Girlfriend[F][23] bragged about sleeping with my old bully[26M]

Me [23]and my girl have been together for just shy of 6 years. I love her so much. When we first met she was way too open about sexual activity with her past blokes and i told her i didnt like it and definitely didnt want to hear about it. Well one day she asks if i know a particular name from the local area to which i said yes, i mentioned how this guy used to make my life hell along with his mates when we were back at school. This guy is a couple years older but the typical cocky bully full of himself and what not. The guy even threw a rock at my head which hit me in the eye which after numerous hospital visits where i had a huge chance of going blind from.

Well she then turns and says yeah well i fucked him, he has a pretty big cock aswell to be fair. By this point i was stunned. I felt disgusted. I barely spoke for the rest of the night.

Well fast forward to about a month ago she mentions his name again. I pretend she hasnt already told me the ordeal as i thought she was doing it to try to get a reaction. She then proceeds to tell me he fucked her down an alley way right by my house and he had her up against the fence.

Whats worse is she told me shes never fucked in public except with me, she said shes never been fucked whilst being picked up except from with me as im the only one who made her compfortable enough due to her weight. I dont know what to do i feel so betrayed. I know this was before us but i cant help but picture her with him. When i see him in the street he smirks as if to say hahah still ruining your life arent i!

What should i do i love her so much i need to get this outta my head. Should i try And get over it or do you thing thats it? I need someone to talk to and i have no one, its som embarrassing gor me i dont even wanna tell my best friend.

TL;DR GIRLFRIEND SLEPT WITH MY BULLY AND THEN BRAGGED ABOUT IT TO ME. What should i do? Should i try and get over it or do you think thats it?



Submitted August 08, 2019 at 12:18AM

Me [23]and my girl have been together for just shy of 6 years. I love her so much. When we first met she was way too open about sexual activity with her past blokes and i told her i didnt like it and definitely didnt want to hear about it. Well one day she asks if i know a particular name from the local area to which i said yes, i mentioned how this guy used to make my life hell along with his mates when we were back at school. This guy is a couple years older but the typical cocky bully full of himself and what not. The guy even threw a rock at my head which hit me in the eye which after numerous hospital visits where i had a huge chance of going blind from.Well she then turns and says yeah well i fucked him, he has a pretty big cock aswell to be fair. By this point i was stunned. I felt disgusted. I barely spoke for the rest of the night.Well fast forward to about a month ago she mentions his name again. I pretend she hasnt already told me the ordeal as i thought she was doing it to try to get a reaction. She then proceeds to tell me he fucked her down an alley way right by my house and he had her up against the fence.Whats worse is she told me shes never fucked in public except with me, she said shes never been fucked whilst being picked up except from with me as im the only one who made her compfortable enough due to her weight. I dont know what to do i feel so betrayed. I know this was before us but i cant help but picture her with him. When i see him in the street he smirks as if to say hahah still ruining your life arent i!What should i do i love her so much i need to get this outta my head. Should i try And get over it or do you thing thats it? I need someone to talk to and i have no one, its som embarrassing gor me i dont even wanna tell my best friend.TL;DR GIRLFRIEND SLEPT WITH MY BULLY AND THEN BRAGGED ABOUT IT TO ME. What should i do? Should i try and get over it or do you think thats it?
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