himself in the videos, and I just want to know if this is normal / any advice? We have been together for about 4 years and are very open about everything in our relationship, so I recently brought this up to him and he said that me not being able to cum from watching his videos makes him feel incredibly insecure and makes him feel like I'm not attracted to him. I have tried to reassure him that I am attracted to him but I believe he is still upset about it. I am actually very attracted to him (physically & emotiona...

So I'm 22 kinda pathetic and somehow I ended up in bed with a really pretty girl the problem being is that I couldn't finish I always worried that when the time came I wouldn't last but I never thought I couldn't go, so I'm not sure if I'm still a virgin or not Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:28PM So I'm 22 kinda pathetic and somehow I ended up in bed with a really pretty girl the problem being is that I couldn't finish I always worried that when the time came I wouldn't last but I never thought I couldn't go, so I'm not sure if I'm still a virgin or not

I have a fantasy of being laid out in front of a line of men who all take it in turns to fuck whichever hole of mine they want to and then cum on different parts of my body. How the hell would I be able to do this safely? Or is this destined to be a fantasy of mine forever? Ideally I’d want 100 guys but I think that’s a logistical nightmare :( 30-50 would do. Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:32PM I have a fantasy of being laid out in front of a line of men who all take it in turns to fuck whichever hole of mine they want to and then cum on different parts of my body. How the hell would I be able to do this safely? Or is this destined to be a fantasy of mine forever? Ideally I’d want 100 guys but I think that’s a logistical nightmare:( 30-50 would do.

I’m a straight male in my mid 20s who’s experimenting with some anal play. I tried using my finger a couple of times but couldn’t really find the sweet spot/prostate to the point where it felt really good. I see some people use a plug but would that really get the job done since it would have to go somewhat far in? Or would a tiny personal dildo work better that sorta has a curved end like a bent finger? Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:33PM I’m a straight male in my mid 20s who’s experimenting with some anal play. I tried using my finger a couple of times but couldn’t really find the sweet spot/prostate to the point where it felt really good. I see some people use a plug but would that really get the job done since it would have to go somewhat far in? Or would a tiny personal dildo work better that sorta has a curved end like a bent finger?

My bf and I were lightly sexting this morning He told me “well I don’t really get that that hard during oral lol” I said “what do you mean?” He said “well I always get scared you gonna bit it off lmao” Idk if he’s being serious or what but he gets an orgasm every time I go down on him Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:41PM My bf and I were lightly sexting this morningHe told me “well I don’t really get that that hard during oral lol”I said “what do you mean?”He said “well I always get scared you gonna bit it off lmao”Idk if he’s being serious or what but he gets an orgasm every time I go down on him

Usually during ovulation I get extremely horny and it’s basically like I’m in heat for a few days. But for the last two months, whenever it rolls around (according to my tracker app), I just feel normal. I lubricate more than usual, but there’s no increase in arousal. Does anyone know why this might be? Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:42PM Usually during ovulation I get extremely horny and it’s basically like I’m in heat for a few days. But for the last two months, whenever it rolls around (according to my tracker app), I just feel normal. I lubricate more than usual, but there’s no increase in arousal. Does anyone know why this might be?

Me and my boyfriend have wanted kids for a while but we cant at the moment because we are long distance. Im on the pill and we already dont use condoms. Hes recently expressed a real desire to role play this kink a bit and i would love that too but im a bit lost as to where to start? If anybody has been in this situation and has some advice for where i can start with dirty talk/clothing/any other role play tips, or has had some fun with actually conceiving, id love to hear from you! Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:52PM Me and my boyfriend have wanted kids for a while but we cant at the moment because we are long distance. Im on the pill and we already dont use condoms. Hes recently expressed a real desire to role play this kink a bit and i would love that too but im a bit lost as to where to start? If anybody has been in this situation and has some advice for where i can start with dirty talk/clothing/any other role play tips, or has had some fun with actually conceiving, id love t...

I will be erect the whole time while performing oral on her but when it’s time for me to penetrate I just lose my erection. Any reason why ? Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:54PM I will be erect the whole time while performing oral on her but when it’s time for me to penetrate I just lose my erection. Any reason why ?

