I (18M) used my siblings (8F and 8M twins) in my workout routine and my mom got pissed at me

I am 18 and my siblings are 8 and twins, I have started to get into boxing and I am really enjoying it. I am a bit chubby where I need to be (I'm 5'11 at 185 and I want to get down to 180-175). My workout routine sucks but it gets me in shape. I do this one where I take a 30 pound medicine ball and drop it on my stomach around 25-30 times a day, its supposed to make my core better and to learn how to take a punch from light weights.

My 2 siblings like watching me and we have a carpeted basement where I work out and I thought a fun way for me to involved them in the workout and make sure they don't get hurt lifting the weights I'm at, was to do the medicine ball trick but with them. I wasn't gonna drop it but basically use my force and pull them down so their weight would hit me. They are both around the 40-50 pound mark so it was a bit heavier than what I'm used to but the 30 wasn't really working for me and thats the heaviest I had. So I do it and I won't lie I was sore like a MFer, it felt terrible but it helped build up some core strength for me. My siblings seemed to have fun cause they were laughing the whole time so there is that.

When it was my brother's turn my mom came in and saw me doing that and practically yelled at me to stop. I was confused and she said that I could serious hurt them doing that. I told her they were fine but she practically yelled at me to never do that again.

I am confused by this, thoughts?

TL;DR:I used my young siblings in my workout routine as a light joke and my mom got mad at me for doing that



Submitted January 16, 2020 at 10:47PM

I am 18 and my siblings are 8 and twins, I have started to get into boxing and I am really enjoying it. I am a bit chubby where I need to be (I'm 5'11 at 185 and I want to get down to 180-175). My workout routine sucks but it gets me in shape. I do this one where I take a 30 pound medicine ball and drop it on my stomach around 25-30 times a day, its supposed to make my core better and to learn how to take a punch from light weights.My 2 siblings like watching me and we have a carpeted basement where I work out and I thought a fun way for me to involved them in the workout and make sure they don't get hurt lifting the weights I'm at, was to do the medicine ball trick but with them. I wasn't gonna drop it but basically use my force and pull them down so their weight would hit me. They are both around the 40-50 pound mark so it was a bit heavier than what I'm used to but the 30 wasn't really working for me and thats the heaviest I had. So I do it and I won't lie I was sore like a MFer, it felt terrible but it helped build up some core strength for me. My siblings seemed to have fun cause they were laughing the whole time so there is that.When it was my brother's turn my mom came in and saw me doing that and practically yelled at me to stop. I was confused and she said that I could serious hurt them doing that. I told her they were fine but she practically yelled at me to never do that again.I am confused by this, thoughts?TL;DR:I used my young siblings in my workout routine as a light joke and my mom got mad at me for doing that
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