This subreddit always told me [25F] to leave my BF [25M], but I’ve only written about the bad things

I was making throwaway accounts for some of our problems and I think that only once I was the one overreacting in the situation, according to this subreddit. I wanna start by talking about the good things now:

2 years together, long-distance for 1 year. I can be childish with him. We can cuddle together forever and baby talk without feeling uncomfortable. We talk about our day during the day, we buy each other gifts, send each other cards and play games together. He taught me chess and how to properly train in the gym. He supports me. He takes care of me when I’m sick and gets panicked when I’m unwell. He tells me I’m beautiful. He goes down on me. He puts the laptop on the window sill to show me the fireworks and we laugh a lot, we always laugh and we can be silly together. We like hiking and visiting new places, we have the same taste in music the same lifestyle, and we have similar views regarding our future. He wants to marry me.

Now quickly, the bad things: he once called me ugly when he was in a bad mood because I didn’t want to touch his dick, he later apologized but said that me being insecure about my appearance made him observe my bad features. He also said he saw better-looking women everywhere, because he knows my bad angles. He never gave me an orgasm. I showed him how, but he always said he got tired and sweaty. Actually, the sex is quite painful and I once stopped him, and he got annoyed because he didn’t cum and it was a waste of time. He can be childish, yes, but sometimes he needs to be babysat. He wanted me to prioritize him over my ill mom. He’s always afraid I’d leave him.

Do the good things outweigh the bad things?

TL;DR: my BF is a wonderful partner except for some problems regarding intimacy and insensitivity.

Submitted October 11, 2019 at 12:16AM

I was making throwaway accounts for some of our problems and I think that only once I was the one overreacting in the situation, according to this subreddit. I wanna start by talking about the good things now:2 years together, long-distance for 1 year. I can be childish with him. We can cuddle together forever and baby talk without feeling uncomfortable. We talk about our day during the day, we buy each other gifts, send each other cards and play games together. He taught me chess and how to properly train in the gym. He supports me. He takes care of me when I’m sick and gets panicked when I’m unwell. He tells me I’m beautiful. He goes down on me. He puts the laptop on the window sill to show me the fireworks and we laugh a lot, we always laugh and we can be silly together. We like hiking and visiting new places, we have the same taste in music the same lifestyle, and we have similar views regarding our future. He wants to marry me.Now quickly, the bad things: he once called me ugly when he was in a bad mood because I didn’t want to touch his dick, he later apologized but said that me being insecure about my appearance made him observe my bad features. He also said he saw better-looking women everywhere, because he knows my bad angles. He never gave me an orgasm. I showed him how, but he always said he got tired and sweaty. Actually, the sex is quite painful and I once stopped him, and he got annoyed because he didn’t cum and it was a waste of time. He can be childish, yes, but sometimes he needs to be babysat. He wanted me to prioritize him over my ill mom. He’s always afraid I’d leave him.Do the good things outweigh the bad things?TL;DR: my BF is a wonderful partner except for some problems regarding intimacy and insensitivity.