So, I (25F) was in a relationship of 7 years and my ex was my first man. I had sex only with him, but we broke up a few weeks ago and I had this opportunity of getting laid with this other guy. We had a few drinks (mostly vodka), started to make out and stuff. But, his penis didn’t get 100% hard, and I got confused because my ex used to get really hard everytime, even if he was a bit drunk. I felt that he was enjoying, feeling lots of pleasure, but I had to work hard to get a 90% erection. My doubt is: is this something common when men drink? Or was I the problem? I don’t think that I am, but I got a bit worried. Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:56PM So, I (25F) was in a relationship of 7 years and my ex was my first man. I had sex only with him, but we broke up a few weeks ago and I had this opportunity of getting laid with this other guy. We had a few drinks (mostly vodka), started to make out and stuff. But, his penis didn’t get 100% hard, and I got confused because my ex used t...

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I (F24) have been identifying as a lesbian since I was about 15 but recently started experimenting with men, I’ve been regularly hooking up with someone (M23) for about 4 months and even though the sex is nice and we’re having a lot of fun I can just never seem to come during sex. I thought maybe he just isn’t that familiar with the female anatomy but he insists he’s made all the other girls he’s been with come. He does spend a lot of time on just me, giving me head and fingering me generally trying to please me but it doesn’t do much for me. It feels frustrating since I myself very much with my experience do know how to get women off, I try to guide him into the right direction but nothing ever feels the way I’m expecting it to or the way it does when I’m having sex with women. I’m not shy about telling him about what I like, and I do enjoy every aspect of the sex we have so it’s definitely not a question of me not being attracted to him. Trying to please myself to get off doesn’t wo...

Better than sex I'll take 50 June 01, 2019 at 12:07AM

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This is a little worrying. Sex should add joy to your life, not be a stressful problem to solve. It's one thing to feel a little insecure when you show no interest in touch but he knows you're asexual, and yet he keeps having these unresolved conversations. Because he wants to wear you down. Which is working: you want to "get it over with". He doesn't seem to care how you feel about it. You're old enough to know what you like and don't like. If you want to do it to get emotional fulfillment from making him happy, that's fine. But by no means should you feel like it's an obligation. If you still want to do this, sit down and discuss what you are comfortable with, how far, how fast, what the signs are, etc. Remember that just because you're asexual it doesn't mean your discomfort doesn't matter. It should still be an enjoyable activity for you. If it's a chore, don't do it. Quit midway. It's okay. Also remember that PIV is...

Pretty much at the same time, since I was doing some research/googling when I heard about asexuality and that brought up aros as well. For me, I feel like it's wrapped up in a single feeling of being averse to any kind of romance and physical contact beyond hugging May 31, 2019 at 11:57PM

I also love the colors on both the bisexual and panromantic flags too. Gray goes well with things but is kinda dull. May 31, 2019 at 11:54PM

never knew this was a thing! makes so much sense now May 31, 2019 at 06:37AM

so super late and not an asexual so double sorry, but sex is like super duper mega fun between two people who want to have sex with each other May 31, 2019 at 06:37AM

it’s not his real name, but a nickname.his real name is forsythe May 31, 2019 at 06:35AM

Thanks 😊 May 31, 2019 at 06:26AM

My sex ed was horrific, graphic photos of STIs. I ended up getting a better education from Wikipedia and Urban Dictionary May 31, 2019 at 06:24AM

I get grossed out when people even text the word sex. Ugh. I cringe at sexual talk. May 31, 2019 at 06:22AM

I remember watching 7 Brides for 7 Brothers as a kid and trying to imagine which character I would want to play if I was an actor. I determined I would be a side character so I didn't have to kiss anyone 😂 May 31, 2019 at 06:20AM

Actually, the term is aegosexual/autochorissexual (interchangeable). Seems like you stumbled upon a misspelling somewhere. So you don’t have to worry about being miscontrued. May 31, 2019 at 06:19AM

I love this so much! May 31, 2019 at 06:18AM

Yeah. My sexuality and my sense of romantic attraction have always been separate, but it’s difficult to convince people—even potential partners—that just because I don’t want to sex doesn’t mean I can’t love them. (You know, assuming I can love them.) May 31, 2019 at 06:16AM

Small community? Me too. Good thing there is the great wide web of diverse and loving individuals. We are here for you 💜 May 31, 2019 at 06:15AM

omg it has a name :D describes me perfectly. Like, erotic literature, porn, etc arouse me but I have no interest whatsoever in being a participant or even imagining myself as one. May 31, 2019 at 06:11AM

