I've made the first move. Now what?

I'm a college student that's goes to the campus gym pretty regularly. I noticed this girl that I find attractive there a few days in a row, so I went an introduced myself. Interaction went well, she was receptive although maybe she was just being nice. I couldn't get a good read on her, but she seems to be reserved and shy. She stays to herself, doesn't go with a partner.

Should I try and talk to her more or wait for her to approach me? I know the general advice is that you shouldn't approach women in the gym, but I already did, so what do I do?

I know this is pretty vague, so I can add to if needed.



Submitted September 21, 2021 at 12:10AM

I'm a college student that's goes to the campus gym pretty regularly. I noticed this girl that I find attractive there a few days in a row, so I went an introduced myself. Interaction went well, she was receptive although maybe she was just being nice. I couldn't get a good read on her, but she seems to be reserved and shy. She stays to herself, doesn't go with a partner.Should I try and talk to her more or wait for her to approach me? I know the general advice is that you shouldn't approach women in the gym, but I already did, so what do I do?I know this is pretty vague, so I can add to if needed.

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