I'm proud of him (trigger warning on SA)

My (F21) fiance (M24) and I have just hit the two year mark and I couldn't be happier. After having previously dated (M24) for 2 years on and off someone who 1) always used suicide to keep me in a relationship 2) held knives to my throat thinking I liked it 3) sexually assaulted me while I was sleeping and I spent 6 months thinking it was my fault. 4)threw me against a wall when I accidentally hurt him with someone minor and held me while biting hard on my face.

My fiance, without fail, will 1) calm me down from panic attacks with breathing methods. 2) kiss me on the forehead when he is on his way to work 3) turn over in his sleep and rubs my back in circles 4) holds me when triggers have happened between us. 5) implement a traffic light system in bed for my safety and mental health.

There are good guys out there who will love you and care for you and I couldn't be more grateful. I couldn't be more thankful for someone who will go above and beyond and look after me. His kindness and generosity has been a huge factor on the happiness in both our lives. His grief of his mother suffering then passing was not the easiest to deal with, but he has made me proud and been so strong and I can't fault him in anyway. He's on reddit, might see this might not. But he needs to know that I am the luckiest women on earth to share my life with a man of worth and kindness. I am so proud of the man you have grown into and I know your mother would be so proud of you.

Submitted September 26, 2020 at 12:11AM

My (F21) fiance (M24) and I have just hit the two year mark and I couldn't be happier. After having previously dated (M24) for 2 years on and off someone who 1) always used suicide to keep me in a relationship 2) held knives to my throat thinking I liked it 3) sexually assaulted me while I was sleeping and I spent 6 months thinking it was my fault. 4)threw me against a wall when I accidentally hurt him with someone minor and held me while biting hard on my face.My fiance, without fail, will 1) calm me down from panic attacks with breathing methods. 2) kiss me on the forehead when he is on his way to work 3) turn over in his sleep and rubs my back in circles 4) holds me when triggers have happened between us. 5) implement a traffic light system in bed for my safety and mental health.There are good guys out there who will love you and care for you and I couldn't be more grateful. I couldn't be more thankful for someone who will go above and beyond and look after me. His kindness and generosity has been a huge factor on the happiness in both our lives. His grief of his mother suffering then passing was not the easiest to deal with, but he has made me proud and been so strong and I can't fault him in anyway. He's on reddit, might see this might not. But he needs to know that I am the luckiest women on earth to share my life with a man of worth and kindness. I am so proud of the man you have grown into and I know your mother would be so proud of you.