The effort seems like the worst part. Maybe I'm just incredibly lazy but sex doesn't seem worth the lengths to which some people go May 31, 2019 at 06:09AM

I currently have this problem. It would be much easier when I thought I was aromantic (I must be kind of demiromantic, with small probability of falling in love). Now it would be like "WTF, you are in your second relationship! How can you be asexual and have a boyfriend?!". May 31, 2019 at 05:59AM

I mean Sonic is pretty slim but I don’t think he’s genderswapped in the comic, I think that’s just him in a tiny pizza guy seduction robe. May 31, 2019 at 05:53AM

I just say I'm not interested in those things and try not to go to deep or talk about it any more than that. I'm not comfortable letting people know that about me, or anything very personal really, but especially this like, I really don't wanna know how people would react to that it would just be a bigger problem than it'd have to be lol May 31, 2019 at 05:45AM

This is called prejudice / discrimination – otherwise known as judging a person based on group membership rather than as an individual. May 31, 2019 at 05:38AM

I was thinking about getting the ace one, but it doesn't fit my wrist. Too adult sized. May 31, 2019 at 05:20AM

https://imgur.com/a/AUDPHyf May 31, 2019 at 05:19AM

usually people call it a-spec. or gray-ace. but yeah! asexuality is a spectrum too May 31, 2019 at 05:18AM

I’m 19, I told my dad about a year ago that I’m asexual. He’s hella allo, and finds romantic attraction identical to sexual attraction. He often thinks I’m lying that Ive never experienced sexual attraction. At one point he got mad at me that I wasn’t telling him I was having sex with a girl (I wasn’t). My mother took it much better, and is totally ok with it. Sometimes it works out; sometimes it doesn’t. I wish you luck, but I’d be surprised if it went well. Plus, no matter how old you are, people won’t think you know what you want when it comes to being asexual. May 31, 2019 at 05:16AM

You don't need to be anymore May 31, 2019 at 05:03AM

It's not about the sex it's about the lie. Unless it's an open relationship you agreed to do XYZ with one person. To go out and do the same with another breaks that promise. May 31, 2019 at 05:02AM

Oh crud. I've been sporting spades ever since joining the community, even though I'm not aro. May 30, 2019 at 04:39AM

23M here (turning 24 in 1.5 months). My preferred age range to date women is from 22-30. Not saying I'd date a 40 year old. But like I would prefer women slightly older than me because they would understand me better + less drama. I am just not a fan of trying to date teens/early-20 year olds. I mean when I look at women dating site profiles, they usually say age-1 to age +10 or so. But is it weird for a male to prefer women older? Submitted May 29, 2019 at 10:41PM 23M here (turning 24 in 1.5 months). My preferred age range to date women is from 22-30. Not saying I'd date a 40 year old. But like I would prefer women slightly older than me because they would understand me better + less drama. I am just not a fan of trying to date teens/early-20 year olds.I mean when I look at women dating site profiles, they usually say age-1 to age +10 or so. But is it weird for a male to prefer women older?

So I'm in a really nice relationship. My boyfriend is a great guy, but a few days ago I was hanging out with people not from my normal friend group. They briefly brought up the fact that my boyfriend dated my sister... I was shocked. We have been dating for a while and I've told him before I didn't care about his past relationships. So I might be in the wrong, but isn't that something you tell your partner. I have asked him about it, he did admit he dated her and it was before we met. He didn't know we were related until two months after we started dating or so. Plenty of time has past, am I in the wrong to think he should have told me? It is upsetting to find out from someone other than him. What do you guys think or any advice on how to react to this? Submitted May 29, 2019 at 10:56PM So I'm in a really nice relationship. My boyfriend is a great guy, but a few days ago I was hanging out with people not from my normal friend group. They briefly brought u...

Hi guys, recently went on a solid first date with a guy 10 day back. We ended up sleeping together on the first date and in the morning asked when he could see me again. A week after our date he invites me to a beach house with several of his friends for 2-3 days. ​ I'm pretty spontaneous and have in past have had guy into me to the point where they want me to fly out to see them, text/call everyday after one date - not as a fling, but as a potential girlfriend (just for context). however with this one I'm actually nervous because I quite like him, he didn't call/text everyday after our date and I'm trying to get a male perspective. thanks! Submitted May 29, 2019 at 11:23PM Hi guys,recently went on a solid first date with a guy 10 day back. We ended up sleeping together on the first date and in the morning asked when he could see me again. A week after our date he invites me to a beach house with several of his friends for 2-3 days.​I'm pretty spontaneous ...

