Oblivious guy needs advice after co-worker was flirty at the work party.

There is a girl at work who I've only talked to a few times and is honestly waaaaay out of my league. She expressed she was happy to see me at the party as I previously told her I wouldn't be able to make it. At the after party - she came up to me while I was on the dance floor and was very touchy while talking. Pretty much holding me with both arms while we had a conversation. Me - being nearly blackout drunk at the time and always completely oblivious with women - didn't think much of it and I don't even remember what we talked about as I was very intoxicated (I do remember she wanted me to come to the yoga classes she organizes at work). I also remember leaving later in the night and she was like "You're leaving" and I kind of just dipped with a quick wave. All this said - the girl is pretty physical by nature and I don't want to read into it too much if she was just drunk and being friendly. Someone told me last year she got pretty intoxicated and was similarly physical with people. Was she just being friendly and I'm reading too much into it, or should I ask her out/open some more dialogue with her? She is very flirty by nature and I don't want to jump to conclusions if she was just being friendly while a bit tipsy. I'm also very under confident with women and she is an absolute stunner - which is definitely affecting my decision-making. FYI - I would say I'm below average looks.

Submitted December 16, 2019 at 12:01AM

There is a girl at work who I've only talked to a few times and is honestly waaaaay out of my league. She expressed she was happy to see me at the party as I previously told her I wouldn't be able to make it. At the after party - she came up to me while I was on the dance floor and was very touchy while talking. Pretty much holding me with both arms while we had a conversation. Me - being nearly blackout drunk at the time and always completely oblivious with women - didn't think much of it and I don't even remember what we talked about as I was very intoxicated (I do remember she wanted me to come to the yoga classes she organizes at work). I also remember leaving later in the night and she was like "You're leaving" and I kind of just dipped with a quick wave. All this said - the girl is pretty physical by nature and I don't want to read into it too much if she was just drunk and being friendly. Someone told me last year she got pretty intoxicated and was similarly physical with people. Was she just being friendly and I'm reading too much into it, or should I ask her out/open some more dialogue with her? She is very flirty by nature and I don't want to jump to conclusions if she was just being friendly while a bit tipsy. I'm also very under confident with women and she is an absolute stunner - which is definitely affecting my decision-making. FYI - I would say I'm below average looks.