had sex with my lovely girlfriend for the first time in 2 and 1/2 months

I will start by saying my girlfriend and i have an incredible relationship, we are so deeply in love with each other and plan on getting married. We have been together for years, live together, and run a business together.

Since the New Year began, things have been HECTIC to say the least. My parents health is failing so a lot of my time has been dedicated to caring for them and keeping my family afloat. I own an italian restaurant and in December my girlfriend quit her job to manage and run the restaurant with me and we are opening another restaurant in the fall which is also taking all of our time and energy. We work 12+ hours a day and when we’re not working, we’re struggling to get things done like housework, laundry, feeding ourselves, making room to get enough sleep, etc etc. Now with all this crazy stuff going on our business is heading into a very scary direction (we live in America and are fucking terrified of the future of our country/income/all the employees under us). We are still open for dine-in and to-go but don’t think we will last until the end of the week. At the end of January an unexpected tornado destroyed our apartment and all of our belongings which we are still recouping from mentally and financially.

To keep it simple, life has been violently busy lately. With everything going on, sex has been at the very bottom of our list. We are just exhausted. Neither of us have carved out the time to care for each other in that way. It’s not like we don’t want to have sex with each other, it’s just been impossible to make a priority.

Either way, i’ve still been wanting her in that way so bad. I’ve missed her so much that I hadn’t even realized how much it’s affected me. Last night we were up late with all our anxieties about work and family and smoked a bowl in bed to try to relax. She starting dozing off snuggled into me and i couldn’t help but pull her closer and closer into me. Before i knew it, we were having sex. She was more beautiful than i ever could’ve imagined. She felt so fucking good against me. She came for me quicker than she ever has and it immediately reassured me that yes she still loves me, YES she still wants me like that and needs me like that. I can’t get over how incredible and intimate it was being with her after such a long time... like it was my first time touching her ever. I needed that experience SO bad. A huge weight i didn’t even know i was carrying felt like it was lifted off of me when were done.

Anyway, a small silver-lining in the Shit Storm we’re all experiencing right now. I love my girlfriend so much and i’m so so so thankful for the strong bond we have.

If you’re going through hell in this wild mess of a world right now and you have a girl or if you have a man, hold them a little closer and give them all your love because at the end of the day it’s the most valuable thing there is. Thank GOD for love. And THANK GOD for sex.

Submitted March 18, 2020 at 12:14AM

I will start by saying my girlfriend and i have an incredible relationship, we are so deeply in love with each other and plan on getting married. We have been together for years, live together, and run a business together.Since the New Year began, things have been HECTIC to say the least. My parents health is failing so a lot of my time has been dedicated to caring for them and keeping my family afloat. I own an italian restaurant and in December my girlfriend quit her job to manage and run the restaurant with me and we are opening another restaurant in the fall which is also taking all of our time and energy. We work 12+ hours a day and when we’re not working, we’re struggling to get things done like housework, laundry, feeding ourselves, making room to get enough sleep, etc etc. Now with all this crazy stuff going on our business is heading into a very scary direction (we live in America and are fucking terrified of the future of our country/income/all the employees under us). We are still open for dine-in and to-go but don’t think we will last until the end of the week. At the end of January an unexpected tornado destroyed our apartment and all of our belongings which we are still recouping from mentally and financially.To keep it simple, life has been violently busy lately. With everything going on, sex has been at the very bottom of our list. We are just exhausted. Neither of us have carved out the time to care for each other in that way. It’s not like we don’t want to have sex with each other, it’s just been impossible to make a priority.Either way, i’ve still been wanting her in that way so bad. I’ve missed her so much that I hadn’t even realized how much it’s affected me. Last night we were up late with all our anxieties about work and family and smoked a bowl in bed to try to relax. She starting dozing off snuggled into me and i couldn’t help but pull her closer and closer into me. Before i knew it, we were having sex. She was more beautiful than i ever could’ve imagined. She felt so fucking good against me. She came for me quicker than she ever has and it immediately reassured me that yes she still loves me, YES she still wants me like that and needs me like that. I can’t get over how incredible and intimate it was being with her after such a long time... like it was my first time touching her ever. I needed that experience SO bad. A huge weight i didn’t even know i was carrying felt like it was lifted off of me when were done.Anyway, a small silver-lining in the Shit Storm we’re all experiencing right now. I love my girlfriend so much and i’m so so so thankful for the strong bond we have.If you’re going through hell in this wild mess of a world right now and you have a girl or if you have a man, hold them a little closer and give them all your love because at the end of the day it’s the most valuable thing there is. Thank GOD for love. And THANK GOD for sex.