I know she doesn't like me it's obvious but I can't figure out how to get her out of my head. I try to stay busy at work but I'm always annoyed by the thought of her. I try to play video games but then I get distracted and do something stupid to screw myself in the game. I try studying but it gets boring fast. The only thing that works is drinking or getting high but I can't do that stuff forever. I tried following a bunch of hot girls on Instagram but I always lose interest fast. I need help getting her out! It's over it's done, I don't know why I keep torturing myself with the thought of her. Submitted May 29, 2019 at 11:27PM I know she doesn't like me it's obvious but I can't figure out how to get her out of my head. I try to stay busy at work but I'm always annoyed by the thought of her. I try to play video games but then I get distracted and do something stupid to screw myself in the game. I try studying but it gets boring fa...

I'm going to keep this plain and simple. I'm a guy and I'm curious on how I start dating cause I'm not the type of person who likes clubs or places like that and I'm unsure about dating apps due to things I've heard from friends etc. I have literally zero experience so any advice would be neato. Submitted May 29, 2019 at 11:56PM I'm going to keep this plain and simple. I'm a guy and I'm curious on how I start dating cause I'm not the type of person who likes clubs or places like that and I'm unsure about dating apps due to things I've heard from friends etc.I have literally zero experience so any advice would be neato.

I've come to the conclusion that my influence on the dating market is essentially nil, so I don't crusade and give people unsolicited advice, but the urge is sometimes still there. What do you see and wish you could say? Submitted May 30, 2019 at 12:01AM I've come to the conclusion that my influence on the dating market is essentially nil, so I don't crusade and give people unsolicited advice, but the urge is sometimes still there.What do you see and wish you could say?

So ive talked to this girl for a long time had our ups and downs (period where we both stopped talking to each other) and well i've always liked her and couldnt get her out of my stupid head. well she came out as bi and started dating a girl almost 2 months ago and we still talk daily almost all day. the problem is shes in a relationship and i cant get rid of my feelings. she thinks I dont like her anymore even though i do. she said she was "attached" to me because of how much i know about her. also because of how long we have talked. its so hard to get rid of the feelings mostly because of how consistently we talk and i dont know what to do Submitted May 30, 2019 at 12:14AM So ive talked to this girl for a long time had our ups and downs (period where we both stopped talking to each other) and well i've always liked her and couldnt get her out of my stupid head. well she came out as bi and started dating a girl almost 2 months ago and we still talk daily almos...

Ive been pushed over the line. https://imgur.com/a/6RRWMsT EDIT: HE SAID MORE (UPDATE) http://imgur.com/gallery/ueYrUGL Submitted May 30, 2019 at 12:22AM Ive been pushed over the line.http://bit.ly/2WdWVlN HE SAID MORE (UPDATE)http://bit.ly/2I6diqS

I've been out of the dating game for a while, I kind of forget how all this stuff works. I've invited him over to my place for a movie night - one of the big things we have in common is that we like the same movies... Scary movies! Thing is - I just have a loveseat? And He's been to my place before, so he knows this. We've had one kiss, but it was a bit of an awkward first kiss - I kind of froze up! I guess he's okay with that because he is coming back over. When we are watching the movie should I hold his hand? Should I ... snuggle up on the loveseat with him?? Would there be smooching during the movie?? Submitted May 30, 2019 at 01:05AM I've been out of the dating game for a while, I kind of forget how all this stuff works. I've invited him over to my place for a movie night - one of the big things we have in common is that we like the same movies... Scary movies!Thing is - I just have a loveseat? And He's been to my place before, so he knows ...

Hey r/dating . Sorry if this is the wrong place for this rant. I haven't had a second date in six months. I'm a somewhat conventionally attractive woman, take care of myself, etc. and on dating apps, I get tons of matches pretty easily, and even sometimes in public or when I'm out with my friends, I'm approached and asked for my number. However, it's after someone meets me in person for a date that things tend to go south and I get politely rejected or ghosted. The pattern tends to go as follows; I match with someone, they seem super interested, we talk for a couple days on the app or via text, one of us asks to meet up in person (I like to take the initiative sometimes and am fairy confident), the date goes okay/good in my opinion, but then I either never hear from them again, or when I try to reach out, I get a polite message indicating they are not interested in seeing me again. And if this clarifies, some of them I slept with after, some I didn't. So, I...

