I need some help on this cute girl

So. Im 19, and work at this restaurant chain, and with covid etc we let other coworkers from other locations, work with us(not on a regular bases)

2 days ago, 2 girls worked for a day with us, 1 of them was amazing, looked super cute. Had a really nice personality, she is really nice(she is 19 too)

We had multible nice eye contact moments, laughed a lot, she started calling me funny names(might be a common thing so idk)

We had kinda the same study directions(do not go to the same college(she lives 50 km away)

After work me a other coworker and the 2 girls just decided to go to McDonald's after work We took 1 car (the car of the girls) We had great time, music on the radio etc Me and the other coworker knew the city a bit so we gave directions of were to go Pointing left or right etc, all of that.

I pointed straight, but because i cant see through the front seats(the really nice girl sat in front of me in the front passager seat) And i unintentionaly touched hear hair etc

She looked up to my hand and put her hand up, we kinda held hands and traded a eye moment again(strange). But we where all kinda joking around too so idk if she did it because of that or something else.

We later arive at the McDonald's, While in the mcdrive we decided what we wanted to order(we chose 20 chickennuggets for those wondering) And i wanted bbq sauce with it She turned around and said eww. All of us got our own sauce no matter

When we went to the windows to gather it etc these guys(these were not really the brightest stars and where acting all dumb and overall those scooter kids) We where making fun talk about it all she(nice girl) decided to joke around, and tell them she was looking for a bf. she started loudly saying she was looking for a boyfriend(window closed so they couldnt hear it) but i think it was some sort of a hint towards me idk. While she did i was kinda nervous and didnt know what to do with it(i did nothing and played allong making fun talk again with the rest.

We later ate our stuff in the parking lot. Making fun talk about other people close by.

This one car  was standing really close to the water edge she(nice girl) wanted to warn them, but they didnt really see here. But i think the same way, caring about others. So i think we kinda have that same way of thinking idk, not that important i think.

While making fun talk and all(note, my laugh is really strange sometimes) She turned around and said it was kinda cute, and i sounded like a little mokey(dont know what to think of that and all. i later though by myself and i think i should have said something to her about being cute etc(but i didnt, now i think im stupid

When driving back to get my car and all to all go home We all wanted to get the others snapchats, So we did(important later)

While driving back, we had our little nice eye contact moments again etc and overall fun talk

When we got to the carpark and we had some more fun talk and i got out of the car(couldnt find the doorhandle, and she was all like "you need help?"(in a funny way. kinda teasing me with it.

When i got out and we all said our goodbye's we made some more eyecontact and kinda made all fun gestures and weird faces

Overall a great evening

So now the snapchat part(the part were i now kinda feel bumbed and sad)

So the original plan to why get each others snap was for her to send me a video of the girl driver(2nd girl) Which was like "i go 150km/h on the highway" And she wanted to send me a video of the 2nd girl actually doing it And later she sends it(i was home already)

I told her did you get home safe and all, and she said in all fun ways. Yess it will be alright

I asked her if she was comming back this week She told me "noo just in 2 weeks again" I told her "sad emoji face"

She said "aww it was super fun with you all, maybe we come back this week i dont know"

I was like "yeaa was super fun. That would be the best day of the week"

It was all super fun and small talk

By that time she got home, i asked her "all good?" She said "yes" I then said "good"

And that was that for that conversation Which i now think was a lame way of me to close of

The next day i text her "good morning, how was your morning" She replied 1 hour later(she was asleep so i dont blame her) After that she told me in a fun way "yess just got up You?"

I tell her "same just got up around an hour ago" She then relies back after 4 hours While at work(she was called to another restaurant in the chain)

We then started having some conversation again, but her responses were all 1 to 3 word texts Which i was kinda insecure about of what to do and was thinking "Does she now not want to talk anymore?" Etc (I do understand that she has work, but i was at work too. Okay it might have been busy at her work idk)

We still have conversation now I write nice sentences to her about what her day is like, She responds with "yes good" and how long it all was

She texts some sentences but not in the flirty way as before

Now 2 days later she just responds with 1 to 3 word awsers and i am the one asking questions on how her day is going, she sometimes asks me "hbu"

After that i was not sure what to do

I also will see her again on the 15th Which im now really not knowing what to do Just drop the snapchating and tell her im really awkward at texting, when we meet again, and ask her on a date maybe?

We kinda went on a dubble date to during this night

I really like this girl, But i dont want to mess it up

Any advice??



