First love situation, need advice boys..

Hello people of reddit. It's my first time doing something like this simply because it's my first time being in a situation like this. It's going to be a long post simply because I'm going to write my feelings out. Shortly tho, i like this girl, I want her to be mine and I'll try to accomplish that until she tells me to leave her alone. Thing is I have no experience when it comes to dating, relationships and stuff like that. That's why I need your advice boys.

A little background on me: I'm 20, okay looking guy with positive attitude to anything. I'm really confident too (except when it comes to girls haha). I ain't no fuckboi tho. I consider myself a likeable person since I'm really friendly to everybody and people around me see that, they always act postive towards me. I love all people since there is a lot of hate and negativity in this world already(dont take me for a hipster tho lol). I guess I'm a bit weird but I mean shit, I ain't gonna pretend someone I am not tho, fuck that shit haha. I like working out, I love gaming and hanging out with friends. I take good care of myself both physically and mentally. I'm not perfect by any means, no one is but I think that is what makes us humans right?

A little background on US: so we know each other for about 4 months now. We are groupmates at our university and we see each other all the time. We actually consider each other friends now. We talk to each other a lot too, l love talking to her. We love chatting too, yesterday we texted each other for nearly 3 hours straight lol. I feel like I can talk to her about everything and we can relate to each other a lot too, we have quite a lot of things in common, tho I feel like we have more opposites haha (I love that, I don't want a girl with too many things in common as weird as that sounds). I actually really started digging her a few weeks ago. Right now I'm at the point where I like her a lot. And when I say a lot I mean I am almost at the point where I love her...I've never loved a girl in my life tho, I haven't even had a legit crush on someone before her haha. She knows I like her, I mean it's obvious. Haven't confesed to her about my feelings to her yet tho (I'm waiting for that perfect moment). I know she's is kinda into me too. We hanged out with our friends twice this week (4 of us) and I love it, I feel like we will continue to do that. I love being around her...but she is complicated...

A background on her: she is not your ordinary girl, let me say that first. I'll start with looks. She is pretty, she ain't no model or shit, but she is nice looking, pretty face, (her body is average but I couldn't care less about that shit) cute looking girl. She dresses very casually too. She is the prettiest girl in the world for me (for real, all the other girls dont look nearly as good as her since I started digging her even tho they pretty too). I feel like i can drown in her blue ocean eyes...her smile makes my brain malfunction too (it's pretty as hell)...She is also smart (smart girls are hot af lets be honest).Things get very complicated tho when I think about her character...While she's the prettiest girl in the world for me, she is also the most complicated one I have ever met. I feel like she is kinda depressed, she has a lot of mood swings, she spends way too much time in her bed (sleeping of course lol) and she can be mean at times too (even tho she doesnt mean it). She looks tired most of the time too, might even say she is sad sometimes, fuck... Even tho she is all of the above, she is very social, talkable girl. When she is in a good mood (a rare event indeed) she can talk for hours. I can't even explain why I like her so much, she just has something very special, she is very special... I can't get this girl out of my head. I flirt with her from time to time and she seems to like it haha. Guess it's worth mentioning that she has a boyfriend too, thing is they barely hang out together (I think so) she never ever talks about him, she doesnt have a single photo of with him on social media and I've heard her say:"...I haven't broken up with him yet haha..."

The end I guess: if you made it that far you know that I'm deep in shit with this girl (also in love haha). I want her to be mine, I'm ready to be in a relationship, shit, might as well say i need one. I love her the way she is even tho she is super compex. I need advice tho, I have no exp when it come to girls and she...she is a very hard girl to approach I feel like. It's not like I give her too much attention tho (should I?). I dont act like I am going crazy about her around her but I send her hints that I like her and she knows that. I feel like she flirts with me from time to time too. So far I have tried to attract her very passively and I think it's time I shift into next gear. Where do I go from here? I don't want to be stuck in friendzone. Should I talk about it with her good fiend (she is my friend too) and ask her advice?. Should I ask her out next week, just the two of us?(if so, I really have to clutch it this week) How do I make her fall in love with me? What is the next step I should take? I have a million more questions... help me lads, I feel like she could be the one for me (ik it sound unrealistic). Peace ✌.