I have been messaging this guy (we have mutual friends and know each other from college) for over a month. We hung out a couple times one-on-one. We text every day. Do normal guys text this often? Is he just very outgoing? Is this what "talking to" someone is? Didn't want to include too much detail but I was just wondering since I don't have many people to ask. Submitted May 30, 2019 at 01:18AM I have been messaging this guy (we have mutual friends and know each other from college) for over a month. We hung out a couple times one-on-one. We text every day. Do normal guys text this often? Is he just very outgoing? Is this what "talking to" someone is? Didn't want to include too much detail but I was just wondering since I don't have many people to ask.

I feel I am good looking, fit, have a decent profile and am trying to improve myself. I have had some success with hinge but it is very sporadic. Lately I have gotten nothing. I use the same copy-paste message because I feel most girls don't respond anyways and that most are on it for validation. Nevertheless, I'm just wondering about lines with success rates from both genders... Submitted May 30, 2019 at 01:42AM I feel I am good looking, fit, have a decent profile and am trying to improve myself. I have had some success with hinge but it is very sporadic. Lately I have gotten nothing. I use the same copy-paste message because I feel most girls don't respond anyways and that most are on it for validation. Nevertheless, I'm just wondering about lines with success rates from both genders...

So basically I (20f) matched with a 23m (I'll call him John) on hinge. I haven't really been on a real date with someone I've met from dating apps/online. Here are some of the things I've been pondering over in my head the past few days, please help. - John and I have been texting for the past week, everyday actually and it seems like we're hitting it off. I'm worried that we shouldn't have been texting so much because what if we don't have anything to talk about? I'm not super worried about it but it's still in the back of my mind. - Also, I'm 4'8. I don't really look my age and my height doesn't help either haha... He's 5'11. What if he sees me and is disappointed in how short I am? I mean our heights are listed on our profiles but I keep worrying that he didn't actually see my height in my profile and assumes I'm a more average height. - From what I can tell from texting him and through his socials, he seems...

Hey everyone, I have a question about this guy that I have been texting. He keeps disappearing for weeks on end. Reasons he elicits are at one hand, reasonable but at the same time, I am paranoid that he may be a liar or *gulp* catfishing. I have talked to him on the phone so I know he is a real person. A couple of weeks ago, his dad got ill and was in the hospital. Then he disappeared again and his grandmother died. He has disappeared again. I didn't really think of it so much because I was super busy and thought whatever. But now I am kinda weirded out by this. Part of me wants to find out more and figure out if he is legit or not. Any advice? Submitted May 30, 2019 at 01:58AM Hey everyone,I have a question about this guy that I have been texting. He keeps disappearing for weeks on end. Reasons he elicits are at one hand, reasonable but at the same time, I am paranoid that he may be a liar or *gulp* catfishing. I have talked to him on the phone so I know he is a real pers...

I [20M] just recently got out of my first relationship with my ex of 2 months. It was definitely a new experience for me and I enjoyed some parts and got annoyed some parts of the whole process. But one thing that got to me was realizing how much time it actually takes to be able make things into an actual relationship. I only was able to see my ex once a week, because I had school and work. We would go on dates and I’d spend the night each week. Once we became official tho it was still only once a week, and after a while, the relationship didn’t feel like a relationship. It felt more like friends who kissed and hung out once a week. We never really got into sex yet. I thought once a week would be great but I’m realizing that most people at my age when dating see each other at least 3-4 times a week. This is kinda making me a bit anxious because my girl and I broke it off because we couldn’t see each other that much and it was only the beginning of our relationship. We couldn’t even...

When you start getting the butterflies when you think about him, but realize he still has feelings for someone else. Someone else with whom he has memories and so much more time to have loved together. I’m a young woman [21] and I really like this super adorable guy, and we went out three times. But he started talking about his exes and how they had a rough breakup. And about how his ex drunk texts him that she wants to be friends and that she misses him. This drives me crazy with insecurity, jealousy, and loneliness! And now I’m getting all these subtle hints that he is still into her. I don’t know what to say, other than that i feel so sad about the lost opportunity our relationship could have been. Moreover, I’m not 100% if he wants to see me again. Last time I asked and he said “sure,” which just made me feel like crap. I’ve realized I am someone who needs reassurance and a little bit of doting, overly sappy love from whoever I am with. I love the constant text messages and go...

