Why didn’t I get a sexual urge?

So I had my first kiss with a guy I am extremely attracted to tonight. It was a lovely kiss and I’m so happy. I got extremely wet whilst kissing but it didn’t lead to any feeling of ‘fuck me now’. I dunno if I should feel that after a first kiss, why do I always get aroused but never an immediate sexual urge?

Submitted August 25, 2021 at 11:25PM

So I had my first kiss with a guy I am extremely attracted to tonight. It was a lovely kiss and I’m so happy. I got extremely wet whilst kissing but it didn’t lead to any feeling of ‘fuck me now’. I dunno if I should feel that after a first kiss, why do I always get aroused but never an immediate sexual urge?