Submitted December 16, 2019 at 12:14AM

Hello people of reddit. It's my first time doing something like this simply because it's my first time being in a situation like this. It's going to be a long post simply because I'm going to write my feelings out. Shortly tho, i like this girl, I want her to be mine and I'll try to accomplish that until she tells me to leave her alone. Thing is I have no experience when it comes to dating, relationships and stuff like that. That's why I need your advice boys.A little background on me: I'm 20, okay looking guy with positive attitude to anything. I'm really confident too (except when it comes to girls haha). I ain't no fuckboi tho. I consider myself a likeable person since I'm really friendly to everybody and people around me see that, they always act postive towards me. I love all people since there is a lot of hate and negativity in this world already(dont take me for a hipster tho lol). I guess I'm a bit weird but I mean shit, I ain't gonna pretend someone I am not tho, fuck that shit haha. I like working out, I love gaming and hanging out with friends. I take good care of myself both physically and mentally. I'm not perfect by any means, no one is but I think that is what makes us humans right?A little background on US: so we know each other for about 4 months now. We are groupmates at our university and we see each other all the time. We actually consider each other friends now. We talk to each other a lot too, l love talking to her. We love chatting too, yesterday we texted each other for nearly 3 hours straight lol. I feel like I can talk to her about everything and we can relate to each other a lot too, we have quite a lot of things in common, tho I feel like we have more opposites haha (I love that, I don't want a girl with too many things in common as weird as that sounds). I actually really started digging her a few weeks ago. Right now I'm at the point where I like her a lot. And when I say a lot I mean I am almost at the point where I love her...I've never loved a girl in my life tho, I haven't even had a legit crush on someone before her haha. She knows I like her, I mean it's obvious. Haven't confesed to her about my feelings to her yet tho (I'm waiting for that perfect moment). I know she's is kinda into me too. We hanged out with our friends twice this week (4 of us) and I love it, I feel like we will continue to do that. I love being around her...but she is complicated...A background on her: she is not your ordinary girl, let me say that first. I'll start with looks. She is pretty, she ain't no model or shit, but she is nice looking, pretty face, (her body is average but I couldn't care less about that shit) cute looking girl. She dresses very casually too. She is the prettiest girl in the world for me (for real, all the other girls dont look nearly as good as her since I started digging her even tho they pretty too). I feel like i can drown in her blue ocean eyes...her smile makes my brain malfunction too (it's pretty as hell)...She is also smart (smart girls are hot af lets be honest).Things get very complicated tho when I think about her character...While she's the prettiest girl in the world for me, she is also the most complicated one I have ever met. I feel like she is kinda depressed, she has a lot of mood swings, she spends way too much time in her bed (sleeping of course lol) and she can be mean at times too (even tho she doesnt mean it). She looks tired most of the time too, might even say she is sad sometimes, fuck... Even tho she is all of the above, she is very social, talkable girl. When she is in a good mood (a rare event indeed) she can talk for hours. I can't even explain why I like her so much, she just has something very special, she is very special... I can't get this girl out of my head. I flirt with her from time to time and she seems to like it haha. Guess it's worth mentioning that she has a boyfriend too, thing is they barely hang out together (I think so) she never ever talks about him, she doesnt have a single photo of with him on social media and I've heard her say:"...I haven't broken up with him yet haha..."The end I guess: if you made it that far you know that I'm deep in shit with this girl (also in love haha). I want her to be mine, I'm ready to be in a relationship, shit, might as well say i need one. I love her the way she is even tho she is super compex. I need advice tho, I have no exp when it come to girls and she...she is a very hard girl to approach I feel like. It's not like I give her too much attention tho (should I?). I dont act like I am going crazy about her around her but I send her hints that I like her and she knows that. I feel like she flirts with me from time to time too. So far I have tried to attract her very passively and I think it's time I shift into next gear. Where do I go from here? I don't want to be stuck in friendzone. Should I talk about it with her good fiend (she is my friend too) and ask her advice?. Should I ask her out next week, just the two of us?(if so, I really have to clutch it this week) How do I make her fall in love with me? What is the next step I should take? I have a million more questions... help me lads, I feel like she could be the one for me (ik it sound unrealistic). Peace ✌.