hi y’all. im currently talking to this wonderful guy. goofy, kind, ambitious, and extremely patient and understanding. i’ve been in one “real” relationship prior to this that ended in december. however, that previous relationship was extremely extremely codependent. i’d focus on all of his problems and try to fix them while completely neglecting my own issues, i’d try to save our sinking relationship by throwing my own mental health aside and doing whatever it took (which is why we broke up... we both realized that’s not ok) he wanted to know where i was at all times and would get pissy if i didn’t tell him, there were a lot of trust issues that i’ve (thankfully) worked out with a therapist after we broke up. i’m not completely 100%, but i do want to get back in the game. so this new guy: i met him on tinder and he’s the sweetest lil goofball i’ve ever met. he goes to the college in planning on attending and we both live in the same area. i don’t wanna fuck this up though because i r...

Probably just me, but it seems like every day there are multiple threads about “ghosting” and it’s getting a bit much. The definition is so loose it could mean anything from someone not returning a message after a short exchange on tinder/bumble to someone not texting after a first date to someone up and disappearing after several dates (which in my opinion is the only kind of ghosting really worth any brain space). Maybe I’m getting old and crusty (28), but if someone likes you, they show it. If they don’t like you, they don’t show it, and if they’re hot and cold you probably don’t want to be with them anyway. I’ve been told I’ve “ghosted” someone after not returning a SINGLE text message where I just wasn’t too interested and figured they weren’t either and so the conversation died out naturally. Especially before a first date, I really don’t think there’s any reason to have anything more formal than that without it considered ghosting. Does anyone else agree? It’s just getting o...

Hi, (M18) basically I’ve never had a girlfriend. For as long as I can remember I’ve had serious crushes and major attempts at dating but they haven’t panned out. I’m a decent looking guy, kinda short (5’3) but I honestly don’t feel that my looks are the issue (which in most cases it really isn’t). I have an okay level of self confidence, when I first meet people I can be very timid and reserved but that’s just my personality. I take a lot of pride in my appearance, ensuring I’m always clean and moderately dressed. Going through high school watching all your closest friends going in and out of relationships while you’re struggling just to get a text back. Side note, this is weird as fuck trying to explain myself like this but fuck it whatever. Anyway, to make this shorter, I’m a painfully mediocre dude with my most notable traits being loyalty, empathy, and humor. This feels SUPER pretentious but yeah. All throughout high school “You’ll find someone” or “relax just let it happen” which...

(Please forgive me, this is my very first reddit post and this will be a lengthy read but definitely worth it!!) A little background: I'm a 40 swf, never been married, single mom of the most amazing daughter in the world. I have been celibate the last 12 years (exclude a rape incident). I was in a long distance relationship in 2017, my first relationship in 10 years, and was finally making plans to marry and build a life together. Unfortunately he was killed in a car accident the 29th of December that year. It's been very tough since, but I do want to start thinking about moving forward. Unfortunately I don't know how after the following relationships have happened... ​ My first long term relationship with Ex#1, I was 17 and he was 19, was 3 years and he cheated on me the entire time, abused me verbally, physically and financially. In 2001 I have my beautiful daughter, her father was never in the picture. 2 months after having my daughter I met Ex#2 at my parents resta...

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i know, i hear a lot of people say that i shouldn’t worry about that but i have a friend who is 2 years younger than me and he hangs out with girls all the time. and it makes me feel really dumb that i’ve never had a girlfriend and i’m older yet alone hung out with one. and he makes fun of me for it too.. should i be worried about this? i’ve never asked a girl out simply cause i’m not confident enough. it feels like all of my friends have had girlfriends and all of that except me Submitted May 29, 2019 at 07:59AM i know, i hear a lot of people say that i shouldn’t worry about that but i have a friend who is 2 years younger than me and he hangs out with girls all the time. and it makes me feel really dumb that i’ve never had a girlfriend and i’m older yet alone hung out with one. and he makes fun of me for it too.. should i be worried about this? i’ve never asked a girl out simply cause i’m not confident enough. it feels like all of my friends have had girlfriends and all of that...

