Do i have the right to be mad at my husband for this?

Right, so my husband had this "great" idea 2weeks ago where we write interesting sex related challanges on small pieces of paper, put them all togheter in a jar and blindly pick a random one every friday. While i wrote stuff like ( try bdsm, sex in the car?, try cooking a meal while having sex.. ect)

My husband thus far wrote : have a threesome(no joke that was the first shit i pulled out and second was, use a random household object as a dildo )

This was supposed to be a game where we write things that both of us would be okay with doing, so we promised eachother that we won't say no to anything no matter how weird it might be, as long as it's not crossing the line. Him pulling that shit on me thinking i'd just say, fu*k it i did promise and what not, made me furious! especially since this game was HIS idea.

I remember him asking me if i'd ever say yes to a threesome a long time ago and me making it very clear that i would never be okay with that, so him doing this shit really upset me.

I told my best friend about it and she said i'm overreacting so i don't know how to feel about it. I don't know if i should just think of this as a dumb mistake my husband thought would be okay to do.. or if he really thought of this game just to try and convince me to do that.. even putting that paper at the very top.. My feelings are mixed but we have yet to reach the bottom of that jar..

Submitted August 25, 2021 at 11:12PM

Right, so my husband had this "great" idea 2weeks ago where we write interesting sex related challanges on small pieces of paper, put them all togheter in a jar and blindly pick a random one every friday. While i wrote stuff like ( try bdsm, sex in the car?, try cooking a meal while having sex.. ect)My husband thus far wrote : have a threesome(no joke that was the first shit i pulled out and second was, use a random household object as a dildo )This was supposed to be a game where we write things that both of us would be okay with doing, so we promised eachother that we won't say no to anything no matter how weird it might be, as long as it's not crossing the line. Him pulling that shit on me thinking i'd just say, fu*k it i did promise and what not, made me furious! especially since this game was HIS idea.I remember him asking me if i'd ever say yes to a threesome a long time ago and me making it very clear that i would never be okay with that, so him doing this shit really upset me.I told my best friend about it and she said i'm overreacting so i don't know how to feel about it. I don't know if i should just think of this as a dumb mistake my husband thought would be okay to do.. or if he really thought of this game just to try and convince me to do that.. even putting that paper at the very top.. My feelings are mixed but we have yet to reach the bottom of that jar..