Girl I was dating wants to wait until after quarantine to pick things back up?

Basically we were dating for two months prior to quarantine. Things were great, consistent texting, sex. You could tell she was starting to take it in a more serious direction (talking about dates she wanted to go on with me, what she was gonna get me for bday, where she was gonna take me, doing partner yoga, starting a tv show together) despite me initially thinking it was gonna be a casual hookup.

Until the very end, she was talking that way. Then randomly, something changed. She started to fade away from me at the start of quarantine, but would still text me and we’d talk about our inside jokes but the consistent communication ceased, it became very sporadic. I let it happen. She didn’t mention she was really stressed/having panic attacks because of the whole situation (she is on a VISA here and could lose her job very easily). We talked about a date we planned and she was saying how it sucked we couldn’t do it together so I did it on my own (painting session). She asked to see the end result so I sent them and she didn’t reply. I didn’t text her for a week after that. She didn’t text me either.

Assuming a ghost, to let her know it’s not okay to do this to someone after 6 dates, I called her out on it and told her to have a good life.

She sends me multiple paragraphs explaining that she doesn’t know why I got mad at her because she needs time to herself. She said we can’t move forward unless we can see each other in person and isn’t sure what our relationship means with that face to face. She also said she’d “probably want to pick things up where we left off after this is all over”. How do I even interpret that? “Probably”?

Do I just move on? Because to me, I think “oh she’s not interested anymore” but why would she even reply when I call her out for ghosting? She had an easy out. But then again from the other side, if you like someone enough, and you’re both quarantined, you can feasibly see each other. Or at the very least maintain some communication.

I’m very torn and don’t really know what to do. I know she’s super stressed. I’ve kinda just been assuming it’s over and if it ever comes back, it’ll have to be her initiating it. We haven’t talked in 3 weeks and she didn’t reply to a link I sent her a week after the initial call out.

Submitted April 23, 2020 at 11:49PM

Basically we were dating for two months prior to quarantine. Things were great, consistent texting, sex. You could tell she was starting to take it in a more serious direction (talking about dates she wanted to go on with me, what she was gonna get me for bday, where she was gonna take me, doing partner yoga, starting a tv show together) despite me initially thinking it was gonna be a casual hookup.Until the very end, she was talking that way. Then randomly, something changed. She started to fade away from me at the start of quarantine, but would still text me and we’d talk about our inside jokes but the consistent communication ceased, it became very sporadic. I let it happen. She didn’t mention she was really stressed/having panic attacks because of the whole situation (she is on a VISA here and could lose her job very easily). We talked about a date we planned and she was saying how it sucked we couldn’t do it together so I did it on my own (painting session). She asked to see the end result so I sent them and she didn’t reply. I didn’t text her for a week after that. She didn’t text me either.Assuming a ghost, to let her know it’s not okay to do this to someone after 6 dates, I called her out on it and told her to have a good life.She sends me multiple paragraphs explaining that she doesn’t know why I got mad at her because she needs time to herself. She said we can’t move forward unless we can see each other in person and isn’t sure what our relationship means with that face to face. She also said she’d “probably want to pick things up where we left off after this is all over”. How do I even interpret that? “Probably”?Do I just move on? Because to me, I think “oh she’s not interested anymore” but why would she even reply when I call her out for ghosting? She had an easy out. But then again from the other side, if you like someone enough, and you’re both quarantined, you can feasibly see each other. Or at the very least maintain some communication.I’m very torn and don’t really know what to do. I know she’s super stressed. I’ve kinda just been assuming it’s over and if it ever comes back, it’ll have to be her initiating it. We haven’t talked in 3 weeks and she didn’t reply to a link I sent her a week after the initial call out.