I haven't seen her in like a few months. We both got out of the subway walking to school (college). She was with another guy, probably just a classmate. When I look at her my heart beats harder and I get it warm. I haven't had that in a long time. I am not someone who goes up to girls and talks easily. She looks like she is from arabic origin like me. But I don't see her often as it is a big school. I am still there at school. Thinking about her. School is almost over. I hope I see her again. Submitted May 29, 2019 at 11:28AM I haven't seen her in like a few months. We both got out of the subway walking to school (college). She was with another guy, probably just a classmate. When I look at her my heart beats harder and I get it warm. I haven't had that in a long time. I am not someone who goes up to girls and talks easily. She looks like she is from arabic origin like me. But I don't see her often as it is a big school. I am still there at school. Thinki...

We used to talk about our future all the time, like we had a clue. Unfortunately, we've never planned that one day I'd be losing you. But I promise.. I promise. That in another life, I would be yours, I would be your girl, I'd be with you forever. That we'd get to keep all our promises. That it would just be us, just us against the world. That in another life, I would make you stay, never go. Never leave. Just so that, I don't have to say.. I will never have to say, that you were the one.. The one that got away. Submitted May 29, 2019 at 02:05PM We used to talk about our future all the time, like we had a clue. Unfortunately, we've never planned that one day I'd be losing you.But I promise.. I promise. That in another life, I would be yours, I would be your girl, I'd be with you forever. That we'd get to keep all our promises. That it would just be us, just us against the world. That in another life, I would make you stay, never go. Never lea...

Ill start off by saying that we have a strong connection and get along amazing. We love spending time together. We have such a good time when we're together and I can feel that were both falling inlove the more time we spend together. He has issues that he doesnt open up about and he says that he can barely be there for himself and needs to learn how to deal with it before getting into a serious relationship. I get it, but I also worry. Im worried that I'm going to get hurt. Im also worried that in some sick way, hes lying about everything. He's so special to me. Ive never found anyone like him before. Im only 20, but ive always found it SO hard to connect with people and with him its always just been so easy. Hes so sweet and caring with me. Hes an old soul and also uses old phrases. He's also brutally honest, and he doesnt want to get my hopes up. He told me at one point that he doesnt see himself working things out for 6-12 months. I dont mind doing what we have bee...

I was just guessing at numbers and figures. The ever so complicated you that I will always love. I've been consistently pulling your puzzles apart like millions of questions of science, of existence.. Of everything.. There will always be a science of you and the constant progress of knowing how happy I am to have you in my life. Words are never enough. Words could never suffice. Words could not speak as loud as my heart. You'd tell me you love me. You'd always come back and haunt me. Every minute. Everyday. Oh and I rush to the start! The beginning. Like it's the very first time. I promise you I will forever be.. Running in circles. Willing to forever be chasing our tails. To forever be loving you.. To always be coming back as we are. Inseparable. Inlove. Obsessed. Submitted May 29, 2019 at 02:16PM I was just guessing at numbers and figures. The ever so complicated you that I will always love. I've been consistently pulling your puzzles apart like millions ...

I still find your hair in my bed and in my clothes. Your scent, your warmth, you. Everything that's you.. In my mouth, in my nose.. In my head.. In my heart.. Oh who knows? If you'll still be there when it's all said and done, Or if I'll just find less from now on. From now on.. I am alone.. I still have no windows. In my room.. or my halls.. In my mind.. In my heart.. I was hoping I could look through yours. Sitting in a chair next to your front door.. As I watch you do your makeup on the floor.. Watching, remembering, hoping, praying.. With a heavy heart, thinking.. Every time. Every day. Every second Every minute. I wonder how I'd carry on without you? Submitted May 29, 2019 at 02:27PM I still find your hair in my bed and in my clothes. Your scent, your warmth, you. Everything that's you.. In my mouth, in my nose.. In my head.. In my heart.. Oh who knows? If you'll still be there when it's all said and done, Or if I'll just find less from ...

As long as I lived, I’ve never experienced mutual love at all. Not ever will I think I will find someone to make my life worth more than what it is now. I just don’t see it happening as I am becoming depressed again, and it’s hit like a train. Submitted May 29, 2019 at 09:24PM As long as I lived, I’ve never experienced mutual love at all. Not ever will I think I will find someone to make my life worth more than what it is now. I just don’t see it happening as I am becoming depressed again, and it’s hit like a train.

