I kind of feel like a weirdo. :/

So my gf (22F) broke up with me (21M) almost a month ago, the process of the breakup lasted about up until a few days ago. Officially over, she's not coming back. I treated her so well and always tried my best with her, i loved her so much. But she obviously didnt appreciate me. So after the breakup, she told me that she understands how i feel but wants to be left alone. I saie okay no problem, and left her alone....for 5 days. The no contact thing was killing me, it had been a whole month since id seen or heard her. I knew where she worked because she was my gf and we knew a lot about each other. So out of impulse, i called where she works just so i could hear her voice because i was so upset. I felt awful about it, and hung up immediately when she answered. She later found out it was me and called me a freak and a weirdo for calling her at work, and then she acted like i didnt know where she worked just to make me seem weirder when she literally told me one night. I told her i was sorry and that i apologize and that i let my emotions get the best of me. She just kept bashing me and calling me annoying and weird and that she never wants to speak to me again. Crushed me. Absolutely crushed me. But its my fault, yes it was a little weird for me to do that, she she overreacted really badly and acted like as if i was actively trying to hurt her when all i did was fucking call her workplace and then hang up. She works at pharmacy/general store at customer service. I should've left her alone but i couldnt control myself and she made me feel so creepy and weird, when ive never done anything like that in my life. She just drove me up the wall and constantly made me feel like a piece of shit after the break up when i did absolutely nothing wrong. She's quite literally a manipulative sociopath. She always tried to control me, lied to me about everything, never let me come to her place once, never involved me in her life in any capacity. She hid everything from me while i was completely open to her with my life because thats what im supposed to do, but she just hid herself from me. I miss her tho, everyday now. But i know shes never coming back now, she has me blocked on everything because of my little call at her workplace.

TL;DR I called where she works after she had told me to leave her alone out of impulse, i didnt say anything, i just hung up as soon as she answered. She found out it was me, then she acted like i didnt know where she worked when she literally told me, just to make me seem weirder. She called me a freak and a weirdo.

Submitted August 08, 2020 at 12:04AM

So my gf (22F) broke up with me (21M) almost a month ago, the process of the breakup lasted about up until a few days ago. Officially over, she's not coming back. I treated her so well and always tried my best with her, i loved her so much. But she obviously didnt appreciate me. So after the breakup, she told me that she understands how i feel but wants to be left alone. I saie okay no problem, and left her alone....for 5 days. The no contact thing was killing me, it had been a whole month since id seen or heard her. I knew where she worked because she was my gf and we knew a lot about each other. So out of impulse, i called where she works just so i could hear her voice because i was so upset. I felt awful about it, and hung up immediately when she answered. She later found out it was me and called me a freak and a weirdo for calling her at work, and then she acted like i didnt know where she worked just to make me seem weirder when she literally told me one night. I told her i was sorry and that i apologize and that i let my emotions get the best of me. She just kept bashing me and calling me annoying and weird and that she never wants to speak to me again. Crushed me. Absolutely crushed me. But its my fault, yes it was a little weird for me to do that, she she overreacted really badly and acted like as if i was actively trying to hurt her when all i did was fucking call her workplace and then hang up. She works at pharmacy/general store at customer service. I should've left her alone but i couldnt control myself and she made me feel so creepy and weird, when ive never done anything like that in my life. She just drove me up the wall and constantly made me feel like a piece of shit after the break up when i did absolutely nothing wrong. She's quite literally a manipulative sociopath. She always tried to control me, lied to me about everything, never let me come to her place once, never involved me in her life in any capacity. She hid everything from me while i was completely open to her with my life because thats what im supposed to do, but she just hid herself from me. I miss her tho, everyday now. But i know shes never coming back now, she has me blocked on everything because of my little call at her workplace.TL;DR I called where she works after she had told me to leave her alone out of impulse, i didnt say anything, i just hung up as soon as she answered. She found out it was me, then she acted like i didnt know where she worked when she literally told me, just to make me seem weirder. She called me a freak and a weirdo.