ED only with girls I want to date

I've (31M) got ED whenever I'm with a girl I think there's a chance I'd want to date them. On rare occasions it's something casual I'm usually fine (although usually take Viagra and still not 100%).

Sometimes it can be fine after a while, but usually I feel like if I've done a bad job and often get ghosted or dumped after that.

It wasn't as bad when I was younger and I've had a couple of relationships where we've been really sexual and quite rough. I can't see that a girl like that would want to be with me after the first time, but also don't want a relationship with someone I'm not sexually compatible with.

What do?

Submitted February 17, 2020 at 11:43PM

I've (31M) got ED whenever I'm with a girl I think there's a chance I'd want to date them. On rare occasions it's something casual I'm usually fine (although usually take Viagra and still not 100%).Sometimes it can be fine after a while, but usually I feel like if I've done a bad job and often get ghosted or dumped after that.It wasn't as bad when I was younger and I've had a couple of relationships where we've been really sexual and quite rough. I can't see that a girl like that would want to be with me after the first time, but also don't want a relationship with someone I'm not sexually compatible with.What do?