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So I have never had relationship experience but I'm asking this question for future reference or just for understanding how can a person tell ifthey are truely in love and it is not based off of lust or the sudden emotions you get when you first meet someone or if you have a crush ? I'm not saying those things can't be there but how could you tell or is there no way to tell the difference ? I really thank everyone for there response in advance 😊🙏❤️. Submitted May 29, 2019 at 10:59PM So I have never had relationship experience but I'm asking this question for future reference or just for understanding how can a person tell ifthey are truely in love and it is not based off of lust or the sudden emotions you get when you first meet someone or if you have a crush ? I'm not saying those things can't be there but how could you tell or is there no way to tell the difference ? I really thank everyone for there response in advance 😊🙏❤️.

So I was out with my girlfriend getting some drinks and we decided to get an uber. When the uber arrives she gets in the front and leaves me in the back all by myself. Obviously this bothered me and she can't understand why. I said so you would rather ride next to a stranger then next to your boyfriend. She said no I just don't think it's a big deal. Is it just me or is this completely rude? Submitted May 29, 2019 at 11:52PM So I was out with my girlfriend getting some drinks and we decided to get an uber. When the uber arrives she gets in the front and leaves me in the back all by myself. Obviously this bothered me and she can't understand why. I said so you would rather ride next to a stranger then next to your boyfriend. She said no I just don't think it's a big deal. Is it just me or is this completely rude?

He started sitting behind me in study hall! And my friend started trying to talk to him (when I'm around) after I told her I liked him. She's trying to kill me 😂 I'm scared out of nowhere I'm just gonna start blushing (I blush a lot, I don't know why) Submitted May 29, 2019 at 11:55PM He started sitting behind me in study hall! And my friend started trying to talk to him (when I'm around) after I told her I liked him. She's trying to kill me 😂 I'm scared out of nowhere I'm just gonna start blushing (I blush a lot, I don't know why)

I knew what you were going to look like, how you were going to act. You wouldnt believe me if i told you about my wicked intuition. It tells me so much. It got a couple things wrong, but it was so close. I knew who you were going to be. I also knew you werent going to be nice to me. That i would have to fight and beg for your attention, your affection. You surprised me in the first few months, but my intuition is never wrong. I knew that no matter how horrible you became i wouldnt leave, it told me so. Its been about three weeks since i left. Its been about three months sit you decided i was no longer worth trying for. You have no idea how much i miss your hugs, and i hope you never know. People ask me if i loved you. Is eight months enough time to fall in love? You didnt want to be friends and thats okay. I cant force you, i dont want to. When i first saw you, when i realised who you were and why i kept staring at you, i knew that no matter what happened your happiness was a priori...

(I'm M16) A girl moved to my school last year, from France. She didn't speak English and she was incredibly quiet and often seemed upset. One time I went to the music classroom early after lunch, only to hear the subtle, sweet melody of "a thousand years" coming from the grand piano. I opened the door expecting somebody to be having a music lesson but it was her. Sat alone, as she so often was, she looked up at me and smiled, something I had never seen her do in the 3 months since she had joined. I happened to know this song on violin and so I asked if we could play it together. Now, this is where something happened that has never happened to me in almost 8 years of playing music, such was the connection between us whilst playing that I couldn't help but stare at her as she played; what this connection was is open to debate, but I have an idea... I noticed that tears were slowly falling down her cheek and at that same time I felt my eyes fill with tears. When the...

I genuinely love my girl so much. She’s sweet and funny and smart . Shes so loyal and I don’t know what I did to deserve a princess like her. Sorry to be gushing, I just got so lucky Submitted May 30, 2019 at 05:26AM I genuinely love my girl so much. She’s sweet and funny and smart . Shes so loyal and I don’t know what I did to deserve a princess like her. Sorry to be gushing, I just got so lucky

After asking her three times she finally said yes and we went out last weekend. The first time I asked her she said she “wasn’t dating” a mutual friend of ours told me the reason she wasn’t dating is because she is in therapy, I think she has a hard time connecting with men. I asked her a second time a month later and she said yes, because of my persistence, then she ghosted me when the time came for the date. I asked her again a week later and we set a date. I picked her up, I was as nervous as I have ever been, I told her about my nervousness, she told me she had a panic attack and almost canceled me again. Then she told me about how she saw me at an event a week prior and intentionally tried to avoid me and I didn’t even see her there. The date went well, we spent four or 5 hours together, talked a lot. The waiter at the restaurant came to our table a few times and we kept telling her we haven’t even looked at the menu because we were so busy talking. The next day I texted her a ...