my bf discovered he can make me cum through PIV and won't try any other way now :(

my (22f) boyfriend (26m) recently discovered that he could make me cum from PIV, in the moment it was completely incredible. i never thought i’d be able to experience that because i’d always needed some sort of clitoral stimulation to finish (both in solo experiences and with him). after the first the time, we were sure not to build our expectations but it kept happening and it quickly became the norm for us. if for whatever reason he couldn’t make me finish by PIV alone, i would touch myself while he did his thing until i finished and those orgasms were really intense.

however, now he literally will not try to make me cum any other way. no oral. no fingering. no anal. no toys. nothing. i keep bringing it up like casually “oh wow it’s been such a long time since you went down on me” or "wouldn't it be extra fun to fill up both my holes the next time we have sex?" but i feel like either he’s not taking the hints or he just doesn’t care. even position wise, he will only fuck me one way (missionary with him on his knees or standing) because he says it's his favorite because he can be close to me which is sweet but also i do want to mix it up.

on top of that, i wax myself regularly and he ALWAYS goes down on me the day after, like ritually for the past two years that we’ve been together, and the past two times i've waxed…nothing. i’ve asked for anal several times (something we’ve both shown interest in over the past year and a half) and he keeps saying “yeah, maybe” and then never doing it. which like, fine if it's not your cup of tea anymore but just say that?

I guess it bothers me most because while I've been without any sort of sexual play other than PIV, I also consistently give him a bj as foreplay before sex every time we have sex and sometimes to completion without sex. I also give him rimjobs and anal massage and i feel like none of the favor is returned unless i literally beg for it and even then, rarely.

it’s really not that i’m unsatisfied with the sex itself because i do enjoy it and i love that he can make me cum from PIV but I miss the other sex acts and feeling like he wants me to experience pleasure unselfishly not just because it inflates his ego to know he can make me cum with his penis (i do know for a fact that he feels a lot of pride from this). to be completely honest, he has never ever been a selfish lover and always has prioritized my orgasms but i just feel like he's decided to take the easy route now and i'm started to get a bit bored. i feel like i’ve tried bringing it up to him but maybe I’m missing something here. any advice from guys or girls is welcome! thanks!

Submitted September 20, 2021 at 11:53PM

my (22f) boyfriend (26m) recently discovered that he could make me cum from PIV, in the moment it was completely incredible. i never thought i’d be able to experience that because i’d always needed some sort of clitoral stimulation to finish (both in solo experiences and with him). after the first the time, we were sure not to build our expectations but it kept happening and it quickly became the norm for us. if for whatever reason he couldn’t make me finish by PIV alone, i would touch myself while he did his thing until i finished and those orgasms were really intense.however, now he literally will not try to make me cum any other way. no oral. no fingering. no anal. no toys. nothing. i keep bringing it up like casually “oh wow it’s been such a long time since you went down on me” or "wouldn't it be extra fun to fill up both my holes the next time we have sex?" but i feel like either he’s not taking the hints or he just doesn’t care. even position wise, he will only fuck me one way (missionary with him on his knees or standing) because he says it's his favorite because he can be close to me which is sweet but also i do want to mix it up.on top of that, i wax myself regularly and he ALWAYS goes down on me the day after, like ritually for the past two years that we’ve been together, and the past two times i've waxed…nothing. i’ve asked for anal several times (something we’ve both shown interest in over the past year and a half) and he keeps saying “yeah, maybe” and then never doing it. which like, fine if it's not your cup of tea anymore but just say that?I guess it bothers me most because while I've been without any sort of sexual play other than PIV, I also consistently give him a bj as foreplay before sex every time we have sex and sometimes to completion without sex. I also give him rimjobs and anal massage and i feel like none of the favor is returned unless i literally beg for it and even then, rarely.it’s really not that i’m unsatisfied with the sex itself because i do enjoy it and i love that he can make me cum from PIV but I miss the other sex acts and feeling like he wants me to experience pleasure unselfishly not just because it inflates his ego to know he can make me cum with his penis (i do know for a fact that he feels a lot of pride from this). to be completely honest, he has never ever been a selfish lover and always has prioritized my orgasms but i just feel like he's decided to take the easy route now and i'm started to get a bit bored. i feel like i’ve tried bringing it up to him but maybe I’m missing something here. any advice from guys or girls is welcome! thanks!