Submitted November 02, 2020 at 11:30PM

So. Im 19, and work at this restaurant chain, and with covid etc we let other coworkers from other locations, work with us(not on a regular bases)2 days ago, 2 girls worked for a day with us, 1 of them was amazing, looked super cute. Had a really nice personality, she is really nice(she is 19 too)We had multible nice eye contact moments, laughed a lot, she started calling me funny names(might be a common thing so idk)We had kinda the same study directions(do not go to the same college(she lives 50 km away)After work me a other coworker and the 2 girls just decided to go to McDonald's after work We took 1 car (the car of the girls) We had great time, music on the radio etc Me and the other coworker knew the city a bit so we gave directions of were to go Pointing left or right etc, all of that.I pointed straight, but because i cant see through the front seats(the really nice girl sat in front of me in the front passager seat) And i unintentionaly touched hear hair etcShe looked up to my hand and put her hand up, we kinda held hands and traded a eye moment again(strange). But we where all kinda joking around too so idk if she did it because of that or something else.We later arive at the McDonald's, While in the mcdrive we decided what we wanted to order(we chose 20 chickennuggets for those wondering) And i wanted bbq sauce with it She turned around and said eww. All of us got our own sauce no matterWhen we went to the windows to gather it etc these guys(these were not really the brightest stars and where acting all dumb and overall those scooter kids) We where making fun talk about it all she(nice girl) decided to joke around, and tell them she was looking for a bf. she started loudly saying she was looking for a boyfriend(window closed so they couldnt hear it) but i think it was some sort of a hint towards me idk. While she did i was kinda nervous and didnt know what to do with it(i did nothing and played allong making fun talk again with the rest.We later ate our stuff in the parking lot. Making fun talk about other people close by.This one car  was standing really close to the water edge she(nice girl) wanted to warn them, but they didnt really see here. But i think the same way, caring about others. So i think we kinda have that same way of thinking idk, not that important i think.While making fun talk and all(note, my laugh is really strange sometimes) She turned around and said it was kinda cute, and i sounded like a little mokey(dont know what to think of that and all. i later though by myself and i think i should have said something to her about being cute etc(but i didnt, now i think im stupidWhen driving back to get my car and all to all go home We all wanted to get the others snapchats, So we did(important later)While driving back, we had our little nice eye contact moments again etc and overall fun talkWhen we got to the carpark and we had some more fun talk and i got out of the car(couldnt find the doorhandle, and she was all like "you need help?"(in a funny way. kinda teasing me with it.When i got out and we all said our goodbye's we made some more eyecontact and kinda made all fun gestures and weird facesOverall a great eveningSo now the snapchat part(the part were i now kinda feel bumbed and sad)So the original plan to why get each others snap was for her to send me a video of the girl driver(2nd girl) Which was like "i go 150km/h on the highway" And she wanted to send me a video of the 2nd girl actually doing it And later she sends it(i was home already)I told her did you get home safe and all, and she said in all fun ways. Yess it will be alrightI asked her if she was comming back this week She told me "noo just in 2 weeks again" I told her "sad emoji face"She said "aww it was super fun with you all, maybe we come back this week i dont know"I was like "yeaa was super fun. That would be the best day of the week"It was all super fun and small talkBy that time she got home, i asked her "all good?" She said "yes" I then said "good"And that was that for that conversation Which i now think was a lame way of me to close ofThe next day i text her "good morning, how was your morning" She replied 1 hour later(she was asleep so i dont blame her) After that she told me in a fun way "yess just got up You?"I tell her "same just got up around an hour ago" She then relies back after 4 hours While at work(she was called to another restaurant in the chain)We then started having some conversation again, but her responses were all 1 to 3 word texts Which i was kinda insecure about of what to do and was thinking "Does she now not want to talk anymore?" Etc (I do understand that she has work, but i was at work too. Okay it might have been busy at her work idk)We still have conversation now I write nice sentences to her about what her day is like, She responds with "yes good" and how long it all wasShe texts some sentences but not in the flirty way as beforeNow 2 days later she just responds with 1 to 3 word awsers and i am the one asking questions on how her day is going, she sometimes asks me "hbu"After that i was not sure what to doI also will see her again on the 15th Which im now really not knowing what to do Just drop the snapchating and tell her im really awkward at texting, when we meet again, and ask her on a date maybe?We kinda went on a dubble date to during this nightI really like this girl, But i dont want to mess it upAny advice??

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