The girl that I like/have been hooking up with is leaving in four days.. should I wait for her to text me first?

The girl (21) in my (23) friend group that I have been hooking up with and like is leaving for school in four days.

We both seem to like each other, but I personally won't confess my feelings for obvious reasons. She's told our friend that she "vibes with me well" so I'll take it as she feels the same way about me.

We are planning on tripping on LSD in my backyard (camping in a tent) before she goes, but I don't know if I should hit her up first about it. I set up a collaborative playlist on Spotify for us to make, and though she saw it and seemed pretty excited that I added some songs already, she hasn't added any herself. I've always been the one to initiate contact with her, and it makes me feel like I'm the only one who cares about hanging out. It's weird, because 1/2 of the times that we plan on hanging outside of the group she flakes last second. When we do hang out alone, we connect very well and have a great time together. It leaves me feeling confused. When we hang out with our friend group, we almost always pull each other to the side to make out and have a good time, and there's sexual tension and flirting between us most of the time.

I talked to a friend who is a girl about this, and she told me that I should wait to see if she hits me up first, because it'll show me if she really cares about what we have or not. I agree with her, but again, she's leaving in four days. Last night we were snapping back and forth, and she left me on read. Today in the group chat, she hit us all up to see if we can have one more "boat day" on the day before she leaves to go back to school. We never really talked directly to each other in the group chat, and ultimately I have no clue on what to do in this situation.

Submitted August 08, 2020 at 12:14AM

The girl (21) in my (23) friend group that I have been hooking up with and like is leaving for school in four days.We both seem to like each other, but I personally won't confess my feelings for obvious reasons. She's told our friend that she "vibes with me well" so I'll take it as she feels the same way about me.We are planning on tripping on LSD in my backyard (camping in a tent) before she goes, but I don't know if I should hit her up first about it. I set up a collaborative playlist on Spotify for us to make, and though she saw it and seemed pretty excited that I added some songs already, she hasn't added any herself. I've always been the one to initiate contact with her, and it makes me feel like I'm the only one who cares about hanging out. It's weird, because 1/2 of the times that we plan on hanging outside of the group she flakes last second. When we do hang out alone, we connect very well and have a great time together. It leaves me feeling confused. When we hang out with our friend group, we almost always pull each other to the side to make out and have a good time, and there's sexual tension and flirting between us most of the time.I talked to a friend who is a girl about this, and she told me that I should wait to see if she hits me up first, because it'll show me if she really cares about what we have or not. I agree with her, but again, she's leaving in four days. Last night we were snapping back and forth, and she left me on read. Today in the group chat, she hit us all up to see if we can have one more "boat day" on the day before she leaves to go back to school. We never really talked directly to each other in the group chat, and ultimately I have no clue on what to do in this situation.